and if you ever need to talk feel free to message me

things to do when you’re feeling sad
🌼 drink some tea
🌼 cuddle a pet or stuffed animal
🌼 watch bob ross videos
🌼 listen to music that makes you happy
🌼 take a bath
🌼 write down how you’re feeling (it sometimes helps)

remember :
🌼 take your meds if you haven’t
🌼 stay hydrated
🌼 don’t keep everything bottled up
🌼 it’s okay to cry !!
🌼 breathe and try to relax (i know it can be hard)

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I know a lot of people just see this blog as kind of like an aesthetic blog with no personal aspect to it, but just remember, there’s a person running this blog (me), and I just want you to know that if you ever wanna talk or ask me anything or if you need to vent/rant or are having a bad day, literally anything, I’m here. I’ll always be here for you. Feel free to message me or send asks about anything. I know a lot of people don’t have people they can talk to, but you can always talk to me. Even if you message me, you don’t have to tell me your name or anything about you, if you just want someone to listen to you and maybe give you advice, without having someone know who you are, that’s completely fine. If you want a friend, I’m always here. So yeah, just feel free to talk to me about anything, whether it’s on messages, or sending me an ask 💗

Scrub a Dub Dub

This title is kinda strange, but I think I’m LIKIN’ IT. 

Here is the start of this series on collocations! I’m really busy but I don’t want to become inactive so I think this is a good way to keep learning (and also having something to do in chapel)
As an introduction, collocations are basically the natural expressions for certain phrases. Do you ever notice when listening to non-native speakers that sometimes what they say is correct literally, but not really the natural way you’d say it in that language? That’s what collocations are. So saying something like “I took money from the ATM.” vs. “I withdrew money from the ATM.”

So today, we’re talking about hygiene! Like taking baths, showers, grooming, and all that jazz. 

I only provided sentence examples for about one in each category, so if you need clarification, feel free to message me!

Bath, bathtub -

Fill up the bathtub/run a bath - 

Drain the tub

Take a bath
Have you taken a bath yet?

Get out of the bath

Face -

Wash your face
You should wash your face at night. 

Dry your face

Break out (rash, acne)
(That) powder made me break out. 

Hair -

Wash your hair

I wash my hair every morning. (Is that bad? I feel super greasy if I don’t.)

Dry your hair

Brush your hair

Blow dry your hair

Take care of hair

Shower -

Take a shower

I shower every morning.

Shampoo - 

Shampoo your hair

Use shampoo
What shampoo do you use?

Wash with shampoo 

Rinse hair

Run out of shampoo

Soap -

Use soap
Emily used up all the soap.

Wash with soap

Lather soap
This soap lathers really well!

Bathroom -

Go to the bathroom

Use the bathroom

The bathroom is in use (or not in use)
All the bathrooms are occupied. 

Teeth -

Brush your teeth

Floss teeth

Stuck in your teeth
I have corn stuck in my teeth. 

Skin -
Get dry skin
During winter my skin gets dry. 

Get Rough skin

Take care of your skin
Emily takes (good) care of her skin. 

Get a tan

Red skin (sunburn)
I got sunburnt yesterday. 

Facial hair -
Shave (in general)
I accidentally cut my leg while shaving.

Have facial hair

Grow facial hair

Be unshaven

Trim facial hair

Next time: makeup!!! <3 (now I can do subtitles for my YouTube videos!)

GOT7 Reaction To You Not Eating Much



(A/N: This could be triggering to some people who may have some sort of eating disorder. Not eating is one of the worst things you can do to your body and it is incredibly unhealthy but I know how hard it can be sometimes so if you ever need to talk feel free to message me.


Originally posted by marktuon

I feel like Mark would notice your eating habits almost straight away and would try to help in anyway he could. He would try his best to cook your favourite meals and buy you your favourite food just to make sure you ate and stayed healthy.


Originally posted by imjaeboms

I think Jaebum would be angry with you when he first realises your eating habits, he wouldn’t  understand why you would do something like that to yourself. After he got over his anger he would be like Mark and would do anything to make sure you were healthy and ate.


Originally posted by j-miki

We all know what Jackson is like when it comes to health so when he realises how unhealthy you looked, or how little you ate he would become extremely worried. He would do anything to make sure you were healthy and eating well again.


Originally posted by jypnior

Jinyoung would notice your eating habits quite quickly and would confront you about it straight away as he would be worried about your health and would try and get you help just to make sure you would be healthy again.


Originally posted by jiminthebun

Youngjae would be devastated when he found out about your eating habits, he would do literally try anything and everything to make sure you ate a healthy amount. I feel like he would also feel guilty for not realising how unhealthy you were getting.


Originally posted by jackseunie

I feel like Bambam would become extremely worried when he found out about your unhealthy eating habits but he would be very reluctant to confront you about it as he didn’t want to upset you, but when he finally talked to you about it he would almost beg you to eat more and eat healthily.


Originally posted by j-miki

I don’t think Yugyeom would know what to do when he found out about your eating habits. he would be incredibly emotional about it though. 

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Could I please get some Renji fluff? I really need a hug <(-▪-)>

aww anon, of course! *hugs* I hope you feel better! I don’t know what you’re going through but if you ever need to talk you can message me! Sometimes just ranting about things really helps…

 You didn’t specify if you wanted head canons or a scenario so I’m going to make some head canons but feel free to make another request if you would like more! Also, I’m having some trouble tagging stuff lately when I answer it so Ill go back through and tag everything as soon as I’m finished with some asks! Anyways, I hope you like it!!!

I can see Renji being super simple especially on a first date. Renji would take time to get to know you and it would take some convincing from Rukia before he finally asked you out on a date. Something simple, like a picnic with a nice walk along the beach in the evening. 
Renji would be really shy but he would try really hard not to show it…He would stutter on some words and do that thing where he puts his hand to the back of his head when you ask him a question. 
He would really want to hold your hand too but it would be while before he actually gets up the courage to do it and it’s so subtle too. As the two of you are walking along, he casually and slowly slips his hand against yours and pulls your hand closer to him.
If you look up at him he’ll be looking right down at you with a smile on his face and pull you closer into him so he can hold you while the two of you walk. 
Once its all said and done he’ll walk you back home and stand at your door really awkwardly for a second before he tells you goodnight. If you want a kiss though, you might have to go for it yourself. He’d really want you to by the way
Renji would smile halfway through and wrap his arm around you gently before the two of you pulled away. He would explain to you how happy he was that you had gone out with him, and he would ask to do it again some time soon. After it was all said and done Renji would be a gushing mess and he’d be smiling the entire day after, thinking of you and waiting for your next date.

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I wanted to apologise for not being active lately. I’ve been very busy with personal matters and my birthday this week. I’m currently making very big unexpected positive changes that caught me, my family and my therapists and mentors at sheltered housing off guard and I’ve never felt this happy and content before. Because of that, I haven’t regressed a lot and probably won’t do it a lot anymore as I used to. But that’s not gonna change how my blog is and I’m not leaving! It’s just that I’m an adult that lives on my own with responsibilities every day. And I’m very happy and not stressed out as much as I used too. But I will be as active as I can and still be a sibtot! If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me and I’ll get to you as soon as I can! Thank you for your support and I love you all!

anonymous asked:

i love robron, i love them so much, but i feel so deflated. i've had a really bad time lately and they've been my safe space for so long, but i just tried to watch the wedding to cheer me up and everything is ruined for me now. i want to believe they can fix this and they can move into the mill and we can forget today ever happened but i really don't know what to do anymore

ok ok if you ever need to talk feel free to message me on private ok!! wow I feel like we need a fandom support group

I completely feel you, robron are SO much more than just a ship?? and I know we can’t expect emmerdale to tailor their characters to help our personal lives lmao, but it just SUCKS when so many people relate to aaron and robert. we need them to be happy, to see some happiness and see that lgbt+ people and people with mental health issues CAN have a good life. it’s not just about seeing characters happy, it’s a representation of our lives and people need that

missstakes  asked:

Hi🎀 I just wanted to tell you that I really love your blog...I think it's nice that you share your feelings and thoughts with us... it's also nice to see there are some people who got the same thoughts ne feelings! I'll be there if you need help one day ❤ just ask me! And maybe you could help me too, someday!? xoxo

Thank you so much!! That means a lot to me <3 Yes, please feel free to message me whenever if you ever need to talk or anything!!

BTS Reaction To You Not Eating Much.



(A/N: This could be triggering to some people who may have some sort of eating disorder. Not eating is one of the worst things you can do to your body and it is incredibly unhealthy but I know how hard it can be sometimes so if you ever need to talk feel free to message me. Also, I have done a lot of gif reactions lately so I tried to make this longer and more detailed.)


Originally posted by eatjin

I think Jin would be one of the quickest to notice you eating habits but he would be reluctant to say anything until he was sure about what you were doing was affecting you health, but even then he was still wary to talk to you the situation as he would be worried about upsetting you so he would use his actions instead; he would try to cook your favourite meals everyday and would sit with you until you ate a healthy amount of food. In the end, he would do anything he could to to make you healthy and happy.


Originally posted by yoonkooks

Yoongi would notice your eating habits quite quickly but he wouldn't say anything until he was certain there was something wrong. He would do something like offer you food or ask to take you out for something to eat to see your reaction, as soon as he was certain there was something wrong he would confront you about it and would ask you to try and get help because he would be incredibly worried about your health.


Originally posted by jinkooks

Hoseok would become aware of your eating habits after noticing how much weight you were loosing, he would instantly become worried about your health and well being and would confront you about it as soon as he could. He would also feel guilty for not realizing what you were going through before so he would help you in whatever way he possibly could.


Originally posted by sugutie

Namjoon would notice your eating habit as soon as it started, he would become aware of your weight loss and how unhealthy you became almost straight away and would do literally anything to help you become healthy again. If you wanted to loose weight he  would convince you to do it the healthy way and even help you by making sure you ate healthy food and exercised.


Originally posted by suga-com

A lot like Namjoon and Jin he would notice almost straight away as he had also had problems with not eating enough and he wouldn’t want you to go through what he did. He would almost beg you to eat more and would be by your side every step of the way.


Originally posted by bangtannoonas

I don’t think Tae would notice straight away but when another member brought up how skinny you were getting or how unhealthy you looked he would instantly take action about it. Like Hoseok he would feel guilty for not realizing before and would be incredibly upset with himself but he would confront you about it straight away and would try to sit with you at every meal to make sure you ate.


Originally posted by jjks

Jungkook would become incredibly emotional when he found out about you not eating, he would be extremely worried about you health and would try everything and anything to  make you eat a healthy and become healthy again.


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*Trigger Warning* BTS (Rapmon, V, Jungkook) Reaction to You Having an Eating Disorder

TRIGGER WARNING: this is about eating disorders and may trigger you. So please please please read this with that in mind

These are the last of the eating disorder reactions for BTS. They were really hard for me to write due to personal reasons. But PLEASE remember, health should come before everything. Anorexia and bulimia are not the answers to happiness. Feel free to message us if you ever need someone to talk to. Anyways, I hope you enjoy this reaction. <3

-Admin Kat

Jimin and Jin

Suga and J-Hope

Rapmon: He couldn’t help but notice how little you were eating constantly. He hadn’t meant to notice it at first, but the more and more you would skip, the more he would notice. He started to pick up on other shifts in your mood and appearance. He observed as you would move your food around on your plate, trying to make it look like you were eating, even though you would rarely actually bring your fork up to your mouth. How you wore baggy clothes, but claiming they were your size. Getting irritable at the smallest of things, that you would normally have let roll off your back.

Originally posted by taestylips

He stared at his computer. He didn’t want to type in what he was thinking, but he also didn’t want to make an assumption that could be wrong. With shaking hands, he typed in symptoms of anorexia. Each symptom seemed to fit yours, and he felt his heart sink. He couldn’t see why you would do something so dangerous to yourself, or why you would feel like you couldn’t talk to him, but he knew that he couldn’t get mad at you. That wouldn’t help. It would just cause you to work harder at hiding it.

Originally posted by hopeatuuli

After thinking hard about his options, he finally decided it would be best to just try and talk to you about it. “Jagi, do you think we could talk really quick?” He asked as he brought you into his room. He sat you down on the bed beside him and looked you in the eyes. “You know you can talk to me about anything, right? Why… why haven’t you been eating?” He asked hesitantly. You dropped your gaze from him, fidgeting in your spot. He placed his other hand on your cheek, wiping away your tears as they began to fall. He listened diligently as you confessed to him everything about your anorexia and how it had started.

Originally posted by ruinedbybts

V: he knew something was wrong when you refused to try on the new dress he had bought you. You told him it would be too small, just by looking at it. He had assured you several times that it was the right size, promising that it would look beautiful on you. He had been so excited for you to put it on, having bought it for your trip home with him. You shook your head, tears falling from your cheeks as you ran into the bathroom and slammed the door.

Originally posted by pokpokchikchik

He stared in confusion at your reaction. Sure, you typically wore big, baggey clothes. Your style was a lot like his in that manner. But he thought you may have liked the dress for meeting his parents in. He slowly walked up to the bathroom door, knocking on it lightly. “I’m sorry jagi. I didn’t mean to upset you. You can wear anything you want. My parents won’t care.” He told you desperately. He was ready to cry at the thought of hurting your feelings.

Originally posted by taestylips

The sound of vomiting worried him even more. He quickly tugged on the door, managing to push it open with his shoulder. He saw you with your finger lodged in your mouth as you tried to induce more vomiting. His eyes widened and he pulled you up, taking your hand out of your mouth. “Jagi…” He whispered the word, but couldn’t bear to say anything else. You stared at him, your eyes welling with tears and your body shaking as you realized what you were doing. He held you silently as you cried, knowing that if he tried to speak, he would cry as well.

(You are Hoseok)

Originally posted by yayaruizc

Jungkook: He hadn’t noticed at first. He assumed you were just sick every time he heard you vomiting. He was slow when it came to noticing any changes in you. He had told you numerous times to go to the doctor, or called his mom for advice on things that could help with nausea, but you constantly refused. You told him over and over again that you were fine and didn’t need to be checked up. But after almost every meal, he heard you vomiting. It wasn’t until you stopped eating that he noticed something was up.

Originally posted by minpuffs

He watched you closer when you stopped eating. If you did eat something, you would be sure to run to the bathroom after a few minutes and he would hear you vomiting. He told his hyungs, unsure of how to handle the situation. He wanted to be sure that he wasn’t reading into something that he shouldn’t have. But all he wanted to do was make sure you were okay. The last thing he wanted to do was ignore the situation and watch you get worse.

Originally posted by theking-or-thekid

“Um, jagi, maybe you should try to eat dinner.” He suggested as he stared at you from across the table. You looked skinnier than he remembers; starting to look sickly as you shook your head. He frowned, trying to find a way to ask you what was on his mind. “You know… you know you can talk to me about anything. You know that I love you, right? No matter what.” He reminded you quietly. You nodded your head, still not catching on to what he was talking about. It took nearly two hours for him to finally admit to his suspicions, but when he finally did, you knew you could count on him, even if you weren’t ready to tell him everything about your feelings and your situation, but you knew he was there for you.

Originally posted by jengkook

I always wanted to ask you one little thing.

When did the feelings stop? When did you realize that I was no longer the girl you wished to be with? When did I stop becoming your person, the number you dial when you randomly wanted to talk, the message you send when you got the A on a test you’ve studied seven consecutive nights for, the shoulder you cry on when everything didn’t feel right?

When did it occur to you that you no longer love me?

Did it come slowly like drops of water dripping from a faucet that was not tightly closed? Or did it come rushing like the waves of the ocean during a violent storm?

One question, one answer.

That is all I ever need.


—  EL

How Nat & Tony would take to a friend going blind.

This is like a mix between a preference and one shot so I do apologise.

  • Nat worked out something was wrong on a mission. You were S.H.I.E.L.D’s best marks(wo)man. The enemy was getting away and you went to go and shoot them in the leg to stop them but missed by a few feet. Devastation filled you and you dropped you gun as you watched them get away. You didn’t mean to but tears spilled from your eyes.
  • “(Y/N)? (Y/N) what’s going on?” You head Nat as she spun you around and brought you in for a hug. Never had she seen you become so scared and emotional and it terrified her. She took your arm and led you out of the facility and far away to where you could talk. When you told her that you were slowly going blind she looked at you in shock and then once again hugged you. The events of the day had worn you out so you eventually fell asleep in her arms.

  • “You don’t understand. I’ve never seen (Y/N) so scared and sad.” Nat repeated to Tony who was in his lab updating his armour. He was listening to Nat speak about you, she was worried on your behalf and she knew how much Tony loved you. “Is there not anything we can do?” She plead.
  • “I’d have to run some tests to see if I could create something that would allow her/him to see again but I don’t think that would be too fun for anyone. Besides I…” He paused and looked Nat straight in the eye. “Make a list of the top five most beautiful things ever. We can take (Y/N) to see them. Anywhere, it can be across the world for all I care because we can take the jet.”
  • And so they did, they took you too places you wanted to go and places they thought were beautiful. Both of them made you feel like royalty, spoiling you and taking a record breaking amount of selfies.


“Here,” Tony gave you a piece of paper with someones number on it when you all finally came home. You took it and looked at him puzzled.

“I already have your number?” You raised a brow in confusion and tilted your head in confusion.

He chuckled, “I know you do. You don’t have his though. His name is Matt Murdock though you might know him as Daredevil. I think he’d be able to help you. Give him a call.”

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reblog/like (or follow me) if you post a lot of video games, especially
- ace attorney
- animal crossing
- bioshock series
- borderlands series
- fallout
- grand theft auto (mostly V)
- life is strange
- pokémon
- the walking dead game
- the last of us
- until dawn
- the wolf among us
- infamous: second son

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"I don't need you anymore" emoji spell


Likes charge, reblog to cast!

To help with the heartbreak of losing people in your life.

Additionally, if anyone ever needs someone to talk to feel free to message me. You’re all beautiful. Blessed be! 🔮💕


The entire sophomore class in my school is required to do a 6 month project on something that they felt passionate about. I chose to do mines on feminism and/or girl empowerment. I’m going to do a video on this topic and I need girls to send in videos if them talking about a time where they’ve been treated unfairly because they are female, however, if nothing like that has ever happened to you, you can send in videos of you talking about women empowerment! 


  • You must have a positive view on feminism/women empowerment 
  • You must be female or identify as a female 
  •  The video may be no longer than 10 minutes long 


  •  The deadline for the videos is February 20th 
  •  If you do not feel comfortable with your face being on camera for whatever reason, you may record from your mouth down (so your top half of your face isn’t visible) 
  •  If you have any questions feel free to message me at anytime 

 The email that you send in videos to is: