also love them and love the show

Venus signs as men I’ve met. 👨🏻‍🍳

Venus in Aries: pretty calm! Extremely self aware and confident in themselves and their actions-very honest and upfront and pretty direct with what they do not a lot of beat around the bush-that being said they’re complex and not very easy to read on an emotional level. They have nice hair! And they can have piercing eyes.

Venus in Taurus: slow moving and very smooth. They no what to say and aren’t big on talking for the sake of it. They’re fairly curious and love intimacy be it with friends or lovers! They like that aspect of closeness. They’re not confrontational and like to avoid overly emotional situations in the beginning but once things get serious they’re very compassionate and sweet. Usually have nice lips and soft necks. Ohhhh and they tend to be slow about flirting as well and can be evasive in the beginning because they need time to process things.

Venus in Gemini: talkative and very media influenced. They’re usually kind of recluse and have very high octave dialogue and minds to match-they’re charming and captivating but out of reach somehow-they’re actions don’t ever match up and what’s even more they’re very perplexing emotionally! They run hot and cold and at times the cold phase last the longest-punk rock and kind of indie with a whole lot of twist. They have like nice arms like seriously

Venus in cancer: athletic or homebodies no inbetween, tend to be very easy going and quiet not super into loud or conceded types and they’re also a bit conservative but they’re usually not aware of this. They can be traditional but they also have a very independent vibe about themselves that clashes with the nurturing nature in them. They don’t like forced commitment and steer clear of relationships unless someone’s really winning them over! They love simplistic things and warm smiles and hugs and some of the sweetest guys you’ll meet! I usually notice their muscles or stomach region

Venus in Leo: COCKYYY and I mean this in a good way but boy oh boy they honestly like showing off :) they feel like they’re in a horse race with everyone and love to make sure everyone knows about them. They’re pretty lighthearted and innocent and actually have huge hearts. They tend to dive all into their relationships and get taken advantage of a lot because of this. They’re very old school romantic and will usually be kinda mean and extra when they like you! They don’t usually dress flashy but they do have expensive taste. A lot of them groom and are big on their body features. So don’t be surprised if he mentions his “member” a lot. I usually notice their backs or hair

Venus in Virgo: sweet! Passive aggressive though. They aren’t the types to be loud or in your face and actually like to be lowky-like underground type of lowky. They’re very soft spoken and tend to be sort of on the brainy side when I comes to their interactions! They value connections and good conversation. They are also very sensual and love hugs and being touched so if your interested in one-don’t be scared to touch him from time to time and they’re very committed guys and once they know you’re interested they tend to drop everyone else if they take you seriously enough. They have routines and hate hate hate having that interrupted! They usually just put people in little categories and boxes to make there life more organized. Very clean!!! And often dress nice when there around someone they love but if not they dress casual. They have cute little bellies though!

Venus in libra: SMILES. Wow they really have beautiful smiles and they have a easy beauty about them! They’re not super emotional when it comes down to interactions and I’ve noticed that they hare people that come on to strong or to interested and may even show this on their face despite their smiles. They like hanging out with friends and love peaceful things like bowling and even just going out to eat. They usually like to “hang out” with someone before they go and do anything beyond that. They’re pretty feminine in nature and intune with their more sensitive side. They can be indecisive and evasive when things are overwhelming them. They dress like a mix of casual and fitting clothing to dressy and classy. Oh they have nice buns 🙄

Venus in Scorpio: okay despite all those archetypes they’re super super super cuddly and huge ass babies(excuse my language) they act mean on the in set and have an intense demeanor but usually this is during the early stages of knowing them! Once you get to know them and they trust you they’re so childlike and bubbly-they’re intimating aura is still there but it’s redirected. They can be really insecure and do things out of spite when they’re hurt-they love really hard and though they don’t like to admit they’re deeply afraid of being rejected no matter how many times you say you love them. Just hug them a lot and smile at them-and give in sometimes when they’re having an episode. They’re like watery Aries venus in my eyes and have humongous hearts. I say they dress maninly in sweats and casual wear. They love black and red and are fairly ambitious and well off. They have watery eyes or really black or defined eyes. There crotch region can seem mysterious and hard to define.

Venus in Sagittarius: aloof-ALOOF-ALOOOOOFFF. They’re very cool in temperature and don’t usually express very many sides of there emotions unless they feel a need to. They have fast moving feelings which is why I think they come across this way. They either tend to be intense or calm and they are very free spirits no matter what. They love to explore and always see the big picture. They want love based on desire and crave something that challenges them but they are often okay with the single life. They can be soooo captivating and have a very earthy and wild look about them. They look amazing in beards and have wide hips! The best example I could do for this is Chris Pratt. He’s not a sag venus but the way his frame is kinda similar to sag venus men I’ve seen.

Venus in Capricorn: there weight fluctuates a lot from what I’ve seen and they tend to lean towards to the bearded look-at some point in their lives. They have very warm and cozy personalities and are way way wayyyy more open and easy going then cap moon or sun. They tend to take relationships with others very seriously be it their family/friends/kids/lover they see it as a duty and something that demands maturity. They dress kind of punk rock ish and a mix of business and well put together. They aren’t ones to play coy and have blunt personalities. They hate ignorance and don’t like people that don’t have self control and in fact that’s the quickest way to set them off. They can be ass holes sometimes(excuse my language) and have a dry humor. They are super sensitive underneath and unlike their sister sign they don’t freak out at the idea of a relationship so long as both people involved know what their in for.

Venus in Aquarius: interesting fellas! They are super deep and honestly you may never really get to know them because their inner self is changing around all the time. They can be a bit melancholy and sway between bouts of depression and bouts of over enthusiasm. From what I can see they are very happy people and honestly love meeting new people! They are also always doing something odd and have cool hobbies! A lot of the ones I’ve known love photography and music and blogging! They dress sort of trendy and grungy!. They are super humble and modest and don’t really like spotlight that much. As far as dating goes? UHM aha they’re so quirky and odd and love so hard and you’ll never know because they put up a detached front but similarly to aqua moons they are super dedicated and love love love their partners! They just suck at showing it.

Venus in Pisces: elusive and very turbulent. They can be very mysterious-more than Scorpio Venus from what I’ve seen and they have this affect that lures you into them like that fish net that caught dory and Nemo. They have very captivating body movements and can seem like they’re not really there sometimes. I call them the past life boys only because it can seem like they’re acting out patterns that have already taken place at times like they’re a walking deja vu. They can be disarming and have a very charming yet frightening disposition that leaves you vulnerable and confused. Romantically they don’t make sense and can send a plethora of signals that you may not be able to understand. They love with their soul and it can be a deep and overwhelming thing if you’re not ready. They tend to be quite and extremely humble. I can’t say they dress any specific way.

Now there’s a bunch of things to consider like aspects and house placements but this is just in my personal experience of men with these venus signs alone.

eversocalmlypanicking  asked:

Public, because this seems like an educational moment. Mollyhall, your 4000 posts in 2 minutes about Six Flying Dragons piqued my interest. Please explain this show?

OKAY. the plot of this show is: 1300s korea. politics are very corrupt, duh. into this world comes…

6 very grumpy individuals who band together to make a better nation:

  1. Jeong Do-jeon: Mastermind Who Wishes Kids Would Stop Following Him Around, really just wants to make up a new political system and be left alone by everyone in the world, because everyone in the world is an idiot, including his #1 fan/closest rival, named –>
  2. Bang-won: Righteous Murder Nerd Disappointed In All His Father Figures, always has 4000 emotions he is VERY excited to talk about with everyone who will listen but especially with the love of/greatest irritant in his life, who is –>
  3. Boon-yi: Smol & Bossy Peasant Girl Who Is Always 100% DTF (Down To Fight), truly believes a family can be just 1 girl & 200 villagers that insist on calling her “Our General” and is incredibly irritated any time anyone makes her experience an emotion, particularly her older brother, called –>
  4. Ddang-sae: Self-Hating Waif On Life Mission To Protect The Two (2) Things On This Hellpit Of A Planet That He Even Sort Of Likes, namely his sister & his ex-girlfriend, deeply exhausted by people insisting he participate in politics or society writ large, with special attention to –>
  5. Moo-hyul: Big & Strong Dumbo With A Heart Of Gold, mostly just wants to get food for his 82 siblings and mean mom, but also very interested in getting famous, perhaps by way of fighting Ddang-sae for the title of Best Swordsman but also perhaps by teaching from  –>
  6. Yi Seong-gye: Stern & Disgruntled War Hero Who Accidentally Adopts Them All, old as balls, very tired, just wants to keep his head down and run his army but keeps plucking angry children off the street and raising them instead

it’s 50 episodes of everybody falling in love with everybody else and being very irritated about it. also there’s a lot of speeches about how rich people suck & reading is cool. also, murder. really just ….. a WHOLE lot of murder.

additional & notable plot points:

  • this show features my ULTIMATE FAVE TROPE, which is ride or die siblings who hate everyone except each other
  • ddang-sae’s (ex)girlfriend has 0 time for his manpain and is very busy enacting a convoluted revenge plot
  • there is an ARMY OF LADY SPIES
  • a raggedy bang of beggars/ersatz theatre troupe is constantly showing up to be like, “y’all are SO DRAMATIC, and we are saying this as THEATER PEOPLE”
  • bang-won and boon-yi are vERY important to me, particularly because she is constantly biting him and he is constantly shouting, “STOP DOING THAT AND LOVE ME,” to which she usually responds, “THEN STOP DOING ANNOYING SHIT THAT MAKES ME WANT TO BITE YOU (also i do love you) (never mention this to me again)”
  • this show features a set of twins who are constantly getting mad that people are calling them by the wrong name, and one of them solves this issue by insisting on wearing bright blue eyeshadow
  • “Welcome To My Garden Where I Plant My Murder Trees :)”
  • loyal sidekicks abound

10/10, highly recommend. it starts a little slow, so get through the first like, 5 episodes. i’d say you could skip them but there are some TRULY entrancing character scenes i’d had for you to miss.

What the egos would be for Halloween

Dark: Every year he says he won’t partake in dressing up, and every year Wilford convinces him to live a little.  He’ll be Jack Skellington this year! 

Wilford: A ring master or the Mad Hatter; he loves putting on a show, but he also loves the Mad Hatter’s aesthetics and personality!

Googles: They always do a team costume idea, and this year they’re going as Star Wars characters.  They even make functioning light sabers, but they have to keep Wilford away from them before he accidentally kills someone!

The Host: He’s actually a huge Harry Potter nerd, so this year he goes as a Hogwarts Student (he eventually decides on Ravenclaw)

Dr. Iplier: The Host ends up picking his costume because he can’t stop focusing on his work long enough to decide.  He’ll be a vampire!  

Yanderiplier: He’s obviously going as his Senpai!  He’ll be wearing a dark, professional suit, some smudged eyeliner, and a cold personality 

Bim Trimmer: A Greek God or Prince Charming; he loves being the center of attention!

KOTS: He goes as the Prince of the Squirrels and wears a slightly smaller crown; nobody seems to notice

Ed Edgar: A pirate!  They enjoy money almost as much as him!  

Silver: He’s (obviously) a huge fan of superheroes, and he dresses as a different one each year.  This years he’s going as Superman!

Bingiplier: A Google!  He loves teasing them, and he’ll make a joke at their expense at any given moment!

The Jims: j i m 

anonymous asked:

What do you love the most about RWBY? Also, who's your favorite character?

The characters. When I fall in love with shows or movies or books it’s always for their characters. Their personalities, their conflicts, their developement. RWBY has a lot of incredible layered characters who constantly get challenged and need to learn to grow. Just look at Weiss. Yang. Blake. All of them. 

So… I don’t know. I love Weiss because she seems so unlikable in the beginning but later on we don’t only forgive her behaviour, we know why she acted like that and see her grow so much. I love Yang because she is so much more than people think she is and she has an incredible amount of love for all the people in her life. I love Blake because she set herself free from her abusive ex boyfriend and struggles so much to grow past her unhealthy way to deal with problems. I love Jaune because he has always tried to be a better version of himself and follow his dreams even though he didn’t even believe in himself and is still trying to even though he has lost so much. I love Ruby, Winter, Qrow, Raven, Mercury, Emerald, Cinder, Sienna, Roman, Neo, Ren and Nora.

I can’t possibly pick a favourite. 

anonymous asked:

what are your thoughts on mindhunter? I just finished it its p good

i loved it because a) i love fincher b) i love. good serial killer media and c) david fincher makes good serial killer media. like. aesthetically and ethically. my favorite fincher movie is zodiac so it kind of feels like thirteen hours of That Vibe™ and i’m all about it

that said it’s also white as FUCK. that two seconds with the black man who interviewed for a position with them and then literally got. turned down for being black. and they didn’t delve into that any deeper? for a show that - aside from the killers themselves - is largely concerned with internal restructuring of certain elements of the FBI/a huge shift in perception re: how the FBI goes about doing its job, they skipped over the potential for like. institutional self reflection real fucking quick.

what. even goes through a writer’s mind when they include a single scene of a black guy interviewing for a job and then getting turned down BECAUSE HE IS BLACK in their obviously, jarringly, overwhelmingly white show, and then wrap up said scene in like. under two minutes? “knocked it outta the PARK, tanner”

anonymous asked:

I printed these t-shirts that are all pink and cutesy with all these different boy band members on them but they're like johnny rotten and harry styles and jeff from the wiggles and last night I saw one of the guys on it's band and I gave him one of the shirts and pointed out his face on it and now there's some fan pictures with him wearing it and I got really excited when I saw them and also I fell in love with like 8 different girls at the show last night so like it's been a pretty rad 24 hrs

This is one of the purest asks I have ever gotten, I love you, Im so glad your shirt got some love and you had an amazing night <3 


top 10 favorite events or periods in history (in no particular order)

Emotional Consent

I’ve always been hesitant to post about this because I’m worried people will take it as a personal offense and I just want to say in advance this isn’t “@ anyone” or a callout even

I just feel like emotional consent as a concept is rarely talked about and therefore it’s often breached unknowingly (hence why I don’t never get mad at anyone specific for breaching it), and also I think it’s important I make this post. I didn’t learn what it was till I was older, and most people don’t.

Essentially “emotional consent” is a mutual understanding and willing agreement between both parties when discussing directly emotional or potentially emotionally loaded questions.

I’m going to start with examples, and I know it might feel bad at first if you recognize you do some of them (it’s okay, we all do from time to time), but please keep reading because I promise I’ll get onto alternative dialogues and solution

Here are some examples of what a breach of emotional consent can look like- not all the ways of course, but the major ones off the top of my head:

  • Venting to someone without warning or established boundaries this can look like starting a conversation by venting, or detailing graphic information seemingly out of nowhere and without effective trigger warnings. This can put people in situations where they feel like they have to respond, even if they’re not emotionally equipped, if they’re busy, or if they don’t have the spoons. Of course, usually this wasn’t the intent of the venter, but still has the same effect. FYI- this includes celebrities, social media icons, and people you admire. 
  • Talking graphically about sex, masturbation, or anything in that range without warning or established boundaries this can look like anything from sharing a funny sexual escapade with your friends, and dirty jokes, to sexual harassment and telling someone hows bad you want to fuck them despite not knowing how they feel about it. Sometimes in these scenarios, people can appear visibly comfortable in attempt to fit in and not seem prudish, or to avoid awkward confrontation. This can also be especially sensitive because this is a topic that can very easily and unexpectedly bring up traumas and insecurities along with the discomfort, and it can perpetuate rape culture.
  • Using pet-names and romantic implications, even platonically, without established consent this one was tough for me to swallow at first because I love pet names and I love using them platonically to show love. But even more, I want the people I love to feel comfortable and safe around me. Some people have deeper more negatively charged, or more intensely charged feelings around pet names than I do, and I wouldn’t want to subject them to that. Some people are also comfortable with certain pet names and not others. Also things like calling platonic meetups dates, cuddling, and platonically holding hands mean different things to different people, which is important to respect.
  • Showing people media or sending articles or news with heavy emotional content either without warning, or with the expectation of discussion part of this is about including trigger warnings, and making sure viewing triggering content is optional in spaces and interactions we have control over. Another part though, is the fact that we often expect people to have interactions and discussions with us about emotionally charged topics, including politics, crime, oppression, natural disasters, etc. without fully understanding how this can affect the other person.
  • Telling someone they’re the only person you feel comfortable telling something to, or be open with this one sucks because it usually (except in cases of abuse) comes out of genuine care and wanting to make the other person feel special. That being said, no matter how you phrase it, it can put a massive responsibility on the person that similar to my first example, can make them feel obligated to help even when they’re not in an appropriate place to. 
  • Expecting people to share personal or intimate information a lot of times we ask emotionally loaded questions because we care about and are interested in the lives of our loved ones. That being said, if we’re not careful people can really feel obligated to share information they’re not prepared to, or don’t want to process at the moment. This can look like “How’s your health been?” “How are you handling [life event]?” and “Why didn’t you tell me sooner?”

so now the more pleasant part! What can it look like to prioritize emotional consent instead- these correspond in order of initial bullets

  • Starting vague and asking if it’s okay an example dialogue could be “I’m feeling crappy about [blank] are you up to listen to me talk about it?” I also love to add “or should I try [alternative coping method/talking to someone else right now?]” to the end of that if I have one so the other person knows if they say no I have something to turn to. Another example could be “Would it be alright for me to vent right now? FYI it may include mentions of [possible triggers] so if you’re not up for it right now I understand?” or simply “Are you comfortable with me talking about [blank?]”. Also talking to a celebrity or idol “You really helped me with [blank]. I don’t know if you’re comfortable with detail so I won’t elaborate, but I really appreciate it.” or “You really helped me with [blank.] [An explanation about what specifically helped or inspired you in more detail rather than graphic description of the event.]”
  • Again! You can just ask example dialogue can include “Can I mention something about my sex life?” “I have a joke but it’s dirty so I want to make sure thats okay with you” “Can I say something nsfw?” “Is everyone here okay with sex mentions?” 
  • Asking still works! Example dialogue can be “Thanks [petname] (are you okay with me using that or would you rather I don’t)” “Are you okay being called [petname]?” “Are you comfortable with [intimate platonic act]?” “Do you want to [intimate platonic act]?” “I’d like to [intimate platonic act] if you’d be okay with that”
  • Ask/Warn ahead of time or clarify you don’t need response example dialogue “I want to process [news event] but I know it’s heavy so I wanted to ask first” “Jsyk this article contains [possible triggers] so don’t read it if you think it’d be harmful to you]” “Can I ask your opinion on [charged topic]. If you’d rather not, I understand” “[thought or link to article] FYI no need to respond. I just wanted to share.]”
  • Show you’re appreciation in other ways using phrases that show appreciation but don’t implicate responsibility like “Thanks for being here for me whenever you’re able to” “I really appreciate being able to talk about this with you” “It means a lot to me that I can feel so comfortable and open with you” “Being able to talk about this with you has been really helpful for me and I’m really glad I was ables to.”
  • Asking with an easy out or optional response examples include “Hey, I know you’re dealing with as lot and grieving right now so I absolutely don’t need a response, but I wanted to remind you if you need support in any way I’m available and have time right now.” “Do you want to talk about [emotionally charged life event] or would you rather talk about something else right now?” “I know it’s hard to talk about these things and I understand if you can’t, but I want to remind you that when you can and want to I’m available and won’t judge you.” “Would venting be helpful or draining right now?” “What’s the best way I can support you, or are you not sure right now?”

Sorry this became a long ass post but I thought it was important. I should also add that the exception of course is therapists and counselors, crisis hotlines, or other people trained and already prepared to cope with these things. but besides that- try and emo responsibly. 

2x15 truly put the final nail in the coffin for the book malec breakup??

  • Camille? Done, Alec doesn’t care.
  • Jealousy over past lovers? Done, Alec understood there was nothing to be jealous of or judge.
  • Biphobia? Never even came up.
  • Alec’s fears that Magnus will forget him when he dies? Alec worries Magnus will be alone instead.
  • Magnus not opening up about his past? Done.

Wow, can’t believe Magnus and Alec are officially the healthiest couple in the world who talk to each other instead of breaking up. :’)


Izzy and Alec are the best we’ve got.

Markiplier’s You’re Welcome Tour

I’m sitting in my hotel room, skillfully eating some leftover chicken and dumplings from Cracker Barrel with a coffee straw cause I don’t have a fork, putting off taking off my makeup, and writing this post while everything is still kinda fresh in my mind.

I had the most amazing time tonight at the show! I honesty wish my brain was working better now so I could write better words but this is all I got lol

The show was SO GOOD!! I had so much fun and the Louisville Palace was beautiful!! Like wow it was a gorgeous theater and I’m so glad I got the chance to go! I appreciate so much what everyone did to put this show together for all of us and it all went so well! 

I had VIP seats so I got to see Mark sing before the show started and I am honestly so proud of him for facing his fear of singing in front of everyone and doing so well! Sorry the phone lights threw you off a little but tbh it really added to the moment. And I’m glad you got your little guitar clamp thing back lol Thank you so much for doing that for us~

I had seen little clips of the show here and there from June and I thought it looked amazing but I was not prepared for how much more fun and amazing it was to actually be there and participate in the show! Every second was so funny and fun and I think my favorite part was the dance off! Sorry Ethan but Mark won this one lol The fan participation was so cool!

I love the whole team so much it was awesome to see them all perform in person. ALSO AMY AND KATHRYN!! Shout-out to them for being awesome and beautiful and going around to get questions from people!

Okay I better wrap this up cause I’ve rambled too much at this point. I might write more tomorrow if I can think of more to say. But thank you Mark, Ethan, Bob, Wade, Tyler, Amy, Kathryn, and of course Dan the Music Man for putting on a fantastic show that I won’t forget~


P.S. - My mom also loved the show and thought you all did amazing!


Alec Appreciation Weeks ♡ Week 2
   ➸ Favourite Malec Moment(s)


A subtle reminder that Rob is the father in real life [for added effect]


I’ve never spent so much time on any royai art before, and I’m really happy with the outcome! Tisiphon might have recognized the scenes, since they’re all from the wonderful fanfic she wrote FOR ME almost two years ago! Ever since then I’ve been wanting to honour it with fanart and I’ve never got around to doing it. Until now! I hope you like them, Tisi, there’s one drawing for every section in your story, and they all express moments of intimacy I really appreciate in fiction ´-` with that fanfic you literally fulfilled my fanwork wishes and I am so, so grateful for that <3