and don't change because you are perfect

so far all the people (mainly women??? like what the fuck) arguing against jaal being patched in as bi are literally saying they don’t want men to touch him because if they do they will ruin him and it’s disgusting

“it will change him” ; “he doesn’t need to be questioning his sexuality” ; “it would make his romance a trope” ; “he’s perfect already” ; “it affects me[a woman] negatively because i[a woman] love his character as it is” ; “he was written for girls” ; “[jaal can’t be bi because] he treats sara in a way he wouldn’t treat scott”

just admit that you’re selfish and don’t care about the hurt feelings of a large group of gamers who were baited and teased and deceived into thinking they could have something they’ve been hoping for since the beginning. that you don’t have empathy for trans men who can’t romance the ONLY male alien squadmate that almost everyone(including game reviewers and scott ryder’s fucking va) genuinely expected to be available to all without inducing dysphoria. that you think just because women don’t get the same lion’s share as straight men that you have the right to deny mlm the love and cherishment and inclusion that they have been begging for–that they deserve– for so long. bi jaal takes NOTHING away from women. it just gives something back to men.

to the ppl who think like this, you’re not advocating for maintaining straight jaal, you’re advocating for the silence of mlm and that’s not okay

The Signs at their Best / The Signs at their Worst
  • Aries at their best: Full of life, adventurous and with a bright light in their eyes - a light bright enough to make all darkness disappear. Challenging, caring and with a big smile on their face. Admiring all beauty they can see, their head filled with plans. Nothing could ever bring them down, nothing could come between them and whatever it is that they want.
  • Aries at their worst: Doubting themselves in a very destructive way. They think it's all their fault and that they can't make anyone truly happy. Reckless. Cannot be reached by anyone, no one knows what's going on inside their head. Harsh. Don't care if they hurt someone's feelings or not. Don't care at all.
  • Taurus at their best: Absolute sweethearts with a great wits. Their heart is only open wide for people they choose carefully because they know it's for their own good. They know what's good for them and they're confident because they know what they're capeable of. A true and fair winner. Caring, charming, funny, intelligent, affectionate.
  • Taurus at their worst: They seem cold and careless. They know how to use words when they want to cause pain with them and they do that. Doubting themselves, suddenly lost all their confidence. Can't really control their feelings and tend to explode. Not looking after themselves and their loved ones because they're busy being stuck in a bad mood but deep down they're very very sorry for it.
  • Gemini at their best: A head full of ideas, a chest full of life. Up to something great, smiling, laughing, telling jokes, telling the greatest stories. Caring, motivating and inspiring. Freedom-loving, passionate about life, creative. Helpful, knows how to cheer you up. They don't run out of energy, they keep going.
  • Gemini at their worst: There is no sparkle in their eyes. Their hands are cold and their look is empty. Everything bores them, bothers them or sucks the life out of their bones. They don't see or hear anything, they're lost in thoughts. Get mean easily, say things they don't mean. Hurt others on purpose but end up hurting themselves. Self-pitying, over-emotional or not showing any emotion.
  • Cancer at their best: Brave people of good heart. Kind and caring, spreading love and good vibes. They fight for what they want, they always have something to say. Generous, understanding, shining as bright as the sun. A smile that makes others smile. They are very strong and handle their emotions wisely. Not to be underestimated.
  • Cancer at their worst: Say or do things they regret immediately. Forget to take care of themselves. They don't talk to anyone, don't reply. They tend to put themselves under an enormous emotional pressure. May manipulate others or completely lock themselves away.
  • Leo at their best: The literal sun. They shine so bright even when they're not smiling. Their laugh echoes, everybody hears it. Very proud, ambitious, kind, fair and loving. Bring happiness wherever they go, bring light into the dark. Full of dreams and very intelligent. The one that makes a boring evening a perfect one. Protective and they have a great sense of humour.
  • Leo at their worst: Believing themselves to be not good enough, doubting themselves and suffering from it. Harsh and kind of cold. Their look is still powerful and you dare not to speak to them. They drift away, may get mean or change their mind really quick because they just don't know what they want and it frustrates them so much.
  • Virgo at their best: Really good at doing what they love to do. Happy to spend time with people they like, generous and gentle, wise, gives great advices. Takes hints, makes great surprises and knows how to comfort people. Full of life and they have a great wits. The one that keeps you grounded. Honest and fair.
  • Virgo at their worst: Causing pain or worries to others to release themselves from it. They may be manipulative and self-pitying, exaggerating and not really speaking up. They tend to make decisions they will regret later. They forget how clever they are or they doubt their skills and their intelligence and make themselves smaller than they are.
  • Libra at their best: A great supporter. Someone with an eye for beauty, a charming smile and an amazing aura. They are funny, full of ideas and spontaneous. Remember little things and can easily make others happy what they love to do. Very creative, honest and they have a wild soul.
  • Libra at their worst: Moody, not seeing themselves as the masterpiece they are. Letting everybody know how they feel. Cold and feeling incredibly bad about it. They just hide away from the world and won't let anything come close to them. In pain just because they see all the flaws in their lives although there may not even be some.
  • Scorpio at their best: Passionate, strong, strong-willed, skilled and loving. They are full of secrets which is why they can keep secrets like no one else. An entire universe for themselves. They don't care about limits but in a good way. They share their ideas and dreams and cheer others up.
  • Scorpio at their worst: Neglecting their friends, their family, their duties and themselves. Reckless and not saying much about it. Things that usually fascinate them do not fascinate them anymore and they feel like nothing could ever make them smile again. Everything they love starts seeming so irrelevant to them.
  • Sagittarius at their best: Funny, uplifting, full of life and good energy. They don't care what anyone thinks of them, they will dance to loud music whenever they feel like it. They are open minded and interested in things, prepared to stand up for what they believe in at any time.
  • Sagittarius at their worst: Feeling depressed and not able to explain it, express it or talk about it. Over emotional and hot tempered, about to explode although they don't always know why. About to yell at someone for little things although they don't want to. Tired of everything.
  • Capricorn at their best: A guardian angel. Always there when you need them, glad to help. Caring for themselves and really moving things. Know how to use words and what to say in any situation. Working on something great, motivating others, taking care of people.
  • Capricorn at their worst: Sarcastic and they just shut everything down. Maybe bitter over something, maybe making others upset, too. Seem to have given up. Not sure what to do or what to say. Doubting themselves deep down but not willing to admit it. Not showing any emotions.
  • Aquarius at their best: An actual source of energy. Always have the greatest plans and ideas, dislike boredom. They love communicating and meeting new people, seeing new places. Curious about life, wanting to explore the world. Lift others up with their presence only.
  • Aquarius at their worst: Complaining over everything and annoying others with it. They don't care about anything anymore, reckless. Do not care anymore and do their own thing even though it might not be good for them. Ignoring others and feeling empty deep down. Like they ran out of energy.
  • Pisces at their best: Supporting others, taking care of others but also of themselves. Very clever, know what to say, funny. Their fantasy knows no limits and they're very productive. Do art or listen to music. Make others smile and fascinate them. Playing their own little games. Inspired.
  • Pisces at their worst: Feeling incredibly sad because of how the world is. Manipulative and stubborn. Actually dangerous because you just can't tell what they're up to. Revengeful. They have no energy and feel powerless, underestimated and not treated how they think they should be treated.

That voiceover by Hubby #2 gave me goosebumps, so quick reminders

- Michael never manipulated anyone into doing anything they didn’t want to do. What he manipulated was the outcome of what they did. 

- Michael never pretended to like anyone he abhorred, no matter what he needed from them. Not for one second did he pretend to have a pinch of respect for T-Bag or Bellick or Abbruzzi or Tweener. 

- Michael cared deeply – for people, not about winning. When he cried over Westmoreland dying, that wasn’t manipulation (in fact he almost put his own escape in jeopardy). When he tried to save that guard’s life, he wasn’t manipulating anyone (again, in fact, putting their escape in jeopardy). When he let Tweener into their escape plan, it wasn’t because it would benefit him (it actually harmed the escape), it was because he felt guilty. When he saved Sara’s life during the riot and almost got himself killed, it was because he cared for her.

- Michael struggled to or straight up refused to manipulate those he cared for deeply. He gave Westmoreland the cat with no strings attached except hope (Westmoreland ultimately decided to help because of his daughter). He could’ve taken the keys from Sara when he kissed her but he didn’t because he couldn’t. He couldn’t disguise a real kiss as manipulation.

- When Michael asked her to leave that door open, it was out of desperation. It wasn’t manipulation because he knew she liked him enough to do so – his real manipulation had already failed and this was all he had left.

What the show is trying to do is very clever – trying to make us believe that Michael is a genius sociopath, really – but let’s not forget that we know better. There is no one who feels more deeply; no one whose motivations and intentions are purer. He was not cold, he was not two-faced; he was not obsessed with winning

He may have changed in the meantime but back then, when Sarah knew him, he was nothing like the man Jacob was describing.

anonymous asked:

Hey actually now that that anon has pointed it out i'm not afraid to say it too. Margot's too low breasts have been bothering me from the start of the series._. I know it's because I have that problem and I hate ir and don't want pwople to look bad too so maybe you could lift them a teeeny tiny bit?

This should not be a problem. I don’t understand why people are acting like it is. And to be frank, I don’t care that some people don’t like it. I’m not changing Margot’s body just because it isn’t as ‘perfect’ as you might want it to be.

I realize that this is a pretty respectful message, but some of the others that I received are not. I don’t appreciate targeted harassment towards a Sim of mine because of the shape of her body. And again: I will not change it.

The Signs as Bad Qualities in New Relationships
  • Aries: Being rude to your s/o in front of your friends because you don't want to seem lame
  • Taurus: Making your s/o go where or do what you want to, and not letting them get a choice in it
  • Gemini: Neglecting your friends or cancelling plans to be with your s/o
  • Cancer: Getting way too attached, way too fast
  • Leo: Stringing someone along, even though you know you don't want to be with them
  • Virgo: Expecting your s/o to drop everything for you
  • Libra: Ignoring red flags because you want your relationship to be perfect and happy
  • Scorpio: Dating someone out of pity and then being rude or mean to them
  • Sagittarius: Neglecting your morals or boundaries because you get so caught up with your s/o & want to make them happy
  • Capricorn: Trying to change your s/o to make your friends and family like them
  • Aquarius: Not acting like yourself to impress your s/o
  • Pisces: Not standing up for yourself when you're uncomfortable because you don't want to hurt your s/o's feelings
  • Friend: i don't get why yoi is so hype is it because there are two pretty boys -
  • Me: it's hype because the struggles that characters have are parallels with our personal troubles
  • Friend:
  • Me: it's hype because it's encouraging it's telling us that we don't need to change to overcome our worst enemies
  • Friend:
  • Me: it's hype because everyone has their own plus and negative nobody is perfect
  • Friend:
  • Me: it's hype because there's an illusion to perfection - and there will be someone who will embrace your imperfection and love you all
  • Friend:
  • Me: it's hype because it's telling all of these - in a sport anime with two male characters who just happened to fall in love
  • Friend:
  • Me: like it was the most natural thing in the world
The Signs as Devalier Quotes
  • Aries : Your heart, your soul, and what you feel...This, my friend, is what truly lasts(Something to Remember You By)
  • Taurus : Love will change everything you thought you were, and at the the same time, make you more yourself than you could ever be alone (Auf Wiedersehen, Sweetheart)
  • Gemini : That's unfair though, isn't it? for People to just look at you and think they know who you are (Catch Perfect)
  • Cancer : You are such a wonderfully kind person, but you don't want anyone to know it. you have secret depths of fear. you love too deeply but you try to deny it because you know that the deeper you love, the more you hurt. (Besáme Mucho)
  • Leo : You change the world around me. You make it bright when everything is dull and grey and ugly. You take away everything awful inside me until there is nothing but you (Auf Widersehen, Sweetheart)
  • Virgo : sometimes it's hard to leave what you have always known; but then, sometimes it brings you something you otherwise never would have dreamt of (La Patisserie De La Rose)
  • Libra : believe that you'll survive another day. and don't just believe in tomorrow, believe in next week, and next month, and next year. believe in survival. believe in joyful survival. (Lily of the Lamplight)
  • Scorpio : you spend so long waiting for something to happen, then when it does, it's iver so fast you barely notice, but it's those brief moments that matter (Lily of the Lamplight)
  • Sagittarius : We all feel fear, but some things are worth pushing through that fear for. some things are important. some things are worth it (Besáme Mucho)
  • Capricorn : everyone here is a little odd. But mainly it's because everyone kinda has to be, you know ? it's easier to be odd or crazy than to hurt all the time (Catch Perfect)
  • Aquarius : Imagine if mankind reached for the stars instead of desperately trying to annihilate each other(Besáme Mucho)
  • Pisces : Every day the same hell. it was as though I was seeing in black and white. but then you arrived from no where, and you looked up, and you spoke, and you smiled, and everything burst into color again (Auf Wiedersehen, Sweet heart)
  • -Admin Nikolai

anonymous asked:

IF ONE MORE ANON SENDS YOU ANY TYPE OF CRITISM I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO LOOSE MY MIND. There's so many artists that need it but you are not one. Your color and shading is absolutely outstanding and your facial design is so unique. Since looking at your blog I have been drawing tenfold then i have for the past year because I've been so uninspired. Art isn't supposed to be perfect it's supposed to make you feel something. Your art makes me feel every emotion under the sun. Don't change a thing. :)

Originally posted by meonlyingifs

morning-dew247  asked:

When I was ten, I was molested and never told anyone. A few months ago (I'm now 18) I finally decided to talk to my mom about it. I was scared that she would judge me and blame me, but she didn't. Instead she cried because I went through that in silence. Our bond is stronger than ever. However, I've noticed that in all of my relationships or when I'm getting to know someone, I am cold and cut them off. I don't put up with any bs, and I dislike anything unrealistically "romantic". Any advice?

What do you want to change?  Your perfect!

I realize that patriarchy expects you to be a certain way, what a good girl?

Your warning system is working just fine.  So is your protective fence. 

You just think it’s you because your doing it so often. 

  •  Maybe because that is how much patriarchal BS is out there. 

Romance is unrealistic.  Now maybe one night, you can pull off the role playing but your relationship?  Relationships are about survival & contentment and your far above the maturity curve in realizing Disney lied to you.  BRAVO!

Please, look back at what you wrote.  

Do you see how much strength & growth you achieved and you believe that end result is not exactly where you need to be?

There are 98% dicks out there.  Your body’s telling you with anger or anxiety that something’s up.  Trust your instincts.  

You don’t have to wait for DNA results for approval for your decisions.  But I bet someone is trying to make you feel guilty. Put you back into that patriarchal box.

  • I want you to put your safety > his feelings

Who cares if you hurt his feelings? He’ll survive.  

Embrace your bitch.  

When you finally place boundaries your directing your life where you want it to be and who is in it.  You may lose some relationships, but that’s normal with life.  

If you need some help with anger mgmt, try Music Mood Management and my breathing calibration

it’s so hilarious to me that people somehow equate wanting a redemption arc for a character with an explicit endorsement of that character’s actions. it’s such twisted logic. of course i know this character is wrong!! of course they’ve done evil things!! that is literally why i want them to be redeemed!!

anonymous asked:

ngl i kinda wish stiles had smiled more during the stydia locker scene 'everythings changed' in the last episode D: don't get me wrong its a beautiful scene i just wanted a liittle bit more from him.. what do you think?

Honestly I think it was perfect (and this is obviously my opinion, as you may not agree!)! Like Stiles had more of a Soft look on his face rather than a full smile, to go along with the lines “Everything’s changed”, because truly this boy has loved this girl since he was 8. And now as he looks over at her; and she is finally looking back at him the way he’s looked at her for years (at least in his eyes; as we know she’s been looking at him like this since 3x11), he is thinking back to everything they’ve been through and just how lucky he is (the lyrics in this scene are literally “I couldn’t believe my luck”). Stiles tends to have this certain Look reserved for Lydia, where his face truly just goes all Soft, and I think that this moment definitely deserved that look. Just look how shocked he is; like it’s surreal to him (kind of like how it hits me randomly they are actually dating; I feel like Stiles is trained to think it’s unrequited love and sometimes it just hits him, you know?), and I think it was portrayed just the way it should have been :)

anonymous asked:

As a pasty ass white person seeing the continued whitewashing of canon POC characters makes me be like ?¿? DON'T WE HAVE ENOUGH WHITE PEOPLE WITHOUT CHANGING OTHERS? God I'm like y'all there are plenty fine ass POC people who would be perfect fancasts it's not that difficult to do that. Whitewashing is ridiculous and needs to end. Like just because it's your personal fancast doesn't make it okay that you whitewashed a character.

i dont even need to say anything to this. so imma leave this here:

Originally posted by everythingstarstuff

The signs and why you should hate them
  • Aries: Superior complex, arrogant, gets fired up about every little thing, challenges and wants to one-up everybody, acts like they're tough when all they do is cry at night
  • Taurus: Stubborn, doesn't change their minds eve when they know they're wrong, acts like the world is ending whenever they're a little sick, shallow, materialistic, uses everyone, jealous, lazy and expects you to do everything because no one matters but them
  • Gemini: Two faced, fake, acts like your friend only to make fun of you to their real friends, fucks you over just to have something to laugh about, acts like they know everything, makes up lies to prove their points, tries to debate everyone even though they play the devils advocate and have identity issues.
  • Cancer: Moody as hell, must walk on eggshells with them or they'll cry in their bed at night, pessimistic, they could nag the paint off the walls, clingy, paranoid as shit, needs constant reassurance because their self esteem does not exist..
  • Leo: Conceited, acting like they're the shit, whines about fucking everything, sore losers, refuse to do anything at all because it might hurt their inflated ego, possessive, acts like they think they're pretty but in reality they're jealous of all of their friends and wish they could be them
  • Virgo: Psycho, makes everything seem more complicated than it actually is, throws hissy fits like a child all the time, criticize others but can't take advice because they see it as an insult, expects everything to be perfect, never pleased because of their need for perfection, judgmental as fuck.
  • Libra: Superficial twats, they think they're charming so they lie and tell people what they want to hear because that's all they know how to do, unreliable because they lie so much, conceited and always looking in the mirror, lazy, cant make up their mind, boring as hell - physically and personality-wise but thinks they look like a fucking god.
  • Scorpio: Jealous of everyone they ever come in contact with, resentful, will probably sleep with their best friends significant other to feel better about themselves, manipulative, they have anger issues so they always want revenge, hides their emotions because behind closed doors they're always crying, too black and white about everything, fucking insane and belongs in a mental hospital, acts sexual but never gets laid because they're boring
  • Sagittarius: Careless about everyone and everything... except themselves, immature, feels bad about themselves so they make fun of everyone and call it being "straightforward", if you don't do things their way they tell you you're wrong, likes to control people, acts like they want to help people but in reality they want to bring everyone down to their level
  • Capricorn: Nervous about everything, acts like everything is okay when they are falling apart on the inside, they are so stubborn and think they're perfect so they will never change their views, wants everyone dead all the time, easily hurt over the tiniest things, bad attitudes, moody, all they care about is what they look like to other people
  • Aquarius: Unpredictable tempers, likes to freak out over stupid shit, god complex, they literally think of themselves as gods but really they are spoiled little children, they don't know how to shut up and listen, they think they're smart so they always offer advice, they can't keep a relationship because they're the most unromantic detached emotionless twats you'll ever come across, they got literally nothing going for them which is why they always get rejected
  • Pisces: Cry babies, pretending to be innocent while getting everyone else into deep shit, a backstabber, flakey, if you ask them to do one little thing it'll take them 3 years to do it, they're all drug addicts and alcoholics, they're lazy and oversensitive (they're probably crying while reading this right now), if theres a speck of responsibility strolling their way they will avoid it at all costs, only does nice things for people so they can get something in return, has anger issues, cries nonstop, distant in every relationship they have, loves their exes more than their current boyfriends, they will fight for human rights but spit in a persons face, they like to escape reality and have the rest of us deal with it because they're weak cowards.

anonymous asked:

Modern AU where Azula is the CEO of a large multinational (Zuko is the chairman :) ). The story would be a comedy concentrating on her legendary job interviews, where she does everything from throwing things at the candidate ("to see if they can handle the pressure") to asking them to go to the Aqua Enterprises building and bringing her a knick-knack from the CEO's table ("I took over Terra Inc when I was 23!"). Sokka is the latest candidate, of course!

… This sounds a bit like what she did to her aspiring Royal Guards when deciding which ones to hire in Gladiator x’D testing if they will obey her every order through some very unreasonable demands… ah, I love it when she plays with people this way, always ends up so amused and the people in question rage.

But of course, if you put Sokka in the place of the candidate, hehe, chances are things won’t be that simple. I can imagine him subverting the power in the conversation at times, ends up asking her questions before she realizes what’s happening. He’s a complete dork but somehow fulfills all requirements and manages to amuse her in the process. It’s safe to say… she’s confused. Very confused.

And she’s going to hire him to figure out just how much complexity there is in this new candidate, ehehehe.

(And now insert their The Proposal AU here pls thx)

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GOT7 when you start exercising to get fit but they think you want to lose weight~

On a total side note, I LOVE the gym. Seriously guys. The gym is ridiculously high on the things that I love in life. I’m not kidding. Gym. Is. Bae.

Requested by: Anon

love and relationships are so fake bc when they realize you weren’t lying abt being high maintenance and having actual serious mental illness they’ll change their mind bc im not constantly the manic over supportive overly loyal ride or die side of my illnesses that they thought was worth sticking around for because it made them feel special and that there’s going to have to be some actual effort involved on their part it’s just the perfect environment for either abandonment or abuse when you’re vulnerable because it takes too much energy to be there for a sad traumatized person that’ll just retreat into my shell without warning and people will take advantage of you and have no interest in being mindful of what hurts and thats why i trust no one who says they love me they just love what i do when im able to and how i can make them feel not me the person

Your Fave is Human: Fiddleford McGucket
  • Reacts to extreme trauma with coping mechanisms that aren’t 100% healthy.
  • Gives into the temptation of (a metaphor for) addiction when placed in an extremely stressful situation.
  • Covers up his behavior with actions that are morally questionable.
  • Deeply regrets his mistakes.
  • Isn’t 100% perfect despite having a sweet and caring personality.
  • Is well-written with virtues and flaws. 
  • Has endured dark times and hard times and has found the strength to rise above them with help from others.

palpablenotion  asked:

You don't need a ring to turn into a dragon. If you have trouble taking dragon form, try perching on a mound of gold or kidnapping a virgin. The virgin is especially effective for first timers because your aro/ace powers will react to their purity, much like aro/ace unicorns. Unlike our brethren unicorns, however, you will be filled with the urge to protect and keep said virgin, so perhaps ready a tower or maze before hand. Or scatter gems around to distract yourself once the change takes hold.