I think that you should not revolve your life around what someone else is doing. You should find your own strength and your own happiness.
And if somebody’s there to add on top of your pie, that’s great. But don’t let anyone take a slice of it.
I fell in love with him. But I don’t just stay with him by default as if there’s no one else available to me. I stay with him because I choose to, every day that I wake up, every day that we fight or lie to each other or disappoint each other. I choose him over and over again, and he chooses me.