I can't enjoy anything Jonsa anymore (not even my favorite fics), it tastes too bitter. I think I'm subconsciously protecting myself from the inevitable Jon*rys ( I think it's pretty much set in stone). See for me even though I know Jon*rys can't possibly end well and Jonsa still has a chance of becoming endgame. I can't get past what's going to happen this season, and shipping Jonsa has become so painful.
That’s really upsetting to hear, Anonny, and I’m so sorry you feel that way :(
But let me tell you a little story. Once upon a time, there was this amazing show called Avatar the Last Airbender. I watched it, loved it, adored it and obsessed over it. I was so sure two of its main characters Zuko and Katara would get together in the end. Their narrative journey made the most sense; most of the show kept symbolically linking back to them. They complemented each other in ways no other character on the show does. But then due to behind-the-scenes politics, Zutara never happened. Instead, Katara went to Aang as some kind of trophy prize and Aang (another beloved character) never got the character development he deserved. Zuko went to Mai, who was pretty much complicit in her father’s attempt to murder him, and yet it was all Zuko’s fault anyway. It was a mess post-show in the comics and the subsequent Legend of Korra show.
Through it all, the Zutara fandom prevailed and dozens upon dozens of fanfiction and fan art and metas have been written since the show ended in 2008. The Zutara fandom is still one of the biggest and strongest around as well and all the people in it are amazing, funny, talented and welcoming. It’s been 9 years and I still ship it as much as I ship Jonsa.
Canon does not make a ship, Anonny. It’s the people in the fandom who do and I gotta say we have one of the best fandoms around.
If what you say happens, try not to let it soil what the point of fandom shipping is all about, Annony.
Also, I really, really doubt Jon could be truly in love with Dany, nor could I see her being in love with him. I think the scenario would require a severe regression in both of their characters. If they have some kind of sexual tryst, that’s all there really will be to it. Nothing more. They are on two vastly different paths with very different goals. One wants to conquer and one wants peace. Not necessarily mutually exclusive, but the very notion of conquering another country that does not belong to you (which Westeros doesn’t; it was never the Targaryens and it most definitely is not Dany’s who has never even lived there) goes completely against peace.
Rest easy, Annony. It’ll be okay. And maybe try reading some Modern AU’s where everyone is happy and alive. Those got me through the hiatus between seasons xD