and i thought i'd never get over it

reminders for the young wlw out there
  • it’s okay to want to have sex with a girl
  • it’s also okay to be totally terrified at the thought of having sex with a girl- internalized homophobia affects all of us to a certain extent
  • it’s okay to want to make out with a girl for hours on end (seriously, it’s totally an okay thing to think about)
  • it’s okay to fantasize about girls, even in a sexual way. you are not dirty for doing this.
  • you can absolutely wear clothes that are stereotypically lesbian, such as flannels. in the same note, you can totally cut your hair short if you want. you aren’t perpetuating a stereotype, you’re embracing who you are
  • you can also completely stay away from any clothing that would signify you might be a wlw (especially if you’re in a situation where the suspicion that you’re a wlw could cause you harm)- it’s completely your choice, just don’t shame anybody that does decide to take on that style.
  • it’s okay to not immediately date a girl once you come out. take some time to figure out your feelings, it’s okay. you’ll find somebody that you want to date in your own time, or you can just decide you don’t want to ever date anybody. that’s also perfectly okay.
  • it’s okay to dream about a future with a wife
  • it’s okay to hold your girlfriend’s hand in public and be affectionate in public. it’s not gross or icky, it’s good and cute, i promise.
  • it’s okay to come out to everybody you speak to (there’s nothing wrong with you, and if people judge you, they’re the ones who are wrong), but it’s also valid to only come out to a small select group of people. both approaches are fine.
  • it’s okay to masturbate while thinking about girls. it’s okay, you’re not weird for doing this. it’s a common thing.
  • it’s okay to watch movies or tv shows with wlw, even the ones that are cliche and really cheesy. if they make you feel validated and happy, continue doing so.
  • being a wlw is not shameful
  • you are not broken
  • you aren’t somebody that needs to be “fixed”
  • your thoughts and feelings are valid
  • you are not alone
  • you are loved

At first, the people thought him gentle and kind. Powerful. The most powerful. But soon, they learned not to be wary of his magic, but of his silver tongue and the madness therein. The Mad King slipped into existence as the sun sunk below the horizon. 

Well. Two years in the making, and finally my King’s project has come to a close. Quite a ride! I enjoyed it a lot. I had thoughts to add Jeremy, so I’ll throw him up on the list in case I get an itch some day… but for now! It’s all done :) Thank you everyone!

King Michael | King Ray | King Geoff | King Gavin | King Jack | King Ryan | King Jeremy

ok but noah fence like…….bluestars prophecy literally makes me despise thunderclan because

how could tigerstar not have ended up the way he did. like goddamn that’s all of your faults for why he grew up so hateful and violent jfc

literally, right when he’s born, we see snowfur and bluefur talk about how “annoying” tigerkit is because,, hes just asking his mother to go play outside. apparently this act is particularly annoying because snowfur rolls her eyes at bluefur while tigerkit asks his mother to play.

goosefeather spends the entire book yelling and calling tigerkit a demon and ostracizes him, kicking him out of his den, calling him a monster, a child, to his face

he was given thistleclaw as a mentor, a cat who was clearly still grieving/unstable after his mates death (literally bluefur could’ve told sunstar ‘hey look he just lost snowfur, he needs time to himself’), and thistleclaws been confirmed to be part of the reason why tigerstar is as brutal as he is

like,,,,, holy fuck how could he not have grown up this way. i thought bluestars prophecy wouldve maybe shown “hey this isnt okay” and had bluestar maybe,,, i dunno have a moment where she maybe said “yeah, we failed him”

but no, thunderclan is completely justified in this

like damn i know i sound heated but thats bc i am, i dont really like child neglect and that is,,, precisely what this was. like damn thunderclan no wonder one of the worst/most hateful serial murders in the series was born in your clan. you literally neglected him and mocked him from his birth. 

flutterhunter  asked:

I can't really write right now, but how about Kim getting some REALLY dark ideas all over again of how to sabotage Tommy's chances with Trini, and her discovering she's trans after Tommy opens up with them about all the bullying and discrimination she faced? "I just... never thought I'd fit in with ANYONE, you know? It'd just be the 'Tommy Oliver Show' for the rest of my life, guest starring a whole army of exes and temporary friends... and now here I am, headbutting aliens..." (continued)

I had to post all of these at once because it’s the best thing I’ve read all week. I am in love with all of this. Also, the last part killed me.

i love drawing ame she’s so chill, she makes me chill 



In honor of all the Disney prince charmings that started this whole whump thing for me back when I was just a  kid! I’d see Aladdin drown or John Smith getting shot and I’d get butterflies in ma stomach, freakin’ butterflies! 

I honestly thought I was the most messed up corrupt human. But alas! The sun had risen and the day has come when I realized there’s a definition for this sort of thing, and a whole lovely community behind it! And now… now I can sleep at night :)

Conclusion, it’s Walt Disney’s fault…


anon said: “what if tord has a shrine to stalin”

I’d be lying if I said I think the contrary

  • Robert: I thought you hated me. I thought we were over.
  • Aaron: No. Robert, I'm so sorry. It's this place. It got to me. You don't understand what it's like. You're always on edge. You're constantly watching your back.
  • Chas: So you got off your head?
  • Aaron: It meant I didn't have to face reality. But I've stopped now. I promise. Never again. I didn't mean to take it out on you. The thought of getting out and being with you again is all that keeps me going.
  • Robert: Believe me, that's all I want. I was angry and confused. I did something stupid.
  • Aaron: Stupid like what? Come on, just get it over with and tell me.
  • Robert: The things you said...
  • Aaron: I know, but that wasn't me talking, Robert. It was the drugs. Why do you think I've stopped? I'd do anything for you.
  • Robert: I've let you down. I'm sorry.
  • Aaron: What have you done?
  • Chas: (cutting in when Robert opened his mouth) He trashed your flat. Did a right number, I can tell you. Uh, it's gonna cost a fortune to put it right.
  • Aaron: Is that the truth?
  • Chas: It is Robert we're talking about. Doesn't do things by halves. Complete carnage. And then I hear Liv's been chucked out of school and you're on drugs, so I do what I do - make him suffer.
  • Aaron: And that's it?
  • Robert: That's it. I'm sorry.
  • Chas: All you have to worry about is getting out of here.
  • Aaron: You've no idea how scared I've been.
  • Robert: Me, too.

I have some…slightly older sakakura headcanons 

  • he ends up growing his hair out a little bit?? just past his shoulders.  he wears it in a really low ponytail sometimes and munakata calls him “dashing”
  • he gets reading glasses eventually.  listen just give me this 
  • while he never fully gets over what junko did to him, he does get to the point where he can actually acknowledge that he’s been traumatized and can kind of move on from there
  • being gay is always a huge part of his identity and that never goes away, but it takes a long time before he can actually use that word to describe himself
  • he only ever comes out to the people he’s most comfortable with
  • because he never comes out completely, he and munakata keep their marriage very private and don’t usually wear their wedding rings to work.  they went and picked out very nice little boxes to keep them in during the day 
  • he and munakata aren’t really suited for children but they adopt a few birds at one point

anonymous asked:

Okay I'm pretty sure you read sidgeno fics based on your tags, so I thought I'd come to you for help. I've never read a sidgeno fic before and I kind of want to, but I'm also pretty hesitant about reading fics about real live people. Do you have any fics that you would recommend for me? Thanks!

Rec list 1, 2, and 3

And I have another ask in my inbox asking for another rec list and I will get to that as soon as I go over more fics hahaha. But yes!! Definitely start with King and Lionheart. It’s heartwarming, super sweet and domestic, and pretty much drama-free. It’s an anxiety-free read and it’s just…it gives me closure okay I felt complete when I finished reading it. 

weardkd  asked:

Im currently engaged to my fiance of 3 years and well her sister is 16 as of today and I'm 21. And if always thought her sister was kinda cute since I met her when she was 13 and I had just turned 18 but now over those 3 years of lived with her and my fiance and over those 3 years of grown a more emotion feeling towards her. And yesterday she put something on I'd never thought I would ever see her in a crop top. We went over to her family's house and she wouldn't stop smiling at me. What do I do

I would say, develop a friendship with her as well and make it transparent always, so your fiancé will have no doubt….
In between test water with your fiancé’s sister… don’t lose opportunity where you can spend time with her alone…
Take it slow… you will get what you want…

Be cautious, don’t push things that will end up jeopardizing your life with fiancé…

Best of luck… update us with your progress and post any questions you have…

Followers… what are your thoughts/ suggestions… feel free to add comments below…

anonymous asked:

Because I've heard many conflicting opinions, I thought I'd ask for your advice. Is it okay to use a slow cooker on skulls at LOW temperatures? Not actually boiling the skull? And if so, what's the safest way to do it? Thanks!

I personally dislike simmering for my own cleaning methods. I’ve never had much success with it and it’s easier for me to just macerate or nature clean my specimens. You get much better-looking skulls with those methods too.

When cleaning a skull you really don’t want to get up over temps around 110-115 degrees Fahrenheit. Most slow cookers don’t go below 190 degrees on the lowest setting. They are made for cooking meat and when meat on bone is cooked, the high temps will essentially dissolve the collagen out of the bone. Now that makes for more flavorful dishes but it’s bad if you are trying to clean skulls because collagen is part of what helps give bone its strength so removing it can cause bones to become brittle and flaky. Those high temps can set grease into the bone too, making it difficult if not impossible to remove later during degreasing.

I know a lot of folks like that method because it speeds the process up a bit and cuts down on some of the mess and odor but it’s a very fine line between cleaning a skull and ruining a skull with a crockpot or slow cooker. If you have to simmer, using a pot on a stove or other heat source gives you a little more control over the temps.

Hope that helps, Anon! Best of luck!

  • Beca: (Praying out loud) Dear God, I need your guidance. I kissed a Bella.
  • Jesse: You kissed a Bella??
  • Beca: (Still praying) I never thought I'd end up with a woman, God, I mean not until lately, but that's not the problem. The problem is the Bella thing. She's perky and has a ladybug tattoo on her wrist, but she's also hot. Really hot. So, help me get over the butterflies. Amen.

“I contemplate the moment in the garden, the idea of allowing your own crucifixion.”

Rust Cohle - The Long Bright Dark