Just started talking to my ex after no contact for months. He did me really dirty. We were together for two years. I missed having him in my life and this was a ldr so we don't see each other but he wants me to visit him this summer. He knows where we stand and respects and has been respecting me since. But in my head I'm like damn I lowkey miss being with him but also remember the shit he did so I don't trust him one bit.
don’t let that devil back into your life. interacting with someone who did you wrong just bc you feel a softness towards them bc of the history or whatever is NOT WORTH IT, I PROMISE YOU. I tried to stay cool with one of my ex’s and for what? he was abusive towards the end of our relationship and I didn’t recognize how he was treating me as abuse until long after we were through all bc I felt so much for him, we had been together for 3 years. don’t blind yourself to how ugly a person treated you just bc you used to love them. wish them the best but I suggest not interacting/talking with them or following them anywhere and especially not going to visit him this summer. it seems harsh to just stop talking to someone especially if they’ve been acting “respectful” but idk I don’t buy it. just focus on yourself and try moving forward. you deserve so much more and so much better in your relationships, romantic or not. I understand why you miss him bc I was there. I know what you’re going through, and it’s because I understand that I’m telling you straight up to just cut that bitch off. you don’t owe him an explanation either. do you.
if you need to talk to me personally, then I’m here for you. I’m wishing you all my best and sending you strength to move forward. 💖