an unfollow

I’m constantly amazed at how little the fandom learns based on past experiences, but the fact that Louis gave us that snippet of his song that seems to shade Eleanor by referencing someone who didn’t go to Amsterdam with him, amidst a social media RANT about bullshit in the industry means it’s intentional hyping for SOMETHING. 

Maybe the CD is finally going to be announced, maybe a new appearance is coming, or a tour announcement, OR just as likely, some slanderous bullshit dragging Louis and this was the set up.

So gird your loins. And don’t flail like you people haven’t learned anything after being in this fandom.

I honestly hate discourse posts so much. The amount that I see is honestly so annoying and negative, and there are people that love reblogging it and sometimes my feed is full of it. I hate discourse

rules: answer these 85 statements & tag 20 people

Thank you @ripercy for tagging me!

I tag: @softpercy @demidorks @olympusisbleeding @percysbluepizza @prometheuis @ethanakamura @mytinygayitalianson @charlesbeckendorf @preatorpercy @preatoreyna @blackjacktheboss @herhmione and im too lazy to tag anymore ppl so 12 is good enough

the last:

1. drink: water- i had field hockey game so i chugged that hsit

2. phone call: my mom

3. text message: to my friend abt tswift!!

4. song you listened to: Forever and Always - Piano Version ~ Taylor Swift

5. time you cried: im usually not emotional but actually like two days ago

have you ever:

6. dated someone twice: not even once

7. kissed someone and regretted it: never kissed anyone so? no

8. been cheated on: no

9. lost someone special: yup…

10. been depressed: Kinda?

11. gotten drunk & thrown up: no

favorite colors:

12. purple

13. black

14. purple again bc everything i own is purple 

in the last year have you:

15. made new friends: yes a few

16. fallen out of love: never been in love ;)

17. laughed until you cried: YES omg gym class this past school year

18. found out someone was talking about you: i dont think so

19. met someone who changed you: nope

20. found out who your friends are: fucking yes, i literally dropped everyone except for like 4 ppl

21. kissed someone on your Facebook list: still havent kissed anyone so


22. how many of your Facebook friends do you know in real life: all of them i think

23. do you have any pets: my cat dice and my doggo murphy

24. do you want to change your name: i only would bc everyone is fucking named emily these days

25. what did you do for your last birthday: i went out dinner with a few friends!

26. what time did you wake up: 6:30 UGH fuck field hockey

27. what were you doing at midnight last night: SLEEPIN

28. name something you can’t wait for: Taylors new album!! also ed sheeran in 1 MONTH

31. what are you listening to right now: Ours-Taylor Swift

32. have you ever talked to a person named tom: Yes

33. something that is getting on your nerves: being! excluded! from! everything!

34. most visited website: tumblr or instagram or youtube

35. hair colour: dirty blonde/ light brown? idk anymore

36. long or short hair: medium ;)

39. piercings: ears! i wanna get more than just the two

40. blood type: no clue

41. nicknames: em, em curls, 

42. relationship status: single

43. zodiac: gemini

44. pronouns: she/her

45. favourite tv show: PARKS AND REC, and Jane the Virgin

46. tattoos: nope

47. right or left handed: right

48. surgery: tonsils when i was little?

49. piercing: didnt we already do this

50. sport: field hockey, swim, and lacrosse (even tho im quitting ;) )

51. vacation: most often in california

52. pair of trainers: idk? nike? who tf calls sneakers trainers

more general

53. eating: just had a hamburger

54. fav drink: arizona iced tea!

55. what you’re up to: jus scrolling on tumblr

56. waiting for: my mother to come home

57. want: to go back to school with no stress

58. get married: in like 10 years

59. career: no fuckin idea
which is better:

60. hugs or kisses: hugs idk i have no experience with kisses

61. lips or eyes: eyes

62. shorter or taller: shorter

63. older or younger: younger

64. nice arms or nice stomach: stomach

65. hook up or relationship: relationship PleasE

66. troublemaker or hesitant: neither

have you ever:

67. kissed a stranger: nope

68. drank hard liquor: nope

69. lost glasses/contact lenses: no

70. turned someone down: yes i think?

71. sex on the first date: no

72. broken someone’s heart: i hope not

73. had your heart broken: no

74. been arrested: oh god no

75. cried when someone died: yes 

76. fallen for a friend: no

do you believe in

77. yourself: absolutely… not

78. miracles: yes!

79. love at first sight: sure why not

80. santa claus: sorry santa

81. kiss on the first date: i guess so

82. angels: i want to believe


83. current best friend’s name: christine!

84. eye colour: hazel but its basically just a dump of colors

85. favourite movie: theres too many to pick…

Here’s another “friendly” reminder that the LGBTQIA+ community is not a fucking pissing contest to see who suffers the most oppression. The only people who do not belong in the LGBTQIA community are heterosexual, hetero-romantic, cisgender people (as in, ticking all three categories).

You’re biromantic, asexual, cis? You’re in.
Bisexual aro enby? Definitely in.
Asexual, aromantic, intersex? STILL IN.

Our community is built on inclusion and love. Finding peace and comfort with each other when we can’t find it elsewhere.

Stop fucking gatekeeping. You look like an asshole. You don’t get to decide who can or cannot be part of the community. We are not some elite club, where each member must adhere to some standard of queerness.

It’s not a competition. Fucking stop acting like it.