An insecure person will unconsciously seek out relationships with men who are insecure and who will make them feel more insecure. They will want the unavailable guys, the guys who can’t commit, the guys who have walls up. These are the ones they will feel infatuated by, not the ones who show real, genuine interest. Oftentimes this happens because on an unconscious level, the insecure girl feels that if she can break through his walls, or get him to change his ways, then she’ll really be worthy and valuable. This never, ever works. Instead, she just ends up compromising her integrity even further by chasing the relationship.
Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts
For Alexis to sit there and call all the girls over to question them on why they didn’t tell her to change her look is disgraceful. Let’s not even mention the fact she forced Farrah to listen even though she had a lipsync to rehearse. This is season 9 of Drag Race Alexis, you’re in the big leagues now. You shouldn’t need someone else to tell you if your look is basic - that’s up to you to judge, so don’t be sitting there blaming every other queen for that basic dress you walked out in. This is RuPaul’s Drag Race, not RuPaul’s Best Friend Race.