and i'll have you know that i did not pay for this

I grew up being told that if you owe someone, you must pay them back.
I’m sure this was intended to inspire manners and customs. The result was not as kind as you thought this advice would make me. I understood mathematics, like basic addition - that if someone continuously did me favors, I’d owe them an increasingly larger sum. That two odds will make us even. I never let people do me favors because there’s no such thing in this world.
We treat others kindly: open doors, buy them food and gifts, take them places… all because we know that any good person will match our efforts. I’m not afraid of kindness, of generosity. I’m afraid of the things people will make me do in return for these circumstances we refer to as “favors.” I’ve paid, at least my way, for every date I’ve been on. Every gift, beyond a normal occasion to exchange, I have compensated with the price slipped into the pocket of whoever refused my payment.
It’s hard to look at a sister of mine and see how easily, how blindly she accepts the bribes of a meal in exchange for memories that may not heal. There’s a chance I'm overstepping kindness, but I cannot tolerate being used.
I grew up being told that if you owe someone, you must pay them back, and I’d much rather pay them back with the money they spent than leave my body up for grabs.
—  “Always even,” by Grazia Curcuru

Alright. Let’s have a civil conversation about this.

See unlike you I don’t need to call you names or disrespect others to make my self feel better. I knew one day that someone would hide behind a screenshot and post on simsecret to post their rude opinion about me. It was inevitable. 

Now I’m not a “fangirl” of hallowsims and yes I do also have a problem with them in my own way. For the fact they had two adfly links, that bothered me. It was a waste of my time but you know what I did? I GOT OVER IT. There was no need for me to work my self up. You want to know why? The content was still free. Now unlike another site I know of giving others content out and you have to pay for it. But they’re so big that no one bats an eye. They steal content and sell it. Yet the original creator is giving it out for free. I’ll probably get hate for this but clearly it needs to be said.  

Here I’ll use Newsea for an example.

Pretty little hair right? Why not have it for males. 

BAM now you have it for males. Let’s just scroll down and downl….

Oh wait. You cant, cause you have to have points??
Now from what I remember you get like what? 1 point maybe 2 everytime you post or comment? Well then, Why not just click on “quick download” 

OH WAIT?? You have to pay for that. 

And you know what people are going to do? They’re going to take the easy way out, They’re going to pay for it. OH BUT THAT’S OKAY BECAUSE NEWSEA GAVE IT OUT FREE RIGHT?? RIGHT?

No. You guy’s got angry at one creator who was just trying to make others happy, just as Maysims is doing. The only difference is Hallowsims was giving things out for free. Yes FREE. Adfly gives you shit all you’re lucky to make $10 a month. Maysims is taking 2 dollars every month so you guys can have a quick download. But that’s fair right? We can let them slide by but not hallow sims. NOPE

anonymous asked:

Hi I don't know if this is a random question but do you ship ransom and nursey?

I pride myself on being able to ship ANYTHING. So sure, why not? :)

anonymous asked:

I know you like Love Live as much as I do and drawing it is even more enjoyable but you need to download StayFocusd, use it, and... Get. Off. Tumblr. It is entirely YOUR responsibility to make the most of YOUR education that YOU (or if you're fortunate enough, others) are paying for. If you truly want a break, go exercise or do chores.

Hi anon. Thanks for worrying but sometimes I just draw for the sake of making myself forget things.

The way you put it is kinda harsh. If I could, I wouldn’t want to be studying and wasting my parents’ money. Also, the rest is just ranting. 

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I hate you, you know that?“ she screams, turning and whipping her head around to find something she can throw at him without really hurting him.
"How could you do that? What kind of fucked-up person does that to someone they love? You’re tearing me apart, and you like it, don’t you?! To see the power you have right now?”

He doesn’t speak. Just stands, listens to her throat unleash her fury.

“God, why did I ever let you in here? I knew, I just fucking knew–” her voice breaks, because of course she knew, and she hates it. She hates it so much she doesn’t pay enough attention to herself and starts to sob. She hates it even more now.
“Get out. Get the fuck out.” She’s almost howling it now, but she doesn’t care.
He turns around. She panics. She tries to stay silent. She fails.
“No, don’t. Don’t you fucking leave me like this! Not in this heat, you coward, not when I can’t think anymore!” She wants to tear her hair out. She wants to hit him. She wants to still be able to touch him.
He looks back at her.

“I’m sorry I fucked you up so bad,” he murmurs, and the way his words whisper through the tension shock her into silence for a moment. And the next thing she hears is the door closing behind him.

—  And that’s when she throws the plate, once he’s gone for good
  • Aoi: yes, yes, a ghooost, a ghooost.
  • about we do your faces?(*ㅎωㅎ)
  • Aoi: That’s you guys theeeeen !(:.;゚;Д;゚;.:)
  • Aoi: did the vending machines become more expensive??
  • Aoi: though we should still be paying for when they raised it to 110 yen with the 3% consumption tax, huh. well, it’s not over 10% yet and there’s probably not a reason for raising the price, either. there’s no way there was a rise in prices for the ingredients, I’m sure. just mix some undiluted solution in the water...whaaat, did someone just ...
  • Aoi: so far, there was no "that’s you guuuuuys" joke. you don’t have enough faith. DOGMA.

I do know is that Anthony Howard Goldwyn in the founder, treasurer, secretary, head board member, usher, & grounds keeper of the Kerry Marisa Washington Stan Club. He is head Stan. He has won the Stan award for 8 consecutive years in a row.

I didn’t make him a stan, he did that on his own. He is a Kerry Washington Witness & will knock on your door asking, “Have you accepted Kerry Marisa Washington as your next Supreme?”

Try to tell him you haven’t & he will read to you with the spirit of Maya Angelou reciting Phenomenal Woman behind him telling you the many ways in which Kerry is EXTRAORDINARY!


loveniaimani converting souls about Tony’s stan-abilities.

Pulling this out because I have not laughed as hard as I did reading this, in a long time. I appreciate it for the point, yes, sure, but what I appreciate best, is the creativity in this quote.

loveniaimani you are going to go so many places with your creative story telling abilities. I want to work with you.