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anonymous asked:

Where can I meet Korean men online that aren't fuck boys.. I feel like I'm going to feel so secluded and inferior when I go to SK next year bc I'm chubby and short. I kinda just want to be loved ya know? *cries internally*

Ho, boy. I feel like I am going to give a pretty negative answer from quite a cynical perspective/experience. Let me preface this by saying I know people who have met their genuine long-term boyfriends through apps (and nightlife,) so I know it’s possible, but let’s all be real here and admit that it’s not p-r-o-b-a-b-l-e. Don’t be commenting on this saying like “WELL I MET MY BOYFRIEND THROUGH TINDER,” girl, okay, but like, the majority of the trash on Tinder is not boyfriend material. No one is going to recommend Tinder to find a real relationship even though it’s possible.

Honestly, the majority of meet-up/dating websites or apps are going to get you fuckboys or guys just looking for a one-time hookup. That is the reality. There are of course bound to be nice people among them (*hell, you’re there and you’re nice!), but you’re going to have to sift pretty hard.

*this is what I tell myself, hah.

The reality is that by meeting someone online or through apps, you have no other social connection to them, meaning that even though they act like an asshole, no one’s going to know about it once they block and delete you from all of their social media. It’s not like you can talk to your mutual friend about it and ruin his reputation. Clean cut. Snip snip. Ghosting is super common here, for girls and guys, to Koreans and foreigners alike.

Think about it. Why are they using the apps? They probably have a solid network of friends and acquaintances that they have known since elementary school and still contact on the regular (very common in Korea) who could introduce them to someone to date. This is generally the norm here. So why are they there?

Personally, I tend to put more trust into people who have moved to Seoul recently or just moved out of their parents’ house on their own, meaning they’re in a new city/part of town and might be genuinely looking for people to talk to and meet in their neighborhood because they are somewhat cut off from their network. For example, I dated a guy for several months who had moved into my neighborhood who was originally from Daegu and he was nice and real and genuine. But if he was born and raised in Seoul and lives with his parents, why do you think he’s on that app?

Unfortunately, as a foreigner your options of meeting genuine people are a bit limited since Korea doesn’t have a culture of talking to/asking out strangers during the daytime. You can basically meet people through apps or through nightlife. Both have negative implications in this country. If you’re a student you’re lucky because you can meet people at school or through mentor programs or clubs. Maybe then THOSE people can introduce you to their friends, and then you have a link.

Regarding your concerns over your physical appearance, shortness is not a problem (rather the opposite,) and chubbiness is relative. I see many “chubby” Korean girls with boyfriends walking down the street. There are people of all body types these days, especially in the younger generation, so I wouldn’t worry too much about that. Just realize that as a foreigner you may attract people who want to use you to practice their English, people with fetishes, or people who want to act on their stereotype of the concept of “open mindedness” and want to have an experience with a foreign girl. Stay away unless you just want random sex or to be objectified. Don’t take pictures with these guys (or any random guys who approach you) unless you want them to show you off to their friends as the foreigner they nailed.

Here is my advice—I can’t tell you not to use apps, because I use them too. But I caution you to be wary and realistic. If a guy messages you on an app, check his pictures. Do they look like fuckboy pictures? Is he posting other things that make him look like a fuckboy? Does he have FACE pictures, plural? Does he have information on his profile? Did he just make his profile? Does he have an Instagram? Is there a girl in it? Talk to him for a while before you meet up. Fuckboys will tend to lose interest after a couple of days. Use common sense.

Red flags:

  • Talking late at night/wanting to meet up at night/wanting to meet up in a non-public place/wanting to meet up right away
  • “I love foreigners/black girls/blonde girls/etc.”
  • “Do you live alone?”
  • “Can I come hang out at your place?”
  • “You must be lonely…”
  • Asking for sexy/body pictures/wanting to video chat right away
  • Making sexual comments about your body/asking you about sex/asking if you’ve ever dated or been with a Korean guy
  • Asking to contact you on something other than Kakao Talk

Again, use common sense.

Other warnings: Don’t meet random guys from Tumblr because Korean guys have somehow stumbled upon this site thinking it’s an easy way to watch and spread pornography (since porn is technically blocked here.)

On nightlife: In my opinion, more so than where I’m from, Koreans (mostly) see clubbing as a way to find someone to hook up with. Of course this depends on the person, but tell someone sort of average or “pure” that you like to go clubbing and watch their expression. I bet they’ll have made a snap judgment about you. Meeting genuine guys at clubs is not going to be common. Also, while we’re talking about clubs, are there other foreigners at the club? Has this guy tried to dance/talk to/get with all the other foreign girls too? Hmm.

Rather than clubs, you might have more luck at drinking places where “hunting” is common. It’s very normal to go with a group of friends to these places and have guys come up to you and ask you to hang out together and merge groups. You might be able to find someone in this way. Maybe foreign-style bars are similar to this too (but then you’re risking the fetish thing.)

Also, how long will you be in Korea? If it’s a short time, you may have to adjust your expectations accordingly.

Finally, here’s the apps/websites I know of that you can use to meet people for dating or otherwise: instagram, okcupid, pof, badoo, skout, ublove, meeff, 1km, amanda, Tinder, bumble, scruff, grindr, (+ Hello Talk and italki, language exchange apps, GPS capabilities)

You’ll be more likely to find people who want to DATE on sites like OkCupid than places like Tinder. Again, common sense. 

TL;DR: You basically almost can’t! There are several factors that lead to this including dating norms and how friendship works here vs. other countries. Be careful and don’t be naïve. Try more public things like Instagram.

At the age of 13/14, school was a horror for me. Every day I woke up in the middle of the night, stressed, sweating and thinking if I’ve done all homework or if I, for 100%, don’t have test tomorrow. At some point it became clear to me, that if it’ll go on, before school ends I will be a walking human disaster with anxiety and damaged health. After that kind of stress-detox I am this person in every class, that  D O E S N ‘T   G I V E   A   F U C K  while having very good grades. I do all I have to, I am more motivated than ever before, but meanwhile I have time for leisure reading, for free time activities, just because I don’t stare at the wall and stress about almost everything.  I believe some of you are in the same situation like this one I’ve been in. So here are some tips:

·      No test is worth your health (or sleep!). Actually in high school, when it was past 10pm and I didn’t do something, I just went to bed. I finished studying for tests at 10.30 pm and just casually went to bed.

·      Don’t cram in the last moment (unless you haven’t studied before) – when I’ve been studying for an exam for like few days, I had the last evening before free. It makes you more relaxed and helps to gather your thoughts faster next day.

·      Learn to laugh at yourself. Have you done a stupid mistake? That’s no problem – laugh and try to do better next time!

·      Don’t care if your teacher is mean. Like you can be mean too, but look down on them ant show how polite (AND BETTER) you are. Ignore some unpleasant remarks and make the class your territory.

·      After the exam: well, there are two ways. You can either check the answers or don’t look at them and wait for the results. As a stressed kid I chose the latter, but now I prefer to look for answers and have some chill later

·      Learn just for yourself and gather knowledge on topics you’re interested in

·      Seriously: NOTHING DEPENDS UPON THIS TEST/EXAM. Seriously. Understand it or next Halloween you won’t have to dress up, because you’ll already look like a zombie. It’s just a test. You’ve written hundreds of them before and will write the next hundreds.

Having a Black Eye and Draco Finding out Headcanon

•You trying to cover it up with make up at first (either yours or borrowed)
•It working for a few days
•Until…
•You two try to kiss and you flinch at him touching your eye
•"Y/N what- why did you flinch?“
•"Is something wrong Y/N?”
•You basically confessing
•"I am going to MURDER whoEVE R HUR t yoU!“
•"Draco, love, please don’t! For me??”
•You begging
•And giving him puppy dog eyes
•Of course he can’t resist
•So he stays quiet about it but is still pissed
•Him helping you heal up
•Staring into each other’s eyes while he patches you up a bit
•BLUSHING
•Over all just L O V E

anonymous asked:

I just wanna say I love and support everything you do forever. I made you some cupcakes you don't have to eat them but here. -blushes-

R: I’d eat them if jAKE WOULD L E T M E 
J: YOU ALREADY HAD ONE WE’RE GOING TO SHARE THESE, RICHARD-
R: SHARE MY  A S S , J A C O B-
J: MY NAME ISN’T JACOB, DICK
R: JOKES ON YOU I AM WHAT I EAT 

“The mark is… I thought it was fine. It’s been under control for years. All the demons I fought, all the rifts I closed… I don’t want to die.”

“I am not letting this thing take my wife away from me. I won’t allow it.”

Mandisa rarely shows how she feels, but she is very emotional after the Anchor flared up. Cullen makes it better.

SnK Ep 35 Thoughts

If I had decided to write this post a second earlier, all you would see would be capspam and screaming. I can’t

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F U C K

so right off the bat, as we predicted we got the beruani flashback and eren freaking out, very appreciated. I don’t.. I just.. what the hell Araki

THEY FUCKING SHOWED IT. THEY SHOWED THE

ENTIRE

MARLEY

FLASHBACK

YMIR GETTING KICKED OFF THE WALL, TITANS TRANSFORMING, WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCKKKKKKKKKK

also that transition scene “it’s unknown where Ymir’s hometown is but it’s likely it’s somewhere outside of the walls”

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME

when I saw that they showed the “King’s blood”, MARLEY SOLDIERS COMING IN WITH RIFLES (their uniforms are fucking awesome ngl) AND THE FUCKING WALL SCENE. they didn’t show the serum but the sound effect. HOW FUCKING SECRETIVE LET’S SEE WHO FIGURES THIS OUT. THE FUCKING LIGHTNING, AND YMIR RUNNING AROUND ON THE ISLAND AND APPARENTLY SHE FELL ASLEEP IN THE GROUND AND THE WARRIORS HAD A CAMPSITE WHERE SHE WAS?! MODERN TECHNOLOGY BOOOI

also

ANNIE

the fucking way her story was shown i just can’t believe this. turning back into a human, that STARRY SKY, HER LAUGH OF HAPPINESS AND JOY.

OH

AND

FUCK

MY

ENTIRE

LIFE

CALL OF SILENCE FDEOSIYGFUIGDSIDUG GEMIIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

gemie is officially the best female vocalist and singer i have ever heard in my entire fucking life. i don’t believe this… Sawano is a literal god and i am converting to sawanoism. UFCK FUCK FUCK

DID I MENTION WE GOT THE MARLEY FLASHBACK FDSAPLGHFDSIKUHFDIKUG

okay.

fuck.

i admit it

i never payed THAT much attention to Ymir

but,

THIS EPISODE WAS FUCKING AMAZING AND YMIR OMG HER CHARACTER WAS SHOWN SO GOOD AND I EXPECTED IT TO BE BAD BECAUSE OF THE SPOILERS BUT

oh and, let me say something

B A R R I C A D ES

WE FUCKING HEARD IT. THE BEGINNING (also used in ep 28) AS WELL A NEW SECTION WHICH IS THE BEST FUCKING THING I’VE HEARD IN MY LIFE, I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS HOLY SHIT

this is it. this is better than Episode 6. This is the best episode of Attack on Titan Season 2, the best episode of the entire anime as a whole and the first thing to make me cry since Levi’s smile in Chapter 69.

I’m done

the superhero landing could have been A LITTLE BETTER BUT I DON’T CARE BECAUSE BARRRICAADEOIFGHSDUIGFSDIGH

Overall Rating: 52435674328975423987654396/10

anonymous asked:

*kicks down the door* BONJOUR MY BEAUTIFUL ALLY! I am here with you today because I wanted to admit something. I used to h a t e my art. So much that I threw everything away immediately after finishing it! BUT YOU, you lovely lobster, YOU gave me so SO S O M U C H motivation and encouragement liek u can't even imagine and now even if I don't like the result, I don't throw it. I KEEP IT AND RESTART. Ally you are simply amazing. An enormous inspiration to everyone near you! THANK YOU (>^ω^<)

AAAAA ANON!!!!! YOU GO!! U MOTIVATED FAR SIGHTED CRAYFISH U!! this makes me so incredibly proud like NEVER. EVER. throw away your efforts no matter how much u hate them/whether they turn out to be crappier than what appears in your head when you can keep and LEARN your mistakes from them.

you’re allowed to have bad days and mistakes are really happy memories when you look back after coming far!! the worse they are the better you’d feel about persevering this far!! have pride in your mistakes just as much as you do with your masterpieces bc they’re the real teachers. do throwback redraws to gauge your progress. embrace your entire journey. YES.

y-you guys… words cannot express how grateful I am that @owob is shinjiham trash like I am bc…. I was like: “I literally don’t care just give me anything cute to satisfy my trash compactor heart” and they’re like…. “I got u fam”.

anyway have this amazing commission by the lovely @owob of my children play wrestling [which kills the man, i.e. me]

minako: “HAHAHAHAHA I WIN!!!!! BOW TO ME, MORTAL!!!!!”

shinji: “oh h no….. wh at do I d o???? you’re…… s o …..s t rong, minako….”

| please do not repost or reuse this art as it was commissioned by me |

anonymous asked:

Hey Cross i just read a hp fic that has Teacher Harry in it and it reminded me of your fic and just i love it (soo much) so if you don't mind can you recs some Teacher Harry fics ? Thanks :)

Sure, here are a few I’ve really enjoyed:

Hogwarts, to welcome you home  by gedsparrowhawk (FaceChanger)

“You understand, Professor,”&#157; Harry began, after a moment, “that I don’t have my N.E.W.T.s. I don’t even have my O.W.L.s. Between everything I never had a chance the first time around, and then afterwards there didn’t seem to be much point. Hermione argued for it, of course, but I was so tired of Britain. So technically, I am completely unqualified for the position.”&#157;

“Quite a way to begin an interview, Mr. Potter,” McGonagall said dryly.

Or, three years after the war, Harry Potter becomes Hogwarts’ newest Defense Against the Dark Arts professor.

A Good Teacher by Nia_River

The other children in class stared at the teacher. Then they stared at Harry, then back to the teacher, then at Harry, in a never-ending loop.

Harry found he couldn’t blame them. Everything from the bespectacled emerald eyes to the messy black hair - the resemblance between them was uncanny!

Sine Qua Non by AzarDarkstar

The best place to start is at the beginning, and Harry supposes it all began with the mysterious Professor H. J. Prewett. Years 1 through 7.

Gelosaþ in Écnesse by Batsutousai

Caught in the backlash of Voldemort’s Killing Curse, Harry is thrown through time to a world so very different from his own.

RAVENOUS  SENTENCE  STARTERS.

triggers apply below, mentions of death, cannibalism, murder, hunger, feeding/eating, blood, health, bad health.

  • Would I have stopped it had I been there? I don’t know. “  
  •   It was nothing less than pure providence that I arrived here.
  • “  I knew in that company that my days were numbered.
  • “  I’m ashamed to say that I acted in the most cowardly manner.
  • “  If you die first, I am definitely going to eat you. 
  •   The question is, if I die, what are you going to do?
  • “  What did you get the medal for?
  • “  Bon appétit… Eat or die.
  • Breakfast… lunch… and reinforcements.
  • I said no food. I didn’t say there was nothing to eat.
  • Morality - the last bastion of a coward.
  • It’s not courage to resist me. It’s courage to accept me.
  • You know, not too long ago I couldn’t do that.
  • Could barely take a breath without coughing up a pint of blood. 
  • We won’t kill indiscriminately. No… selectively.
  • We don’t want to break up families.
  • How did you get behind the enemy line?
  • You froze while the rest of your unit fought and died?
  • So how did you take the command post?
  • Something… something had changed.
  • You remember this? You smell it? The scent…
  • The potency of someone else coursing through your veins?
  • I don’t have to remind you of that. You’re feeling it right now.
  • It’s lonely being a cannibal; tough making friends.
  • Of course, we’ve no wish to recruit everyone .
  • We’ve enough mouths to feed as it is!
  • Well, isn’t this civilized? “ 
  • A little too much bourbon in his bourbon.
  • Eat to live. Don’t live to eat.
  • ‘‘ That was very… sneaky.
  • ‘‘ Perhaps later you might… contribute.
  • ‘‘ The scent… always jogs the memory, don’t you think?
  • ‘‘ I played dead.
  • ‘‘ The growing, killing need to replenish.
  • ‘‘ I froze. I was scared.
  • ‘‘ We won’t kill indiscriminately.
  • That along with fierce headaches… depression… suicidal ambition.
  • I was in pretty horrible shape.
  • “ Naturally I just had to try. 
  • And then things got out of hand. I ate sparingly; others did not.
  • It would have been nobler, I know to have stayed and protected ___. 
  • I was out collecting wood.
  • Quite a route that was. Longer than the known one…  
  • We ate the oxen… all the horses… even my own dog.
  • But then, a good soldier ought to be.
  • But you made it behind enemy lines.
  • What are you cooking?
  • You remember this? You smell it? Remember the energy?
  • I returned that spring happy. And healthy. And virile…
  • You didn’t finish! Well, I can’t blame you; he/she was tough.
  • We took shelter in a cave; decided to wait ‘til the storm had passed.
  • The meat did not last us a week and we were soon hungry again only, this time our hunger was different.
Who the hell are you?

Yeah, here I am with another shitty imagine, really, I don’t even know what to say so… enjoy it (or not)

Request: Could you please write a Clint Barton x reader where the reader is a badass archer with purple hair and listens to mint royale - blue song when fighting xx


Clint’s P.O.V


– Are you ready Barton? You know what you have to do right?

– Yes Nat, I got it

– Alright, good luck there, be quick

I was in a mission with Natasha to get back a magica artifact that was stolen from S.H.I.E.L.D, we were
at the Quinjet flying to the place where the object were. The plan was simple: Get in there, get back the
artifact, go back to the Quinjet and done. It looked like a simple mission, the place should be empty
making the mission easier. Well, I couldn’t be more wrong

I got inside the building very quickly, I was heading to the room where the artifact were when I heard a
little crash and a kind of an alarm, when I turned my head to see what was that there was an arrow at the
wall, No, not an arrow, an explosive arrow and before I could react the arrow exploded throwing me at the
floor, before I could stand up I heard footsteps

– Lost something here?

It was a woman voice. There was a woman stading next to me. I couldn’t see her face, she was wearing a mask all that I could see were that she was an archer. Obviously.

– Who are you?

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anonymous asked:

Do you know any good vminkook smut? Or domestic Jikook/Taekook/Vminkook? If you don't have any good vminkook smut, anyone of those three ships would be good... sorry if it's a bit confusing...

a l l  t h e  v m i n k o o k  ( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)

be sure to read warnings and tags!! 

power & control

Shoot To Kill

i can’t stop but same for you too babe

i want it to be you

i am a good boy

Longer (and more general?) vminkook fics:

I’ll Hold You (Until Always) 

The Ink That Binds Us

Veins of Ivy

Srry I couldn’t find domestic vminkook but yo hmu i’ll write u some ;)

For more fics surrounding the three ships, there’s this list too ~~

Here’s a fun fact about UK houses.

They’re well known for being built to retain heat, since it’s usually bastard freezing here, which accounts for our complaining in summer since no one has air con beyond crappy fans.

Another thing is when our heating systems work, they freaking WORK.

ANOTHER thing about this is that some heating systems don’t turn on and off, they just get hotter or colder

A N O T H E R thing is that sometimes, heating systems get confused and go to one extreme and don’t go to anything else until an electrician fixes it


And mine has decided it needs to heat the house for the dead of winter riiiiiiight in the middle of this heatwave at a quarter to three in the morning :)

**S P O I L E R S** 2CT

Alright. Let me start this off. I am not a fan of the Twin Ciel confirmation. I kind of liked and toyed with the idea in my mind, but now that it’s actually canon, I genuinely feel kind of sick. I am not trying to slash or attack Yana in any way shape or form as Black Butler is her creation and it’s entirely up to her how she lays out the plot, but I honestly don’t like it. I just struggle to process the reality of what’s happened and how this will affect the series and what will happen to the Ciel we’ve known all along and his relationship with Sebastian.

If anything, I’m either hoping for:
+Our Ciel and Sebastian will lowkey plan how to defeat the new Ciel (if our Ciel no longer feels the same affection he clearly did when he formed his contract with Sebastian),
or
+Our Ciel, new Ciel and Sebastian will maybe work together for a while in harmony, until the new Ciel is murdered by an assassin who was meant to make an attempt on our Ciel’s life (or something along those lines).

Either way, I don’t really want the new Ciel to stay for the remainder of the series.

However, I know this is a (maybe) odd thought, but what if the new Ciel’s appearance marks the end for our Ciel? I can’t really think of anything to support this thought of mine, but it’s just kind of strange for Yana to suddenly confirm the theory because personally, I don’t believe Yana would want to kill off one of the two Ciels. Then again, she might just make it so that the new Ciel has to leave or something (lame, I know).

I’m just sort of hoping that Yana has a game plan set out for this new, certainly unforeseen (for me) plot twist.