and im not good with friendships

anonymous asked:

JiKook Idol AU. Enters the same idol training, they become fast friends. But in the end they are separated because they were put into different groups. They become each other's competition and after a while they aren't so much friends but enemies, always trying to beat the other. BUT LOVE HAVETH A WAY. I'm imagining some good rivalry! But I'm also imaging sOME REALLY SOFT AND SWEET KISS I DONT KNOW! FRIENDSHIP TO ENEMIES TO ENEMY LOVERS THAT REALLY LOVE EACHOTHER!...Okay I'll stop screaming.

AU FEST FRIDAYS HOP RIGHT ON UP AND SCREAM WITH ME 

like them being super close in the beginning and like palnning out their entire future together as idols, how they’re going to go back to busan together over breaks and hang at jimin’s dad’s coffee place and how they’re gonna take a million selfies and post to the fancafes and make the fans cry with how cute theye are like wonder what their ship names are gonna be all that jazz and then they get put in different groups and suddenly everything is different – their groups have different concepts sand they never see each other 

and even when they do its awkward because they’re commpeting on the same award shows and music programs and jimin’s a lot better at variety shows than jungkook but jungkook’s fame skyshot over night because of his good looks and they’re both jealous of each other but neither of them are willing to admit it so they grow apart and the one time jimin’s on a radio show playing that best friend game he dials jungkook on a whim and they get every single question right, even after all this time, and the host is kinda wow i never knew you and jungkook-sshi were so close! and jimin almost says neither did i but he just smiles and says that they’ve been friends since forever ago and the radio host asks so do you guys hang out a lot when you have time off and jimin we never really have time off, but… i do miss it and the host hanging out with jungkook-sshi? jimin nods yeah 

well if you’re still there, jungkook-sshi, listening to this interview, what would you wanna tell him? 

and jimin takes a second before i miss you. really. and we’ll always be best friends, no matter what 

and jungkook is listening to the radio interview on his phone and he goes all warm and feels the guilt eating away at him but he just shoots jimin a text that says don’t say those kinds of things on broadcast idiot and jimin texts back why not and jungkook because i like keeping you to myself. 

and jimin’s walking out of the radio broadcast when jungkook’s car pulls up and jungkook is telling jimin to get in and obvi the fans go insane bc !!!! omg!!! who would have thought and jimin makes a show of waving to everyone as he gets into jungkook’s car, jungkook rolling his eyes like did you even read my text and jimin grinning like yeah, but you’re cute when youre jealous and kook i’m not fucking jealous jimin uh huh and the driver laughing in the front seat like jungkook-ah, you never told me you had a boyfriend  to which jimin blushes furiously and is about to say that they’re not dating but jungkook just scoffs and says don’t get any ideas–i dont like sharing

  • (the seven + Nico and Reyna in the Poseidon cabin)
  • Leo:Hey Jason, why did you and Neeks become such good friends like it happened so all of a sudden after you two went off to get the scepter?
  • Jason:*freezes* uhm um uh
  • Nico:*chokes on his drink*
  • Annabeth:did something like really bad happen?
  • Frank:you guys don't even have anything in common. im not saying your friendship is invalid, its just really weird that you guys are such close friends.
  • Hazel:I mean we are all like family but like why you two especially?
  • Percy:Nico, is he your platonic type?
  • Nico:*still choking*
  • Piper:*punching his back* should....should we like call Solace....I think he's dying?
  • Jason:uh uh umm he's fine.
  • Leo:OOOOOO DID YOU GUYS HAVE TO FIGHT LIKE A SUPER VILLIAN AND END UP COMPLETELY CHANGED PEOPLE AND BECAME BESTIES AFTER A TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE SUCH AS THAT?!?!?!
  • Jason:uhhhh something like that.
  • Annabeth:wow who were you fighting. A Hydra?
  • Nico:*stops choking* n-no
  • Hazel:then what or who?
  • Nico:*looks like he's gonna throw up* uhh Cu- Cupid.
  • Frank:you mean the little winged fairy guy? Not that traumatic.
  • Jason:uhm he wasn't all that cute and fairy like. Like the legit spawn of satan.
  • Percy:oh....well what happened during the fight.
  • Piper:I mean you don't have to tell us.
  • Jason:well if Nico is okay with sharing....*looks hopeful*
  • Nico:....
  • Nico:*takes sip of water*
  • Nico:*clears throat*
  • Nico:*paler than usual* well uhhh Jason was thrown around a bit, I killed some grass, uh and I uh I umm....
  • Jason:oh and Cupid was all like handsome and uh winged and was fucking terrifying....
  • Nico:And he uh forced me to basically uh tell Jason something that I've never told anyone before...not even Bianca
  • Hazel:wow, you don't have to tell us....*small voice* you don't have to tell me either.
  • Jason:*staring at Nico* come on man only if you want to.
  • Nico:well he forced me to basically tell Jason that I was gay.
  • Everyone:*silence*
  • Piper:that's it? *sighs of relief* man I thought you were gonna say you've got some extra limb or something.
  • Frank:I thought you were gonna say you are secretly a girl.
  • Reyna:I thought you were gonna admit you had a crush on Annabeth, that's ironic.
  • Percy:OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I THOUGHT I WASNT YOUR TYPE BECAUSE YOU WERE ACTUALLY STRAIGHT AND ONLY JUST REALISED IT. YOURE GAY. DAMMIT I HAD HOPE, HOW AM I NOT YOUR FUCKING TYPE?!?!!
  • Hazel:*silent*
  • Nico:*so happy at the good reactions* *slowly looks scared over at Hazel* Um Hazel, I know you were raised to like you know....hate people like me but-
  • Hazel:ARE YOU KIDDING?!?!
  • Nico:*flinches*
  • Hazel:Nico I love ya no matter what. I was raised to think homosexuals were evil and schist. But now....ill read some books...there's nothing wrong with you....there's something wrong with me....I love you.
  • Annabeth:I'll tell you some research. *sings the entire song "born that way- Lady Gaga*
  • Nico:*nearly cries*
  • Leo:uhm
  • Leo:....
  • Leo:uhhh
  • Leo:this is bad.
  • Jason:what got a problem with Nico? *lighting strikes somewhere*
  • Leo:no no its just
  • Leo:I might have
  • Leo:ya know
  • Leo:told that new Aphrodite girl who likes you that she might have a shot with you.
  • Nico:*speechless*
  • leo:hehe uhhh I'll handle it.....and cancel the mariachi band.
  • Nico:*FUCKING HAPPY FOR ONCE*
  • Frank:i'm hooking you up with Will Solace. No buts or protest. My future brother in law is gonna date a hot guy fuck your protests. *Canadians get shit done*
  • Nico+Hazel:*blushes*
how aries sees the signs

aries: we gr8 but u need some serious chill

taurus: asshole go awa y

gemini: no no non nn o

cancer: ok you’re rly nice but sT OP CRYING

leo: 👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀 good shit go౦ԁ sHit👌 thats ✔ some good👌👌shit right👌👌th 👌 ere👌👌👌 right✔there ✔✔if i do ƽaү so my self 💯 i say so 💯 thats what im talking about right there right there (chorus: ʳᶦᵍʰᵗ ᵗʰᵉʳᵉ) mMMMMᎷМ💯 👌👌 👌НO0ОଠOOOOOОଠଠOoooᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒ👌 👌👌 👌 💯 👌 👀 👀 👀 👌👌Good

virgo: ur so boring lmao how do u live

libra: ur a good friend n all but stop fuckboying around goddAMMIT

scorpio: ur so hot come fry my eggs w/ your legs

sagittarius: i have so much respect for u all cmere

capricorn: basically, you’re basic.

aquarius: how do u put up w/ urself lmao byE

pisces: sometimes an angel sometimes a fucking devil

Let’s talk about how Max feels about Chloe.

Max loves Chloe.

Well, that was easy. Good night everyone.

Okay, okay, lets actually get into it.

Max loves Chloe. Now, before someone jumps in to say that they are just friends I wanna say friends love each other. There any more different types of love. I don’t like love being seen as only a sexual or romantic thing.

Max and Chloe have a very deep connection and a very close relationship. They are comfortable around each other. Chloe and Max support each other through hard times. The friendship they had as young teens carried over to 5 years later with barely a hitch. You can see them expressing physical expressions of caring, as they constantly touch each other on the arm or hold hands. They tell each other they always want to be around each other. They make comments about them reconnecting being destiny.

So how does Max feel about Chloe? I think she has romantic feelings for Chloe. Max has expressed how much she cares about Chloe for sure, but has also made comments about other things. Like she’ll tease Chloe about the kiss, regardless of if she kissed or not. She’ll talk about wishing she could kiss Chloe again, or kiss her at all, regardless of what the player does. Heck, She’ll even idly wonder about marriage.

Max wants to be with Chloe the rest of her life. She says as much in the game. A part of Max’s motivation is to find what happened to Rachel, for Chloe. Regardless of what the player decides to do, Max will continue to express this interest in Chloe.

Max loves Chloe. I don’t think there is any question to that. And in my view? There is also a romantic love.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I know this must be terribly anoying but im new to the tronnor fandom, can you explain to me why this ship is so good? I feel slightly clueless and your blog is probably one of the best ones and is it okay if I ask? thanks so so much

First of all Thank you so much for complementing my stupid blog also you are not annoying at all I love when people send me asks (seriously).

ok so here is 

10 reasons why this little thing called Tronnor is amazing

1. They started out best friends. They have always had such an adorable friendship and were inseparable on the lads holiday. Their 2013 and early 2014 twitter convos were simply the cutest and basically even platonic tronnor was amazing.

2. They always support each other in everything that they do.

3. Their friend/relationship has never been about shipping. Everytime they hang out they don’t tell anyone and the only reason we know is because of fan sightings.

4. They chase each other all around the fucking world. They have been to LA, Perth, Sydney, NZ, New York, London, Chicago and Minnesota together. There hasn’t been more than 2-3 weeks that they have been apart in forever.

5. Their twitters show how lovesick they get when they are apart but the minute they are back together you can tell how happy they are. They just make each other happy.

6. They have the cutest twitter convos (when they do decide to interact)

7. Both boys consider themselves the lucky one

8. Although many things point towards the fact that they are dating we do not know for sure (even thought we are like 99.95% sure) if they are canon. What we do know is that whatever they have, it must be pretty fucking amazing. The amount of time they spend with each other is unreal and you have to really really enjoy a person’s company to tolerate them for that long.

9. They are both amazing boys that give so much to their fans, the world, and each other. Ever since they have gotten closer, their content has gone up and they are constantly drawing inspiration from each other and setting great examples.

10. They are better than the fanfics we write about them. Literally Tronnor has given me such high expectations for love that I know will never be achieved. They fly across the world for each other’s birthdays, go on dates to art museums, watch documentaries together, listen to music in sunflower fields, and basically do every other things that you would never believe if it was written in a fan fiction.

***I originally spent like an hour on this post and it was complete with grammatically correct paragraphs, pictures, tweets, and video links as examples but unfortunately i accidentally deleted everything just as I was about to finish so I’m sorry for this crappy shortened version but basically this is my top 10 favorite things about Tronnor.  <3 <3 <3

anonymous asked:

Is it bad if im not excited over my relationship with my boyfriend? I mean, im happy and we're literally best friends but he's all psyched and happy that we started dating and i...I don't feel the any different. I never cared about dating and personally it just feels weird to me. Im not saying I don't enjoy this new experience, but. I don't have any...special feeling. He's literally so giddy about it and I don't feel like I care. Is that bad?

No. If you’re happy that’s good enough. We’re often given the impression that extreme emotions surrounding relationships and partners is the norm/desired, but what’s wrong with friendship, feeling comfortable and NOT having to deal with confusing overwhelming emotions? Nothing, in my opinion.

- Ben

anonymous asked:

I'm not trying to sound mean, I love pia, but I feel like sometimes she uses Kylie for more fame towards her. She hangs out with Kylie on and off and idk I just find their friendship kinda weird. But maybe im judging to fast and they have a good friendship but from what we see I feel like she uses Kylie

You are me!!! This is what I think. I do love pia as well like she’s gorgeous and her music is nice but she honestly moves on from different famous people like?!?!? First she was friends with stella hudgens, then bella thorne then kylie?? It’s weird. It’s always such convenient timing when she hangs out with Ky as well. Like when her album and single and music video came out….It’s weird. Xx

anonymous asked:

im latinx, I spend a lot of time (mainly on Twitter) speaking against racism and police brutality. one of my oldest friends, who is white, constantly feels the need to try to derail and contradict me and I'm getting real tired of it. is this worth ending a friendship over?

yes lmao drop them they’re clearly uneducated if they’re trying to debate your facts without any real evidence. you could tell them that this matters to you a great deal because of your personal connection and if they don’t care then tell them to get back to you once they understand how social structures work and link them some academic material to end the discussion 

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These are my RED photos from two years ago! taylorswift on RED TOUR. My mom drove me 3 hours to see her at the Sleep Train in Sacramento. Now today Im just in awe of seeing her play two sold out shows Staples Center with amazing guests, on her 1989 world tour! I flew out to see it with my absolute best friend fear13less We met through both liking Taylor. Its a beautiful thing how music can bring two complete strangers to be complete best friends. Julian and I been through changes together. And we have both changed alone and together as friends. We formed a strong friendship in our 4 years. Change is not always good but not bad either. So much changes in two years. Especially hairstyles and lifestyles. Change is a song that we both say had great meaning to us. Thanks so much Taylor and Julian for both being in my life. ❤️❤️❤️ Here is to four years and counting.

I am most lonely when I am surrounded by other people.

I just see so many people with great bonds. A great relationship where maybe the other person texts first. Or maybe they pay enough attention to notice when something’s wrong. Or maybe stand up for you once in a while. Maybe they would listen to you rant without interrupting with their own problems, cancelling out your own. Somebody who cares about you as much as you care about them.

I don’t think I have ever had a friend like that. And that makes me feel like I’m isolated from this big part of life. I feel like nobody is willing to put in the effort to care back. I’m just so sick of putting so much in and not getting anything back.

this fandom actually has a very big problem with idolization and “friend defending”

like im really tired of watching some of you defend your friends when they are obviously wrong. take a step up and be that friend that actually gives good advice, such as telling your friend when they’re actually wrong, instead of just agreeing with them for the sake of your friendship and not having any conflicts between the group. trust me when i say this: it’s healthier for both you and your friend. communication is a key ingredient in all types of relationships. dont just sit there and watch them perpetuate harmful ideas

im also tired of watching people with fewer fans / followers getting treated like shit by those with more fans / followers, in which the latter person’s actions are defended soley because the fandom idolizes them. some of you set other people on such a high up pedestal and it’s kind of scary, like you don’t realize you’re both dehumanizing that person and making it possible to defend any immoral actions taken by them.

some of you just really need to learn to assess yourselves and help your friends who refuse to do so, to do it

i love how i can feel myself changing in a good way for once. after constantly driving out my pessimistic thoughts and replacing them with optimistic ones, theyre finally starting to come naturally. i mean school starts tomorrow and im not even bothered by it!! (i used to hate the thought of school, i got nauseous from the thought) now i actually see it as a chance to reconnect w/ the people i didnt hang out w/ over the summer and a chance to form new friendships before i go away to college c: i feel this year is going to be great, i cant wait!

Friend:

Me: well–TAYLOR SWIFT JUST PLAYED THE LAST SHOW AT LA THIS WEEK AND SHE BROUGHT OUT SELENA GOMEZ TO SING GOOD FOR YOU AND IT WAS THE FIRST TIME THAT SELENA HAS EVER PERFORMED IT LIVE. LIKE FRIENDSHIP GOALS, RIGHT? AND THEN SHE SANG MEAN. LIKE LOOK HOW FAR SHE HAS COME! AND THEN SHE WORE A NEW STYLE OUTFIT. IT WAS BLACK. AND THEN SHE FRICKEN BROUGHT OUT LISA KUDROW AKA PHEOBE OFF OF FRIENDS AND THEY SANG SMELLY CAT AND IM STILL NOT OKAY. LIKE HOW DARE SHE?! OKAY AND THEN SHE HAD THE AUDACITY TO BRING OUT JUSTIN FRICKEN TIMBERLAKE AKA LEAD SINGER OF NSYNC BUT THAT DOESNT NEED MUCH OF AN EXPLANATION. AND THEY SANG MIRRORS. SHES JUST TRYING TO KILL US. I SWEAR. I AM SO DONE. IM DELETING MY BLOG. I JUST—*sighs* I need therapy don’t I?

Friend: ….

DANGIT GUYS

I SEE YOU GUYS REBLOGGING MY YEAR AND A HALF OLD FROZEN METAS RIGHT NOW AND IT’S MAKING ME GRIN MADLY BUT I ALSO WANNA BANG MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL REPEATEDLY BECAUSE HOW DID I BECOME SO DEPRESSING?!? BUT ALSO INSIGHTFUL. AND PASSIONATE. AND DETAIL-OBSESSED. AND SENSITIVE TO MINOR THINGS THAT ARE OFTEN OVERLOOKED.

EVERYTHING I WROTE THERE, EACH AND EVERY OBSERVATION AND FEELINGS INVESTED ARE STILL FRESH AND STRONG UP TO THIS DAY.

ELSA AND ANNA HELPED ME FIND SO MUCH THINGS ABOUT MYSELF.

THE FROZEN FAM-DOM FOUND ME AND KEPT ADDING FRIENDSHIP AND COMPANY TO MY LIFE.

SO YEP IM REREADING THESE THINGS I WROTE THAT ARE ALMOST TWO YEARS OLD AND WOW

I AM A COHERENT WRITER AND I CAN EXPRESS MY FEELINGS ACCURATELY. AND THAT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD FOR SOME REASON

SCORPIO

Date: October 23 - November 21

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Element: Water

Sign: The Scorpion

Ruling Planet: Pluto and Mars

Lucky Day: Tuesday

Lucky Number: 9, 18, 27, 36, 45, 54, 63, 72, 81, 90

Compatibility:

Best: Cancer, Pisces

Good: Capricorn, Virgo

Okay: Taurus, Scorpio

Possible: Libra, Sagittarius

Unusual: Aries, Gemini

Difficult: Leo, Aquarius

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