and i really can't even explain why

Okay but can we briefly discuss how in complete awe Lexa was of Clarke? Here’s a girl who’s gone through so much and done so much for her people and here comes this girl who literally fell out of the sky. Who kills hundreds of her warriors and dares to sass thr great commander and she literally looks at her like she puts the stars in the sky. I don’t know what upsets me more how much Lexa loved and appreciated Clarke or that Clarke doesn’t have that kind of pure love and total support anymore.

Okay so here’s my theory. Mikael and Even were best friends, just best friends, nothing more. But what if Yousef and Even hooked up? During his manic episode where he memorized the Qur'an he also messed around with Yousef (which would explain a bit more why Sonja was so “He doesn’t love you he’s just manic!!!” at Isak). It didn’t mean anything to Even and was just a bit of fun or “an experiment” or whatever, but Yousef developed some feelings. Even if it wasn’t love, it could have been what made him realize/accept that he was also attracted to boys, which is incredibly significant and would have been really hurtful to have Even brush off. Maybe Even even wrote something unkind on Yousef’s Facebook wall (part of why Even no longer has social media) which resulted in all of their friends supporting Yousef and essentially turning their backs on Even.
[ETA I’ve just had another idea!! Maybe it was the opposite- maybe they had hooked up and Yousef wanted to keep it quiet because he was still figuring things/himself out, but while Even was manic, like the Cherry Wine texts to Isak, he posted a romantic screed on Yousef’s Facebook, not only outing him but (in Yousef’s mind) humiliating him, again resulting in their friends being angry at Even and supporting Yousef.]
Though Yousef no longer has feelings for Even (and clearly has a big fat crush on Sana), the hurt Even caused him still resonates.

Sometimes I just want to go back in time and pat my 16 year old self on the head and tell her she’s going to be alright. You’ll find people who love and care about you. Everything about those four years will be shitty. It gets worse and worse every year. But after you leave, even with low spirits and a heavy heart, you’ll be happy again real soon.

anonymous asked:

So what's your excuse for Freddie saying "dada" in Tammi's snap when she was showing Brett?

I’m going to publish this, anon, so that - and this is absolutely happening!!!!!! – when Louis totally denies that he ever had a child because he’s never touched a pussy that wasn’t a cat and he testifies in fake court that he didn’t have anything to do with the felonious birth certificate that he signed for the County of Ventura that said he was Freddie’s father that he didn’t take to the authorities then and there rather than do anything illegal because bad people with more money than his $25M net worth can do anything and nobody can ever stop them and that’s why we hear about the things they get away with in the news - because obviously they weren’t brought to trial - and the public completely accepts this because he’s finally able to suitably perform his relationship with Harry for them - this is crucial because the public has to be in love with their love and this is what prompts them to forgive Louis for using his 12 year old sisters to deny larrie and receive hate from the people who claim to be his fans -

I’m publishing this so that when the media comes to tumblr to unlock the mysteries of how Louis revealed the truth to his superfans over the course of 19 months with secondary colors and the print on his t-shirts, and the rogue but degenerate Clark family kept repeatedly posting snapchats that outed them, the media can look at this anon ask and say, “yes, this was the anon that cracked it open, in retrospect. This is where and why the investigative case started. Not with the accusations of incest or child abuse or coke use while responsible for the care of a child, or the birth certificate of a baby girl Clark born in November or December, the foster care facility baby farm, or the fact that multiple women have been accused of sexually assaulting Louis Tomlinson, or the vandalism of his late mother’s obituary. The case lay as though on the edge of a knife’s blade, and that edge was when tumblr user @emphaticlouie failed to adequately explain for that anon why baby girl Sydney/Skylar who answers to Freddie said what sounded like “dada” in the background of her REAL ABUSIVE MOM OF VENTURA COUNTY’s snapchat. In fact, she didn’t even try.”

I’ll bookmark this for you, anon. Let me know your name for full credit when TMZ comes for your story.

anonymous asked:

My brother is brain damaged and blind. He's not autistic but doctors thought he was for half his life. Well now he's an adult, if someone touches him or grabs him he'll bite them or attack them. Why? because when he was little teachers, doctors would fucking grab him and force him to do things. It scared him and traumatized him. I try to explain, you can't just grab him it scares him, but they don't care . Stay vocal about it, seriously. Your daughter doesn't deserve that.

Thank you, you know I always hear about autistic people becoming really “violent” by biting or hitting and I’ve ALWAYS believed it was because their “NO” was never respected (even a non verbal NO is obvious). Tbh I would kick, bite, hit, if I was physically forced to do things and my no wasn’t respected. Anyone would. I’m mad disabled/autistic people aren’t given the same respect when they say no or stop and I’ll always be mad.

anonymous asked:

im sorry but isnt a QPR just,,,being best friends??

Nope! This is a pretty common misconception, but it really really isn’t the same as being best friends.

Let me try and explain the only way I really can: personally. I’m an aroflux asexual. That means I never feel sexual attraction and I rarely feel romantic attraction.

I’m also in a relationship. Can I call it a relationship? Yes. Can I call her my girlfriend? No, because that implies a heck of a lot of stuff that I’m grossed out by and is also just not accurate. I’m never going to have sex. I’m never going to kiss. I like holding hands and going on dates and doing cute romantic stuff some of the time but there are times when all I want to do is curl up on the sofa with her. Even the label romantic makes me go a bit… ick, sometimes. People see us holding hands in the street and they’re assuming things that I do not like.

So she isn’t my girlfriend. Is she my best friend then? Well… no. I wouldn’t be planning my life around my best friend. I wouldn’t finally feel safe and wanted and this happy because of my best friend. I wouldn’t finally feel secure about the future because of my best friend. I wouldn’t get butterflies every time my best friend called me. I wouldn’t have my life flipped completely upside down because of my best friend. I wouldn’t feel like my best friend’s home is more comfortable than my own home. I wouldn’t feel so completely overwhelmed by feelings just because my best friend exists.

(Best friends are really really important, it’s just… this is different. I have multiple best friends, all very very important to me, but none of them are her).

So who is she?

She is my person. She is my everything. She is my QPP. She is the most important. She is my favourite.

That’s why she’s so, so different to being my best friend.

  • Natsu: >.> Sooo... explain to me again why I can't date Juvia.
  • Juvia: Juvia would like to know as well. >.>
  • Erza: Because it messes up the whole chart, don't you see?! -_-* Juvia is smitten with Gray, who is obviously just playing hard to get. Then you have Lucy, who is CRAZY for you, Natsu! You're best friends, so you'll have a really good relationship when you come to grips with your feelings for her. *nods sagely*
  • Natsu: ... Erza, don't take it the wrong way, but that chart is crap. I don't even know where half the pairings on there come from. >.>
  • Juvia: And you're clearly leaving some things out... like Lyon's infatuation with me (where did he suddenly pick up an interest in Meldy, anyway?), Loke-san's flirtatious attitude with Lucy, Ichiya-san's obsession with you...
  • Erza: Don't even GO there. >.> Look, this is the final product, alright? Yes, all those people MIGHT have complicated the chart in the past, but everything's settled now, and we are ALL. HAPPY.
  • Natsu: Yeah, I'm happy with Juvia. >.> Look, Erza, you can't just go choosin' who's gonna be paired up with who. I don't like ya lockin' lips with Blueberry, but you don't see me whippin' up some weird-ass chart to break you two up.
  • Erza: o.o Wh-What?
  • Juvia: Juvia will always be grateful to Gray-sama for showing her the beauty of a cloudless sky, but Juvia has moved on because Gray-sama will not give Juvia the time of day. But Natsu-sama gives Juvia... everything... @.@
  • Natsu: And you'll always be important to me, Erza, but I can't take bein' in the friendzone anymore. So go on 'n keep your Blueberry, and I'll keep mine. Fair? ^__^
  • Erza: But... But... But...
  • Natsu: C'mon, Ju! Let's go have some... fun... ^_____^
  • Juvia: Punishment Game?! *__*
  • Natsu: Eh, why not? You been a bad girl, Ju-chan?
  • Juvia: *pout* Very, very bad, Natsu-sama. Juvia must be punished. Punish Juvia 'til she cums...? *puppy dog eyes*
  • Natsu: *wraps an arm around her shoulders* Alright, alright... C'mon, you naughty girl... ^__^ *leads her away from the redhead*
  • Juvia: ^__^
  • Erza: *watches the two leave with a wounded look; sniffles*
  • Jellal: *shuffles up to her guiltily* Erza...? I need... comfort...
  • Erza: -_- Of course. What did you do this time...?
  • Jellal: I... I stepped on a tadpole...
  • Erza: ...
  • Jellal: It... It wiggled under my foot, and I killed it...! Oh, why?!
  • Erza: ... **What have I done...? Natsu, come back!!!** T_T
Eren's Blessing Part 1
  • Jean: So... Eren, you know that Armin and I have been together for a while now-
  • Eren: Wait, what? This is news to me.
  • Jean: -and I've been thinking, since we're both really happy-
  • Eren: I didn't even know you were gay! I mean, honestly, that explains a LOT about Marco, but-
  • Jean: -I'm going to ask Armin to marry me.
  • Eren: WHAT?!
  • Jean: And I know your opinion means a lot to him, and since I can't ask his parents, I think having your blessing would mean a lot to him.
  • Eren: You... YOU want my blessing? To propose to my best friend?
  • Jean:
  • Jean: Yes.
  • Eren: No.
  • Jean: Why not?
  • Eren: It's just wrong. It's not normal.
  • Jean: Are you fucking kidding me? You're a homophobe, Eren? I don't even know why I'm surprised, you little shit, I guess I just thought that you'd be supportive of Armin, I mean he's your best friend-
  • Eren: NO. No, no, no. You've got it all wrong. I'm not homophobic at all. I'm actually... kind of going on a date with Captain Levi tomorrow-
  • Jean: Wait, what the fuck? And if you're not then what did you mean?
  • Eren: I meant that BESTIALITY is wrong.
  • Jean:
  • Eren: Get it?
  • Jean:
  • Eren: Because you're a horse?
  • Jean:
  • Eren: BESTIALITY! You know, humans being with animals. Although, technically Armin isn't human, but still- hey wait, Jean, where are you going?!
  • Eren:
  • Eren:
  • Jean: *from far away* I'M DONE WITH THIS SHIT!
  • Part 2:
  • What my parents say: You really need to learn how to work with the men in your field.
  • What they think they mean: You're too aggressive and need to tone it down. Your workplace will be filled with men who won't let you push them around like you do with your fellow women.
  • What they actually mean: Your workplace will be filled with men who have been told since college that every idea that pops into their mind is solid gold, while your female peers have been encouraged to accept all (not necessarily constructive) criticism. As a result, you need to avoid bruising these men's egos by carefully manipulating them into thinking your ideas are theirs while still taking credit for your work and moving up the ladder. Or marry rich. Good luck.

“ so, this guy left this super nice pair of boxer-briefs at my place the other night. like, really  fuckin’ nice. and not like i don’t have the money to get a pair of my own, but hey, throw ‘em in the washer and you’ve got a pair of free undies! but like, seriously, i can’t even explain how many articles of clothing i’ve gotten from rich new york men. fuck, i love what i do. ” 

  • Me: *starts watching the Buffy the Vampire Slayer* heh, this looks like a fun, campy, wacky show to amuse myself with :3
  • Buffy: Giles, I'm sixteen years old...I don't want to die.
  • Giles: to forgive is an act of compassion, Buffy. It's not done because they deserve it. It's done because they need it.
  • Drusilla: I don't want to be an evil thing. I want to be good. I want to be pure.
  • Buffy: close your eyes...
  • Willow: Oz? Don't you love me?
  • Oz: All my life...I've never loved anything else.
  • Anya: I don't understand how this all happens. How we go through this. I mean, I knew her, and then she's, there's just a body, and I don't understand why she just can't get back in it and not be dead anymore! It's stupid! It's mortal and stupid! And, and Xander's crying and not talking, and, and I was having fruit punch, and I thought, well Joyce will never have any more fruit punch, ever, and she'll never have eggs, or yawn or brush her hair, not ever, and no one will explain to me why.
  • Buffy: I have to do these things, 'cause, 'cause when I stop... then she's really gone. And I'm trying, Dawn, I am really trying to take care of things. But I don't even know what I'm doing! Mom always knew.
  • Glorificus: Cause I look around at this world you're so eager to be a part of, and all I see is six-billion lunatics looking for the fastest ride out. Who's not crazy? Look around. Everyone's drinking, smoking, shooting up, shooting each other, or just plain screwing their brains out 'cause they don't want 'em anymore. I'm crazy? Honey, I'm the original one-eyed chicklet in the kingdom of the blind. 'Cause at least I admit the world makes me nuts.
  • Buffy: The hardest thing in this world is to live in it. Be brave. Live. For me.
  • Spike: But I want you to know I did save you. Not when it counted, of course, but after that. Every night after that. I'd see it all again, and do something different. Faster, or more clever, you know? Dozens of times, lots of different ways. Every night, I save you.
  • Buffy: It's wrong. I'm wrong. Please, tell me that I'm wrong! ...Please don't forgive me... God, please don't forgive me...
  • Tara: Your shirt...
  • Buffy: Are you ready to be strong?

anonymous asked:

I think when the ending just came out, Kishi is still favor Hinata. But then he realize people hate Hinata and he probably start to hate her too because she is the main reason why the ending received so much negative response. Otherwise I can't really explain why Hinata look so ugly in the spinoff Kishi drew. He didn't even bother to make her look good. In Boruto movie she is still useless and reckless, she left her daughter to help Naruto, end up defeated and waste someone's chakra to heal her.

He never liked Hinata, he already said he didn’t understand why Hinata was popular cos she did nothing just like Sakura. It’s not important anyway cos he simply didn’t enjoy his female characters, not just Hinata. He’s more polite about Hinata’s character in the interviews right after the ending cos he thought she’s popular in the fanbase. After he realised she’s hated once the Last came out, he started throwing her under bus, he came to think people only liked her cos her tits are big. 

The script of the Burrito movie was written before the ending, it’s not influenced by people’s reaction to the ending at all. And the writing is very consistent with how Kishi always wrote her. She’s irrelevant and she cared nothing but naruto, be it her cousin, sister, or her own daughter, they don’t matter to her. That’s how Kishi always saw her. 

SP is the one who tried to make Hinata look good, not Kishimoto. Did Kishi draw her interact with naruto in the last 2 chapters? no. Did Kishi draw her interact with naruto in gaiden? no. Was Hinata relevant in the Burrito movie? no. Does the Burrito movie have lots of sns baits? yes. cos they’re written by kishimoto.


My #promproposal 😍😍🙈🌹💖🎳
My cards say this:

Hey, Princess! Welcome to your scavenger hunt! Each clue will lead you to the next. Your FIRST CLUE is…This is where we go to be with just each other, watch movies, & CUDDLE!❤️

YAAAY! You found it! Now, this is where we go to pig out now that you’ve gotten comfortable enough to eat in front of me.❤️

Even though you always cheat by stealing Yoshi, slipping on bananas isn’t the only way I’ve fallen for you.❤️

Now time for the real drive! Even though this is a little beaten up, it’s what took us on our first adventures together!❤️

Good job! Even though Black Friday is hectic, you’re the only one I saw in the entire store.❤️

Good job, Sweetheart. Gosh, I knew my friends would love you. I really rolled a strike with you!❤️

…I can’t explain how much I loved this and that you mean the world to me💖 Thank you so much Baby girl. I couldn’t have asked for anything better🙈😍😘

anonymous asked:


haha I’m so glad you like it! Hockey au’s & makorra broship give me big feels too. Thanks for making my day, anon! :)

I saw a post that “confirms that Naruto liked Sakura because of his rivalry with Sasuke” and I would like to present my views on this.

Naruto introduced to us Sakura,the girl that he likes.Naruto wants her to notice him and reciprocate his feelings,for as he wonders if she would like to sit next to him.What’s the problem though? Sasuke. He’s hostile towards Sasuke because Sakura likes him. He’s jealous because the girl he likes,is interested in another guy.

In these cases,people start wondering what is it that they don’t have,so that the person they like don’t like them back.It is typical for a person who has feelings for another to think and act like that.

He only wants to be with Sakura.If he really did all this because of rivalry,he would want Sasuke in the same team so that he can shove it into his face. But shove what? He knows that there isn’t even a competition because Sakura is interested in Sasuke.He wants to be acknowledged by Sakura,hence my next point that I would like to focus.

That post I saw said that these images show what Naruto’s “true motive” was.Loving Sakura to rival Sasuke. This is not how I see things though.

What striked Naruto’s mind the most,was the part about acknowledgement.Naruto always wanted to be respected and acknowledged by the village members. Seeing the girl he likes wanting the same thing he craves,even if it’s kind of different, makes him sympathize with her and form stronger feelings. Her being determined about that,makes Naruto understand her better thus noticing why he likes her.

I focused on these parts of the manga as to counter the arguments I saw on that post. What I want to say is,these manga parts do not “confirm” that Naruto liked Sakura because of his rivalry with Sasuke,but Naruto knowing a part of Sakura that makes him sympathize with her and make him understand why he likes her. He is jealous of Sasuke because Sakura likes him. If it were something else, Naruto would never prioritize Sakura’s feelings but instead dismiss them and do actions that would make Sasuke jealous (Sasuke doesn’t even like Sakura,why would he do that)

miguelisbetterthenerica  asked:

Hi! I have a quick question. So me and a white friend were talking about racism in the U.S. Which led up to the N word, and I recognize that it has racist connotations. My friend said that he doesn't understand why white people cant say it. I said that only black people can say that, I'm a poc but that still doesn't let mean I can say it. So I wasn't able to fully explain why we can't say the N word. How would you try to explain to a white person why they can't say the N word.

I’ll keep this very simple. The reason why no one can say “the n-word” except Black people is because there’s literally 35+ variations of that word that basically says “nothing is worse than being even remotely associated to the Black race.” 

Oh and skip the “but we’re all Black when we really think about it” because that’s being fake deep to just justify using it.

anonymous asked:

My partner is annoyed that comic characters are being "turned gay" for greater representation and says we should just "make our own". Like...I know this line of thought is faulty but I'm having trouble articulating why? Can you help me? It's frustrating me that I can't explain myself properly.

There is no turning gay epidemic. Even characters that are canonically queer often have this factor of their personality downplayed and DEFINITELY don’t expect it to even be acknowledged in a tv or movie adaption.

He should really ask himself why it bothers him. He’s not lacking in representation. The reality is if this bothers him then gay people bother him. He wouldn’t feel the need to comment about heterosexuality, but he does about characters being gay.

He clearly has issues of homophobia that he needs to deal with.

Comics pass through the hands of many writers and go through many changes. Costumes, hair, skin, backstory our names are all up for changes. Sometimes they will even retcon past canon.

Does he take offense at every change a writer makes? If someone goes from being disabled to fully abled does he complain? Does he complain about changes in where the character is from?

I highly doubt it.

Which means he is CHOOSING to draw the line at gay. Where we draw lines comes back to who we are as a person.

And as I said, comics change writers. Do we ARE making our own, he just can’t deal that gay people have familiar names and he assumed they were straight. Because most of the time these characters are made bisexual and all that shows is that he was presuming they were straight before and is feeling haughty that he turned out to be incorrect.