and im not good with friendships

all of these posts about how friendship is so much better and stronger and more meaningful than “love” freak me out like why is it so commonplace to think romantic partnership doesn’t involve deep, supportive friendships and secondly that friendships dont involve love, like this conception of love is Not Good… please squirtle im dying 

Straight logic
  • Girl and a boy: *literally hate eachother*
  • Everyone: omg the sexual tension!!!! I ship it!!! Ooooh so edgy
  • Two boys: *barely interact, glance at eachother once*<
  • Fandoms: MY GAY SONS!!1 IM SINNING!!! WHOS THE TOP AND WHOS THE BOTTOM KAKSHXH<p
  • Two girls: support eachother, literally love eachother alot, tons of physical contact, hold hands, compliment eachother, are healthy and happy together, have made out, long longing looks and smiles
  • Everyone: dont ruin their friendship... such good friends, we need more platonic female friends :/
3

HA GUESS WHO’S BACK FROM THE DEAD FOLKS! 

This took forever oh my gosh. I already have no time to draw, and then my painting turned into a 3-part piece… what was I thinking?

Anyway, some Angel Phil and (normal?) Dan just hanging out. Their friendship is so strong that neither heaven nor earth can truly separate them. (Also in this drawing it’s not like Phil’s dead I imagined that he was born an angel or something. Don’t freak out, this isn’t supposed to be sad) 

I thought “serizawa’s crocs” was just a fandom thing until I saw them in the actual webcomic in a VERY serious context and I promptly lost my mind

another big component about online friendships that i don’t really know how to put into words without sounding pretentious is the balance of status. im not saying ‘only befriend people of your internet status’, im saying that a lot of times when trying to get to know any ‘’’’popular’’’’ person, people treat them as some some sort of celebrity and revere them.

good friendships are based on equality, nobody considers the other to be superior. good friends feel comfortable speaking up, calling the other out, and should not feel like they are walking on eggshells. this is why its so awkward when people try to befriend a ‘sempai’ and keep reiterating and worshipping this perceived superiority, its not a balanced relationship that allows for natural discussion.

six of crows is literally one of the best ya books out there right now it takes ya tropes but presents them in a smart and new and interesting way that comments on those tropes but also demonstrates how they can work without being cliche. you have a ragtag group of underdog characters who come together for a heist but each individual is so fleshed out and given a backstory that informs their choices you love every single one of the group. the series also has some of the best worldbuilding. its a fantasy world with magic but it focuses on a part of fantasy world we dont often see: the poverty stricken areas. there are gangs and gambling and prostitution that make the world seem real and gritty and gives it depth. it also is so ambitious in the Issues it addresses but does it in the most tasteful and beautiful way it makes me cry. there are discussions of trauma, sex slavery, agoraphobia, race, religion, class issues, learned racism, nativism, addiction, and ableism. and like none of that is even the main part of the story this is a heist book with magic and the most pure and beautiful romance and friendships … i cant believe this book is getting slept on i need a movie deal for this series asap so young people can experience it and learn about overcoming trauma in healthy ways i would die for kaz brekker by the way 

anonymous asked:

could i ask, what are your top 10 klance fics?

MMMMMM my friend rn i got abt 98 fics that are hella rad but i’ll cut it short nd give you 10

the galaxies when you kiss - lumberjackwiki
A CUTE FIC W A RLLY GOOD ALLURA/KEITH FRIENDSHIP IM BLESSED

am i too flirty? - memesofbees
deadpool lance and spiderman keith. HONESTLY ……….. GOOD STUFF

something i don’t know - thebrokaryotes
keith is afraid of thunderstorms and lance comforts him

of backups and outcasts - kasape
DRAGON KEITH AND PRINCE LANCE WOOOOOOOO

laughter lines - maunder
single dad lance meets keith and  ……………… this fic is so good please read ….

something just like this - klancekorner
SUMMER CAMP AU AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

king and a reaper - pastelclark
the earth gets destroyed by a ‘deathray’, everyone grieves, lances starts a rebel alliance THIS FIC ?? IS PRETTY BADASS, LADS

castle on the hill - gameralexis
CHILDHOOD FRIENDS CHILDHOOD FRIENDS

lungs - dreamicide
MERMAID KEITH ND LANCE BUT LIKE …… CHILDHOOD FRIENDS TROPE this is so good i’ve read it like 500 times

perihelion - eclectricinkling
ROYALTY AU this is my favourite fic rn ????? rlly fuckin good y’all

THATS IT but if u want more fics pop on over to my ao3 @boys ;^)

here’s the thing that jingles my bells though okay here’s what really shooks my nibblits:

dan and phil live together. they see each other everyday. they travel the world together, they stay smushed next to each other on airplanes, they spent an entire tour crammed into a bus with each other, all of that

yet they never seem to tire of each other

they sit next to each other in restaurants and trail each other at events and pose near each other in pictures with friends. in an interview with little mix, they agreed that life would be boring without the other around, so if they were to kill one of them, they might as well kill both. just a few years later, dan literally said the universe would r i p i n h a l f if they were seperated.

and i mean, yes, sure, of course they spend time without each other. of course they have their own friends. of course they dont spend every waking moment with each other (dan’s an introvert, i’m not sure he COULD stand being around someone else that much)

but for god’s sake

they text each other from the other side of the house

they’ve managed to stick to one cushion on a couch that could probably seat five

they’re a l w a y s together

and they STILL dont run out of silly bants and friendly conversation and comfortable silence, yknow? they still laugh at each other’s lame jokes and finish each other’s stories and spend all their time playing mario kart on dan’s switch only to find out that phil’s is the one that hooks up properly to the equipment and now they dont have half as many unlocked achievments as they should

and that’s just amazing to me

their friendship is truly amazing

a witchy masterpost [updating 2]

this is my masterpost of all things witchy, and i’ll be adding stuff whenever i find something to add to this post, so it’ll slowly grow to be my ultimate witchy masterpost.  

Spells

a

  • a calming spell for back to school
  • acne aid
  • all purpose healing amulet
  • anti anxiety jar
  • anti-anxiety smelling salts
  • anti-anxiety sock
  • anti-nightmare pouch
  • anti-stress/anxiety bottle

b

  • badass bitch spell
  • basic sleep spell
  • be a better writer spell bag
  • blessed balm spell
  • “boys will love me” romance spell
  • brain bleach - spell to remove unpleasant thoughts
  • brew for you
  • busy bee’s overworked pick me up spell

c

  • cat blessing
  • cheap invisibility spells for anxious witches
  • charm to invoke new love
  • chilling out
  • cleansing spray
  • clear acne
  • connie’s strength and resolve spell

d

  • depression healing from the sun spell
  • diy magic shower disks
  • “do the thing” bottle

e

  • ease heartache
  • energy drink overcharge

f

  • find a true friend
  • for forgetting
  • free yourself from anger
  • friendship mix
  • fuck you, im a pirate today: confidence spell

g

  • gender clarity spell
  • get rid of a headache
  • getting that new years eve kiss
  • “goodnight, sleep tight” sleep-aid satchel
  • graycloak’s gambling powder

h

  • hair color change
  • happiness enchantment
  • healing spells 
  • heal a sore throat
  • heal a tree
  • healing a sore throat potion
  • help bring good luck
  • home protection charm
  • honey jar - for happiness and fortune

i

  • i wash my troubles down
  • ice binding method
  • inner strength jar

k

  • knitting spell (for protection)
  • the krakens tentacles (binding spell)

l

  • letting go banishing spell
  • love bottle charm
  • love blend

m

  • make another happy
  • mama cat’s “evil eye” protection jar
  • money drawing bottle
  • morning after a bad dream spell
  • motivation

p

  • past life spell
  • personal productivity spell
  • positive energy spell
  • powder to repeal an unwanted lover
  • push start to continue
  • promote happiness 
  • protection amulet
  • protection chant by clara
  • protection spell for when coming out as trans
  • protective stone

r

  • “restful sleep” charm bag
  • removal of the evil eye
  • a ring spell for lasting love and marriage

s

  • sachet ideas for attracting love
  • save a penny spell
  • sea witch bath
  • sea witch’s intuition jar spell
  • settle your mind spell
  • short calming ritual
  • simple shower pick me up
  • smother anger
  • spell for artists and craftsmen
  • spell to enchant a sweater
  • spell to make someone fuck off
  • strengthen your third eye
  • study buddy charm/test taking charm
  • summon a storm spell
  • sweet speech lip balm

t

  • talisman of protection
  • to find a lost object
  • tough as a nail, sharp as a thorn - protection spell
  • transgender/nonbinary/intersex magic burn bottle with a bunch of uses 

u

  • unleash your power potion

v

  • vanilla candle spell

w

  • wealth-drawing dragon bath
  • world’s come to an end spell

Spell bundles 

  • anti-anxiety
  • love
  • protection
  • purification
  • wealth

Glamours

  • attraction oil
  • everyday enchantments: accessory edition
  • for going unseen
  • glamour bottle to influence how others read you
  • goddess glamour bath
  • gossip stopping scrub
  • love scrub
  • making your room magical
  • mirror mirror on the wall - glamour spell
  • witch of the waste’s glamour - enchanted jewelry spell

Cursing

  • the bottom of the ocean
  • button eyes
  • curse for abusers
  • curse jar
  • cursing 101
  • hand witch curse
  • hazy smog hex
  • gentle curse
  • “live long and prosper” curse
  • paper poppet
  • self-care after cursing
  • slaughtering a friendship*
  • so you think you’ve been cursed

Divination

Witchy tips

Astrology Masterpost!!

Budgeted Witchcraft

  • 10 witchy tips
  • budgeted witchcraft supplies master post
  • treat yo self, broke witch style

Candles/Essential Oil/Incense

  • 31 diy candles
  • candles and their meanings
  • candle colors
  • candle magic omens
  • candle making tutorials
  • essential healing salve recipes
  • essential oil safety
  • hearth and home incense
  • incenses by use
  • the meaning of incense smoke
  • when to use which incense

Cleansing

  • cleansing and charging
  • methods of cleansing
  • the magical home
  • warding a room

Crystals

  • 5 crystals for a small business owner
  • crystal care
  • crystal charger
  • crystals for anxiety/panic attacks
  • crystals for socially anxious witches
  • crystals for psychic development
  • crystal magic 101
  • crystal prescriptions
  • crystals, stone, and minerals guide
  • crystals/stones and their physical and mental powers
  • gem stone meanings
  • mineral monday
  • stones and their properties
  • stones and crystals

Deities and Spirits

  • determining between good and bad spirits
  • hades and persephone resources
  • hellenic polytheism 101 (mini masterpost)
  • hellenic polytheism 200- weddings
  • how to communicate with spirits, gods, and the unseen 
  • introduction to the underworld…
  • make yourself more sensitive to spirits/non physical entities
  • mermaid offerings
  • mini deity masterpost
  • online temple for nyx
  • personal relationship with spirits and deities
  • underworld deities guide

Energy

  • energy work masterpost
  • grounding
  • learning to sense energy
  • shielding masterpost

Familiars

  • is this my familiar?

Herbs

  • 10 herbs for the lazy witch
  • 20 household herbs and their magical uses
  • autumnal witchcraft
  • cool site
  • herbal sleep and dream pillows
  • homemade floral water
  • green salt
  • if you use herbs in practice
  • mama cat’s beginner witch garden
  • starter herbs
  • what belongs in your witches brew
  • wolfsbane in witchcraft

Holidays

  • celebrate mason
  • celebrate yule
  • five (5) easy yule decorations
  • stovetop incense for samhain
  • winter sabbat wine

Sigils

  • charging sigils
  • guys!! help @pantheism
  • how to charge sigils
  • how to make sigils [@the-darkest-of-lights]
  • how to make sigils [@themooniswatchingoverus]
  • how to use your phone keyboard to make sigils
  • ideas for where to put amulets and sigils for protection
  • some sigils
  • sigil everything!
  • sigil guide
  • spell and sigil directory
  • sigil masterpost

Spells

  • 50 simple charms
  • bath magic - where to begin
  • circle safety
  • cleansing/purification spells
  • important for spell success
  • lush holiday 2015 bath magic
  • masterpost magic for anxiety/depression
  • paper poppet
  • please recreate this bath
  • self care spells
  • spell and sigil directory
  • spells for finals week
  • spells for trans and non binary folk
  • what spells are strongest with the moons
  • writing a spell in 7 steps

Resources

  • adhd focus
  • apps for witches
  • back to school magic
  • beginner witchcraft
  • beginner witchcraft resources master post
  • how to do witchcraft research
  • limited witchcraft masterpost
  • myelectisism’s witch supplies masterpost
  • non wiccan resources
  • resources a new witch needs
  • secular witchcraft resource master post
  • sourcing supplies
  • using songs to make magic
  • urban witch kit
  • where to get supplies
  • witchcraft resources galore
  • witchy books masterpost
  • witchy links masterpost
  • 9 easy to find ingredients that every aspiring witch needs

Teas

  • dei-teas: tea rece for offering to hera
  • tea spells
  • winter sore throat “tea”
  • witch tea: going to class

Techno Witches

  • techno pagan tip

Tips

  • 9 practical tips for new witches
  • tips for the college hedge witch
  • tips for the college green witch
  • witches on a budget

Types of Magic//Magick

  • green witchcraft resources
  • green witch tips
  • how to develop your craft
  • lavenderwhisp’s witch type masterpost
  • makeup magick
  • the phases of the moon + magick
  • practical witchery
  • a sea witch’s guide to seashells
  • water magic master post
  • witch type masterpost
  • types of witches that often go unheard of

Other

  • book-binding tutorial
  • charm making 101
  • expanded moon phase cheat sheet
  • getting spiritually unstuck
  • hypothetical routines for bby witches
  • magical ambiance
  • making coffee magickal
  • secret witch tips - x
  • simple visualization exercises
  • the crossroads
  • wands
  • a witch’s full moon traditions
  • witch podcast
  • witch tip - x  x  x  x  x  x  x  x  x  x  x
  • witchy tips for artists
  • witchy things to do for a child
  • witchy things to do for a pet

Masterposts

  • self care masterpost
  • shadow work masterpost
  • tari’s spellbook masterpost

*Couldn’t find the original source

  • -me when i was 5-
  • Mom: Serena, don't talk to strangers. It's dangerous.
  • Me: ok mami i promise i wont :)
  • -me now-
  • Mom: are you talking to strangers?
  • Me: no omg why would i do that
  • Also me: WHO WANTS MY SNAPCHAT?! WHO LIKES DAN AND PHIL LETS BE FRIENDS? HEY YOU PERSON WHO'S 18228 YEARS OLDER THAN ME LETS TALK HI HI HI -goes on omegle, puts interests-