I hate that. When there’s something that you obviously can’t change, it’s who you are, and people just don’t accept it. It has to be ‘fixed.’ But some people just operate differently than others.
I think it stuck more when my dad finally said it to me earlier this year. I was like damn..I’m a fuck up. Like I said before, when he said that I was immediately brought back standing in my elementary classes on multiple occasions and my teachers telling my mom that. A big slap in the face, for sure.