and im not good with friendships

Isak, Even and Sana’s friendship is close and especial that they care so much about each other so they can’t stand people who tries to hurt them so they defend each other. 

One time, when they’re are in the street going to get an ice cream, someone look at Sana in a bad way because of her hijab, the three of them notice it but Sana doesn’t care and keeps walking but Even and Isak can’t help but call that person out so they say: 

“What??? haven’t you ever seen such a beautiful girl? What’s that fucking face you’ve just pulled? Why are you looking at her like that? Are you jealous because she’s a beautiful, intelligent and independent  woman who lives her culture, religion and beliefs and doesn’t hurt anyone? Uh? Is that the reason why you’re pulling that face? what? are you that kind of person that believes all the fucking stereotypes and all the bullshit they show in the media? maybe you should stop looking and think more instead don’t you think? because she may not care about what you racist and Islamophobic  people think about her because she’s sure enough about the way she lives her life but we’re so tired of the looks people like you give to her? because this didn’t happen today, this happens all the time, every day, and she’s just walking, living her own life, so maybe next time don’t listen to the thoughts and ideas the society imposed in your head and treat people how you’d like to be treated? because i’m sure you wouldn’t like going around feeling all the looks and gazes people give her every-single-day. so yeah, thanks, bye.”

so sana looks away as soon as even and isak turn around to go back where she is and sana keeps walking and tries to hide her emotion and tell them, smiling, that she can defend herself so isak gently pushes her away and says “whatever”

Other day, sana, even and isak are going to the library to study, isak and even are holding hands and sana are teasing them because she thinks there couples much cuter than them and isak and sana have a “roll-eyes battle” when someone approaches them and bumps into even shoulder on purpose and keep looking at them as while they past by this person without even bothering to look at this person.  this is when sana stops walking and stares at the person, walks back to get closer to this person and tells them: “why did you walked past my friend like that? haven’t you ever seen two people being in love? are you jealous they are living their lives the way they want with the person they want? what’s about them that is hurting you? what is that thing you need to bother them for? are they doing something that’s gonna badly influence in your life forever? do you think you are that important that we care about your opinion about other people? did we ask? no, we didn’t so since they are not bothering you in any way next time think about how you treat people before acting, okay? because we are so tired of everyone thinking they have the right to give their opinion about absolutely everything they see or hear but guess what? we don’t care at all, it’s that so hart to understand? is it so hard to just keep walking your way without bothering people? no, it’s not that hard, right? so yeah, carry on your way, thanks and have a good day. 

when sana gets back to where isak and even are standing, she can see how watery their eyes are but she doesn’t mention it because it’s already a situation awkward enough as she didn’t think about them hearing everything, she was just so pissed off and couldn’t keep it to herself this time.

so even and isak hug sana so tight without saying and word and sana doesn’t say a thing and joins the hug for a while but after a long time, she gets a bit annoyed and starts saying “okay, guys, enough of this hugging, it’s okay, it’s what friends are for so yeah, thanks, but i cant breath properly, yeah… thanks” 

and they carry one walking, teasing each other and joking as they usually do. 

friendships are weird

i think some people fall into a space where they question

“idk why this person hangs out with me”, or i see a lot of ask things on here like “tell me traits you like about me” or something like that

which, is possible, i guess…

idk i think sometimes we tend to break ourselves down into sections, like we’re this trait and that trait and this one

but looking at all the people im friends with, at no point was i ever like

“well, they’ve got THESE good traits, and THESE bad traits, and i GUESS the good balances it out, though they could do without this and that…”


people aren’t a series of traits, they’re a big messy intertwined bundle of stuff

and everything comes with the other

i don’t think there’s any person i know that i could say “well i wish they were less _______” because that’s a part of them as a person. and without it they wouldn’t be who they are

of course people change, but it’s an organic process and the fundamentals behind that behavior are still there, even if maybe they’ve shifted to a better outlet

idk. people are people. people don’t like you because your “good” traits balance out your “bad.” people like you because you’re YOU and people are weird and we get attached to things

don’t worry too much about it

sleepaddickt  asked:

Eli my grandma won't stop asking me about girlfriend's and stuff and i just want to tell her im gay but then I'd be immediately on the street:(

tell her “girls? grandma you’re silly, i am focusing on my male friendships right now, keeping it cool with my boys” and then come back with a “best friend” who you “hang out” with all the time and youre kissing just to “practice” for when yall find girlfriends and youre only married for “tax reasons” its fool prOof i promise
fr tho i wish i had good solid advice and sadly im unsure but im hoping for the best for you my dude 💙

all of these posts about how friendship is so much better and stronger and more meaningful than “love” freak me out like why is it so commonplace to think romantic partnership doesn’t involve deep, supportive friendships and secondly that friendships dont involve love, like this conception of love is Not Good… please squirtle im dying 

Straight logic
  • Girl and a boy: *literally hate eachother*
  • Everyone: omg the sexual tension!!!! I ship it!!! Ooooh so edgy
  • Two boys: *barely interact, glance at eachother once*<
  • Two girls: support eachother, literally love eachother alot, tons of physical contact, hold hands, compliment eachother, are healthy and happy together, have made out, long longing looks and smiles
  • Everyone: dont ruin their friendship... such good friends, we need more platonic female friends :/

Ninette Week Day 3: Childhood/Pre-series

Best friends forever.

Ninette being bros is actually one of the best things. Have they been classmates forever? Probably. Does Marinette help Nino with song lyrics? Most likely. Does Nino keep Marinette entertained with good movies and stories while she’s designing? Almost certainly.

It’s all just good and soft and warm with friendship and love.

Check out Ninette Week here!

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  • -me when i was 5-
  • Mom: Serena, don't talk to strangers. It's dangerous.
  • Me: ok mami i promise i wont :)
  • -me now-
  • Mom: are you talking to strangers?
  • Me: no omg why would i do that

im pretty sure someone else has pointed this out already but it looks like lance is using pidge’s headphones (?) and pidge doesnt typically let the others touch her things so i like to think that she lent them to lance after he asked to borrow them so he could listen to the sound of waves or smthn that reminds him of home

okay now that i know (?) what happened with even, my heart is just breaking for him. he just, he feels so horrible about what happened, about the pain he might’ve caused, and he absolutely thinks his friends are just better off without him, which is why he left. almost two years later he still feels that way, and i think it’s something that’s always in the back of his mind, the fear of hurting the people he cares about. because he does care, even cares so much. that’s why he left isak last season, because he was afraid of hurting him, not the other way around. and i can’t. oh god, he really really needs to talk to these boys so they can all get closure, and i know that it’s going to happen, and i know that sana is going to help that happen. all of these people, they’re all such good good people with amazing hearts and they deserve to get the opportunity to move and to regain the friendships they lost

now that the episode is public, smth Really Important to me from the latest ep:

so like. caboose actively seeking simmons out and keeping him company? and talking abt church and asking about grif when simmons gets sad? is literally all i ever needed. Ever

they’re both against splitting up in the first place, so caboose seeks simmons out so they can keep each other company and “split up together” which is so good. and then they have a whole convo abt death and ghosts and simmons treats cabooses ideas (people turning into ghosts, specifically bc u care about them) as actual theories and debates them which is So Good.

they both lost their best friends and they both know what the other person is goin thru and im just. so emotional. the friendship we need and deserve honestly

magic touch bond au
  • i keep thinking of a magical au where jack and bitty wake up
  • like after a party or something and they’re both in excruciating pain
  • and so all the guys are freaking out and they sort of piece together that jack and bitty are being affected by the same thing
  • so holster hauls a screaming bitty into jack’s room and dumps him on the bed next to jack and the moment they touch everything…stops
  • why yes, it’s our old friend, the Forced to Be Touching At All Times Trope

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The truth is, because that’s not who Gamora is. She’s not someone who is going to give in to the moment of a lustful, passionate moment.” said Gunn. “She loves Peter Quill, that’s very obvious at the end of the movie, and she admits that to him. And their love is based on something much deeper than sex. It’s based on a profound friendship between the two of them. They are the heads of this family in a lot of ways.
—  James Gunn 

hi guys so my girlfriend’s name is blue sargent and this is why i love her

  • she accidentally became a vegetarian she just isn’t fond of meat so she eats so much yogurt and salads and totally packs fruit kebobs for lunch,,, what a nerd
  • she has an emergency sewing kit
    • henrietta high school legend says if you say “blue sargent” and spin around three times in the girls bathroom she’ll walk out of the stall and have the exact right button to replace the one that got ripped off your sweater
  • literal embodiment of “aesthetic or die”, she’d choose overheating in the middle of a virginia summer over ruining her look
    • “blue you look like you’re gonna pass out”
    • "i’m sorry, i misheard, i think you meant i look fucking great”
  • her guilty pleasure is 90′s boy bands she loves *nsync and backstreet boys and totally knows all the bad dance moves from the music videos
  • she’s tone deaf though can’t carry a tune to save her life but sings loud and proud anyway
  • she has a gap in her teeth just big enough to be noticeable, it whistles when she’s trying not to laugh
  • she’s a mug hoarder that brings tea up to her room but has like twelve mugs on her window sill from forgetting to bring them back down
  • her dad’s a fuckin woodland nymph so she’s ridiculously good with plants and her vegetable garden is the envy of the neighborhood
  • she’s a dog person she walks dogs as a job because she gets paid!!! to spend time with dogs!!! she loves it so much
  • once whipped out her switch on a boy twice her size for catcalling and scared the living daylights out of him,, attitude makes up for height and this girl’s got plenty of it
  • she’s not a bad student but she does get asked to leave class for sassing her teacher’s or telling them theyre wrong
    • “[insert historical figure] was gay”
    • “ms. sargent please don’t”
    • “history is so fucking gay you don’t understand-”
    • “please sit outside for the remainder of class” 
    • *cue deep dramatic sigh from blue*
    • the teacher called maura, who laughed her ass off and hung up the phone
  • she was riding her bike home one day and was late because she got distracted talking to a homeless guy while waiting at an intersection and she bought him some mcdonalds and played cards with him
  • LOVES stargazing so much, persephone taught her the constellations when she was little
    • when she misses her she goes and sits under the stars with smelly tea, wearing a pair of persephone’s socks. she feels closer to her that way and it hurts a little less.
  • the gray man didn’t teach her how to fight, calla did.
    • by the time calla is done with her blue can flip ronan on his back
  • speaking of ronan him and blue are best friends i don’t make the rules these are just facts
    • she has dream hair clips that change color
    • she sewed pockets into all his jackets for chainsaw
    • theyre combat boot buddies
    • she is Tiny and rides on ronan’s back or shoulders
    • she has literally taken a running leap and jumped on his back while he was in the middle of a conversation and he didn’t falter in the slightest
    • he rips up clothes for her so she can get that Punk Aesthetic
  • she gives the best hugs on the planet she is a tiny lady but will pull you in so tight and you can rest your head on her soft hair,,, wow
  • her nail polish is always chipped it lasts like an hour tops
  • there’s always kids running around the house and she is so good with them, playing tag, teaching them crafts and cool friendship bracelet patterns and she wears all the ones they make for her
  • you think ronan cusses up a storm? blue could give him a run for his money the girl’s got a mouth like a sailor
  • loves yoga but only knows like 6 poses that she does over and over, calla judges her
    • “blue why are you laying on the ground”
    • “im doing yoga. its called corpse pose. leave me alone youre fucking up my zen.”
    • corpse pose is a lie it’s literally laying on the ground 
  • that’s about it
  • my girl is a dorky feminist hippy and i love her
  • she deserved better
  • :))))