all round amazing person

sooo … i hit 1.8k which isnt a Milestone™ but it’s my first one since meetin new pals and my first one since i started watchin shadowhunters so i thought i’d do a little follow forever !! sorry for not makin a gif/graphic i’m just lazy

firstly, thanks to everyone who follows me !! so many of you have been here since way back when (merlin) and it has been lovely hanging with you over these years! i love each and every one of you xx

next, a few special mentions:

@sircolinmorgan : hannah, we’ve been mutuals since i was what.. 13? 14? that is like … a long time. it’s so weird that we’ve known each other for fiveish years, but it’s been fiveish awesome years! thanks for putting up with me, especially since i probably fill your dash (and twitter feed) with stuff you don’t care about (read: shadowhunters and harry styles). merlin was a fun time (except christmas day 2012 rip) and i love that i can always rely on your tumblr to update me on colin morgan’s career!! it’s been such a joy getting to know you over the years; thank you for being an awesome person! lots and lots of love, always x

@daddarioswife dani !!! where do i start?! you’re the thirstiest, loveliest angel i have ever had the pleasure of meeting on here, and you’re so lovely to me and to everyone! thank you for bein an absolute dream to talk to and an all-round angel!! ❤️

@magnificentmalec sarah you are quite simply an amazing person!! a pretty recent mutual but one of my favourite people no less. you always fill my dash with positive vibes and love x

to all my mutuals and followers in general: i have no idea why u all follow me, but thank you so much! lots and lots of love

and now, into my follow forever. some of you i’ve been following since way back when, and others only for like .. three days, but all of you make my dash a better place and i have nothin but love for you all: 

a-c: @abloodneed @alecblushed @alecsplushpillow @alexandargideonlightwood @alexvlahos @baneftglitter @bisexual-magnus @bittylicious @bouncingbumble @boyfriendsmalec @brkoenhome @canislytherinthings @canonlesbianalexdanvers @colinmorgasms

d-h: @daddarios @dimshums @fleurdelicour @harry-daddario @harry-shum @hoteldumorts @hufflebee @hwykiynt

i-m: @iriswestdefencesquad @lightbanes @madzie-bane @magnusandalexander @magnusbaene @magnuslightswood @magswoods @metalgr3ymon @mundanelion

n-z: @natashasromanoff @paranoidalec @raphaelsantiago @softjimon @thisissirius

SDMN X Hogwarts Houses

I know this has been done before, but I wanted to do my take on it - I’m also sorry this is very long. I’m gonna try and sort the sidemen and sidemen of the sidemen into Hogwarts houses, HERE WE GO….

Vik - He is an obvious Ravenclaw, he is so smart but he is also quite witty and according to the other sidemen he sits on the fence a lot, weighing out arguments- a true Ravenclaw
JJ - He is a no doubt slytherin, very loyal to his friends but with quite a dark sense of humour; he doesn’t care what other people think of him, as long as he has his friends
Simon - Moné was harder to assign, but in my opinion he is a Gryffindor - he comes across quite energetic, and he looks like he would much rather fuck around with a group of mates than do anything particularly productive- a true Gryffindor
Tobi - a definite Hufflepuff, Tobi is so kind and loyal, and generally such an amazing all rounded person - it’s hard to pick fault with Tobi, and he is just so lovable
Ethan - Ethan in my opinion is one of the hardest to assign, he has many aspects of all of the houses (except Ravenclaw lol), but I think he fits best with Gryffindor, he loves a laugh and he seems like he would be up for trying anything new
Josh - He is a Slytherin at heart, Josh is although hilarious, he can be sly and sneaky; Josh would also stick by all the others through thick and thin
Harry - Harry is by far the most courageous out of all the sidemen, and so there is no question to which house he would be in - obviously Gryffindor, Harry is very relaxed but also batshit crazy
ChrisMD - Chris would be a Ravenclaw, he is very witty and not to mention a HUGE nerd, he is also a perfectionist and so would fit perfectly with the other Ravenclaws
CalFreezy - Cal would be a Slytherin, he is a sneaky little snake, who would also definitely defend you until the end, he would definitely have your back in a fight
Callux - I think Lux would be a Hufflepuff, after the ricegum diss track, we all know that Lux is FIERCELY loyal and would do anything to make sure his friends were ok
Manny - Manny, like Tobi, would be a Hufflepuff - Manny is so sweet and also family oriented, not to mention how nice he is to absolutely everyone
Lewis - From what I have seen of Lewis,he seems like a Slytherin - he seems very competitive, and like he may tell some crude and risky jokes, but inside he is very sweet
Chip - Josh is a Hufflepuff I think, he is super funny and just wants to make others laugh - he is always lighthearted and generally lovely

If you made it this far you probably deserve a medal or something! Also reply to this if you disagree with any of the houses…..

Jackson Wang is amazing, professional and an all round wonderful person who tries his hardest to bring joy and happiness into everyones lives. We all should appreciate him and understand the amount of hard work he does. That is all. 

I have finally watch GG:AYITL and i have a lot of feelings part 1 (spoilers)

There were amazing parts, there were amazingly bad parts. There were sad parts, there were happy parts. Moments i wanted to last forever and moments i just wanted to end. Emotional rollercoaster it was. The need to vent is real. 

The bits i did not like:

1.    We needed far less Logan. The affair storyline was disgusting. Did Rory  not learn from her past?! She chose to be the other woman again?! I lost ALL respect for Rory. And that breaks my heart. And Logan is the WORST kind of guy. Feeding her just enough to give her hope but never commiting at all. Confusing her and making her rely on him. If Amy wanted Logan in it she could have done their story differently and much better (but I guess she needed it for the pregnacy). If it had to happen it should have been a 2 episode maybe 3 max and it should have ended with Rory basically telling him to fuck off. “Thanks for being there when I was at my lowest but I don’t need you to be my emotional crutch when I’m down anymore. I’m a strong independent woman who doesn’t need to waste her time with an almost married man. I can’t keep being the other woman. Bye Logan. Forever.” Not ending with them crying because they can’t be together because he has to marry some French woman. (Also the Logan that we know would have told his family to fuck off if he was being forced into something he didn’t want to do). 

2.    Lorelai should have called Rory out on her shit. Ok she’s not a kid anymore but that doesn’t mean you stop being a parent. Guide Rory. Help her realise that what she is doing is wrong. That she shouldn’t debase herself to being that other woman. She just let it slide. And it genuinely shocked me. Especially when she gets so mad about Rory writing a book about them.

3.    And that’s another thing. Why did Lorelai get mad over the book? It didn’t quite compute with me. It’s essentially a love letter from Rory about their bond and she loves attention! It didn’t fit for me, just created unnecessary drama so they wernt taking and Lorelai could go on her hike.

4.    The musical was too long. I get it; it was supposed to highlight the craziness and quirkiness of the town. It went on to long. It should have been a short couple of minute skit. It took up to much time which could have been used to show much more valuable storylines. It would have been really cute if it was much shorter.

5.    Not enough Miss Patty and Babette. But especially Miss Patty.

6.    What was with the whole pool and fat guy bit? (Did anyone else notice the gap in the side of his speedos) it was weird and not funny.

7.    Rory and Lanes friendship was basically non-existent. I get that they won’t have seen each other a huge amount but my god it was barely there.

8.    Paris and Doyle getting divorced. What was the point in breaking them up if it was just for a few funny stressed out Paris moments? Breaking them up was not necessary for that. I love them together. I need to know if they got back together.

9.    Lorelai was horrible to Emily. She’s lost her husband for crying out loud. What WAS that at the funeral? I am completely on Emily’s side. I know they have a difficult relationship but seriously Lorelai be a bit kinder to your lost, heartbroken, lonely mother.

10.  What was the point in the therapy? Was it just there for a “funny” bit for the musical and to cause friction between Luke and Lorelai?

11.  The Luke and Lorelai drama was unnecessary and felt very repetitive. They have been together 9 years and they haven’t talked about any of this?! Bullshit

12.  The way Rory treated Paul was disgusting. What was the point of him at all? Just made Rory come across as an AWFUL person. And so unlike the Rory we know. I think it was supposed to be funny. And it would have been if it had been kept to the first episode and it had just been Luke and Lorelai forgetting about him. But Rory forgetting about him like that?! In the words of Emily Gilmore: bullshit. And cheating on him like that?! I thought Rory had more self-respect.

13.  I did not care for Rory at all really in these episodes. She had her good moments but she also came across as incredibly self-centred and cruel. She was rude to the thirty something group. (Which she is part of, don’t be so high and mighty Rory). She expected everyone in the journalism world to fall at her feet because she went to Yale and wrote one article that was published by the New York something. Then she is rude to the website that did want her. It was Providence all over again.

14.  It may not be her fault that she’s pregnant, but my god it’s completely on her that she slept with Logan. No feeling sorry for yourself that you are in that situation.

15.  So unbelievably mad that these are the final 4 words. Rory was supposed to go out and conquer the world, or at least become a good journalist; living out in the big world, away from the small town was made clear I felt in the original series that she as bigger than that. Meant to do more.  I’m amazed that Amy wanted to end it with essentially sentencing Rory to the same life her mum had. I thought the whole point was Rory was supposed to go off and have the life her mum didn’t have. And those were the final four words she wanted to end the original series with?! When Rory would have been much young?! I expected a lot more from feminist, female power Amy (this is not a dig at single mums, what Lorelai did was incredible and one of the hardest, bravest things to do. I just think cant believe that Amy wanted to make this a full circle story. Baffles me).

16.  Hated The Life and Death Brigade bit. It was one of those moments that just felt forced and shoehorned in to get as many characters back as possible. And it surprised me that Rory was even still friends with them. I truly thought that was done and dusted, meant to be left to her time at Uni. (I’m English) like the musical it wasted valuable story telling time. The life and death brigade basically had more screen time than Jess. Wrong on so many levels. 

17.  Small thing but I didn’t like that they showed Mr Kim. Just putting that out there! I liked the running joke of him not being seen.

18.  Why couldn’t she be having Jess’ baby. They could have been hooking up secretly. If she HAD to be pregnant there were so man better ways Amy could have done it.

19.  And finally Jess. Poor, undervalued, but all round amazing person Jess. Where do I begin?! I thought you loved Jess Amy?! It certainly didn’t seem that way in this revival. Yes you couldn’t get much filming tie with Milo. That’s fine. But my god you could have done more with what time you had. We needed ONE LINE about his career. Has he written more books? Have they been successful? That could have been so easily slipped in to the beautiful literati scene in summer. “Hey do how’s the life of being a bestselling author suiting you? I loved you last book. When are you bringing out another?” any of that would have been fine. And 1 second of time.  he was so supportive, encouraging and inspiring to Rory in that scene I had to pause and have a little freak out because it made my literati heart sing. They were friends who supported each other. It was what we had all hoped for. And then you go and throw it all under the bus. An awkward squeal jump and a one sided longing look is all we got after that. No evolution of the character, no insight into his life at all. It was the worst possible ending I could have envisioned for Jess. And the show in general. I wanted Rory to end up with Jess obviously. I didn’t even need it to be obvious, just a couple of moments to show there was still something there, a final look and them maybe both admitting to Luke and Lorelai separately that there might be some feelings there. I could have coped with her ending up with Logan if that’s what Amy chose (although not after the affair) but the one thing I could not cope with and now have to is Jess still in love with Rory while she is indifferent to him. It is cruel on so many levels. I need him to be happy. If that’s without Rory then so be it but for the love of all that is good in the world don’t keep him in love with her. But she did and he is. Fuck me I’m heartbroken. That last look through the window will haunt me for the rest of my life. And now she’s fucking pregnant with Logan’s baby (no words) if Amy wants them to end up together in a Luke Lorelai situation then that’s the fucking worst. Jess bringing up Logan’s kid?! Not sure he would like that and he would definitely hate Logan being round all the time and I’m sure Logan would hate Jess bringing up his kid. It’s straight out of all the fanfictions I avoid because it’s my worst case scenario for them ending up together. Rory doesn’t deserve Jess. His love is too pure and her heart is too fickle. How could Amy do such injustice to a character she claims she loves so much?! 

My Literati heart is at war with itself. On the one hand its going there’s still a chance! He loves her, he could edit her book, he could be the Luke to her Lorelai and baby Rory, they can still live happily ever after. And on the other hand its telling Jess to run and never look back, she doesn’t deserve your heart, save it for someone who does. Jess is my favourite character. I just need him to be happy.

21. I got so excited about that longing look until i saw how much time there was left and then saw the ending and now that longing look is just painful.

20.  The Jess and Luke scenes were amazing. But WHY THE FUCK WAS JESS NOT AT THE WEDDING?!!! That will baffle me to the day I die. They woke Lane up but not Jess?! Fuck actor schedules. He should have been there. And why didn’t he stay at the dinner?! It’s common sense. Luke knows he struggles with Liz and T.J. so why would he make him stay there when there is an empty apartment ready for him?! Every fanfiction I have ever red has him stay at the apartment; no one ever makes him stay at his mums. I thought you knew these characters Amy. Apparently I was mistaken. 

21.  I needed closure. I did not get this. I am very upset about that.