I have an ED. I am also planning on marrying my boyfriend (once he has enough money we’re getting engaged). But I feel like I’m lying to him. I’m hiding this giant part of my life from him. I’m petrified to tell him about my ED, about how he’ll react, if he’ll be disgusted and leave or if he’ll feel like he’s burdened to take care of me. But I feel like I’m being weighed down by the thought of entering a marriage hiding something from him. What should I do?
How would you feel if he told you that HE has an ED? Would you be disgusted? Would you feel he is a burden? You wouldn’t, because you love him. And he loves you! You can’t keep this secret forever. Maybe have an optional cute lil fall picnic date, and talk to him about it