all i want in a man


@bokuakaweek Day 1: First Meeting

phil, the boy who loves horror movies and sweets and spontaneity and instrumental music and linguistics and creating things and had dreams of being a weather man. the boy who loves doing nice things for his friends and adores his family. the boy who wants everyone to be happy in their own skin and believes each passing moment is a possibility for a new adventure. do it for him.

[translations] 2017.03.26 NCT DREAM fansign at Daejeon fan accounts

1. OP: Jeno, what do you think is your charm point?
Jeno: When I smile at someone? [614duck]

2. OP asked Haechan if there’s any singer he wants to collaborate with, he says Dean. [NCT_YOUNG2]

3. OP: Do you think of any pokemon when you see me?
Jisung: (while drawing) Snor—lax… 
OP: How did you know I love to sleep?

4. OP asked Jisung, if they get the chance to appear on Running Man, whose name tag would he like to tear?
Jisung: Mark hyung
OP: Why?
Jisung: Ah no, it’s Haechan hyung. Because he annoys me all the time [NCT_dh66]

5. OP: Jisung, which of Mark’s stages in High School Rapper do you think is most memorable?
Jisung: The semi finals.. No, oh! Sing Sang Sung!!
OP: Haha, If Jisung has the chance to act again, what role would you want to do?
Jisung: I want to be a soldier! [tweety_nct]

6. OP: When does Haechan think he’s the manliest?
Haechan: For me… (distressed) When I’m angry! [jane_0423]

7. OP: Jisung, are you still sleeping in the living room?
Jisung: Recently I sleep in the room
OP: Why?
Jisung: Chenle came once to go back into the room, another time Renjun hyung came and told me to go back in so I went to the room to sleep.[jn_0_jn]

8. OP: Could you tell me what’s your favorite drink from gongcha?
Jeno: I like taro smoothie! 
OP: Could you write that for me? haha and a heart too~  [haaaaechan]

9. OP: Did you see the god Jisung banner I held during rookies show? 
Jisung: Ah, yes.
OP: You have seen it??
Jisung: That… Black one
OP: Yes!!! Black with white lining.
Jisung: Oh yes yes
OP: Could you write  련지 Noona here?
Jisung: Ohhhh… That twitter…??
OP: Yes hehe… So you know!!
Jisung: I have seen it, I have looked at it with my friend [O7220205]

anonymous asked:

youtube has finally started to take down channels and videos of black men attacking black women. Oshay Duke Jackon, some of Tommy's channels and MANY others have all been taken down and they are PRESSED! they making videos saying black women just want to see them broke and black men need to stay positive and dont rely on youtube for their income. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA *gabrielle union hair flip*

Yes they have. This is a victory! I haven’t had the time to cover this, but thanks to celebrity author (and I believe she’s also a lawyer) Sophia Nelson. Sophia Nelson is the Black Woman responsible for starting this campaign to take down the bw-hating cyberbullies. The He-Man Black Woman Haters Club REALLY barked up the wrong tree, this woman is powerful and has powerful connections! She posted a video not to long ago about how BW-hater Youtuber, Obsidian has been making bashing/stalking videos about her and unlawfully using her images for years without her knowledge. He thought that he was getting away with it  because he thought that she was just like many black women, powerless to do anything about it. I’ve said for a while now that we just need ONE powerful black woman with MANY powerful connections to get an successful black woman anti-defamation league going. Mrs. Nelson ain’t playing! She’s friends with Christelyn Karazin. CK talks about it more here. Here’s the video with Mrs Nelson discussing the bullying of her and black women and girls:

Christelyn also did a google hang out with Mrs. Nelson (below):

It ain’t over yet and there’s more work to do!


I walked across the glade in my knee high shorts and very small strap shirt I could tell the boys were trying to not look at me but all struggling a lot not to look at me I walked through the gardens and saw newt and Thomas messing around Thomas sore me and dropped his knife 

“what’s the matter with you tommy?” newt asks before he noticed me his eyes going wide for a second before smirking at me “oh hey love” he smirks at me “you look nice today” he smirks

“thanks newt” I smirk kissing his cheek and wondering off to my work just a little further away 

“lucky shank” Thomas sighs 

“what?” newt asked him 

“she shucking kissed you man” he sighs 

“yeah, she does all the times its kinda normal” he shrugs 

“then why don’t you… you know, ask her out?” he asks

“don’t think I’ve tried, she doesn’t want a boyfriend tommy, she just likes teasing me” 

Hey guys

I didn’t want this to happen and I didn’t mean to offend anyone. I was afraid something like this would happen if I started sharing anything personal.. So I’m not going to answer any more asks about this topic nor am I going to answer any more personal asks just to avoid conflict all together

Sorry, I am also trying to not be dramatic but I really want this blog to be a happy place :) Including myself as well. Cause man if I feel shitty about myself, I become a complete shut in and I can’t do that with this blog ahahah.

Once again, I’m sorry I didn’t mean to offend! I am going to log off now so have a good day <33

To the side who is all Ed, saying Os deserved to be shot because he was selfish and killed Isabella out of a pure self-serving nature. That Ed was happy and Oswald couldn’t stand it because Ed was happy with someone who wasn’t ​him​ and thus eliminated the middle-man to get what he wanted: 

I can see your point. Oswald absolutely ​was​ selfish. I was mad at him too. You can’t just kill someone and expect their lover to not find out and fall into your arms when you confess. 

BUT Oswald is pretty much new to the romance thing. He doesn’t get that you can’t just ​make​ someone fall in love with you by eliminating competition the way you do rising in the mob. His only association with learning how to survive is to ​make sure​ he gets what he wants. He wanted Ed. Therefore Isabella had to go. She was simply an obstacle to him and what does Oswald do? He ​overcomes​. With the mob bosses, Fish, his injury, his past, the bullying, his own depression and loneliness…it what he does. He knows no other way. He wanted Ed and he was going to get him through any means necessary. This is shown in his flawed delusion that Ed would seek him out as a “shoulder to cry on” and his confusion when Ed didn’t get over it in a day and kiss him al-fucking-ready. He was genuinely confused because, remember, Ed expected Oswald to jump up and teach him about murder just after his mother’s death. His ​mother​ that he knew and loved, and was the only source of love he had, all his life. Of course Os would expect Ed to get over a girl he only knew a week quickly and come to him.

To the Oswald people who think that Ed is a “snake.” That he’s a back-stabbing murderer and Oswald is a precious baby who has never done anything wrong in his whole life (completely cynical, ik y’all don’t really think that) and that Ed overreacted: 

I can see your point too. Ed certainly did overreact. Oswald ​didn’t​ deserve to be shot. Especially after sacrificing his own life to keep Ed safe from Butch, Barbara, and Tabitha (as far as he knew). And that was after Ed had tortured him in the warehouse. 

BUT, Ed is not a snake. He’s confused. For all he knows, his last chance of happiness was destroyed. At this point, he can’t even imagine being with Oswald because Oswald killed his Isabella selfishly. Remember that Ed’s never had a single friend all his life. Not even his parents cared very much for him. He’s been abused, told he’s unlovable, ignored, pushed away…Ed’s lived an extremely toxic and lonely life. So why ​wouldn’t​ Oswald betray him? Everyone does. Everyone leaves him. Ed grew up believing that anyone who wanted to be around him was only in it for personal gain…then came Oswald who ​seemed​ true. Oswald who taught him many things and saw him for who he was and ​loved​ him. Oswald who willingly touched and hugged him… Oswald who betrayed him and killed his last chance at happiness to selfishly be with him. So in a way, he was proven right…again. And he can’t take it anymore. 

What I’m saying is, both characters deserve love and should be protected and cherished. Thank 

anonymous asked:

RFA, V and Saeran with aromantic MC? Im just really in the mood for some platonic fluff.

Nah man, I feel. 


  • Honestly he probably feels like he did something wrong when they’re a bit more distant from him and not in the “you’re just saying that because you don’t like me” way but more in the “i don’t know what I did, but if I hurt your feelings in any way or upset you at all please let me know because I want to make things better” kind of way 
  • He really is perfectly fine with it in fact, it really helps to know that he didn’t do something wrong
  • He asks a lot of questions, but they come from a place of genuinely wanting to understand and known more as opposed to trying to be rude about it 
  • I mean, this is Yoosung we’re talking about, I can’t see him ever being intentionally rude


  • She’s fine with it honestly
  • It wouldn’t surprise me if she’s somewhere on the aro scale herself with how her good route ended, but even if she’s not, she’s perfectly fine with it. 
  • She just likes spending time with them honestly, whatever makes them most comfortable is obviously great 
  • She’s a really sweet, kind of understanding person, where if someone’s being rude to MC, she’s probably just make them their favorite drink and make sure they’re comfy and taken care of before going to have a calm conversation with whoever’d messed with them


  • This man in unaware that this is actually a thing. 
  • It’s not like he has any sort of problem with it. He’s just, genuinely unaware that it’s even a thing
  • He’d be interested in learning about it honestly and does a lot of research (okay honestly one of the main ways to tell that he really cares about something is when he researches it on his own as opposed to making Jaehee or someone else do it for him
  • He gets so excited when he finds out something new and would definitely tell MC even if they already knew, he’s kind of like an excited kid when it comes to showing them what he’s learned


  • He’s always so flirtatious, but I swear, the moment he figures out they’re aro (and figures out what that means) he drops that entirely until he’s sure MC’s okay with it
  • He just wants them to be comfortable
  • If they are okay with him flirting he’ll definitely continue to do, but in a much more subdued way
  • Insists that they tell him if anything makes them uncomfortable 
  • If anyone dares try and mess with them he’s ready to fight


  • He actually is familiar with most terms in the LGBT+ community, so he’s like, the main guy here who doesn’t have to go to Wikipedia for an explanation 
  • again, kind of the same as Zen, he’ll stop flirting with them until he’s sure they’re okay with it
  • Always adds on to the end when he flirts with them
  • “I wanna marry you at the space station…As a friend.” 
  • “No romo” 
  • “I love you…but like, platonically”  
  • But honestly, he’s super sweet about it 


  • He obviously still cares about Rika despite everything that happened, so I can’t see him looking to MC right away in a romantic way at least
  • He’s really fine with anything, 
  • He doesn’t care about who they are or are not attracted to in any way (like not in a rude way, at all, he just doesn’t really think it’s any of his business)
  • That doesn’t have anything to do with who they are as a person and it’s obvious what a great person 
  • He cares so much about everyone in the RFA and they’re definitely included. 


  • He has absolutely no clue what you’re talking about and honestly it doesn’t bother him one bit when he finds out
  • It doesn’t affect who they are so everything’s fine
  • He doesn’t really say much when they first bring it up to him, because honestly it’s not like he has anything against it. 
  • He’s probably not going to be comfortable with a relationship for quite some time after everything he’s been through. Not having to think about the whole romantic relationship vs. friendship thing with them when he spends time with them would honestly be really helpful as he got closer to them 
  • A few days later he’d just quietly come over to them and be like, “I don’t know how this whole aromatic thing works, and I don’t want to make you uncomfortable or anything, but we can still have our weekly ice cream dates, right?”
  • Do I even have to point out how protective he is? They’re probably like, the first person he’s really ever cared about and had care about him in return. 
  • He’d protect them to the death. 

anonymous asked:

Do you believe the baby news? We haven't had an official statement :(

hey :-)

yes i do; even though it’s been leaked by the ‘Fail and the Mirror; more and more reputable sources are disseminating it so yeah i do and am delighted for sophie and her boys (yay)

(what i also sadly believe is the amount of toxic waste being currently disgorged by the “Sophie Stole My Man” community. which i just saw on my dash and which quite frankly makes me want to reach for the antiseptic hand-wash)

and - forgive me if i sound condescending but - BC is under no obligation to announce the arrival of Hal until he’s ready of course. i hope, given all the projects he has lined up in 2017 - that he’s getting as much family time away as he can right now.


anonymous asked:

hey nikk- my partner has come out as a trans woman and been out for a while. As a trans man myself I understand how much support she needs and will need, but I am finding myself less and less attracted to her as she gets further along in her transition - I am gay and simply not attracted to women. I still love her and want to support her, but the physical attraction is fading and so are the romantic feelings. Am I a bad person? I don't know how to end the relationship without seeming like one.

You are not a bad person at all and she should understand that. You can still give her all the love and support as a friend!

You are not a bad person for ending the relationship and I really hope she sees that. You’re gay and aren’t attracted to her and why would she want to be with you if you weren’t attracted to her???? I’m sure she will understand !

anonymous asked:

Agree. I think JK is reaally pushing K to stay bc he needs the Straight Man image more than ever before. But imho Karlie is like, subconsciously holding on to that 'relationship' because what happens after he's gone from the picture? T seems to be done with bearding, so there's only one way to go. This is so cliche but K's young, T is a little bit older and probably just tired of it all. She prob wants to settle down, consequences be damned, and maybe K isn't quite there yet :/ I hope I'm wrong.

Another old one, my apologies anon.

I do think Taylor is getting tired of the bearding, and I doubt she will for the next album. I also agree that Karlie doesn’t seem to be in that place just yet. I don’t think TS6 is going to be as gay as we might want. I’m hoping for gender neutral at this point. Karlie, meanwhile, is clearly changing directions, moving beyond fashion. Her latest interview said as much. That may be part of her reluctance to move on a CO. There are a lot of factors at play here, and a lot we don’t know.

What I do know, is that if we’re right that they were together this last week, (and we have reasons to believe we are) the no homoing that’s happening now, like clockwork, indicates they’re not doing a CO soon. If they were, they’d be Big Suring the heck out of their vacation photos. Doesn’t mean they can’t in the future, but why no homo something we have no concrete evidence of if the goal is to eventually yes homo it?

anonymous asked:

What happened to all the drama? It was so freaking interesting when shit went sky high. Now it's just a jello mess of gluten-free cornflakes. Like wtf man. Get yourself together and set fire to the rain boi because your fan base needs it. And yeah. You got one of those now. Because I saw FANFICTION of you, yes YOU. England-of-the-day from tumblr getting shipped with today's-Spain. It was kinda cute tbh. I want that ship to sail--

what the fuck??? what the fuck??????? what the fuck????????????

I messaged a (n unattractive) guy about 10 months ago when i was black out drunk and told him i wanted to be his friend and i hated myself and wished I was dead and he just messaged me today and said ‘sorry for not replying man ur a lil slut in a different way but ur ok’
and w hat the fuck bye. 
i literally don’t remember ever messaging him but i had enough typos that I can tell I was blacked out (that and this happens to me all the time)


Is it me or has ONCE not been this good in a really really long time?

I loved all of it! I loved Emma and “you come to me, Hook, and you lean on me” and I loved Killian wanting to rediscover himself and I loved him deciding to stay by her side but I loved him getting his own adventure as well. I freaking loved Killian and Snow finally getting to have a talk. And, man, oh, man! I loved Regina’s storyline, I loved the EQ getting Page 23 even. I just… I was so scared of this episode and I loved it so much… damn.