alright tell me what you think plz

anonymous asked:

I've never asked you anything before, but I guess it never hurts to ask. How do go about a situation in which you like a guy but he's with someone? His current girlfriend doesn't make him happy and he's told me this, but he doesn't want to leave her. He says he loves her, but gets excited to see me and smiles as soon as I am brought up into the conversation. What is this? What would you do? I have told him how I felt too.

Aight, nah. I’m so here for all of you guys all the time, whenever I have the time I’ll give y'all advice and try to do my best to help but this shit has to stop. Other people’s relationships are none of your damn business. I’m gonna tell you some harsh shit first, but if you stick through that I’ll explain it all further, so strap yourself in.

Stay the fuck away from this dude.

You have no right whatsoever to destroy another person’s relationship. Imagine if that girl were your friend? In fact bitch, what if it were you? Chasing someone in a relationship makes you a piece of shit, don’t fucking do that to yourself. Walk away with your dignity intact before that girl makes everyone in your life hate you (and rightly so).

IDelete him. Delete his number. If you don’t have the self control to do so, tell one trusted friend that you’re a thirsty idiot who can’t be trusted and allow them to control your contact with him. Stay. Away. If you can’t see why what you’re doing is wrong, think about it this way at least - if you were doing this shit to me/my relationship, I’d hunt you down and pull out all your toenails with a pair of pliers. Keep yourself safe from this dude’s gf plz. 

Alright I’m finished telling you off now. Even if you didn’t take in any of that, if you still don’t think that acting on your bullshit feelings would make you a horrible damn person, then think about the following:

  • If he did it to her, he WILL do it to you.
  • Why do you like a spineless fuckboy anyway?
  • Once a cheater, always a cheater.
  • I doubt anyone would ever trust you again.
  • How could you ever trust him, when you know he’s completely capable of fucking around behind your back at any given moment? Dude, have some self respect.

Relationships are meant to be fun. If it’s constant drama and sneaking around, if it starts out with a web of lies and you have to break someone else’s heart in order to trick yourself into thinking you’re happy, then it isn’t right. Move on. Love yourself more than that.

Stay away from dudes with girlfriends.