all of the issues

octavia tried to commit suicide whilst screaming that she needed to feel something but people still can’t seem to wrap their heads around the fact that she has severe mental health issues, ptsd and depression… all they do is wish for her death, call her “octagon”, get mad at her for having sex to mask her pain and cry over her hostility towards Bellamy (without understanding that most of the time, those with ptsd take it out on the people they love the most)… anyways, I still hate this fandom and love octavia, have a terrible night x

probablyspider-manoneday  asked:

In the vein of the question answered today, what are some real life examples/situations that someone can use or visualize to determine whether they use Ni or Ne?

When planning something, do you tend to plan in depth and find it difficult to deviate from that plan when life complicates things (Ni) or do you wing it, changing your mind easily when given new information, even redesigning your entire idea at the last minute (Ne)?

When pondering truth, do you revisit an issue from every internal angle, considering all options and gradually excluding information, ideas, and interpretations until you have a single belief, opinion, or truth (Ni), or do you hold one position for awhile, then change it when given additional information, sometimes changing your mind a dozen times or being uncertain that there is an clear truth on this particular issue (Ne)?

When describing your perceptions, do you find it difficult to put your inner symbols and visualizations into words, instead focusing on a single anticipated outcome (Ni), or can you easily articulate connections, parallels, symbolism, and various possible outcomes for others to read or understand (Ne)?

When thinking about the future, are you typically more comfortable having a single fixed idea of what you intend to accomplish and how, having faith in yourself that your inevitable desired outcome will come to pass, and that life will present you with opportunities to step forward (Ni), or do you tend to change your ideas, ambitions, dreams, and thoughts about the future based on your interests at the time, your feelings in the moment, what possibilities lie before you, or the new people, places, and things you encounter (Ne)?

When problem-solving, does the idea sometimes simply “present itself” to you through subconscious pondering (or “sleeping on it”) (Ni), or do you tend to “think-out-loud” through different ideas and possibilities, first trying and then discarding one after another, until you hit upon the idea that works best (Ne)?

When making predictions, are you fairly confident in reading between the lines and asserting someone’s true motives, intentions, what really happened, or where something is likely to go in the future (Ni), or more inclined to state an opinion while nervously considering that you may not have all the evidence, so your conclusion could be wrong, and being open to or frequently changing your opinion based on new ideas, possibilities, or evidence (Ne)?

When your friends get on your case, is it because they see your idea as too narrow, fixated, or unshakable once you’ve made up your mind on this inevitable outcome or prediction (Ni), or because they see you as inconsistent and flighty, since you can reverse your position 180% in the course of a few weeks of pondering and may even contradict yourself in a single paragraph (Ne)?

Finally, this one is a VITAL difference between Ni/Ne-doms:

When everything goes wrong at the last minute, and your original plan, idea, or visualized outcome becomes impossible, do you short-circuit and find yourself unable to adapt, while beating yourself up for not having “foreseen” a way to avoid this inevitable outcome, perhaps even clinging stubbornly to your predetermined course, hoping you can make it happen through sheer force of will (Ni), or do you easily toss aside your earlier idea and adapt, revise, innovate, and go with whatever possibilities are immediately apparent in the environment (Ne)?

- ENFP Mod

If you were wondering, I did yard work all morning and afternoon and my racist frat neighbours are going to have issues with english ivy, euphorbia, and blackberries for the rest of their tenure at that house. it will take actual bulldozing to undo my beautiful work.

Don't be an asshole to the guy letting you into the bar

So I work the door at a bar in my town on weekends. It’s a pretty busy downtown area and on Saturday nights we check the ID of everyone that comes in, just to cover our own ass. So this 24 year old looking lady comes in and I ask her for her ID. She immediately goes on a tirade of “do you know how old I am?!” I explain that it doesn’t matter and I have to check everyone’s ID as that’s our policy (along with the policy of almost every other bar in town.) so all her friends give me their IDs without any issue. Finally the angry one gets her ID out and touches it to my face and says “see I’m fucking 30! And it’s my birthday today!” So I politely respond with “that’s nice. Maybe you should act like it.” And she loses her shit telling me how much of a dick I am. And I told her she didn’t need to come into the bar if she didn’t want to. And she told me she’d be where ever she wanted to be. And this is where she is drinking. So she goes to the bar and I tell all the bartenders to make her wait as long as possible before serving her and then to only serve her once and cut her off. She stood at the bar for 20 minutes or so before finally getting a chance to order. She orders one shot and then goes to order a drink, the  bartender responds with a smile. “I’m sorry mam we are going to have to stop serving you. You appear to be to drunk.” She freaks out and tells her friends they are leaving the bar. But the best part is all her friends were having a great time and didn’t want to leave. So she ended up leaving by herself on her birthday.

TL:DR. Don’t Piss off the guys letting you into a bar. They have just as much say in whether you get drinks as the bartenders do.

anonymous asked:

Nice racism you got there! Does it come in other colors?

I’m not wrong in stating that an underdeveloped character who’s only on screen for 3 minutes wouldn’t be as popular if he’d been played by anyone who wasn’t white. Thems be the facts Deborah. You wouldn’t spare him a single thought, much less write thousands of fics and headcanons based of 3 minutes of screen time. Maybe take a look at yourself and your fandom and figure out why the hell so many of you passed over the main trio (a black man, a latinix, and a white woman) in order to develop a white man who could be replaced by a lamp and no one would know the difference, instead of coming into my inbox and accusing me of racism.

You know you coulda just blocked me and kept it moving if my disliking H*x bothered you so much. But instead of doing that, you decided to hop into my inbox and darken my screen like a fucking goblin. Good day.

Hello friends I need some advice!!!

So I’m going out of the country for almost 2 weeks in May (which I’m SUPER excited for btw), and I’m of course not bringing my pups. However, my mom and sister are both coming as well so we decided to leave all four of the dogs at our house with a dog sitter.

I’m just worried about leaving them all for almost two weeks. I’m not going to have my friend who’s watching them walk them, because my kids are reactive, but she will play with them and things. They usually wear each other out a lot, but I’m worried they’re going to get sick of each other after 11 days, and also that they are going to destroy my house or something.

I’m not even sure what exactly I’m hoping for advice wise. Is there anything I should do? Has anyone else left their (not easy) dogs with someone for that long that wasn’t an owner? Or maybe toys I could make to keep them entertained??? Idk but if anyone has any advice I’d appreciate it

so apparently cogman in tf5 is supposed to be polite and dignified and drives the old english human dudes’ car, but he has anger issues 

 and all i can see is this

cogman: [listening to classical music while driving] so, sir, how’s your day-

random human: UR BUTLER SUCKS 

cogman: excuse me, one second 

cogman: [rolls down windows to car, there’s inhuman screaming. he’s running over humans with the car CLASSICAL MUSIC IS BLARING  THE SCENT OF A RAGING ALPHA IS UPON US RUN HUMAN RUN AND DONt LOOK BACK YOU FOOL] 

cogman: [clears throat] sorry about that now where were we…?

BTS reaction - having a tall Boyfriend


He would feel all giddy inside when you come up behind him while he’s cooking. He loves that you’re taller than him, 


I see Yoongi laying his head in his boyfriend's lap with his headphones in, listening to one of his new songs. He already knows he’s small, so having a tall boyfriend wouldn’t be an issue at all.

Rap Monster

He’s fairly tall himself, so having someone who can either match or beat that would be a dream. He wouldn’t mind you height one bit, in fact, he finds it quite sexy.

J hope

He would like dancing around the living room with you. He’d put his toes on yours and swing around with you and laugh.


Sweater paws for days! He’d wear his boyfriend’s tops whenever he wanted and his little hands would just disappear in the sleeves.

“Do you need a smaller shirt, Jiminnie?”

“No. This one looks good on me.” *takes a selca with you*

can’t even talk about this gif! I’m dead


He would also take a few of you clothes, but Tae is more of an oversized jacket type of guy. He would only wear the ones that are fuzzy on the inside.


although he’d miss being tall one, Kookie would love being able to rest his head on his boyfriend’s chest. He’d find comfort in having a cuddle from a tall person.

Originally posted by yourpinkpill

anonymous asked:

One problem with the rejected Tord clone gangs is they can never commit serious crimes because their always fighting over who's going to be the leader too much to come up with a good plan

Oh man that’s uncanny! :’D I also guess they’ll just do petty crimes such as stealing from convince stores or dining and dashing. They’re probably not willing to rob anyone since the chances of them being caught can be high and the ‘Original’ Tord could get in trouble for their actions…..

guys, how do you go about learning new words in a language you’re not very proficient in yet so you can’t really read much yet or even understand children’s shows?
I own one of those ‘basic vocab books’ but most words in there are words I never use… How do you find useful words that you’re actually going to need?
And how do you go about memorizing those words? Normally I use flashcards but I’ve noticed this doesn’t really help me actively remember the words when I need to use them in a text or a conversation even though I always quiz myself on the meaning of the word in my target language so I don’t just practice recognizing the word.
The best thing would of course be to practice the words by using them but I can’t even figure out how to do that because there is no one I can talk Arabic to and I don’t know enough words to have a conversation anyway. 
It feels like being stuck in a vicious cycle where you need to know more words to learn more words and I’m pretty sure it’s not actually that hard. But lately I’ve been so frustrated to the point where I almost started crying in Arabic class because I feel like I’m never going to learn this language. If any of you know anything I’d really appreciate it. 


Meet Mini Wheat Glitch, aka Glitch for short. Little Glitch just traveled down from @strongbrewhams to live at The Pipsqueakery. We think her skull was damaged during birth and her whole jaw is off kilter with a heck of an overbite. Her teeth are growing all wrong and she’s just got some issues. She’s sorta a ridiculous looking hamster, but I am so in love with her already. #hamster #omg #socute

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The corrupted chunks have been fixed, inventory resets are hopefully a thing of the past (EDIT: nope, they are currently an issue still, standby on getting that fixed), and ellesims (@elledoesmaxismatchcc​) makes a triumphant/majestic return.

The world has been reset to around 3pm pacific on March 22nd, sorry for anything lost during the rest of the day. If you need help replacing items lost in past resets/during all these issues contact @crazycupcakefr or me and we’ll make it happen.

Things I've had to put up with since booking my trip...

“Omg your mom is letting you go by yourself?” 

 Ok, first of all, I’m 27. 

Second of all, I’m going to civilization, not the remote jungles of Vietnam (a friend of mine went hiking through them and said they’re quite lovely actually).

Third of all, I’m 27.

 "Wow, I can’t believe your boyfriend is letting you go” 

 Ok, first of all, he don’t own me. 

Second of all, I was apparently a “cool” gf cuz I had no issue with him going to vegas with the boys last month, but he’s a “bad” bf for not making a fuss about my trip.

 Third of all, he don’t own me.

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs