all-of-the-love-in-the-world

anonymous asked:

Why do you think GOB is bisexual? Look back at his interactions with women: he's disinterested in them and quick to shoot down their offers of sex (or avoids sex altogether, like with his seal trainer wife), and seems like he's only with them out of some misguided feeling he should be, or to provoke a reaction from his family. He's repressed. S4 was very obviously about him coming to terms with being gay. I'm surprised you're getting a bi reading from it? He's never convincingly been into women

i think the issues we’ve seen gob have with women stem more from his developmental issues than from him having a lack of interest in them.

homeboy has textbook Commitment Issues™ which isn’t surprising given his upbringing and we see this over and over again, from his sleeping around in high school and sleeping around post high school for that matter, to his relationship with marta, etc.

and bringing up his wife is funny to me, bc he looks pretty interested in sex to me here:

there are also a few instances in the show indicating he’s into threesomes. ima talk about these a bit. 

**and by the way, i’m not trying to say that anyone who is into threesomes is automatically bisexual – i just think these particular scenes are good evidence for gob in particular being into both men and women.**

the first time, early on in the show, there was this scene:

gob: heard you’re selling the yacht.
michael: yeah, i had a couple in there this morning.
gob: yeah, i know.
[flashback]
gob: well, they got the “asian” right. “hotties” might be a stretch. …well, let’s start with the little one.

(sorry i don’t have gifs of it) but yeah. there’s that. looks like lil gobie ~ordered a couple to have sex with. and it doesn’t seem like he specified genders. or at least doesn’t care. go him tbh

then, in another scene, he briefly mentions a threesome he had in the past with a female and a male.

and then there was a scene in season 3, where we see he was trying to have a threesome with ann and some other chick:

gob: my religious girlfriend just dumped me, and for a simple little misunderstanding. i mean, if someone was always asking you to embrace the Holy Trinity, what would you think they meant?

narrator: gob thought it meant a three-way.

this girl is shown slapping him:

and we later see that ann is the other girl in this scene.

~~bi vibes~~

moving on, i do agree with you that *some* of his relationships with women were to provoke a reaction from his family (mainly his relationship with lucille 2), but i think it’s also pretty obvious that he’s interested in women sexually as well. he just has major issues committing to relationships and expressing feelings. and that goes for both men and women. 

a huge part of season 4 is gob coming to terms with his feelings for tony, which is awesome. we finally see gob able to (at least a little bit) open up and talk about his feelings. but i don’t think this completely erases his past interest in women. bi erasure is a thing k. i just think it shows that he is slowly getting better at expressing his feelings along with him coming to the realization that he wants to be more than friends with tony.

gob is just a very love-deprived individual and i just really hope we get to see much more of him and tony bc this poor child is finally getting some love and growing up and HE DESERVES ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD 

at the end of the day you’re obviously free to have your own opinion but gob is my bisexual son and no one can convince me otherwise ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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it makes me so sad

so f*cking sad

just look at his face

he’s trying so hard to hold back his tears. 

he wanted his group to win. 

they have worked so hard for this comeback.

 they’ve been through a lot of shit. 

it’s so sad that he is trying to smile to make us feel better.

 to tell us is not our fault. this group deserves all the love of the world.

 they are so talented and yet only a few people appreciate it.

i’m not blaming anyone.

i just wanted to share his sadness. 

their sadness. 

to me, they are n.1. 

i’m gonna support them no matter how many prizes they win. 

they make music that reaches people and makes them think. 

and i’m grateful for that.

 you did great guys. you are great.

don’t ever forget that.

stan B.A.P

Hey sweeties! Can I ask for your help?

This is totally OOC, so please read and help me out! That’d be really appreciated!

A good friend of mine @jichimin is really going through a rough time she really doesn’t deserve. She’s an amazing friend who deserves all the love of the world and she’s not feeling well, at all even. I want to make her happy with sending sweet (anonymous) messages!

Please help me out and spread the love towards her! That’d be very much appreciated!

Thanks guys! I love you!! <3 

anonymous asked:

Hey! If you were a matchmaker and had to set up 7 of your mutuals with each member of Bangtan who would you pair with who and why?

THIS WAS SO HARD bc i dont have that many mutuals

jin’s soulmate is literally the cutest, softest stan ever, aka @thestarsarejusthelicopters . Luna would never take him for granted or make him feel like he should be different than who he is. she’d appreciate every one of his jokes and have his back. he’d be loved for the person he is and he’d know it. he’d know that he was loved if he was with Luna. Jin deserves everything, all the love, in the entire world and Luna would give that to him.

i’m cheating here bc i’m not actually mutuals with her but imma have to choose @dailydoseofdia for Yoongi. if you just scroll through her blog and read her tags, it’s so obvious how much she adores every bit of him.

no one would love and appreciate Hobi as much as @ricepot-jisung . Every quirk, every silly thing he does, Ramsey adores and Hobi deserves someone that will appreciate that. He deserves someone that won’t get annoyed with him being goofy and that won’t smother him, and Rams definitely would treat him right !

choosing someone for Namjoon was soooo hard bc all the Joon biased mutuals i have are so sweet, but i’ll have to go with @softmoni . even though i don’t know her well, i can see from her blog that she really loves Namjoon and it’s so pure. i’m v defensive of Joon and hyung line in general but i know she’d treat him right, just as he deserves !

for Jimin, i had to pick @amazzjin . Mazz is so soft for Jimin. like she’d do anything for him. she’d love him with her entire heart and tbh Jimin deserves nothing less than that.

even though i am technically an ot7 stan, it’s hard to choose someone for Tae because he’s so precious and me trying to match someone who i think is compatible is quite difficult especially since i don’t know him personally. he’d need someone who wouldn’t laugh at him, but laugh with him. someone who won’t make him feel ashamed for being himself. someone who encourages him to pursue his unsuspecting hobbies. someone who treats him like they see the stars in his eyes. i have a feeling that when Taehyung loves, he does it with his entire soul. He pours everything into it and he’d someone to reciprocate that. now i was gonna finish this by tagging a tae biased blog except i don’t know any ???? i’m screeching wtf

same goes for kookie, i have no jk mutuals, what am i 

Three little things I love about Yuuri Katsuki

1) He wears the sternum strap on his backpack

2) How frantically he looks for a bag of nuts

3) The fact that he’s made several own playlists for favorite songs, “happy” songs, and “heavy” songs

HE IS SUCH A GOOD AND PURE HUMAN BEAN AND HE DESERVES ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD!!!

You deserve all the love and kindness this world has to offer, I may not be able to give it all to you but Iโ€™ll never stop trying to.
—  Tenari Ioapo // You desetve the best.

everyone needs to understand that kim seokjin is more than ‘just a pretty face’. he is an incredibly hardworking and talented person who tries to better himself day in and day out, despite being constantly told that he’s not talented or undeserving of lines or screen time. he very rarely complains and suffers and struggles quietly but still keeps a smile on his face and makes silly jokes to keep his fans happy. he deserves all the love and appreciation in the world and it’s so frustrating to watch bighit and some fans brush him off and disregard him like they tend to do. this boy is a damn inspiration and he shines brighter than every star in the universe and it’s damn well time that people start acknowledging that.

MBTI and F. Scott Fitzgerald quotes

ISFP:
- There are all types of love in this world but never the same love twice
- Her philosophy is carpe diem for herself and laissez-faire for others

ESFP:
- Personality is an unbroken series of sucessful gestures
- It was only a sunny smile, and little it costs in the giving, but like morning light scattered the night and made the day worth living

ISTP:
- The world only exists in your eyes. You can make it as big or as small as you want
- So we’ll just let things take their course, and never be sorry

ESTP:
- I don’t want just words. If that’s all you have for me, you’d better go
- It was within and without, simultaneously enchanted and repelled by the inexhaustible variety of life

ISFJ:
- It’s not a slam at you when people are rude. It’s a slam at the people they’ve met before
- I don’t ask you to love me always like this, but I want you to remember. Somewhere inside of me there will always be the person I am tonight

ESFJ:
- I wish I have done everything on earth with you
- Things are sweeter when they’re lost, I know because I wanted something and got it. It was the only thing I ever wanted, and when I got it, it turned to dust in my hand

ISTJ:
- Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss
- I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you find the strength to start all over again

ESTJ:
- There are only the pursued, pursuing, the busy and the tired
- The loniest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly

INFP:
- A woman should be able to kiss a man beautifully and romantically without any desire to be either his wife or his mistress
- And in the end, we were only humans… drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness

ENFP:
- For what it’s worth: it’s never too late to be whoever you want to be
- Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall

INTP:
- Everybody’s youth is a dream, a form of chemical madness
- The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function

ENTP:
- It’s funny thing coming home. Nothing changes. Everything looks the same, even smells the same. You realize what’s changed is you
- Live the full life of mind, exhilarated by new ideas, intoxicated by the romance of unusual

INFJ:
- Life is essentially a cheat and its conditions are those of defeat: the redeeming things are not happiness and pleasure, but the deep satisfactions that come out of struggle
- I’m a romantic: a sentimental person thinks things will last, a romantic person hopes against hope that they won’t

ENFJ:
- You are the finest, loveliest, tanderest and most beautiful person I have ever known - and even that is an understandment
- There’s something between us; a sort of pull. Something you always do to me and I to you

INTJ:
- Living your life is a task so difficult, it has never been attempted before
- Why don’t you tell me that “if the girl had been worth having she’d have waited for you?” No, sir. The girl really worth having won’t wait for anybody

ENTJ:
- Genious is the ability to put into effect what is in your mind
- Nothing is beneath you if it is in the direction of your life

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