and i am so happy that you exist

i just want to say that i am here for everyone that feels they had a neglectful or abusive mother as a child, or has one right now. no matter what type of abuse you went or are going through, how mild or severe it was, the circumstances or how big of an impact it has had on you; i support you. if you’re affected then it’s valid. 

so whether you see your mother today, whether you ignore the day or ignore their existence completely, i understand. however you cope and feel, i am proud. you are so much braver than you know and you’re worth more than anything that’s said or done to you. if you’re going through it now then you deserve all the love.

happy mother’s day to those of us who nurtured and healed ourselves or are in the process of doing so. love to you all.

  hey guys, just thought i’d whip together a list of some of my favourite authors most motivational   quotes. i especially love using these in bullet journal spreads. hope everyone is having a wonderful new year!            


          oscar wilde 

  “we are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars” 

  “always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much” 

  “with freedom, books, flowers and the moon, who could not be happy?” 

  “to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance” 

  “be yourself; everyone else is already taken” 

  “to live is the rarest thing in the world. most people exist, that is all” 

  “it is what you read when you don’t have to that determines what you will be when you can’t help it" 

  "you can never be overdressed or overeducated” 

  “yes: i am a dreamer. for a dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world”


          fyodor dostoyevsky

   "there is no subject so old that something new cannot be said about it" 

  “power is given only to those who dare to lower themselves and pick it up. only one thing matters, one thing; to be able to dare” 

  “happiness does not lie in happiness, but in the achievement of it” 

  “the cleverest of all, in my opinion, is the man who calls himself a fool at least once a month”

  “to live without hope is to cease to live” 


         james joyce 

  “i am tomorrow, or some future day, what i establish today. i am today what i established yesterday or some previous day” 

  “a man of genius makes no mistakes; his errors… are the portals of discovery” 

  “he found in the world without as actual what was in his world within as possible” 

  “life is the great teacher” 


         charles dickens 

  “the sun himself is weak when he first rises, and gathers strength and courage as the day gets on” 

  “there are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast”“a loving heart is the truest wisdom” 

  “i ask only to be free. the butterflies are free” 

  “we forge the chains we wear in life” 

  “an idea, like a ghost, must be spoken to a little before it will explain itself” 

  “no one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it to anyone else” 


         franz kafka 

  “start with what is right, rather than with what is acceptable” 

  “anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old” 

  “logic may indeed be unshakeable, but it cannot withstand a man who is determined to live” 

  “a book should serve as the axe for the frozen sea within us” 

  “believing in progress does not mean believing that any progress has yet been made” 

  “my ‘fear’ is my substance, and probably the best part of me” 


         ivan turgenev 

  “we sit in the mud, my friend, and reach for the stars” 

  “if we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin” 

  “time sometimes flies like a bird, and sometimes crawls like a worm, but people may be unusually happy when they do not even notice if time has gone quickly or slowly” 

  “don’t be ruled by others; to belong to oneself- the whole savour of life lies in that” 

  “we’re young, we’re not monsters, no fools: we’ll conquer happiness for ourselves” 


         george orwell 

  “happiness can exist only in finding acceptance" 

  "the essence of being human is that one does not seek perfection” 

  “freedom is the right to tell people what they do not want to hear” 


         victor hugo 

  “laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face” 

  “music expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent” 

  “curiosity is one of the forms of feminine bravery” 

  “to learn to read is to light a fire; every syllable that is spelled out is a spark” 

  “to love beauty is to see light” 

  “adversity makes men” 

  “our acts make or mar us, we are the children of our own deeds” 

  “there is nothing like a dream to create the future” 

  “all the forces in the world are not as powerful as an idea whose time has come”

  “perseverance, secret of all triumphs”

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HOSEOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HIS SMILE!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😍💕😍💕😍💕

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태어나줘서고맙다(오글ㅋㅋㅋ)
존재해줘서고맙다(오글ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ)

내동생이 너라 나는 참 행복한 누나야
그건 너도 알고 나도 알고
이세상 사람들이 다 아는것.
어쩌면 큰딸인 나보다 더 어른스럽고
더 의연하게 우리가족 챙기는 너 이기에
항상 미안하고 또 미안할뿐이야.
올해는 더 승승장구하고 더 행복했으면 좋겟다
ᴴᴬᴾᴾᵞ ᴮᴵᴿᵀᴴᴰᴬᵞ 🎂

Rough Translation:

Thank you for being born (cringe kekeke)
Thank you for existing (cringe kekekekeke)

(Because) my younger brother is you, I am a very happy sister
That, you know too, I know too
Something every person on earth knows about.
Somehow compared to me who is the eldest daughter, (you are) more matured and take care of our family more determinedly/resolutely, because of you
I am always sorry and just (nothing but) sorry again.
This year it will be great if you are more triumph and happy
ᴴᴬᴾᴾᵞ ᴮᴵᴿᵀᴴᴰᴬᵞ 🎂

i’m so happy you exist- you make the world a little more complete by being here

further shitposty saihara/momota from urs truly

Okay, please look at this pic one more time:

Ignoring the weird thigh grab, I’d like to point out that this is the only existing image we have of a happy Saihara. This weird, shippy, “we’re taking the moon” promotional art (can i call it ‘searching for the moon’? That’s cute, okay)

And just, look how angry Kaito gets when they accuse Saihara. Everyone else is generally just in disagreement, but Kaito looks pissed, almost:

He also seems to be one of the people you have to “push” for

And Saihara’s expression during the debate can totally be taken as embarrassment. He’s embarrassed that so many people are defending him.

Am I going to far? Fuck yes. Will any of this matter? Probably not. But if Oumami already has smut headcanons based on one picture, then let me have my Saimota/searching for the moon headcanons (i was gonna use momohara but it seems that tag exists, for some reason)

I watched fantastic beasts and where to find them yesterday and THERE WAS A GERMAN WIZARDING NEWSPAPER!!! Excuse me but I have to freak out! Do you know what this means? This is the first time someone mentioned the german wizarding community!!!! (Not that i didn’t believe that it exists but) This is the PROOF!!! I AM SO HAPPY!!!

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Seriously I am so disgusted. All through elementary school I was taught about how America is a melting pot of cultures and people. But we’re not, not even a little bit. I voted the way I did, because I love women, African Americans, Hispanics, Muslims, LGBT+, Disabled people, Native Americans… I love everyone. I don’t even know how I ended up this way considering the hatred that exists in the people around me. Why is it that hate always prevails? I wish there was more that I could do. I want to do more. I want to fight for my friends because I love them so much and they deserve to be happy, and to feel safe here in their home country. I don’t understand how people can continuously support discrimination, hate and violence towards other human beings. How can you not see that everyone has feelings as valid as your own? I’m so overwhelmed right now and I am so scared. We’ve fought so hard for the progress we’ve made, and it’s been too slow already. The last thing we need is to go back. 

I’m sorry for the rant. 

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A fan gave Hoseok a Sex Pistols Bearbrick, and he obviously just read the word “sex” and couldn’t stop saying “WOW WOW WOW!” I LOVE HIM.

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“For me, I’m very happy to wait, I’m very happy to potentially not work for awhile, or whatever might be the requirement in order to keep doing work that I can, throughout the process — up to this point where I am trying to talk to someone about it — feel that the story has a ring of truth or there’s a ripple effect where it touches true nature somewhere along its path. Because otherwise, it’s not the art form I love, you know what I mean? Bad film isn’t film. It’s Wonderbread. There’s no nutrients so there’s no substance, so it doesn’t exist. It’s iceberg lettuce.”

annalrk  asked:

I just wanted to thank you for existing and doing what you do! The very first time I felt truly and completely validated was watching your videos! My mother is very accepting and supportive of my gender and sexuality, but sadly I can't say she made me feel really validated as a genderfluid individual. So, I actually cry when I watch your videos! I just feel so validated, and it makes me so happy that I actually start crying! So, again, thank you for existing and doing what you do! <3

THANK YOU FOR EXISTING💛💛

I am so lucky to have you in my life. Knowing you’re out there makes me so happy💛💛💛💛💛

Do you ever feel like you are so emotionally invested over someone who doesn’t even know you existed?
You feel deeply for them to the point you feel the need to fight for them; you feel elated when they’re happy; you feel sorrowful when they’re sad.
Yeah, that’s me with Camila Cabello.

listen ok i am so happy that Symmetra is canonly autistic bc really, the only autistic representation i’ve seen are characters that aren’t conventionally attractive. not that i don’t love seeing non-conventionally attractive characters, but i feel like the amount of non-conventionally attaractive characters on the spectrum make it like all autistic people are “ugly” when that’s simply not true.

y’know, because not only does Symmetra exist, but you, autistic reader, exist and you are really pretty.

I plan to get the tattoo “be good to yourself” or “be kind to yourself” on February 16th, 2017 to celebrate two years of being clean from self harming.

For my 21st birthday in Jan I’m getting the tattoo “and here you are living despite it all” because I told myself I’d never make it through high school because i was so depressed and sad all the time. then said I’d never make it through my first yr of college because some things make me question my existence… I’m a junior in college and so happy with the life I live. I can finally say I WAS depressed and suicidal and self harming instead of I AM. Recovery is a life long journey but I’m doing well 😊

listen i just want to give a massive shout to the got7 fandom. like i have had an extremely rough year and this fandom has made everything so much easier. you guys bring me joy and genuine happiness, and honestly i am so thankful for all of you. i dont care what it is you did, if its tagging me in things or simply just existing, i am thankful for you and everything you have done for me. without the got7 fandom, i have no clue where i would be right now. you brighten my days and are the reason i wake up in the morning. within this fandom i found a family i didnt even know existed and i am so, so, so, so blessed to be an igot7. i can finally understand why the boys are so proud of us. you’re amazing, every single one of you.

there was a piece in the nyt today about how marco rubio went off on donald trump’s secretary of state nominee during his hearing & how the word on the street is that he canceled his plans to leave congress and enter the private sector solely in order to run for re-election and fuck up trump’s life. and like. when reached by e-mail about These Rumours he said, and i quote:

On most major issues you are never going to make everyone happy. So you might as well do what you truly feel is right and let the political chips fall where they may.

whom would have thought marco God Damn rubio would be going to the new york fucking times saying “i truly don’t give a single fuck about the future of my political career or appeasing the republican party i am literally solely here to ruin donald trump’s existence”