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biowur fandom says they love women. and then they constantly speak over other women, women who don’t fit the “mold,” and women who don’t agree with them. allow ppl who have never experienced the trauma that is relevant in and to the discussion being had to be center-stage because the opinion of those who have never been victims is more acceptable and “non-problematic.”

if you don’t deal with your experiences the same way everyone does, they’re apparently invalid.  

constantly erase fem PCs. whine about female characters who, if they had been male, would be undoubtedly and wholly adored by fandom and anyone beyond it. tell you to shut up and get back to work when you complain about the staggering difference and disturbing ratio which you see presented in fanwork, edits, and gifs.

i am just about this close to making a gigantic fucking post and calling you all out with receipts in hand. but you don’t even deserve the effort i would expend in making said post. just fuck you, honestly.

I figured it was about time I make one of these. I love all of you guys. You’re all such nice, funny, smart, talented people. Even if we’ve never talked before or you don’t follow me, you’re all really cool so thank you for making me want to waste my life on this dumb website. I’m really sorry if I leave anyone out.


the squad (aka i consider us friends so suck it up and deal with it) (hover over your name)

Talon    Lucy    Fer    Alexa

# - i

1864damon adorkablelena alwaysurvive bigbadvampire bisexualclark
bellarkewhispers chairdelenazade clakegriffin clarkesbellmy
 damonofhousesalvatore damonishome damonpromisedher damonsurvives
damonspain debekah delenah delenaismylife delenashome delenaroadtrip
delenavstheuniverse dexualthoughts domesticdelena doppelutifulelenasgiggle​ elenashero elenashome elenaspj elenasleep elenastan 

j - r

feistybellarke grffnclarke hotsexwithdamon indamonseyes inelenasheart
iwantyoudamon kittykatgilbert lovedbyelena madgesgoldpin meredlthswift
myeternalsaviour mysteriousdamon octaviabhlake ohdamonelena pauwesleys petrova qilberts rememberelena reyesraeven

s - z

salvachester saviourlikedamonselflesssalvatore sexybellarke
sinnerlikedamon standbydelena stunningelena theysurvive typicaldamon
underdamonsskin undyingdelena warriorclarke warriorcupcakes
warricrprincess widowelena

amboato asked:

But also, YOU DIDN'T WARN ME MY HEART WAS GOING TO SHATTER INTO A MILLION PIECES, HOW DARE?! I WAS HURT AND CONFUSED FOR A MINUTE BUT I GET WHERE ANTHY WAS COMING FROM BUT THAT WAS HARD AS HELL TO WATCH, I'M MAD AT YOU! MY HEART MAY NEVER RECOVER.

Ah, yes. That. Let me express how sorry I am about this in .gif form:

I’m sure you can feel how so very sorry I am right now.

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Since I noticed that I RARELY draw backgrounds I decided to do a 30 day background challenge!!!!!

I hope Darla and Stacy (the girls walking) will keep me motivated to do this! Please lazyness don’t overcome me!


If you would like to join me on my challenge please do so I would love to see your pieces!!!

amboato asked:

So I'm done. And I can't quit thinking about what a great message that is for girls to see. To see that you don't need a man's help to be powerful and make a way in life. That you can go out there on your own and make a difference. That it's okay to leave your abuser, no matter how much he pleads for you to say. I really enjoyed this, thank you for recc'ing it.

CONGRATULATIONS.

I’m so happy that you finally finished it! AND YOU ENJOYED IT! I know those last few episodes were tough, but you got to THE WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL ENDING. JUST. THE BEST ENDING.

Now do you understand why they are my forever OTP?

NOW THINK OF ALL THE META AND STUFF YOU CAN READ NOW.

WELCOME TO THE UTENA LIFE, FRIEND.