and i want to understand too

There are few important things I really want to talk about. Please reblog so everyone who’s in Eddsworld Fandom can see.

FIRST OF ALL, I just want to make sure people understands that what they are doing is wrong and how they are ruining the fandom. Here are some points I sorted out.

1. TomTord Fandom

I’m not judging the ship. I actually like Tomtord ㅡ they’re cute together. I ship them AS A FICITIONAL CHARACTER NOT A REAL PERSON?! WHAT THE HELL?!  HOW DARE YOU HARASS TOM AND TORD?! DON’T YOU GUYS KNOW WHAT THE WORD PRIVACY IS? YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT’S REALITY AND WHAT’S NOT. BECAUSE OF YOU GUYS, TORD LEFT. BECAUSE OF YOU GUYS, NOW TOM IS GONE TOO. PLEASE PLEASE, PLEASE GROW UP AND BE MATURE.

And now for the people who hates the ship. Look, I get it ㅡ you guys probably don’t know why people ship them because they clearly hate each other but look. There’s a thing called “hate ship”. You pair two characters who hate each other. Basically every fandom has one so you need to get over with it. Don’t tell tomtord shippers weird or don’t just swear at them. Nobody’s the same so you should respect what others like or ship.

2. Shipwars

Oh god where do we start… Everyone has their own OTP and you should respect others. People can ship whatever they want if it’s fictional! Please don’t say this ship is better than the other. That’s only your opinion. Everyone can’t be the same. If you keep saying them aloud you’ll bring hatred over some people. DON’T.

3. Forced Shipping

For all eddsworld askblogs ㅡ this message goes to you. Except for the blogs that’s about specific ships. (EX. Ask toredd! Ask tomtord!) That way people knows what ships they have so who hates it can easily avoid it.

There might be some people who are very uncomfortable with the ship you guys are including on the blog. Especially in the au blog. People there are following the blog because they’re interested in the plot and the story line the au follows. Well, maybe some ships but you shouldn’t put that in the middle.

4. Using arts without credit

THIS IS THE HUGE PROBLEM. I SEE MANY PEOPLE USING MY ARTWORKS, AND MY FRIENDS’. THEY NEVER CREDIT US, OR NEVER EVER ASKED US. PLEASE ASK THE ORIGINAL ARTIST BEFORE YOU USE IT. WE WORKED VERY HARD ON IT. HOURS AND HOURS. IT’S NOT EASY TO CREATE SOMETHING. RESPECT US AND STOP DOING THAT. THIS GOES TO ALL THE FANDOMS, NOT JUST EDDSWORLD

5. Harassment

As you know, Tord and Tom left because people wouldn’t stop forcing them to make out or be together in real life ㅡ same goes to Paultryk now. I’m not saying that I’m against the ship. I’m saying that don’t cross the line. Imagine if group of people shipping you with your friend and won’t stop talking about it and forcing you to kiss your friend. How annoying would that be? Also, please when you draw fan arts or write a fanfiction don’t use their last name because that’s just messed up. They’re real life people just like you and me! Later, if they get a job or something normally their boss searches up their name to see who they are. WELP IF YOU LOOK AT THE RESULTS THERE WILL BE GAY FANARTS ALL OVER THE PLACE PLEASE DON’T RUIN THEIR LIFE. PEOPLE ALSO SENDS BUNCH OF GAY FANARTS TO THEM ALSO?! WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT’S A GOOD IDEA?!??!

Tord can’t even use his own name now because of you guys. He disappeared because he was scared, disgusted by you people. Tord’s youtube channel is gone too ㅡ why are you doing this to them? 

6. R.I.P

EVERY FUCKING TIME I LOOK AT THE COMMENT SECTION THERE’S ALWAYS A COMMENT SAYING R.I.P EDD. YES I KNOW HE’S NOT WITH US ANYMORE AND YOU GUYS ARE JUST BEING POLITE BUT PLEASE FUCKING STOP SPAMMING THAT. THINK OF WHAT THE EDDSWORLD CREW WILL FEEL. I FEEL SORRY FOR THEIR NOTIFICATION BOX. OH HEY GUESS WHAT IF YOU LOOK AT TOMSKA’S CHANNEL DARKSQUIDGE THAT COMMENT IS ALL OVER THE PLACE. Please just stop. That’s messed up. We get it. He’s in heaven where he can drink cola whenever he wants. Don’t remind us about it. We won’t forget, we promise. You don’t have to constantly tell us. 


It’s not fine at all.

What the fuck is wrong with you all? Why? We all love Eddsworld but you guys are ruining it for many people.

  • Everyone: Tony, this is all your fault!
  • Tony: I actually don't understand what you all want from me. I'm trying my best and hardest to make things work and the world a better place but y'all are too busy criticizing my past self and all my past mistakes and thinking that I'm still that past self who hasn't changed one bit. So until you learn how to stop blaming me for things that I haven't done and don't do, I'll be taking a small vacation with Rhodey in Bahamas, okay bye.

anonymous asked:

RFA+V with a mute MC?

A/N: I’ve only come across one person who was mute so I don’t know too much about it, I hope it’s okay??? I made it very general because of this im so sorry ;A; ~Admin 404

 

*YOOSUNG:

           -He didn’t really understand why you didn’t talk at first

           -You were so talkative in the messenger? Why not in person?

           -You never pick up the phone….did he call at all of the wrong times??? Did you just not want to talk??

           -Maybe you were shy… He was too! Only he rambles when he’s nervous, not silent

           -Saeyoung had to explain to him that you were mute, and have been since birth (Since he did the background check on you of course)

           -This little cutie immediately started studying everything he could about it

           -He’s a little bad at communicating though

           -You have to type out what you want to say on your phone and show him, otherwise he has no idea

           -He doesn’t treat you any different because? Why would he. You can’t maintain eye contact for long periods of time? Neither can he, he gets too nervous

           -So you don’t/can’t talk, he respects that!!! He’s very capable of reading what you have to say on the phone. It’s actually a blessing because if he physically heard some of the things you say to him he’d melt immediately he just loves you so much and is nervous 24/7

*ZEN:

           - so we can’t have disney song duets??

           -He’s an actor, so he’s got a very big voice

           -Can and will use it in place of yours

           -Not to mention he talks enough for the both of you, so it’s okay MC

           -He tries to steer you away from large, loud groups of people

           -Don’t worry about attending every single show of his MC, he’ll have someone record it so the two of you can enjoy it at home

           -He literally spent a whole day over at Saeyoung’s creating something to help you communicate

           -SPENT HOURS PRE-RECORDING WORDS AND PHRASES

           -Now you have multiple devices full of these messages so you can play them to communicate

           - loves when you play the one telling him that he’s cute go ahead MC, play it again

*JAEHEE:

           -She wasn’t mute, but she did go through a period of time (a few years at least) where she didn’t talk much

           -Maybe a few sentences a day, because she had to, otherwise nothing

           -Knows it’s hard to get close to other people, but she’s willing to take it slow and wait for you to be comfortable

           -She’s spent hours thinking and researching better ways to communicate, because she doesn’t want you to get frustrated if you can’t talk to her!

           -Invests in TONS of books full of words, phrases, and the alphabet

           -Also gets books full of illustrations of emotions, places, things that are easier explained when shown

           - tried to carry them all with her all the time until you made her stop

           - jaehee you cant carry seven large books around all the time it’s okay

           -The two of you sat down and made your own compact helper book!!

           -She’s always so patient with you as you form these sentences, and will suplex anyone who upsets you jaehee pls

*JUMIN:

           -He immediately started to communicate with you through sign language

           -The mix of relief and happiness on your face made his heart jump

           -Sometimes he doesn’t even speak to you out loud

           -He’s so used to using sign language that sometimes he does it during meetings and Jaehee has to remind him where he is

           - well why doesn’t everyone know sign language assistant kang, maybe they should learn

           - this dork tried teaching elizabeth sign language just so she’d understand you

           -When you get clingy, he’s completely okay with it

           -Loves being close with you anyway, it doesn’t bother him at all

           -Most of the time, he’ll invite you to come with him to work, out on a business trip before you even have to chance to get clingy

           -All of his bodyguards know sign language now just for you and it’s seriously the cutest thing to watch them stumble over some of the words and watching Jumin school them like a teacher

*SAEYOUNG:

           -He knew from the start, so it wasn’t a surprise

           -It didn’t bother him, either, you’re still you

           -Immediately started working on a program for your phone so you can communicate. He created a computer generated voice for you!

           -Type whatever you want, and it’ll say it out loud

           -You were thrilled!!! Finally, you can talk to anyone, since not everyone knows sign language

           - you can finally ask for directions to the restroom

           -He’s also very good and guessing what you want without you having to say it anyway

           -Uses the app too so you can have a robot voice war

           -Both of you had problems with establishing new relationships with people, but that actually helped the two of you bond quicker than you would with anyone else!

           -HE ALWAYS MESSES WITH YOU BECAUSE IT TAKES YOU A LITTLE BIT TO TYPE OUT WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY!!! “Hey mc if you want the last piece of pizza say my name. no? okay cool im eating it” SAEYOUNG YOU DIDN’T GIVE ME ENOUGH TIME TO TYPE MY ANSWER

*V:

           -He’s okay with it, he likes the atmosphere to be soft and quiet anyway

           -So he’ll be completely okay with you not talking

           -That and he’s okay with staying away from large, loud crowds

           -He buys any notebook that he finds cute for you

           -Because that’s how you talk to him! You may not vocally speak, but you can definitely write down what you want to say

           -Loves it!! A persons handwriting can say a lot about them

           -So what he can’t hear in your voice, he can deduct from your handwriting!!

           -He likes to leave little notes in your notebook for you to stumble upon

           -When you come home from a stressful event, and see’s you upset and aggravated, he feels terrible! But tries everything he can to calm you down

           -Makes you some tea, gives you space if you need it, and will hold you close when you let him. You don’t need the notebook, because he does all the talking at times like this, all the sweetest, comforting words he can say will be said

*SAERAN:

           -He didn’t talk for the longest time, so he understood that you didn’t either

           -After a while, he was actually extremely clingy to you

           -Which means he studied every little thing about you

           -You didn’t need to talk, he could read your body language

           -Sometimes it was almost as if he could read your mind (which was great because then you didn’t have to worry about telling him)

           -Otherwise, you taught him a little sign language

           -He prefers just reading your lips though, it’s easier

           - that and he just likes staring at your lips

           - literally has to hold himself back from kissing you while you’re talking sometimes what a lil cutie

           -“I don’t like that tone of body language, MC, walk out of the room and walk back in”

fuegomellark  asked:

(this doesnt let me go on anon) but im a new resident. Im going to become a citizen this year. And i really want to understand the fundamental difference between ndp and the liberals. I always though that the liberals were more like the american left. But the more research i do, it looks like its the ndp that seems to have millennial centric policies. whats your personal opinion? Thanks btw, you're doing a wonderful job.

The NDP is more left than the Liberals are (though sometimes in campaigns they don’t convey that very well):

The Liberals are more centrist. They’ve moved to the right in recent years too. Its hard to even call them Centre-left sometimes.

I don’t trust the Liberals, nor do I endorse a lot of their policies. It is true that on some social issues they aren’t bad (feminism, LGBTQ rights, etc), but overall they’re an elitist, corporate party. Not one that represents me.

For example the Conservatives & the Liberals both supported the draconian ‘police state’, Bill C-51. The Liberals also supported the xenophobic ‘Barbaric Cultural Practices’ bill that the Conservatives presented. The NDP (and Greens) rallied against both of these bills. That’s the clearest example of how these two parties differ.

And any strengths that the Liberals have on social issues, the NDP are almost always stronger. I’ve seen way more progressive feminist, anti-poverty, and LGBTQ legislation coming from the NDP than I have from the Liberals.

Its the NDP that is pushing a $15/hour minimum wage (federally and provincially), not the Liberals. Its the NDP that is pushing a proportional representation voting system, not the Liberals. Its the NDP that is is supporting affordable daycare across Canada, not the Liberals. Its the NDP who is supporting Pharmacare (i.e. that drugs would be covered in our universal healthcare), not the Liberals.

I could go on and on.

Dating Tommy Holland might include:

Originally posted by septodragon

(( gif not mine, but damn ))

A/N: SO in tribute of the success of ‘Dating Chris Evans might include’ I decided I would also make one of a personal favourite; Tom Holland. I seriously hope you enjoy and don’t forget to send any requests you have!!

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DATING THIS MUNCHKIN MAY INCLUDE:

  • him laughing when he tries to teach you proper English table mannerisms
  • you trying really hard because you want to make him proud
  • “I guess you are too adorable to be proper, eh?”
  • if you are short: he would bring it up any chance he was given
  • because he is used to being the youngest and the shortest
  • he is pretty deviant and quite sly
  • you soon understand why Seb and Robert call him a little asshole
  • WANNABE GENTLEMAN
  • he tries so hard to open doors for you and pull out a chair and get your coat
  • he whines when you do them yourself
  • he whines in general
  • he’s a big baby and you take care of him often
  • when he is sick he will play it like he is dying so that you will take care of him
  • because he loves your cooking
  • praises it
  • he will often shower you in what you call over exaggerated compliments
  • but he calls them understatements of blatant facts
  • he can and will take any aspect about you and ramble about how much he adores it
  • but he is also the person where if you mention a flaw you see about yourself and genuinely would like to change it for the better; he will give you constructive advice and help you in anyway that he can
  • he wants you to love yourself as much as he does
  • hand holding
  • inconvenient hand holding
  • always touching in someway
  • PROTECTIVE TYPE
  • an arm around you
  • glaring
  • at any man that walks past
  • even Harrison
  • just because
  • some random on the street
  • gave you a cat call
  • he was physically ready to slice of their arm
  • and beat them with it
  • “Guysss, I’m really homesick“ :(
  • “Tom, you just went home to grab a hoodie and came back seven minutes ago?”
  • “I knowww. But (Y/n) isn’t here…”
  • because home is where the heart is
  • “She left to get some coffee. You hugged her three minutes ago– what is wrong with you?”

sivera777  asked:

Gruvia with the prompt ' After helping a lost child find their parent, Character A asks Character B if they want to have a baby' please 😀

I thought I’d surprise everyone a little bit with this one.

;Fro Thinks So Too

‘Don’t cry,’ Juvia pleaded.

‘Yeah, it’ll be all right,’ Gray comforted. ‘I’m sure he’s around here somewhere.’

Frosch wept tirelessly at their feet. ‘Fro misses Rogue.’

‘There, there.’ Juvia placed a reassuring hand on Frosch’s head. ‘Why don’t we go together?’

Frosch glanced up wistfully. It seemed Rogue’s companion was going to take some convincing. It was understandable, though. It had been an awfully long day.

Lights flickered on in Magnolia’s streets, scattering the shadows into alley ways and gutters. Gray watched them all recede into the distance as he considered where Rogue might have gone to. It was possible he and Sting were visiting the guild. After the battle with Alvarez, Fiore’s guilds were doing a better job at keeping in touch. Sting took that as an invitation to barge in unannounced. If Sting was there, Rogue wasn’t usually far behind.

‘Let’s take Frosch back to Fairy Tail,’ he suggested. ‘We contact Rogue from there.’

‘Good idea,’ Juvia agreed.

‘You wanna come with us, huh?’ Gray asked, crouching to the balls of his feet.

Juvia offered her warmest smile. ‘We’ll take good care of you until Rogue gets here, okay?’

‘Fro thinks so too,’ the little Exceed whispered.

With Frosch comfortable in Juvia’s arms, she and Gray wandered back to the guild hall. Starlight painted Magnolia’s sky, illuminating the way home when the lanterns were at their weakest. The journey seemed longer than usual – not because Frosch caused any trouble, or even because they’d ventured far from town. It just was. 

The longer they walked, the more Gray caught himself glancing in Juvia’s direction. She nursed Frosch gently and the two of them talked the majority of the way home. In fact, for the first time since coming to know her, Gray felt somewhat left out.

The guild greeted them all with expected warmth, especially when they spotted Frosch tucked away in Juvia’s arms. Lisanna took the sleeping Exceed from Juvia first and then, as the night dragged on, each took turns taking care of Frosch. It was a long night, but it was a night well worth the trouble.

The next morning, when the birds were chirping on the rooftops, Gray stirred to life on Juvia’s shoulder. Frosch lay sound asleep in her arms. Juvia, however, didn’t look to have gotten any sleep. Sitting upright, Gray fought away the encroaching blush as he roused himself awake. 

‘Good morning,’ she whispered.

Gray forced himself to look at her. ‘Sorry. I was supposed to be helping.’

To Gray’s surprise, the rest of the guild members were still there – sleeping, but there. Natsu and Lucy lay sprawled out over a nearby bench. Erza had collapsed at the bar beside Cana, where Mirajane and Lisanna were talking quietly amongst themselves. It had been a team effort, it seemed. A team effort without him.

Why had he been so tired?

‘Rogue will be here soon,’ Juvia told him.

‘That’s good,’ he said.

Juvia caressed a hand over Frosch’s head. ‘Poor Frosch. It’s lonely to be without the person you love.’

Gray’s heart skipped a beat. She was right. It was the loneliest thing there was – to be isolated from the people you cared about. Being with Juvia, though their relationship hadn’t changed much since he’d accepted her feelings, was as magical as anything he’d ever learnt from Ur. It was special. He wanted to share that feeling. To pass it on.

Leaning in, Gray brushed the backs of his fingertips along Frosch’s cheek. ‘Juvia…let’s have a baby,’ he said. 

Gray’s hands came up to his mouth. His cheeks flushed.

What did he just say?

‘G-Gray…’ Juvia’s cheeks turned a shade darker. 

‘I mean it,’ he said, before he could talk himself out of it. ‘Let’s have a baby. You’d be a great mother. And I… I would…’

‘Gray would be a wonderful father,’ she said, before he could rethink what he’d said.

Stirring in Juvia’s arms, Frosch lifted a gentle paw and brushed it lightly across Gray’s hand. Gray was touched by the sentiment, as was Juvia, who’s eyes were filled with a sudden gush of tears. 

The guild doors opened and Rogue came barrelling into the room. But Frosch didn’t move. Instead, the small Exceed sat up in Juvia’s arms, looked Gray in the eyes, and said, ‘Fro thinks so too.’

hipstercognition  asked:

I don't understand how anyone can do something that horrible to anyone, much less 8 of them. I've seen guys do stupid things, but this takes the cake as the most disrespectful and sleazy thing I've ever heard of a guy doing

8 or 9, i’ve lost track, but yeah what he’s done is gross and that’s why we wanted to make that information public. It was only 3 as far as we knew and we wanted to warn others that we thought may get affected. But we were too late. Cause some of the people we were worried about ALREADY WERE harassed by him.

anonymous asked:

hey i totally understand if this is too personal, but how and when did you find out you had ADHD? i was starting to look into it, but i wanted to hear your story, if you'd wanna share it. Thanks!

I’ll put this under a read more cause this could get potentially boring in explaining my experience with ADHD

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anonymous asked:

Hi Mr. Bean, I'm a fine arts major in my third year and I'm struggling with the fact that every teacher I have greatly prefers abstract and modern art over anything that is image or figure based. Anything that is identifiable is considered kitsch, or tacky and I'm struggling with having different artistic principles than my professors. I was wondering if you had any advice or had gone through something similar? Thanks. Your art and comments are awesome too!

Well, you are in the fine arts in the 3rd year so I assume your teachers are teaching what they believe in and know/care about.  You might be finding out you’re an illustration or animation artist instead.  School is all about finding yourself.  I found myself from finding out all the stuff I didn’t want to do during school.  I had professors I didn’t understand or didn’t agree with.  I will say this, If they are smart, listen to them.  Get as much of their knowledge on the subject they know and try to relate it back to the art you want to make.  You may understand what they meant in 4 years.  I have.  

 learn to take the guidance given and use to your advantage.  There are plenty of hogwash teachers as well so that lesson is do what you’re told, give them what they want and move on.  That’s a valuable lesson too because many jobs you’ll have are filled with people you don’t agree with.  But you do it cause it’s your job.  

SOME JOBS YOU’RE PAID TO BE YOU

SOME JOBS YOU’RE PAID TO BE THEM

You can view your assignments as in your way, or problems you need to solve.  That will help you in the long run to solve them making yourself happy with the product and satisfying their needs.  

Some people are poo poo’s when it comes to artistic principles.  Let them be the short sighted ones.  Take it all in, it will benefit you in the long run.  Nothing bad can happen from doing your best with what ya got.


Best of luck

Brett

It’s okay,’ he tells me. ‘If you want to go. Everyone wants you to stay. I want you to stay more than I’ve ever wanted anything in my life.’ His voice cracks with emotion. He stops, clears his throat, takes a breath, and continues. 'But that’s what I want and I could see why it might not be what you want. So I just wanted to tell you that I understand if you go. It’s okay if you have to leave us. It’s okay if you want to stop fighting.’

For the first time since I realized that Teddy was gone, too, I feel something unclench. I feel myself breathe. I know that Gramps can’t be that late-inning pinch hitter I’d hoped for. He won’t unplug my breathing tube or overdoes me with morphine or anything like that. But this is the first time today that anyone has acknowledged what I have lost. I know that the social worker warned Gran and Gramps not to upset me, but Gramps’s recognition, and the permission he just offered me–it feels like a gift.

Gramps doesn’t leave me. He slumps back into the chair. It’s quiet now. So quiet you can almost hear other people’s dreams. So quiet that you can almost hear me tell Gramps, 'Thank you.” 
― Gayle Forman, If I Stay

Every guy I was ever intellectually intrigued by, I always ended up wanting to sleep with. (As long as they weren’t too old or strange, we understand. Let’s be feasible.)

Even if he was not quite good looking or to my tastes.

I just wanted him.

A weird thing about myself I never have worked out.

Desires

I crave affection,
Long for a connection;
To fall asleep in loving arms,
Shielding me from worldly harm.
There isn’t all that much
I want more than gentle touch–
The light pressure of a hand
From a man who understands
That there’s no need to rush;
That though my insides melt to mush,
I still want to take it slow,
Give our feelings time to grow
And make sure this thing is real,
Bigger than just how we feel.
Because this is all new to me
And it would be all too easy
To satisfy my physical needs–
But at what cost? I must concede
First to the desires of my soul,
Exercise my self-control;
And if we truly are soulmates
He’d understand why we must wait.

soohoes  asked:

Hey i just wanted to ask a kinda touchy question. I really appreciate the fact that you ban fics on your blogs such as noncon and shotacon ect. I feel like fanfiction writers take this free speech thing too far and dont understand how damaging such things could be to peoples perceptions on sex and the unhealthy outlook certain things have! Ive always read fanfictions but im starting to feel uncomfortable with the smut ones particularly. (1)

(2) I understand writers disclaim at the beginning of a story that the stories are works of fictions but at the end of the day these are based off of real people and avalible for the public to read. I just find it kinda bad to fetishize a person, you know, wether its their stage persona or not? Its kind of violating i feel and probably very uncomfortable for someone to read their body being used a certain way to the enjoyment of a large audience.

(3) Anyways im just curious of your opinions since I respect your past ideals! Wanted to get into fanfic writing myself and im not coming for anyone just sometimes i stop myself and think i would hate for people to write about me like im a sex object in smut and get off on that in many cases!! But i dunno at the same time people would probably do it in their heads anyways. I dunno. i find romantic stories to be a different case,im touching more on the vivid sex scenes you know?

Warning: OPs blog is a porn blog, do not click if you do not want to see.

First of all I just want to say that there’s no such thing as one genre that’s better or more worthwhile than another. People are allowed to like and enjoy different things, and change their likes and dislikes as they go along in life. I hope everyone is clear on that point. Free speech is just that, you are free to write and say what you want- and others are free to tell you that you’re full of shit.

I also want to address your false equivalency you make in this ask because frankly, its full of shit and it is not what we stand for in FY!EF at all. Smut is not equal to nor does it represent shotacon or noncon. These are separate issues that exist aside from smut itself. This is why we don’t recommend them, because there is something illegal about them and at their core, morally repugnant. Are we the morality police? No, but it’s our blog and we will only post content we feel comfortable with. And we are very comfortable with smut.

Additionally, we (the fandom) have no right to judge what is “healthy” or unhealthy for another person, especially a fellow member of the fandom or for the idols that fanfic is written about. Fanfic is not a surprise to celebrities anymore, they expect it and in Korea they are trained to deal with shipping. Do you actually think ships exist by mistake? They are a marketing ploy to sell more albums and bring in more fans. Fanfic, at least in the US legal system does not rise to the level of being libel or defamation. Legally, it is a grey area and will likely continue to be so indefinitely. 

Idols don’t have to read fanfic about themselves if they don’t want to, we are not forcing it upon them (unless you’re one of those people who posts HUNHAN FOREVER on Sehun’s instagram…then you’ve gone too far.)

Next! I want to address what I see as the underlying issue in your ask, because at the end of the day its not about smut vs romance, its about the fetishization of gay men (and all queer relationships) by a largely cis population of women. For the purpose my argument I’m going to focus on gay men. 

Warning: Admin Aeryn is going to swear a lot.

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Confession #1,993

i’m scared that i’ll be alone forever because of my disability. i know that’s not all there is to life but it’s hard watching other people get into relationships so easily. i distance myself and i know that’s my fault but i’m just afraid. that i’m too much for another person to handle. that when they see what my disability is really like every second of every day that they’ll realize what they got themselves into and run. that they’ll get tired of me being so needy and insecure because of it so they won’t want to help anymore. that no one will ever at least try to understand and want to be with me anyway. i’m not a bad person and i’m not unattractive and i know that but it would be nice for someone to notice me for once. to be cared for and cared about in that way for once. to not be defined by others by what’s “wrong” for once. if someone got to know me they’d see how wrong they are but no one’s wanted to and it makes me so lonely and afraid.

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I love her compassion and understanding for what he needs right here. 

How tightly she holds onto him. How she knows he doesn’t want to give in too weakness but he also needs to allow just for a moment and how despite knowing how deeply he does feel about things, when he insists all he needs is for everyone to just carry on, she nods and accepts it and lets him go. 

Special break + some news

- I finished the gift for my Best friend (on internet)’s birthday and now, back to work. BUT!!! I wanna take a break ONLY FOR FANDOM STUFFS. That doesn’t mean I don’t like Kaeloo or UT or Jack anymore, it’s just… I miss my own stuffs. It’s been a while I didn’t write my stories, draw my characters or work on them… And I want to get back to it, just for a week or two.
So if you’re following just for arts about a special fandom, well, sorry. They will come back soon.
Thanks for understanding!

- KAELOO’S GAME WILL BE OUT ON GOOGLE PLAY AND PLAY STORE JANUARY THE 26TH!!! I’M SO FREAKING EXCITED!!!! (I hope it’s in English too :3!!!)

- Just for let you know now, on June until July, I won’t be online AT ALL. We will go in another country for three weeks and I don’t think there will be WiFi. So yeah… Three weeks without internet. I’ll miss a lot 0.0!!! (And I’ll miss you :“(…)

- And finally, more important!!! How are you today :3? Hope you’re having a nice day! (Or had)

anonymous asked:

hello, can you do a reaction of tae, jimin and yoongi to their crush or girlfriend is a really good drawer, they discover it when they find her drawing book. but she never talk about it. thank you sorry for my english. ♡

( you don’t need to apologize at all!! English is actually not my first language too, so i completely understand. thank you for requesting!! ~.

TAEHYUNG; i feel like he would be in awe, completely shocked. his jaw would dramatically drop, not believing the things that he is seeing with his own two eyes. you two usually talk about everything and anything, but now he is wondering, why you never actually brought drawing up, into a conversation. perhaps you were feeling shy about it, didn’t really want him to see. he would just be shook and bouncy.waaaaaaaaaah. you drew this? and this? this too? waaaaaaaaaaaah. just an excited puppy, basically. 

JIMIN; he literally wouldn’t stop smiling fondly at the drawings for a few minutes. his cheeks would start to hurt, probably. and you would just catch him with your book in his hands, covering your face in embarrassment. you never really wanted to show him, because you were not confident in it. plus, he is amazing at drawing. what if he wouldn’t like them at all? but, come on, it’s jimin. the sweetest sunshine. he would just look up, meeting your eyes for a brief second, then continuing to look at all of the drawings that you made. he would give you a wide smile, accompanied with a thumbs up. hmmmm. you are even better then me. “

YOONGI; he would be so fascinated with it. likewhere did you learn all of this? did you learn by your self? how long have you been drawing? why didn’t you tell me. mainly, you didn’t want to let him know because there’s a drawing, somewhere in there, of him. you would be sitting right next to him, while he would be flipping the pages, hiding your face behind his back when he found it and stopped to properly look at it. he would just laugh at how cute and shy you were being, complimenting the drawing over and over again, telling you how freaking talented you are. 

anonymous asked:

Hey Tara! I love your art, I wish I could be as good as you are :) I have a question, when drawing people, I find hard to draw realistic expressions, even though I use photographs and other drawings, but sometimes I feel really frustrated. How can I get better? I'm trying to draw everyday different faces but do you have any other tips?

Unfortunately that’s basically all you can do… I’m still struggling with it too so I switch between practicing with photographs and drawings. Cartoony drawings are useful because they exaggerate the pictures for you, so it’s a great way to get an understanding of expressions. So you’re on the right track, don’t give up ^.^ Just try to make it interesting and fun for yourself in order to keep motivated, because practicing can be tedious. If I just want to do a number of quick practice drawings I do some sketches of dance videos that I like for anatomy, and I practice expressions and face angles by drawing celebrities that I’m into. Drawing faces and poses based on random pictures of people that I don’t know can get boring really fast.