Introducing TD and Chastity Play, What i did wrong......
To me FLR has SO many different angles and when introducing your
partner its important to be careful. See where as i took my time, slowly
introduced more and more bits into it before eventually plucking up the
courage to put the cage on and show her, i still made some real big
See my wife is not a Domme, i dont really want to
know about her previous life before me but im kinda guessing im the
first person that really wants to explore all these roads and
possibility with her. I originally made this Blog to share things i
found sexy in some way shape or form with her and looking back now i
should have kept it more Vanilla and slowly introduced my interest in
things like pegging. See you follow all these people then one day they
reblog some Sissy stuff, some Anal Torture, Some Ball Busting. From my
wife’s perspective she probably sees that and thinks FUCKING HELL.
reason i am writing this is because somethings have been lost in
translation, see she was under the impression that i wanted to become
her bitch, a groveling sissy whore who wanted to wear her clothes and
make up and suck strapons all day long. Now if that’s your thing im all
for it but that wasn’t what i wanted.
I came across chastity
play and tease and denial play a while back, i have always been aware
of bondage and always had a thing for tying or being tied up sexually. I
saw it as a fun way for a male and female to have a laugh, be intimate
and grow together as a couple. As much as i love her Locking me
up, tying me up, teasing me and laughing as i quiver on the bed in a
desperate need to cum only to deny me for another day i also would love
to do the same for her. Its about exploring each others bodies, each
Its only fun for me if its fun for her, if
she wants to lock me for a day, a week, a month or a year ill play the
game as long as she finds it exiting and gets a kick out of it. If she doesn’t want it its just not going to work. But don’t give up that easily pick it up and put it down, its keeps it exiting. After a chat with my wife in the week she said she likes the cage but doesn’t want a bitch of a husband, so i explained the above and below to her and now i think it makes sense.
I am writing this because i get lots of messages from people asking how did i break the news? how did i get her on board? Truth is we are still working on it, still exploring it. I haven’t been in the cage for months, as real life is more important. This morning after our chats and fun this week i put it on.
I guess im very lucky to have such an amazing wife, i put it on gave her the keys and she smiled. That’s all i wanted. She is one of a kind, trusting and fucking gorgeous.
For anyone out there toying with this i hope this has helped, below are few images i have stolen from others. I hope they don’t mind. Good Luck and go have some fun.
I love making her moan, and its true i work harder when my dick is locked up and im working to earn a release, its common knowledge you put more effort into thngs if your getting something in return. (Or at least you think you are)
Then there is this, after a night of teasing and a great time she didnt let you cum, your going to wake up in the morning and WANT to do this for her because your still super horny. You know your not going get to cum but pleasing her is at least some sexual activity.
Then on the other hand there is nothing sexier than doing the same to her, make her feel how you feel, i remember once back in the early days i edged my wife and then just turned the wand off and said nah, night night. She was mortified, grabbing my cock, trying her hardest to get me to fuck her. In the morning she woke up horny and we fucked. But it can work both ways.
This is also one that i agree with, the lust i have towards her, the want to constantly touch her, to kiss her its just amazing. Then once you cum its takes a good few days to get that back. Its the strongest drug i have ever felt and its awesome.
I love it when she feels sexy the sexier she feels the more she glows the better the experience.
Turn it into a game, a guessing game and have fun with it.
Tease him, if he is anything like me he will enjoy it.
But most importantly talk about it, discuss it find out what you both want from it and just have fun.
I guarantee it will bring you closer together.