Here's what I don't get
How can you spend so long telling someone that they mean so much to you and then in an instant throw it away and cheat on them? How can you tell your significant other that you love them for months on end and then sleep with someone else? How can you call your girlfriend/boyfriend-baby, babe, loml, cutie, etc. and be seeing someone behind their back? How can you do that to someone? I cannot fathom cheating. It’s happened to me twice and I still cannot wrap my head around what goes into a person’s mind to make them think that it is okay to do that to someone. If you are not happy with someone, break up with them. Do not cheat on them, for the love of all that is good in this world. That leaves a person in such a mess. Thinking “What did I do wrong?” “Why wasn’t I good enough?” “What did they have that I didn’t?” It hurts a person to no end. It tears your heart up to no end. Don’t cheat. I don’t care what your reasoning is, it isn’t good enough to cheat.