and i think it should be shared

For those people who still don’t get it, NO, I don’t share my sims and I am not going to. For those of you who think it is not nice of me because many people tell me that they want them, that they should get them just because they like them and that I am obligated to because I show them on my pics. I already share more than enough of my CC with everyone, and it still isn’t enough. But yeah, I have to just because I have to listen to every little asshat. Don’t be lazy and make your own sims guys. It’s enough.

Originally posted by moan-s

Some thoughts on Ieyasu’s Cherished in Love ES. Spoilers ahead.

So I responded to a post earlier (on the wrong blog lol) and looking back and listening to everyone else’s opinions, I want to say I downplayed the abuse present in the story. I was biased and let it cloud my judgment. 

Now that I’m conscious of that, I was able to look at the ES from a more objective standpoint and I agree that:

  • There is an undeniable power imbalance.
  • There is a lot of unwarranted and over excessive name-calling and threats from Ieyasu.
  • There is verbal and emotional abuse.

I don’t want the discussion to end there though. I think we should take the time to look at this more holistically.

A lot of people have expressed disappointment on how his character behaves throughout this ES. I share the same feelings on the subject, but I want to point out a few things about recovery, seeing that Ieyasu is an abuse survivor himself.

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If you’ve ever read the play Fat Pig, you know it’s about a straight sized man who gets into a relationship with a fat woman and then can’t deal with the abuse and pressure from his friends to break up with her. In the end, she is left heartbroken, knowing that the relationship is over because of her weight. No, I don’t think a man should be celebrated for being attracted to a conventionally attractive woman but I can’t deny that it doesn’t exactly feel good to see everyone sharing jokes like the reality I’ve experienced is a punch-line.

Straight sized feminists (especially men who identify as feminists) who are enjoying dunking on this dude? Check the splash damage. I get that the joke is supposed to be that it would be ridiculous to celebrate a man for loving a woman but for those of us who actually are 300lbs, and who actually have had boyfriends who have been ashamed to be in public with us, the jokes are wearing a little thin.

Omg you guys!! Seriously thank you!!! The donations like spiked over the last day and I think I’m at a really good place now and have a nice Little nesting egg to hold onto and feel really, really comfortable with this number. I can’t believe you guys are all so nice and caring and I just can’t thank everybody enough for really helping me kind of save my ass. I think I’m actually going to take the post off my blog now because I’m in a fairly comfortable spot now with like almost 200 and should be able to make things work fairly well from here. Ugh, again seriously, thank you guys so so much for donating and sharing and doing what you can!!

A Jonerys playlist (that no one asked for part 1)

Hey y'all I thought I’d share a list of songs that remind me of our beautiful ship so here goes hope you enjoy…..

1. Broken Together by Casting Crowns (This should come as no surprise I’ve voiced before how I freaking love this song and how for me it’s the perfect song for Jon and Daenerys)

2. My Heart Will Go On by Celine Dion (I blame the Jonerys fam for this choice because I never thought that the cheesiest love song of all time would ever represent Jonerys but here I am listening to the song and thinking of Jonerys)

3. Wide Eyed by Billy Lockett (I heard this song in a Jonerys video and ever since I’ve been in love with it)

4. Wicked Game performed by Johnnyswim (Now I know wicked game has a lot of covers but my favorite goes to Johnnyswim because it’s a duet with him and his wife and it’s freaking beautiful)

5. Let It All Go by Rhodes and Birdy (This song is just beautiful and heartbreaking all at once)

anonymous asked:

I think ayato and Ken can still reconcile and solve some of their issues if they just talked it out. Both have grown and seen their fair share of shit Ken clearly trust him and Ayato is more mature now. I think Ayato needs to let out anything he has bottled up regarding the 103 bones and Ken needs to let him. Ken should understand his situation well I mean both just wanted power to protect the ones they loved.

Mod K:

I do think so too! But I also feel like somethings don’t go away. Kaneki still broken half of the bones in Ayato’s body and while I can see them both working together for Touka’s sake, I just don’t see them liking each other much in the future. I’d like Kaneki to discuss it or something, though at some point (along with other messed up things he has done in the past). Granted, what Ayato did was also incredibly wrong, he absolutely brutalized his sister and regardless of what he was trying to do, that’s still messed up.

I just want most conversations between all of these characters, sort of like touka’s conversation with Amon and Akira.

anonymous asked:

Junhui doesnt like it when other members try to take his stans away from him. But in return, he takes the stans of the other members. Smh hui hui. Dont worry Joshua. Im Jun-Bias-Wrecking-Proof :)

Jun: Hey. It’s okay if I do it to others. But not if they do it to me. My stans are mine. You should really think about swerving into my lane though anon //wink//. I will take care of you~

Joshua: //smiles// Its okay if you would bias Jun, anon. As long as youre happy, I don’t mind. Plus Jun is pretty cool ~

Jun: //shook because of Joshua’s answer//
Aigoo Shua hyung. Fine, I wont steal Shua hyung’s stans anymore.

Svt except Joshua: WHAT ABOUT US!?

Jun: Sharing is caring guys.

Svt: //is done//

Originally posted by junhoontrash

anonymous asked:

I just looked at BTF job reviews and some of them were pretty bad. Heres one of them: "Terrible Job, Long hours no overtime pay, often no lunch provided or time for breaks. Lots of Travel, but no time to enjoy it. Hired in one department actually working for 3 departments. Hiring Tactics are bizarre, picking up people with no experience and others with experience in different departments than the one they were assigned"

My thoughts on reviews esp job reviews are that you mostly always get the two ends of the spectrum. You get the people that LOVED it and have to give a raving review and you get the people that hated it and had an awful experience and who feel compelled to share that. You never really get the kinda middle ground experience that most people have. Cuz those people don’t really feel compelled either way to do a review unless prompted. So I think reviews on extreme ends should be taken with a grain of salt and their is likely 2 sides to every job review.

17 August 2017

11:50 PM

I’m out of those sleepless nights thinking if you still love me or not. Got through those blame-games on the excuses you’ve made and all the selfish thoughts that my mind played. Done with the hopes that we could go back to how our love started. I’m so through it all. Maybe you’re still not whole as person, making you not enough even for yourself, yet tried filling your cracks with my love, but you thought me as drug, a poison. You deserve to be loved as much as I do, and maybe that’s why we didn’t work out. Maybe you refused everyone’s love which is offered to you because you think you can never share yourself to anyone. Being selfish is not bad, sometimes, but darling you should know that love always comes back to the one who gives it. So I hope for your healing, I love you, but it’s over.

Hello children and welcome to political things that I think you should be informed on but NO ONE ever talks about. If you do not want to listen scroll on.

In our country the Asain force, we have been told to focus on is North Korea. However the rest of Asia are having difficulties and the one nobody mentions is the current warnings of war hanging over our heads.

Welcome to the topic on China vs India. The two of them share a boxer on the Himalayas and on this border is where this has all started. Currently from what I could gather, China has been acting expansionist for a while now, and the two of them have been fighting for years and their attitudes and approach to the situation (from both sides) has been small standoff and increased guard patrol.

https://www.cnbc.com/2017/08/16/china-vs-india-border-confrontation-in-the-himalayas-gets-serious.html

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-china-india-border-idUSKBN1AJ1TP

https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/asia_pacific/china-and-india-locked-in-tense-military-standoff-at-border/2017/08/16/30e7bb42-810c-11e7-9e7a-20fa8d7a0db6_story.html?utm_term=.e6798cc32043

((I sorry there isn’t much coverage on this for some reason and I tried to be unbaised))

So I jist wanna get this out there..

The fact my weight has barely budged from 220 since I lost that initial 20 lbs over thr last few years it makes me feel like maybe I should just fat.

Maybe this is thr lifestyle my body is comfortable with.

But im not. I want to be thinner, I want to feel better. But honestly I don’t feel. Sick or anything so I think maybe I just am not motivated.

And sometimes I feel my reasons for losing weight I vain. I want to fit into “regular” sized clothes. I want to share items with my cousins and be able to find something my size in any store. I want my chest to be small. So I can go braless. I hate bras. I wanna look my best for my boyfriend and I’m tired of being the fat girl in all my friends photos. I’m tired of people telling me I look good only bc Im losing weight, and not because I’m just looking good that day.

anonymous asked:

I was kinda reading through your modern au because it’s Incredible, and I started thinking. If Jon’s very pretentious about his food tastes, could you imagine that’s how ‘Lord Snow’ got started? Instead of being arrogant about his abilities?🍎

Maybe a school trip or whatever and 13yo Jon refuses to touch the grilled cheese handed out (‘Robb it’s so greasy I still can’t get my hands clean how are you eating it’) and he wasn’t exactly obnoxious about it, but it drew attention. Chaperone Thorne asks if with his father’s fancy restaurant he thinks he’s too good for what everyone else eats, “because you’re descended from nobility, aren’t you, Lord Snow?” “…I just don’t want to eat it.” The nickname sticks, and at first it’s a way for friends to tease about his packed lunches, but when he starts sharing his own cooking it rapidly turns into a compliment. “You should open your own brand. Lord Snow’s pasta.” “That will never ever happen but thank you, Grenn.” The Starks are mostly amused by this nickname, but when Rhaegar finds out he’s so impressed that Jon has to put in a lot of effort convincing him not to name a menu item after it. (“ ’Jon’ would be embarrassing enough you /cannot/ use the words Lord Snow”)

OMG ANON YOU ENTIRELY GOT THE VIBE OF THAT AU I 100% SUBSCRIBE TO THIS I LOVE IT <3 also I can feel jon on not wanting to touch grilled cheese ew it’s the worst thing in existence DDDD: also hahaha omg grenn going like that is perfect tbj XDDDDD also ROTFL RHAEGAR TOTALLY MAKES A COCKTAIL NAMED LORD SNOW and jon’s just like ‘……… FINE but what the fuck’ XDDDDDDD

I think there’s a perception that the male gaze is necessarily sexual and that’s imo out of line w its original theoretical basis and with reality. I think the presence of gay men as cultural and aesthetic curators who decide what is artistically beautiful and worthy of praise in womanhood is an expression of misogyny that comes from basically the same place as ‘she should have big tits because that makes me hard’; the same entitlement/ almost ‘authorship’ of women’s bodies is imo reflected in the accounts women share of sexual assault by gay men, basically being treated as a mannequin or toy, a dress up doll

I think gay men exempting ourselves from the male gaze reflects misunderstanding of what the male gaze is; to my understanding, a pervading cultural norm which says that women literally are as men see them, and which asserts that women 1) do not have independent perspective & 2) should be subject to the constant observation and judgement of men

I think gay men get so defensive about this bc we have gotten really used to thinking of ourselves as exempt from anything but vestigial misogyny bc we’re not on the heterosexual chessboard or because we’re ~soft men and the fact that this has reached the point of us downplaying our own capacity for sexual assault, or else throwing ~fetishising slash fic~ (as though they are remotely equivalent issues) in the face of women who overwhelmingly approach us not as enemies but as ppl whose expressed first instinct would be to want to see us as brothers, is completely inexcusable

The ultimate packing list if you are going to study abroad this year

For many of us, the new school year/semester is coming very fast and very soon. For some of us, a new education year is nothing special - you just have to set the alarm clock back into ‘I have got to get up early’ mode and go to school, college, university or however you want to call it.

However, for some of us starting a new year means more. It is related to moving out of home sometimes into a new city or even into a new country. This is related to getting familiar in a new surrounding and starting a new life where you don’t know where to find the best coffee in town, how to ride the bus or how to speak the language (cheers to all langblrs out there ;) ).

For all of you who belong to the second type of people, I dedicate today’s post. Organizing all the things that are related to such a move and saying goodbye to all your loved ones needs enough energy. You should not spend your time thinking about all the items that you need to pack for the big journey. And for this reason, I provide you with the ultimate packing list if you are going to study abroad this year. If you’re missing something that you would never leave at home reblog this post and add your most important travel gadget/item!

With that being said, travel safely and pack wisely ;)

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Bathroom

  • Bath towels
  • Brush
  • Face wash
  • First-aid kit
  • Flip-flops (in case you have to share your bathroom)
  • Floss
  • Hair straightener (no hairdryer, buy it at your destination)
  • Hand towels
  • Makeup (eyeliner, mascara, foundation, blush etc.)
  • Makeup remover
  • Nail products (nail polish, clippers, file)
  • Patches
  • Pain medication
  • Razor
  • Thermometer
  • Toothbrush
  • Toothpaste
  • Travel-sized shampoo, lotion, deodorant)

Bedroom

  • Alarm clock
  • Blanket
  • Decoration (e.g. pictures of your friends and family)
  • Earplugs
  • Favorite pillow
  • Mattress pad
  • Pillowcases
  • Sleeping mask

Electronics

  • All of your chargers
  • Batteries
  • Calculator
  • Extension leads
  • Headphones
  • Laptop
  • Smartphone
  • USB stick

Kitchen (buy this stuff at your destination)

  • Favorite candy from home
  • Kitchen scale

Misc

  • Bujo or a traveller’s journal
  • Driver’s licence
  • Extra bags
  • Financial aid information
  • Important addresses
  • Luggage tags with your contact details
  • Medical insurance card
  • Passport
  • Passport photos
  • Travel details & confirmation
  • Travel tickets
  • Visa
  • Water bottle
  • Wallet (Cash, coins and credit card)

Outdoor

  • Coat
  • Gloves
  • Hat
  • Jacket
  • Scarf
  • Sunglasses
  • Sun protection
  • Umbrella
  • Water-resistant boots
  • Water-resistant jacket

Wardrobe

  • Accessories (few, please!)
  • Bottoms
  • Blazer
  • Dress
  • Hoodie
  • Jeans
  • Pajamas
  • Shoes
  • Skirt
  • Socks
  • Sportswear and athletic shoes
  • Sweaters
  • Sweat pants
  • Tops
  • Undergarments

Extra tips

  • Before you overload all of your bags contact your university and try to find out which of the items they will provide. Perhaps there is something like a starter kit they offer so you do not have to carry bulky bed or kitchen items with you.
  • Take only your favorite clothes with you. But there is this fancy dress that you own that one day could look so cool? Leave it at home. You won’t wear it. Period.
  • Don’t take things with you that can be easily bought after your arrival. This includes hair dryers, kettles, flat irons, big bags, stationery, kitchen items etc.
  • In case you want to travel with additional luggage ask your airline before your departure date regarding their conditions. There are airlines that offer an online check-in for your additional luggage or a pre registration. If you take advantage of such offers you can save a few coins.
  • Don’t forget to make a (digital) copy of your most important documents and cards!
Stop giving excuses in stealing & reposting someone’s work

It’s NOT OKAY to repost someone else’s work without permission regardless of whether you credit the author or not.

There is just no excuse, unless if the original creator permits you to. 

If you’re going to credit the original creator, you should share the original post by permalink and link it back to the actual post.

If you know someone has reposted another person’s work, help report them. Don’t let them think that they can repost other people’s stuff and still gain credit for it.

If you find someone’s work from another site and you like their work? Reblog it. Share it. Not repost. And if you can’t find the source to the original creator? Don’t even repost at all.

“B-b-but…. I found it on another site and there was no source” No.

“B-b-but…. I credited you” No.

“B-b-but…. I posted them because I like them.” No.

“B-b-but….” NO means NO. :)))))))