and constantly get distracted by other stuff

8 Ways to be More Productive with Less Effort

1.Sort out your priorities. Make time to honestly reflect on your life, and to think about what is important to you. Where are you going? What do you want? What are the steps that will take you there?

2. Focus on the essential tasks. Next, think about your short term responsibilities. Ask yourself: “Out of all the tasks that I have to do, which will get me the greatest return for my time and effort?” Make a list of these types of tasks — they’re your most important things to do this week.

3. Eliminate what you can. Now look at your list. What on the list is not essential? Is there anything there that you can drop from your schedule, delegate to someone else, or put on a “waiting list”. Often when we review these non-essentials later, we find they weren’t necessary at all.

4. Do essential tasks first. Begin each day by doing the two most important tasks. Don’t wait until later in the day as they’ll get pushed aside to make time for other stuff that arises throughout the day. You’ll find that if you do these tasks right away, your productivity will really increase.

5. Eliminate distractions. If you allow yourself to be constantly interrupted by email notifications, IM, cell phones, social media and so on, then you’ll never be productive. Turn them and, if you can, disconnect yourself from the internet.

6. Keep it simple. Don’t waste time on applications that are meant to organise your schedule. Make a simple to-do list with a word document, or with some paper and a pen. Then get started on whatever work you had planned on doing.

7. Do one thing at a time. In most situations, multi-tasking slows you down. You can’t get things done with a million things demanding your attention. Focus on what’s in front of you, to the exclusion of all else. That way, you are likely to achieve more, in less time, and with less effort.

8. Make time for honest reflection. At the end of the day, reflect on what you have achieved. Make sure you affirm yourself for your hard work. Think about possible changes you need to make - and commit to keep going, and aiming for your goal.

anonymous asked:

Alex is constantly losing things. His phone, his computer, his notebook, everything. It's because he's always trying to do multiple things at once, and so he often gets distracted and sets them down somewhere without realizing it, and by the time he does he has no idea where they are. The others are constantly finding his stuff in the strangest places, like his keys inside the fridge or his computer in the sock drawer. When they ask Alex why it's there, he almost never has an explanation.

Headcanons of the Day

Okay, you know what I want to see more of? David Jacobs with Dyspraxia:

• David Jacobs getting in trouble at school for having terrible handwriting, no matter how hard he tries to fix it
• David Jacobs taking twice as long to finish schoolwork than other kids because he can’t write as fast and make it legible.
• David Jacobs being frustrated because he can do all of the classwork and understands everything, but sometimes math is harder for him
• David Jacobs trying to draw, but he can barely draw a circle or a straight line (and don’t even get me started on his cutting with scissors)
• David Jacobs having to count his papers three to four times every day because he either gets distracted by something and loses count, or the papers slip out of his fingers when he’s trying to go through them.
• David getting stressed around the newsies because he’s sensitive to sound, and everyone yelling and laughing and talking at once in the Lodging House gives him anxiety
• David getting picked on as a kid because he’s constantly dropping things and tripping over stuff
• David doesn’t dance in Seize the Day bc he doesn’t have the coordination to dance like the other boys do, no matter how much he tries to practice on his own.
• David Jacobs, who everyone thinks is the most organized person ever, panicking because he lost something or didn’t get something done because he got distracted.
• David Jacobs trying to make his speech but the more nervous he gets the more his mouth and tongue don’t want to cooperate with him until he keeps stuttering and making mistakes
• David Jacobs being unable to quickly tie his shoes until he’s a teenager, and even then it’s slower than normal
• David Jacobs being asked if he has aspergers or autism and he just says yes or says it’s similar because that’s so much easier than explaining that they’re completely different

DYSPRAXIC DAVID JACOBS!!!

something I forgot to add when writing that post about differences in manga and anime Kars

latter half of the dialogue from this panel is cut in the anime, so the “two birds with one stone” part is still there but the part where he specifically states he was doing this as revenge was left out

it’s a pity since it’s yet another example showing one of Kars’s most interesting character traits – he tends to act like he doesn’t care about anyone and isn’t moved by others dying… up until the moment when he’s convinced he won and then he starts yelling about revenge and even things like “I don’t care about the Hamon warriors anymore but Wamuu and Esidisi need to be avenged, RARGH”

(and seeing as the one time he allowed himself to get emotional about wanting to avenge Esidisi ended with him being constantly distracted by Joseph and arguably cost him the Stone, I’d say he learned from experience that it’s best to repress all the sentimental stuff unless the enemy is no longer in position to use it against him)

8 Ways to be More Productive with Less Effort

1.Sort out your priorities. Make time to honestly reflect on your life, and to think about what is important to you. Where are you going? What do you want? What are the steps that will take you there?

2. Focus on the essential tasks. Next, think about your short term responsibilities. Ask yourself: “Out of all the tasks that I have to do, which will get me the greatest return for my time and effort?” Make a list of these types of tasks — they’re your most important things to do this week.

3. Eliminate what you can. Now look at your list. What on the list is not essential? Is there anything there that you can drop from your schedule, delegate to someone else, or put on a “waiting list”. Often when we review these non-essentials later, we find they weren’t necessary at all.

4. Do essential tasks first. Begin each day by doing the two most important tasks. Don’t wait until later in the day as they’ll get pushed aside to make time for other stuff that arises throughout the day. You’ll find that if you do these tasks right away, your productivity will really increase.

5. Eliminate distractions. If you allow yourself to be constantly interrupted by email notifications, IM, cell phones, social media and so on, then you’ll never be productive. Turn them and, if you can, disconnect yourself from the internet.

6. Keep it simple. Don’t waste time on applications that are meant to organise your schedule. Make a simple to-do list with a word document, or with some paper and a pen. Then get started on whatever work you had planned on doing.

7. Do one thing at a time. In most situations, multi-tasking slows you down. You can’t get things done with a million things demanding your attention. Focus on what’s in front of you, to the exclusion of all else. That way, you are likely to achieve more, in less time, and with less effort.

8. Make time for honest reflection. At the end of the day, reflect on what you have achieved. Make sure you affirm yourself for your hard work. Think about possible changes you need to make - and commit to keep going, and aiming for your goal.

What Is Your Problem?

My communcations professor approached me today during class after I moved toward the back of the classroom with my laptop in order to be able to charge it if it ran out of charge so I could get my transcription. She was just passing out stuff from our last speech, so I didn’t think anything of it, until she said, 

“I really love that you moved to the back of the classroom. Your laptop and setup is so distracting to other students, I wish I could have just put you back here to begin with. I wasn’t going to say anything, but other students stare.”

Meanwhile she’s the one who’s constantly trying to look at my screen, only to see that the only thing on it is exactly what she just said to the whole class. This woman obviously does not understand how Deaf students work, and she says she’s been teaching for like 10 years???

flashgotthis  asked:

//our BirdFlash for that ship meme!!

ship meme || accepting

@flashgotthis

  • who would be the one to randomly adopt a puppy without consultation
    Definitely Wally, Dick always opts out due to fear of neglecting the animal.
  • who would force the other to take aesthetic pictures of them
    Probably Dick tho Wally does it too on occasion
  • who would do stuff they think is stupid just to make the other one happy
    Both of them, probably Wally more often than Dick tho
  • who picks out the horror movies to watch just so the other will cling to them
    WALLY!!! Dick clings so damn much and will definitely do it during scary movies
  • who is constantly studying and who is constantly trying to distract them
    Dick is constantly reading or researching and Wally is bugging the shit out of him to try and get him to pay attention to him
  • who initiates the facetime calls whenever they’re separated
    Wally is the worst, he calls, text, everything the second they have to be apart
  • who is more likely to storm out after a fight and who is more likely to cry when they do
    Wally is so likely to run off cause super speed but neither of them are crying types
  • who stays up way too late binge-watching their favorite shows
    Wally always does waiting for Dick to finally come home
  • who bites the other’s ear when they’re feeling frisky 
    Dick gets hella frisky and will try anything
  • who sprays the other with water when they’re washing the car
    Both of them, it just turns into a big fight
  • who has more fun decorating the house during holidays
    Dick cause Wally will use his superspeed to do it all for him
  • who is more likely to give the silent treatment when they’re mad at the other
    Probably Dick, Wally is a lot more talkative than Dick is
  • who plays with the others’ hair more
    Dick melts when someone play with his hair so it’s likely Wally
  • who is more likely to climb all over the other one when they’re bored
    Dick does so much
  • who tries to kiss the other as often as they can
    They both do, there is no chill with them
  • who pouts when the other one tells them to shut the fuck up
    Dick!! He will highkey pout all the time
  • who initiates the sex and who walks away when the other is riled up
    They both do it at different times
  • who always forgets the umbrella and who holds it when they actually have one
    They both never have umbrellas, if they’re with the Titans Garth uses Hydrokinesis to keep them all dry and if they’re alone Wally picks up Dick and runs them both home
  • who demands showering first in the mornings
    Dick, Wally usually doesn’t listen and gets in with him
  • who sneaks into the shower with the other one in the mornings
    As I just said, Wally more often but Dick does it plenty too
  • who prefers riding the roller coasters and who prefers playing the games
    Dick being a circus kid is inclined towards games and Wally likes the excitement of rides
  • who will text the other one thirty times in a row until they respond
    Wally has zero patience, it’s him
  • who always forgets to charge their phone overnight
    Dick is always passing out without remembering anything
  • who comes up behind the other and slide their hands into their back pockets
    They both do but Wally more often cause Dick has the booty
  • who tries to get hugs from the other as often as they can
    They are a clingy mess, it’s both of them
  • who is louder and who constantly has the tell the other to be quiet
    Wally gets louder more randomly and Dick just when he’s excited, but both
Blind Marinette AU Drabble

Her fingers dance across bolts of fabric, pausing when she feels something that tickles her skin delectably. She glides her hand to find the loose ends and pulls just enough out so she can grasp the delicate fabric with both hands and let it flutter against her arms.

¨Adrien, what do you think of this?¨

¨The color is hideous.¨

Marinette giggles. ¨I should have just brought Alya.¨

¨Hey! I cleared my schedule today to help you out!¨ He pinches her arm and she tries to swat his hand away. ¨Plus you never told me what you’re working on.¨

¨Alya found a dress she really liked at a boutique but they didn’t have her size. I’m gonna see if I can replicate it.¨

He hums and rubs the fabric between his fingers. ¨It´s a little sheer.¨

¨I´ll put in a lining. What color do you think I should get?¨ She asks.

He scans the bolts of fabric that line the wall and spots a shade of purple he´s seen Alya in before. The roll is just out of reach, and his Chat tendencies urge him to climb the wall and pull down the fabric himself. Rather than make a fool of himself, he scouts the area for an employee. ¨There’s a nice purple higher up, I´ll have to get a worker to help us out.¨

¨I´ll wait here.¨

They get the fabric for the dress and the lining loaded into the cart. Her cane taps along the floor as she runs her hand along the stretch knits and polyesters, a grin etched on her face. He loves watching her in her element. His father had once taken him to the company’s fabric warehouse, but Adrien had found the trip to be rather boring. Gabriel Agreste judged the the fabric as coldly and critically as he regarded people. But Marinette was pure joy in a fabric store, there’s so much for her to play with, she could lose herself if she didn’t limit herself to one project.

¨How come you’ve never made something for me?¨ Adrien asks and she halts. An adorable shade of pink crosses her cheeks as she nervously runs her fingernails along the grain of a cotton broad cloth.

¨ It's….. the way I make clothes… it can be kind of…. Uncomfortable for other people,¨ she stutters.

¨You mean you get really handsy? I knew that.¨ She bats at his feet with her cane and he dances away. ¨Come on, I´ve done hundreds of fittings, I’m used to people putting their hands all over me.” He says in a low suggestive voice that makes her laugh. ¨make me something simple. I want a Marinette design!¨

¨Fine,¨ she sighs, defeated. ¨How about a button up shirt?¨

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anonymous asked:

could you do a big list of jimon headcanons please?

Here you go anon:

  • when they first get jace back, he spends as much time as possible with everyone, he doesn’t want to be alone, but he’s quiet. they all try to talk to him, constantly checking to see if he’s alright, if he’s coping ok with everything
  • simon does this at first as well, but he notices how jace reacts everytime someone asks if he’s ok, so simon starts talking to him about other stuff instead, anything that might distract jace rather than remind him what happened (funny anecdotes, pointless chatter, things he saw happening in the park, anything) and slowly but surely jace starts to smile and laugh at simon’s stories, and actively seeks him out when the others’ concern gets Too Much (and sometimes even when it doesn’t) and they start spending more and more time together
  • it takes a while but they both start to realise their feelings are more-than-friend feelings but neither of them know how to act on it
  • until one day when they’re sitting chatting simon rests his hand on the table and jace tentatively places his hand on top. simon looks up at him and grins softly before grasping jace’s hand and that’s that
  • it’s hard at first for jace. he’s been brought up to fear vampires and his instinct when touching a cold hand is to flinch. simon notices. simon always notices everything jace does.
  • jace has nightmares. a lot. but being a vampire, simon’s always awake when it happens. if he isn’t already at the institute, you can bet that simon gets there asap when jace calls (which is pretty quick with his vampire speed and all)
  • the first time jace doesn’t flinch from simon’s touch, simon almost blurts out ‘i love you’. but he doesn’t. he’s worried about scaring jace away.
  • sometimes they just lie in jace’s bed, jace’s head on simon’s chest and simon rubbing jace’s back soothingly, whispering reassuring words
  • sometimes they go for a walk - to central park, just in the streets around the institue, wherever
  • occasionally they’ll head over to brooklyn and simon takes jace to his favourite spots and places that hold fond memories and he’ll tell jace stories from when he (and clary) were younger
  • simon is slowly trying to educate jace about mundane culture so sometimes he’ll come armed with dvds and his laptop and they’ll cuddle in bed while watching films.
  • during the movie jace eats popcorn, simon drinks his blood. both of them are content.
  • if they’re watching films with vampires/werewolves/etc., jace will point out all the inaccuracies with their portrayal and simon just rolls his eyes with fond exasperation.
  • equally, jace helps teach simon about the shadow world but he knows that he has a skewed shadowhunter perspective so he tries to find downworlders who can help
  • simon goes to luke a lot with questions or just to hear luke’s experiences. jace starts going along with him to learn about the history of the shadow world from a new perspective and to help him start challenging the toxic views instilled in him by valentine and other shadowhunters throughout his life
  • after he betrayed raphael, simon spends a lot of time not really knowing where to go. he tries staying at home for a while but the pressure of hiding his vampirism from his mum and sister becomes too much so he leaves
  • simon then stays with magnus for a while but he never feels at home and he wants somewhere of his own, so with the help of the others he finds his own place. they all help him move in and get settled but jace more than anyone, and the two of them spend a long time making simon’s tiny flat feel like somewhere simon could call home
  • after that they spend most of their free time at simon’s - jace doesn’t like being stuck at the institute all the time and there’s never any privacy there with all the people around
  • one day jace finds simon’s guitar hidden under his bed. when simon comes back into the room, jace holds out the guitar and asks simon to play something. simon hasn’t really played since he got thrown into the shadow world, but he complies and it soon becomes a habit for simon to sit and play for jace in the evening, sometimes singing as well, sometimes not, but if always relaxes both of them
  • one evening, simon plays a song that jace doesn’t recognise. when he asks simon who it’s by, simon gets all flustered before mumbling that it’s his, that he wrote it for jace
  • jace is so touched by this gesture, that someone would put the time and effort into writing a song for him and he sees the look that simon has in his eyes when he looks at him, full of love and affection and jace knows that he gets that same look in his eyes when he looks at simon
  • and simon is still looking at jace nervously, waiting for his reaction, so jace does the only thing that feels right in that moment and tells simon that he loves him
  • and simon’s face lights up into that blinding smile of his before responding that he loves jace too

anonymous asked:

Akatsuki AU in High School - which Club would who go and how good would they be? (i Hope you understand, sorry for my English 🙈)

No worries sweetheart, your English is fine <3

Konan

  •  She was the founder and leader of the Origami Club, where she is joined by Pein. She’s very good at what she does but she takes it very seriously and will fight anyone who suggests that it’s not a real club (Hidan learned this the hard way, poor soul)
  • She gives all of her origami and other paper art to the people she loves, or donates them to children hospitals for them to look at. She likes making rabbits for luck.
  • Konan is also on the girl’s rugby team, where she plays hooker. She’s broken her ankle twice in scrums, but she refuses to quit since that’s how she gets out a lot of her anger and frustration.
  •  The akatsuki go to every game and go crazy every time she gets the ball back to her team

Itachi

  • He and the school custodian made an unofficial Environmental Club, which is basically just him and the custodian watering flowers, picking up trash, and setting up bird feeders.
  •  He doesn’t tell anyone about this because he knows they either won’t care, or will make fun of him for it

  •  He also runs in track, but only because his dad used to be a track star. He dislikes it because it hurts him sometimes with his illness, and he can’t handle long runs, so the coach makes him do sprints instead. He’s very fast but if he goes on for too long, it could be a trip to the emergency room.

Zetsu

  • Nobody knows what he does or where he goes, but he’s somehow a member of every club at the school.
  •  There’s a rumor that he started two cults at his last school that got disbanded due to tensions between them that had escalated to mild violence…and he is thinking of re-uniting them again

Kisame

  • He doesn’t go to a club, but he volunteers at an aquarium. He had wanted to be more hands on with the animals, but since he’s only a high school student and they think he’ll scare the customers, they keep him in the back to sort fish food and stuff.
  • He wants to be a marine biologist and that’s why he spends time there

  • Kisame is also on the swim team, and is undefeated. He’s renowned for his backstroke and freestyle.

Pein

  • He is in music club, but he’s not very good. He tries his best, but he’s a bit inexperienced with the instrument he wanted (drums) and doesn’t sound super great yet. But he’s working on it!
  • He’s also in the origami club, but only because Konan is there. He doesn’t actually know how to do it and usually needs help with more complex pieces.

  • It’s not a club yet, but he does a lot of poetry in his spare time, most of which he burns once he’s finished. It’s not in the same way that Deidara burns his art. Pein burns it to let go of negative emotions. Plus, if he keeps his poetry it makes him sad no matter what because it reminds him of how Yahiko used to write things for him and Konan.

Kakuzu

  •   He’s also in music club, and he’s also terrible, but he strongly believes that he’s the shit. He works with the recording mostly, and uses electronic stuff to add, in his opinion, a more gritty effect. It’s really just ambiguous sounds of metal clashing in the background with no beat or rhythm.
  • No one knows what he does in his spare time…it’s a mystery

Hidan

  • Ok so he’s the lead singer in the music club, and he’s reaaallly good, but he is so irresponsible and flakey and he never gets anything done ever
  • He has no outside hobbies to anyone’s knowledge. For all they know he sleeps all day. (he doesn’t, he’s usually meditating/praying)

Sasori

  • He’s in art club with Deidara, where they have an (un)healthy competition. He’s very good and both are tied for best in class. He is very picky about his art and will spend weeks on a piece until its perfect. If anyone so much as comes too close, he will freak out and fix it (even though there was literally nothing to fix???)
  • He’s also in theatre club, and he does backstage stuff. He’s the propmaster, and is generally respected and feared among performers

Deidara

  •  Sits with Sasori in art club every day and works on his pottery (mostly, but he still does other art forms just as well). His teacher gets frustrated because he keeps on destroying what he’s made in the name of art and beauty
  • Has like 20 sketch books that are all filled with gesture drawings and stuff, but he won’t share them with ANYONE

Tobi

  • This boy is in theater, and he is constantly slacking off during class and being distracting. He’s mastered the art of getting the director to go off on a tangent, earning himself and other student’s time to do absolutely nothing.
  • But whenever there is a performance, he’s an incredible actor and the audience always loves him

  • He can play any role perfectly, and it surprises everyone just how good he can be

Admin Spacey

8 Ways to be More Productive with Less Effort

1.Sort out your priorities. Make time to honestly reflect on your life, and to think about what is important to you. Where are you going? What do you want? What are the steps that will take you there?

2. Focus on the essential tasks. Next, think about your short term responsibilities. Ask yourself: “Out of all the tasks that I have to do, which will get me the greatest return for my time and effort?” Make a list of these types of tasks — they’re your most important things to do this week.

3. Eliminate what you can. Now look at your list. What on the list is not essential? Is there anything there that you can drop from your schedule, delegate to someone else, or put on a “waiting list”. Often when we review these non-essentials later, we find they weren’t necessary at all.

4. Do essential tasks first. Begin each day by doing the two most important tasks. Don’t wait until later in the day as they’ll get pushed aside to make time for other stuff that arises throughout the day. You’ll find that if you do these tasks right away, your productivity will really increase.

5. Eliminate distractions. If you allow yourself to be constantly interrupted by email notifications, IM, cell phones, social media and so on, then you’ll never be productive. Turn them and, if you can, disconnect yourself from the internet.

6. Keep it simple. Don’t waste time on applications that are meant to organise your schedule. Make a simple to-do list with a word document, or with some paper and a pen. Then get started on whatever work you had planned on doing.

7. Do one thing at a time. In most situations, multi-tasking slows you down. You can’t get things done with a million things demanding your attention. Focus on what’s in front of you, to the exclusion of all else. That way, you are likely to achieve more, in less time, and with less effort.

8. Make time for honest reflection. At the end of the day, reflect on what you have achieved. Make sure you affirm yourself for your hard work. Think about possible changes you need to make - and commit to keep going, and aiming for your goal.

These ship-wars in the BNHA fandom need to stop.

Sorry for this long post, but man, I’m angry and upset right now.

You see, I’m a hard KatsuDeku shipper. I love this pair and it’s NOT an abusive relationship. Katsuki might have (Okay, he definitely has) anger issues, but that doesn’t mean, that he’s abusive against Deku. He has a filthy mouth and all, but Deku is not the only one he insults. And don’t forget that he wants to become a hero and that he’s a ball of pride and he fucking CRIED okay?! He’s not some abusive asshole that throws punches in everyone’s direction and he has feelings. Especially when people use the manga or anime as reason to state, that they’ve got an abusive relationship. 

They. don’t. have. a relationship. AT ALL!

Fanfic. Fanart. And any other medium you could imagine is something born from the phantasy of a single person. If someone writes a fanfic, in which Katsuki is such an asshole and violates Deku physically or mentally, THEN you have a point, but it’s still no reason to shame the author or the ship, because it’s fucking fiction. (And if you dislike the ship, because it’s abusive: why are you reading the fic or looking at the fanart at all?!) Of course you can state your opinion, but you should be KIND. For example: “You know that this is a sensible topic that could be a trigger for some people and you should definitely think about if it’s good to post this on here, where underage people could see it, but hey! I really love your writing style etc.” Critique together with a compliment won’t start these ship-wars, pals, because the SHIP itself isn’t even mentioned.

If you’re going to rant about it everytime you see a KatsuDeku post (or any other pair) you’re ruining the experience. When I first came into the fandom, I felt BAD about the fact, that I like this pair and nobody, I repeat, NOBODY should feel this way when they’re starting to like something.
It’s like somebody drop-kicks you in the face, because you don’t like the same ice-cream flavour. 
I, for myself, remembered really quickly that that’s nothing I have to feel bad about. I mean, they’ve potential?! That’s why people like this ship, buddy.

For example: I totally dislike the ship Todoroki x Izuku. And believe me, I have my reasons, but I DON’T post anything against this ship neither do I insult the shipper. 

Why, you ask?

Because ‘Shipping’ and everything that comes with it, is something a person chooses for himself. The feelings you get, when you see, that you’re OTP got some moments in the series or when you see some amazing art that involves them, are truly, truly amazing.

Imagine being in a shopping mall and there are these shoes that you really like and you want to buy them, because you know they suit you. You’re standing in line to pay, but them some random guy comes along, he takes the shoes and throws them on the ground, yelling insults and preaching about how much he hates them, just because he prefers Vans over the Doc Marten’s you wanted to buy. Other people are watching and some join this guy, because they were there to buy Vans too and seeing someone buy Doc’s displeases them because they don’t like these shoes.

Sounds weird, am I right?

And that’s exactly the situation I was and many other people are in right now. You’re getting hate for something you like. Something that makes you happy. And then there are people who’re ruining this happiness. Don’t forget that there are some people out there, that are using shipping (that means fanart, fanfic etc. about their OTP) for escaping something. Just to read a Oneshot about them can make them unbelievably happy. That’s something I know out of experience. About one month ago, my Blog here was B&W and fucking depressive, but now, after discovering that seeing posts about my OTPs and anime and other great stuff in general makes me happy and helps me to distract myself, it’s filled with something I love, instead of something I hate. So why should you post something about a ship you hate, so everybody can see what a dick you are?

I fell into this whole ‘shipping hell’ about six years ago and I constantly get critique for THE SHIP ITSELF, but you know… Spending minutes, hours, days and nights writing this for people who actually enjoy this pairing and THEN getting such an amount of RUDE negative comments is like a good ‘ol punch right in the stomach. I’m not an artist, but I KNOW that artists feel the same way and even the quiet shippers that reblog or just say something about a certain pair, that only can see this hate, get upset about this, like hell, to be honest.

It’s such a horrible feeling, really and if you’re seeing something that displeases you. Ignore it. Here on tumblr are so many things that you’ll love, so please try to focus on these things and LET PEOPLE LIKE WHAT THEY LIKE.

Imagine you being in this situation. That’s not nice, right?! So stop being an arse and focus on the bright side! Oh and a friendly reminder at the end: 

Stay out of the tags, if you don’t like it.


My little rant is over now and it’s not just directed towards the bnha fandom, but literally every fandom that exists, because people still need to hate on others. This thing with the KatsuDeku issue here was just the last straw that broke the camel’s neck.




anonymous asked:

Hey anon, you forgot to add a ship!
I’ll do echoble (simply because I’m listening to a clone playlist right now lmao)

  • Who’s the first to wake up in the morning: Echo, I’d imagine she’s spend a while every morning staring in the direction of the flux buddies base
  • Who’s the one to make breakfast: Lalnable, gotta get those prime cuts of ‘bacon’
  • Who’s the one to serve the other breakfast in bed: Lalnable would totally wake up super early some mornings just to make sure she’s still in bed when he’s done cooking
  • Who would suggest a quickie in the morning before work: Echo, she knows what she wants and when she wants it ;)
  • Who suggests they both ditch work to lay around all day: Echo, when Lalnable has been super busy lately and she decides he needs a break
  • Who chooses the movies: Lalnable, he’s got a thing for romantic horror
  • Who initiates kissing during the moving, thus distracting the other from the movie all together: Echo, when she gets bored watching Dracula for the fifth time this week
  • Who orders lunch: Lalnable, but Echo will sometimes ignore his offerings and go for noodles instead, she doesn’t know why
  • Who steals food from the other’s plate without asking: Echo, and it really annoys Lalnable
  • Who curls up next to the other and falls asleep due to a full tummy: Lalnable, after a particularly big meal
  • Who distracts the other from trying to work at home: Echo. Lalnable will be doing all kinds of sciency stuff and Echo will just constantly flirt to distract him.
  • Who asks to go get ice cream like a five year old: Echo, she kinda secretly wants to know what a normal relationship is like, with dates and stuff
  • Who takes pictures of their partner eating ice cream: Lalnable, he has to put photos in his journal, of course
  • Who makes a sexual joke about the dripping ice cream on their partner’s face: Echo, she’d never miss the opportunity to make Lalnable go red in the face
  • Who cooks dinner: Lalnable, he does all the cooking
  • Who cleans up the kitchen afterwards: Still Lalnable. They’d have a rule, ‘whoever made the mess can clean it up’
  • Who stays up until 2 reading: Echo, she’s fascinated by the outside world
  • Who stares at their partner while their sleeping: Lalnable, definitely in a creepy way. 
  • Who kisses their partner while they sleep: Echo, when she’s done reading. She’ll put away her book and kiss him on the nose before she turns the lights out.

Send me a ship!

thefourteenthdarkone  asked:

☼ and stingue aye

  • who would be the one to randomly adopt a puppy without consultation

Oh, you KNOW it would be Rogue.  He can’t handle cute animals looking at him with watery eyes.  Lucky for him, Sting doesn’t seem to mind.  He’s just as bad, after all.

  • who would force the other to take aesthetic pictures of them

Sting, definitely.  He loves posing for super artistic photos and Rogue is very good with a camera.  Sting will take candids of Rogue, though, and he’s surprisingly photogenic when caught off guard.

  • who would do stuff they think is stupid just to make the other one happy

Sting.  Half the shit he does is to make Rogue smile, anyway.

  • who picks out the horror movies to watch just so the other will cling to them

ROGUE.  He’s actually horrible because Sting has the horror tolerance of a five year old watching Evil Dead for the first time, so he gets all the clinging.  

  • who is constantly studying and who is constantly trying to distract them

Rogue is a study machine and Sting’s only goal in life is to see how many kisses it takes to get Rogue to give up and make out with him.

  • who initiates the facetime calls whenever they’re separated

Sting.  He hates being separated from Rogue (who hates it just as much) and tries to make up for it by three hour long video calls.

  • who is more likely to storm out after a fight and who is more likely to cry when they do

Neither of them cry, but Rogue tends to just sit around in silence and Sting HATES the silence so he leaves to vent his frustrations to the world.

  • who stays up way too late binge-watching their favorite shows

Rogue.  He’s got a problem.  Sting does, too, but Rogue literally binged SPN in two weeks, he didn’t sleep at all.

  • who bites the other’s ear when they’re feeling frisky

Rogue, and he tugs on Sting’s piercing, too.

  • who sprays the other with water when they’re washing the car

Sting.  He loves water fights and seeing Rogue wet is A Very Big Turn On.

  • who has more fun decorating the house during holidays

Sting.  He’s a master decorator.  Rogue tends to get himself tangled in the fairy lights so he sticks to baking the treats.

  • who is more likely to give the silent treatment when they’re mad at the other

Rogue definitely.  Sting can always tell what kind of silence means the silent treatment.

  • who plays with the others’ hair more

Sting.  Rogue’s got longer hair than he does and it’s much better maintained, so lazy afternoons are spent braiding it.

  • who is more likely to climb all over the other one when they’re bored

Sting.  Rogue tries to shove him off but Sting is like a lock and chain once he gets on him.

  • who tries to kiss the other as often as they can

Sting.  Rogue isn’t huge on displays of affection but Sting is all for it.

  • who pouts when the other one tells them to shut the fuck up

Sting.  And since Rogue tells him to shut the fuck up often, he’s found pouting really often.

  • who initiates the sex and who walks away when the other is riled up  

ROGUE.  It’s part of their BDSM thing - orgasm denial.  

  • who always forgets the umbrella and who holds it when they actually have one

Sting doesn’t own an umbrella, so it’s up to Rogue to hold on to it when they do get one - Sting is likely to run around having sword fights with people.

  • who demands showering first in the mornings

Rogue.  Sting is more of an afternoon showering person.

  • who sneaks into the shower with the other one in the mornings

Sting.  To “conserve water” (read: kisses under the water)

  • who prefers riding the roller coasters and who prefers playing the games

They both get violently motion sick, so it’s the games for both of them.

  • who will text the other one thirty times in a row until they respond

Sting.  He’s really really really impatient.  Rogue totally ignores him on purpose.

  • who always forgets to charge their phone overnight

Nobody.  Sting needs his phone full charge (so he can watch Netflix at 3 AM) and Rogue just isn’t that forgetful

  • who comes up behind the other and slide their hands into their back pockets

Sting.  Rogue is annoyed at first but finds he doesn’t oppose it as long as they’re alone.

  • who tries to get hugs from the other as often as they can .

Rogue.  Only when they’re at home, though.  Rogue is very big on hugging as a gesture of affection

  • who is louder and who constantly has the tell the other to be quiet

Sting has lungs stronger than a varsity cheerleader and Rogue just wants him to shut up for ten seconds.

gabyschiesser2  asked:

Is it possible and/or true for, the cognitive functions Ni and Fe to combine, and mimic the cognitive function, Fi? If so, how and why? Thank you!

I was gonna say nope, but… I was up until 2am last night this morning and just had six ounces of sweetened, caffeinated tea, and am about to dive into a writing challenge to see how much I can get done in an hour, so I’m a bit wired. So yeah, why not explore it?

I suppose superficially, Ni/Ti working together could ‘comprehend’ Fi even if it’s not really Fi. Both would give instinctive insight into others’ emotional cores, with Ni supplying intuitive perception and Ti running silent analysis. So, yeah, on a purely fake level, sure, it could ‘get’ it… but not mimic it. Fe is objectivity in the realm of ethics. Fi’s ain’t got that.

Fi is about authenticity and emotional abstraction. Fi is the sense that someone is or isn’t being honest, and kind of a “ugh, I really hate that” response to Fe’s more open, easy affirmations, praises, encouragements, and sharing. Fi knows what it does and doesn’t like. It also kind of… floats, for lack of a better word, in space, not really caring, until you hit Fi’s hidden THAT IS WRONG button. And no amount of arguing, placating, pleading, or demands make Fi back down. Whatever they react to may not even make any sense to anyone else – but Fi knows an inner tent-pole of their character has been violated.

For example (in the realm of “things Fi won’t let me do”):

Read an ENFP guide the other day. Midway through the author had some exercises to figure out what your internal ethics are, the heart of the Fi’s person. Her method didn’t work for me, in part because I was exhausted, but as I sat there staring at these incomprehensible questions to which I had no answers, I realized – I don’t need to go through those steps to find my deepest, most rooted, most innermost beliefs that have been the same since childhood – those things that in my gut, even though everyone else dismisses, I know to be profoundly WRONG. Those things I can’t do, even if I wanted to.

So I skipped all the fun and games and just wrote down my ethics. Things that infringe on those beliefs set me off – and not in a good way. But everything apart from them is background noise.

I do think the NF types mistype as one another a lot. And there is a lot of confusion out there about what cognition does and what behaviors it causes. I spent hours last night arguing discussing with a friend how we circumvent stereotypes. I’m the ENFP, right? I should have 67 unfinished projects I’m working on simultaneously. She’s the ENFJ. She should be able to focus on just ONE to total completion. Instead, it’s the other way around. She gets distracted, constantly, in an never ending popcorn machine of ideas. I become captivated by the strongest, most gleaming concept and pursue it, with single-minded determination, until I have a book to show for it. Other ideas bounce in the background but I glance at them, stuff them in a jar for later, and keep going.

You might think this is contrary to my Ne. It is. It’s not, however, contrary to my Fi, because I realized a long time ago that seriousness about art and striving to turn ideas into literary realities is one of those inexplicable Fi drives of mine. I can’t abandon projects even if I want to, because Fi says “No. Hard work, dedication, and finishing things is the tent pole of your belief system. You never give up. I don’t care if you sweat blood, you are going to finish this.”

And so I do. I can’t not finish it, because not finishing would betray who I am. Other people tell me when I hit a blank wall – just quit. No one is forcing you to finish this book. I even tell myself, “just quit, no one cares anyway.” But I care. And I never quit. That, to me, would be like ripping out my soul.

- Charity

Building "Buddies" – Gally

Request: A Gally imagine? You and Gally have a love and hate relationship and he’s very strict about you being a builder bc you’re becoming weak and blurts out a hurtful insult at you so you isolate yourself from everyone but Gally does clumsy stuff to make you smile and he wins you back?

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You were busy working on some repairs for the Homestead. You were a Builder, and one of the finest in the Glade, if you did say so yourself. But it had a few down-puts. Most of the other Builders didn’t think you could handle it, and were constantly annoying you or trying to distract you while you worked. Out of all of them, however, Gally was the worst. 

Since he was the Keeper, he was the one getting you to do what he needed. It was like you were his own personal building assistant. With the other Builders, he was pretty lenient, but with you, everything had to be done exactly how he wanted it to be done. 

You had your moments, where everything was okay between you and you two were almost friends. But for a majority of the time, he was a slinthead. 

Speaking of which, while you were working on the Homestead, he took it upon himself to check on you every thirty seconds. He walked past you for the fourth time in the last five minutes. 

“What?” you asked him, dropping your wooden mallet onto the floor and turning around to look at him. He had his arms crossed over his chest and a stern expression, the one he usually used when he looked at you. 

“You’re not doing that right,” he said bluntly. 

You sighed. “What am I doing wrong this time?” you said with a hint of sarcasm. 

“The nails are going in at the wrong angle. They won’t hold if you do it like that.”

“Really?” you said with the most disbelief you could muster into one word. It was your turn to cross your arms. “You’re going at me because the nails aren’t in at the right angle? For shuck sake, Gally.”

“Well they’re not being done properly. You’re not strong enough to do it right,” he said stubbornly. He shifted his weight on his feet. “And that’s Captain Gally to you, shuck-face.”

You stood up and looked him dead in the eye, anger seething from your every being. He was never like this to any of the other Builders, or any other Glader in general. What made him think he could treat you like klunk and get away with it?

“How strong do you have to be to hammer a shuck nail? AndI’ll call you Captain Gally when pigs fly.”

He huffed out a small, sarcastic laugh, and rolled his eyes. “What if I toss you off the look-out point and we see if they do? You look enough like one for it.”

Everyone who’d been listening to your argument stopped and stared wide-eyed at Gally. He seemed to notice what he’d said as well, his eyes widening in shock of his own words. 

He was going to say something, but you’d already turned around and walked away. You stomped off into the Deadheads, trying to ignore the hurt you felt in your chest. 

He shouldn’t be able to affect you like that. He shouldn’t get to you. Why did you have to let him hurt you like that? He said you looked like a pig, and if any other Glader had said it, you wouldn’t have cared one bit. But for some reason, it really did hurt when Gally insulted you like that. 

You went over to one of the largest trees in the Deadheads, and sat down under it so that you were leaning against the trunk. You were towards the middle of the woods, so there wasn’t much of a chance of anyone finding you straight away. Not that they really cared, probably. 

~~~

It seemed you were right about them not caring, because you stayed there in the Deadheads for a good two hours while the sun went down. You knew you were going to have to come out at some point. But you were too stubborn for it to be anytime soon. 

“Y/N? Y/N!” someone yelled from further over in the woods. You couldn’t see them, but you could hear their feet crunching against the leaves and branches, and you could recognise his voice. 

Gally was the last person you wanted to see at that moment, let alone talk to. He was probably only looking for you to tell you to stop being a baby and get back to work anyway, so you didn’t answer him. 

It didn’t seem to matter that you hadn’t, because a few minutes later, he pushed through the bushes and tree branches and found you sitting there. He was dishevelled and messy-looking, like he had just ran a mile through the Maze with Grievers on his tail. 

Upon seeing you, his eyes lit up. “Y/N!” he walked over to you and bent kneeled down to your level, resting his elbows on his knees. “Have you been out here all afternoon?” he asked. 

“What do you care?” you grumbled angrily. He winced slightly, which made you feel bad but also gave you a certain sense of satisfaction; knowing you had the ability to hurt him as well.

“Look, you know I didn’t mean what I said back there. I was just angry is all,” he said with a softer voice. 

“And why were you angry? Why are you always picking on me?” you asked him, raising your voice to contrast his lowered one. 

“Oh, I don’t know!” he said even louder, obviously getting frustrated again. “Maybe because Andy and Garret were staring at your butt the entire time you were working!”

Your initial feeling was to be shocked by the fact he was so effected by two guys staring at your butt. Then you were angry that they had even been staring at your butt. Then you almost found his reaction funny. But you concealed all of your reactions and only gave him a blank stare.

“That’s no excuse,” you said dryly. 

“C'mon, Y/N,” he said in a melodramatically whiny voice, “I’m sorry.”

You crossed your arms over your chest and looked away, staring off at some random tree in the distance, hoping at the same time that Gally would stay and that he would leave you alone. 

“Please,” he said, poking your cheek. You glanced at him, but didn’t say anything. “Pleeeaassee,” he whined. Then he poked your side. You squirmed, since you were admittedly incredibly ticklish. 

A small smirk came over Gally’s face, and he poked you again. Then again, then again. “Gally, stop,” you said, slapping his finger away.

He didn’t stop, just kept poking you in the ribs, until you were trying to force the smile to stay hidden. It was no use, and in a matter of seconds he was leaning over you as you fell onto your back, laughing uncontrollably. 

You rolled from side to side, trying to shake him off you while he tickled you mercilessly. Eventually, he stopped, and you opened your eyes, which’d been squeezed tight while he was tickling you. You noticed your position under him. 

He was holding himself up over you, and you were lying under him. You couldn’t help but think of how awkward it would be if someone walked in on you two right at that moment. But at the same time, you didn’t care one bit. 

Gally stared at you for a few moments, then, without hesitation, leaned down and pressed a chaste kiss to you lips. He smiled once you did. “Am I forgiven?” he asked quietly. 

You nodded your head and rolled your eyes, not bothering to hide the smile on your face. “Yeah, yeah, whatever.”

*

i hope this was ok???? ily thx bye

*Requests are open*

~Caitlin