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anonymous asked:

Ain't nobody reading that long ass post. It's been a month since he's seen her as of now. That's what "barely" means. When they're actually in LA of course they see each other. She's his main bitch and stays at his house most of the time. He's known as a womanizer bc he admitted himself that he was but he's more "clear thinking now".... old habits die hard tho and a man is always gonna be the same person he was before dating you WHILE and after dating you. Facts

You’re obviously not someone who follows my blog if you’re shocked I had a long repost so I’m not sure why you’re here or care about what I have to say. I’m about sick of xo fans coming on here to argue with me about Abel and Bella- and it always being that Abel doesn’t love her and she’s just a game or she’s trash- and then complaining that I have a long post after instead of reading it and responding. I have a long response to everything. Don’t start arguments with people and then get pissy that they have something to say?

Bella went to London on the 4th and just got to New York two days ago because she’s been in Europe working and Abel has his album to prep for so it’s not all that concerning that they haven’t been seen together, they’re both super busy. Not only that but he has his concert in New York- where she currently is- on Saturday, they could be together right now for all we know. His concert could be why she’s not going to PFW, I got three asks suggesting that when she posted that she was back in NYC.

He admits that he’s more clear now and wants a serious relationship and is ready for it and to be in love if it happens, but you still chose to believe the version of himself he uses to sell his music over the what he’s actually doing with his real life. When are you going to let the boy grow up and be a better person? He’s 26, a grown-ass adult now, do you think he hasn’t matured at all. You’re going around promoting this idea that he’s some kind of asshole and that’s all he’s ever going to be capable of being. I’ve never meet fans that so desperately want their person to be as awful as they can be as I see with xo. You guys want and repeat the same bad shit about him over and over and over even when he says he’s better and when he does nothing but really good/sweet stuff all the time you still play up this gross version of him. I don’t get it. I’ve never seen Abel do anything that suggest that he’s not a decent guy and a good boyfriend to Bella. You’re literally saying he’s never going to change and that he never will, you are literally saying that no one can ever change ever. You’re really like the worst.

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‘The shadowhunters,even Alec,might believe he was a monster,but Magnus didn’t believe it himself.He’d taught himself not to believe it even though his mother,the man he’d called his father,and a thousand others had told him it was true’

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“You and the Doctor. I can kind of picture it.”

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@jccaylen the ocean is the biggest cockblock ever

@kianlawley​ @jccaylen no ? just fly over here bby we’ll finally be together

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@kianlawley​ @jccaylen late night skate?

@jccaylen @kianlawley​ you know i’m always down

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@jccaylen i feel like getting naked

@kianlawley​ @jccaylen together ? i’ll be over in a bit

They say they hate it, but I think they love it.
—  Robert Singer on fans not liking bad character decisions but watching still after the fact (via SDCC 2016: https://youtu.be/P4RV-CeBdUs)

My Jared photo-op was the most amazing and emotional experience of my existence.  

Some of you may know my story, some may not, but most of you can assume that it has to do with AKF and you’re absolutely right.  To put it in the simplest way I can: Sam Winchester saved my life six years ago when he sacrificed himself for the world, but Jared Padalecki gave me my life back when he opened up about his depression last year.

I had been looking forward to this moment since the premiere of “Swan Song” and it was finally happening at NashCon.  When they called for the Jared-ops, my legs were trembling as I walked up the stairs.  I stood in the long line alternating between crying and shaking and when I finally saw him, just more than an arm’s length away from me, I didn’t know what to do.  

When it was my turn for the photo I somehow managed to walk up to him.  He smiled down at me (dimplesdimplesdimples) and leaned down to be eye-level.  Green and browns swirl together in those eyes.  He said, “Hi!” in the kindest voice and I immediately started crying.  The next thing I knew he had cupped my head with his hand (and his hand takes up my entire head) and pulled me into the tightest hug of my life.  I apologized four or five times into his chest and he said, “No, no, no, doll, it’s alright.”  (!!!!!)

There was a fifteen second time span where it was just him looking down at me and I realized (after that fifteen seconds) that he wanted to know what I wanted to do for the picture.  I apologized (again) and he laughed, so kindly, and told me it was okay.  I asked him for a hug and he grinned real big (dimplesdimplesdimples) and answered, “Absolutely.”  

He pulled me back into a hug, the one you see here, and Chris snapped the picture.  I was crying again - being in Jared’s arms for just a moment was too much - and I thanked him quickly, knowing he had more pictures to take. 

But as I was walking away he grabbed my hand in his and pulled me back into yet another hug.  When he pulled back he looked down at me, still holding my hand (he has a callus on his right ring finger), he said, “You look beautiful.  Do you have any other pictures or the autographs later?”  I told him I had a picture with him and Jensen later and then autographs and he went, “Awesome.  I’ll see you then, okay?” and then he blew me one of those two-handed kisses he does.

Jared is the most genuine and kind and comforting person in the entire world and my life has been changed for the better because of him and everything he does and not a day will ever go by that I won’t look at this picture and be eternally grateful for him and everything he’s done.  

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❝I love you,❞ Will said. ❝I love you desperately. I have never felt for another the way I feel for you. My love for you is as eternal as the sea, and like the rocks against which the waves are dashed, again and again, it shall remain unyielding. In you I have found my own heart’s heart, which I had thought previously only to find in dreams. Never could I have encompassed a better partner, a finer friend, a more beauteous companion. Allow me just once to kiss your sweet lips.

Jem looked up from the fire, where he was petting Church. Church had fallen asleep and all his fur was sticking up. ❝I do wish you would cease reading to me from Gothic novels,❞ he said. ❝They give me the pip.❞

Happy Heronstairs Day!
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You lose someone?