PSA: You not liking the dynamics of a fictional relationship =/= it is an abusive relationship.
I’ve seen this thrown around a lot. While there are plenty of fictional relationships that are abusive and deserve to be addressed, many aren’t. But accusing every relationship of being abusive if you don’t like it or if it may have some unhealthy elements really belittles and downplays those relationships that are ACTUALLY abusive. Spoiler alert…. relationships are never 100% healthy all the time every day. Sometimes people say something mean to their significant other, or do something selfish. That does not make the relationship abusive!
Please stop calling things abusive just because you don’t like it or because characters aren’t 100% perfect 100% of the time.