1: Fed all of her friends almost every day for ten years without complaining.
2: Excelled in a traditionally masculine career, (yes, cookery as a profession is generally male-dominated) and in traditionally masculine hobbies (football), without compromising her femininity or sexuality.
3: At the same time, revelled in traditionally female interests such as babies, marriage and housework without apologizing for them, or suggesting they made her inferior or weak.
4: Overcame teenage obesity.
5: Grew up in an emotionally abusive home, with a mother who subjected her to relentless criticism and verbal mistreatment….But still emerged with a sense of her own self-worth, determination to fulfil her dreams and huge capacity to care for others.
6: Stayed friends with her brother who bullied her as a child, and contributed to said-emotionally abusive home. Didn’t blame him for her mistreatment or show resentment towards him.
7: Took former best friend – who abandoned and rejected her for a ‘high society’ life – into her home without question.
8: Prior to this, accepted a woman who had previously lived on the streets, as her roommate and welcomed her into her group of friends.
9: Went through unemployment and shitty jobs, but refused to take unfair advantages she hadn’t earned (i.e. Pete buying her a restaurant). Eventually gained a prestigious head chef position based entirely on her own merit.
10: Walked away from the man she thought was the love of her life, because she wanted children and he’d only have them to make her happy. Even though that option would have been 100 times less painful for Monica, she knew that wasn’t fair on him and refused.
11: After marrying the actual love of her life, she waited until Chandler was ready to have kids, because she knew about his fears of raising children. When they discovered virtually the only option for children was sperm donor-ship (so they’d be her kids but not his), she refused and insisted on adoption.
12: Was also the one-woman cheerleading team for the aforementioned love of her life, in telling him he could be the amazing boyfriend, husband and father that he never saw in himself. Was proved 100% right.
13: Resisted her control-freak coping mechanisms to give Chandler the power of making the big decisions about their future, (saying ‘I Love you’, moving in together, marriage), so he could work through his commitment phobia. Again, proved it was 100% worth it.
14: Encouraged her husband to quit a job he hated, then supported him – financially and emotionally –through his subsequent unemployment and helped him find his dream career.
15: Never, ever fucking gives up on anything or anyone.
(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧ This is the Amazing Person Award! Once you are given this award you are supposed to paste it in the ask of eight different people, who, in your opinion, deserve it. If you break the chain nothing will happen, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're amazing inside and outside.
thank you ^^
like i wasn’t gonna use yoonjin gifs from the niconico broadcast XD
not gonna lie.. i was waiting for this hahahah also.. i had the order already set out in my head as soon as i read it XD
no but seriously.. WHY. WOULD. YOU. DO. THAT.
the payback has finally arrived :P
(any excuse to use that gif hahahahahah)
MARRY: Yoongi ^^
the countless number of things i could and would do to him.. with him.. against him XD
and of course get to know him on a really personal basis ^^ (and have the countless yoongi scenarios i’ve been creating in my mind come true XD (eg. 1, 2,3)
and wake up to this beautiful face every morning XD
raise kids with him ♥ XD
(yeah i know. he’s my ‘manstress’ but that was when i was married to seyong.. and really i only married seyong cause you married moonbin ..and we’d have the same surname.. but then you went and married insoo.. so.. YEAH :P)
KILL: (completely against my will and guided by your hand hahhah) Seungri
If you could spend one day with an BTS member, who would you choose and what would you like to do with him? Reply with a summary of that day (doesn’t have to be too long) and send this to your 10 favorite blogs. ♥ (and bae you know you're link is wrong for your ask??!!)
Yoongi. Obviously :P (no.. but I’ve thought this out so many times XD)
(in a perfect world..)
We’d start the day by sleeping in till about lunch time (cause you know.. he’d be working late the night before XD), spend about an hour lying (or rolling around whatever :P) in bed after we woke up cause we just didn’t want to leave hahaha
Eventually we’d get up, eat the food that Jin had cooked and left for us (cause he’s a sweetheart ^^) and then spend the day hanging out in his studio. He could be working the whole time I wouldn’t care. I’ve mentioned before how content I would be just watching him work. (I’ve always been intrigued about the process he goes through in putting a song together)
Maybe if he wanted to take a break, we’d have a talk or something - about anything. I’d rather he talk and I listen though XD I’d want him to talk about anything.. his dreams, his likes, his dislikes, his fears.
After that, if he wanted to take a nap, he’d be more than welcome to use my lap as a pillow ^^ and I’d probably fall asleep shortly after because his talking voice is so soothing and makes me sleepy.
Hey so just wanted to let you know that I'm halfway through answering your asks but I'm now in a car and I can't finish it but I wanted to let you know you'll get a SUPER long answer haha okay bye love ya child 😘😘
You're under arrest for being so flawless and exceptional in all you do! Copy this message to 9 other blogs that are currently in your 'tumblr crushes' list ❤ Keep the game going and make other blogs feel loved! ❤
hi lovelly <3333 When you get this ask list 5 things that make you happy, then pass this on to the last 10 people who reblogged from you~
hi sweetie ^^
1. My darling cat - Alice ♥ (I honestly don’t know how I survived the years before I got her >< seeing my mum pet her is honestly the cutest thing ^^) cats.. in general tbh XD
2. Min Yoongi ♥ (really. XD he brings more joy into my life than I could have ever imagined he would) and YoonJin ^^
3. Kim Seyong ~ Kang Jun ^^ (it’s times like these.. I wonder why I even have a bias list.. like.. come on.. I JUST re-organized it after the freaking Yoongi fiasco OTL)
4. BIG BANG/B.A.P/BANGTAN ♥
5. MYNAME/C-CLOWN :D (I love getting into new groups but, oh my god, it’s even more wonderful when you had noticed a group in the past but didn’t act on and they come back a few years later and just steal your heart XD)
THIS IS THE AMAZING PERSON AWARD! ONCE YOU ARE GIVEN THIS AWARD, YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO PASTE IT IN THE ASK OF EIGHT DIFFERENT PEOPLE, WHO, IN YOUR OPINION, DESERVE IT. IF YOU BREAK THE CHAIN ~ NOTHING WILL HAPPEN, BUT IT'S SWEET TO KNOW SOMEONE THINKS YOU'RE AMAZING INSIDE AND OUT (ﾉ´ヮ´)ﾉ*:･ﾟ
Lol tell me more about WHY you disliked them??? I’m very curious child
lol.. i don’t even know.. i guess they wanted to make me a hypocrite :P
nah but really.. i guess their songs didn’t really appeal to me as much and also when they first debuted everyone made a big deal about how they were ‘copying’ big bang .. which looking back now.. i just don’t see it. lol
I think also cause I didn’t really give them a good enough chance to impress me hahah (i blame other groups for distracting me.. honestly - which is okay I guess, cause I’ve dropped a lot of groups since I first got into KPOP and i’ve become really picky about what groups I stan now - and block b make the cut XD)
this performance was when kyung caught my eye (look at that happy child, how could i not XD). Honestly.. i regret taking so many years to FINALLY get into them .. not that i didn’t try previously (TWICE).. other groups kept preoccupying me hahah (ze:a, winner, b.a.p, bts, myname, cclown XD). Now I’m obsessed with them heh