and i'm too tired to get up

anonymous asked:

Honestly I think this only helps Maggie. Her being Alex's fiance rather than her new girlfriend is a big deal, and I think actually increases the odds of them developing her character individually. And I also think it ups the odds of them involving Maggie more in the general plots, like fighting villains. Being Alex's fiance would only help Maggie get closer to Kara too, and Kara = screentime

yeah but a main character shouldn’t have to get engaged to another main character just to have screentime sdfkfsdsdk

Jack is definitely the kind of guy who can fall asleep anywhere. He got used to sleeping in strange places during the crisis. After missions, he gets really tired on the ship back home and almost always ends up nodding off onto Gabe’s shoulder.

Gabe has a very hard time sleeping in strange places, but that’s because he’s used to staying up and keeping watch. Protecting his own. Which is why as soon as Jack falls asleep against him, he glowers at anyone who makes too much noise. And Jack can sleep soundly knowing that Gabe won’t let anything happen to him.

pidge and lance probably cause chaos in the castle of lions 24/7 by playing pranks on each other. so eventually shiro sits them down and asks them to stop, or at least tone it down a bit. so pidge and lance take it as a challenge and that seeing as they can’t play pranks of each other they’ll just play pranks on the other team members.

at first they start out kinda subtle by messing with shiro’s shampoo so every time he washes his hair his fringe will slowly turn more and more green. then they step it up a notch by constantly switching around people’s clothes and armor and pretending they have nothing to do with it. next up they pick sporadic times during the day in which to randomly exchange an item of clothing, this results in lance being asked a number of times why he’s wearing pidge’s glasses; to which he simply replies, “i’ve always worn these.” a step even further means rigging the castle’s overhead speaker system so whenever shiro enters a room darth vader’s theme starts to play. and of course the cherry on the top of the cake is the pair somehow miraculously managing to shave coran’s mustache off whilst keeping it as one whole and then supergluing it onto keith’s face whilst he sleeps.

shiro and allura have them cleaning the castle toilets for the next three months. they regret nothing

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First come first serve, thank you! ^w^

Please do not steal this character - If you purchase, you are allowed small changes to the design and a change in name maximally. 

anonymous asked:

What are your top favorite carmilla fics to re-read? :)

Great Question!!

  • Meet Me Halfway To Your Heart - aka the fake engaged AU where Laura and Carmilla’s parents are famous 
  • Marriage of Convenience - also a fake engaged AU but Carmilla is a politician, also this one’s a WIP but updates pretty regularly
  • Beating Like A Hammer - the AU where Carmilla is in a band and Laura is a journalist
  • The Trades We Choose - personal assistant AU
  • On Your Ground - Doctor!Laura AU
  • The Blind Date - Carmilla and Laura are exes, get set up on a blind date, and, well, you can figure out what happens next
  • if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only love - deals with the aftermath of s3, a bit angsty and raw but also soft and healing and bittersweet
  • at night i hear her breathe (it sounds like explosions) - cute fluff one-shot with a side of smut, bubble baths are involved
  • Don’t Say A Word - angsty but also really sweet, takes place during episode 2.36

anonymous asked:

Is there a way I can get access to a mental health resource such as a psychologist or therapist without my parents finding out? I'm only 14 so I can't drive and I live too rurally to walk anywhere. I can't call kids help phone because there's nowhere private in my house and I really want to get help. I'm too scared to talk to my parents but I know that some of the thoughts I have aren't healthy and I'm tired of doing this alone

yes, i know of a lot of online things and masterlists that may be able to help you! first of all, i want to say that i’m proud of you for speaking up and recognizing that you need help and you want to learn to recover. that can be a really tough thing to do and it’s the first step to a healthier life. <3 okay, here we go!

therapy options for someone w/o parental help:

  • 7 Cups of Tea is an online chat where you can choose something you want to work on/overcome, and you’ll be paired with someone that can talk. it’s free and anonymous.
  • iPrevail is like seven cups of tea, but lets you plan out stuff. I’m not sure if that feature is free but it seems like it is, and i’d encourage you to look into it!
  • the Crisis Text Line is like a help phone, but through text, so you can do it discretely and with less anxiety. this is the only one on the list that i can attest to, having personally used it before and I would recommend it.
  • school counselors can be a good resource to talk to or help you get to a professional therapist. feel them out first though, as they aren’t all perfect, but many can be very helpful and kind.
  • BlahTherapy is another online chat, which is anonymous and free. you can just rant/vent without worry.

Masterposts/masterlists that could help you self-heal and cope and motivate you to recover:

this is all i have for now, but also keep in mind that my direct messages are always open and i’m always willing to have a conversation. you can do this.

But why. Why is life so unfair. Why do I have to be the one crying late at night? Why do I always get used? Is it because I am too kind? Or is it because I’m simply just stupid?

Okay, hear me out! HEAR ME THE FUCK OUT!

I know it’s not exactly the point (and god forbid we actually get to do this) but What if instead of US trying to colonise planets as individuals we first sent ROACHES!?

OKay, maybe not only cockroaches. But what about terraformation packages filled with the basics? Cianobacteria, simple algae, lichens and fungi and then some arthropods. 

SO we first send this packages and let them do the nasty work of turning ammonia filled water planet into yey oxygen! plus water planet and by the time actual humans get there there is no need to live in like… closed spaces (ok maybe yes because microorganism and infections and such) 

I mean i’m sure NASA people already thought about this. So… where do I sign the fuck up to work on this? 

the signs as actual things my mother has said.
  • Aries: you know what, i miss the old kanye
  • Taurus: i would leave your father for tyler joseph
  • Gemini: wake up its dinner time
  • Cancer: what's up with all the bee movie things recently?
  • Leo: 4 years of cheer and all you can do is a split on the dick
  • Virgo: what is with you and reading about your idols having kinky sex?
  • Libra: we get it, you want to die. just do your fucking chore already
  • Scorpio: go back to reading your porn kiddo
  • Sagittarius: are you really looking for a sugar daddy?
  • Capricorn: stop trippin' little homie
  • Aquarius: U little stinker. Y u have ur 📱? What time u wake up today?
  • I'm having a hard time with not being too tired now. I woke up at 5pm 😬😕🤔🙄😢😱😨🤐😴💤💩
  • Pisces: if he isn't your dad, don't call him daddy.

ein-nachkussen  asked:

Oooooh this blog looks exciting! But I can't help but ask, how did Arthur lose his fiancé?

*casually posts (past) fruk in my usuk blog*

They were both going through rough patches in their own, individual lives. With university and their jobs and the overwhelming stress of fitting everything together into their own time, they weren’t able to see each other much and grew distant. And with everything so stressful at the time, so frustrating, they grew increasingly bitter. They argued before, yes, but now it was so often that seemingly every single little conversation of theirs ended in a fight. They both felt the impulse toward words: to speak, to fling an insult or an argument or a quip, to let their tongues get away from them and dig their relationship deeper into it’s own grave. The love was still there, but it was buried so deep that neither of them could see it anymore. And they were tired of looking for something they both believed to have gone.

I’m placing the story along as I go, so I hope this isn’t too confusing. Basically, circumstances led them to break up. The timing of it all. Too close when all they needed was distance.

I hope  the super long comic as a reply isn’t too weird, I just tend to get carried  away with ideas >.< (Also, thanks for reading!!!)

I can’t tell if I’m being logical or failing to self care by not making food this close to midnight.

I came home and crashed after the funeral like, lay face down down on the couch and just passed out for 7 hours crashed, woke up briefly thinking ‘I should make food’ then my body just pulled me under again. And now I’m awake I’m not sure what would be better, just going back to bed and risking the possible lack of food migraine in the morning, or not eating so I can lay down without getting reflux and burning the shit out of my throat.

And it’s not like I can just make myself something light or grab a snack (please don’t suggest foods, I have a very limited range of things I can eat and I know what they all are. so while I appreciate the thought, it doesn’t help me and is sometimes very frustrating), I literally need to make everything I can eat from scratch and I haven’t had the spoons to make things in bulk for the last few days so there’s literally 0 things I could eat right now without getting up and turning the oven on.

Which, hnggggh.

  • Jaune: hey partner
  • Pyrrha: Yes?
  • Jaune: do you wanna just
  • Jaune: come o ver here and
  • Jaune: let me hold you
  • Pyrrha: ... Why?
  • Jaune: i just want to
  • Pyrrha: This is platonic, right?
  • Jaune: i'm too tired to keep that gag up
  • Jaune: get over here at let your not-quite-boyfriend hug you
  • Pyrrha: !!!!!!!

My Bullet Journal Set Up

So some of you have asked me about my bullet journal (I’m looking at you, @munirastudies (and some anons - hi anons!)). Here it is: my set-up!

I previously did a post on my bullet journal at the very beginning of this studyblr, which can be found here. It’s just changed so much since then that I decided I’d post a new one!

- 1 - I’ve got a dotted Leuchtturm1917 A5 notebook in a really dark blue - which fits because I’m Ravenclaw. I was actually planning on painting the house crest on the front cover, but I never got to do it… but I think I’ll do it soon haha.

- 2 - When you look at my bullet journal you’ll see that I have some bright tags there. They really help me find stuff quicker (but they aren’t sticky enough so they often get loose.. I should change that). You can see my tag list in picture

- 3 - and it’s at the very end of the notebook. For those of you who don’t know this system yet, it’s really simple! You just decide how you want to tag that page, for example “books” as I did in mine, and go to the back of your notebook to write it down there. Then you choose a colour and put a strip of washi tape (or I use post it flags) on that page in the back and also on the page you want to tag so that the colours are in one line and you can see them from the outside (god I’m bad at explaining this but I can’t find the page that explained it to me, sorry!).

- 4 - On the first three pages there’s an index, and I use the first page for years and months, then the second page (which you can see in the picture) I use for anything else.

- 5 - Then there’s my key. I have a colour coding system, but I use some colours twice (which is really bad, I know) because there just weren’t enough colours! I have one colour for each subject, then also for other parts of my life like work, family and friends, uni in general and health (which is anything really: when I eat, doctor’s appointments, when I clean my flat etc). There’s also a key for my expenses which I rarely use anymore, and one for how long it took me to do a task which I also don’t use anymore.

- 6 - In this picture, and also the one before, you can see my yearly overview (which I am still so proud of because I thinks it’s really pretty). I only write down really important stuff in there, and things I’m looking forward to.

- 7 - Now we come to the more important stuff in my bullet journal. In this picture you can see my monthly overview. Here I write down everything that happens that particular month, like when I have to work, exams, family and friends stuff, and birthdays etc. I also have space for goals that I want to achieve that month, and an expenses table. This really helps me because often times I would just go shopping for books and stuff and spend so much money (which you can see hasn’t really improved much {{I spent 70€ on books last month?!}}). Now I can see how much I spend and what I should do better next month (like, I should definitely buy less books {{I actually spent more money on books this month and it’s not even halfway through but shush}}). On the next page there’s an example of a weekly overview. This one looks pretty much the same every week (at least the layout). Here are some more examples:

There’s always space for my weekly goals, then a food table where I write down everything I eat (which should make me more aware of what I eat and change my habits of eating - but it kind of doesn’t), underneath that there’s my habit tracker (and you can see I’m not very good at that either), and then there’s some kind of time tracker…? I don’t know what it’s called, I just thought I needed to know how I spend my time each day, like if there’s a lot of pink I’ve been doing a lot for myself (reading, watching movies, listening to music), if there’s lots of yellow I did a lot with friends and family, then there’s days where I was very creative and a lot of the time is purple - or if there’s lots of green (history) and red (English) I did a lot for uni. I really like this one (and I think I came up with it myself, but if someone has already claimed credit I give it all to you haha).

- 8 - Let’s just ignore the fact that this was one of my most unproductive weeks of all time (like, do you see how often I migrated tasks here?!). Just like my weekly overviews, my daily overviews look pretty much the same every week - at least the basic layout. I get bored of a certain layout about halfway through the week, so I try to come up with a new one every week. See how I got an arrow based layout in the orange overview, and kind of tree/nature based in the green one? What I always include is how much water I drink. I try to drink 12 glasses of water, which in my case is about 2,5 litres. Then there’s the basic to do list thing that bullet journals have. I include my colour code here as well, it just makes it easier for me to see what kind of things I have to do each day. Some more examples:

- 9 - I also have pages in my bullet journal that I use for lists, uni stuff, recs, organisation and personal stuff. In this picture you can see my “books to read” list. On the first example picture of the daily pages you can also see my wish list (which only has “money” on it - figures) and a pro/contra list about the two options I have for my stay abroad. Here are some more examples:

My saving goals page (which isn’t really done yet) and my schedule for this semester(which doesn’t have the hours on it):

and a “movies to watch” list (some spelling mistakes included):

- 10 - This last picture is my current spread. I saw this on tumblr and wanted to try it, but my colour code kind of destroys it. Maybe I’ll try it again some time without my colour code… Here’s another picture of the weekly overview:

Wow. This got a little out of hand! I hope you enjoy this :)