like…as a bi girl, i think the term “heteroflexible” originates from the idea that you somehow have to prove you like girls enough, or in the “right” way, before identifying as “full bi.” and that’s biphobic. and definitely calling people who self-ID as bi “heteroflexible” is biphobic. but also?? i’m not going to police the terms that people use to describe themselves. there’s a lot of stigma attached to the word bisexual, and if someone is more comfortable referring to themselves as heteroflexible i ain’t gonna criticize them for that, because i think that will only serve to drive people who are questioning their sexuality deeper into the closet
I have a story okay because my life has officially changed today so today was the first day in like 3 weeks that hasn’t been raining absolute dicks and everything was sunny and lovely so I convinced my dad into driving us all out for ice cream and we got our ice creams and went up to this hill that drops off by the ocean
and there were these paragliders just all over the fucking place, like they probably haven’t been out flying for weeks with all this bad weather so they were just having a blast, one guy was swooping low and bouncing off benches and poles it was great
I said to my mum ‘omg do u think they’d let me join in if I asked nicely’ and my mum was like 'heeeeells nah’
fast forward ten minutes later, a guy walks over with a clipboard and is like 'so do any of u wanna go paragliding rn’
and I was like ’!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’
and my parents were like 'we still owe u that hangliding trip we promised for ur 21st so we’ll shout for this instead’ and they dropped $250 on the spot to make my actual dreams come true this wonderful random Sunday afternoon
and I got to fucking fly today and I’d forgotten what it felt like to not feel depressed until I was floating over the fucking beach in a fucking paraglider and it was FUCKING AMAZING
after like the most stressful months of my life I, right at this very second, feel almost like I did before I had depression like I feel so good and relaxed because there is honestly no other experience quite like floating way up in the air with no sounds but the wind and you can’t tell how fast ur going and everything seems to so far away and it’s all just peaceful and relaxing and beautiful and there is just nothing but air around you from every angle
I need this in my life I will not fucking rest in this world until I make a hobby out of fucking flying you can bet ur ass I’m gonna go the fuck back up there any chance I get, I’ve dreamed of flying for my entire life and now I’ve done it and I want MORE MOTHERFUCKERS I’M HOOKED
So at work today I worked with a new server and she told me and the other servers how much she loved me and how good of a worker I am and that I’d make an amazing server and omg its so nice to see people appreciate my work. My manager thanked me for coming in and doing my job and above and beyond and I was just like “dude I’m just working” lol and he’s like nah you do more than that and I’m just glad they liked my work ethic and that I get a serving job cause that pays more, a lot more. AND it’s a good job until I can do acting full time =‘) and a lot of servers tell me they love me and appreciate me <3 WHICH IS AMAZING CAUSE THEY WILL TIP ME WELL !!!
I think I reserve the right to whine about my music once per year, so I’m just going to say that sometimes I get really upset that I’ve been sharing my music for so long it never gains traction with anyone for too long no matter how much I promote it. I wanted to think making music could be something I could for like a career, but nah. I appreciate the people who like it and I’m going to keep making it because it’s fun, but no one appreciates it as much as I do I guess. It just doesn’t resonate. Sometimes I feel like crud seeing all of my friends building up cool music careers and stuff, but you can’t have everything you want in life.
OH BOY YALL IT GOT PRETTY FUCKING CLUTCH FOR A MOMENT THERE, AND SOMETIMES I’M LIKE, oh man mages and rogues are cool i should play as them more often, AND THEN I’M LIKE HAHA NAH WARRIORS ARE BRICK SHITHOUSES WHO NEVER DIE, VIVIENNE GOT A BIG HAND ON THAT BALL BUT THE ENTIRE SECOND HALF OF THIS FIGHT I ACCIDENTALLY WANDERED INTO BY GETTING LOST ON THE WAY TO REDCLIFF WAS JUST ME AND MY GIRL CASSANDRA TACKLING A DRAGON’S ANKLE
I know a lot of characters on TVD got the short end of the stick, but I honestly believe Katherine got the worst of it. And what's worse is that her storyline was so interesting and they kept giving Us little bits and then left us hanging. I'm forever bitter over her ending .
if you would’ve sent this before 8x16, i would’ve been like “nah, there’s still some people who got it pretty bad”, but after 8x16 i can firmly say that i totally agree with you