Hindi Version: “Ishq de mere mitra pehchaan ki, mit javay jadoon zid apnan di"
The recognition of love, my friend, is when the beloved destroys their stubbornness.
Punjabi Version: “Aise ishq ki kya pehchaan hogi mere dost jahan pyaar ko paane ke jid waqt ke saath khatam ho jaye… .. .”
What is the identity of love, my friend, when the stubbornness of obtaining, [my] friend/lover, is destroyed?
Urdu Version: “Ish ki, mere dost, pehchaan kya hai, mit jaaye jab, yaara, zid apnaane ki?”
What is the recognition of love, my friend, when the stubbornness of obtaining my friend/lover is destroyed?
sachhe pyaar ka matlab haasil karna nahi hota hai.
Love isn’t all about getting someone.
So basically he’s asking what the identity of one’s love will be if they give up the stubbornness to have someone for themselves. And love isn’t all about having someone for yourself. You don’t own them. If you let them freely, that means you understand the meaning of love, and your getting rid of your stubbornness to obtain and possess them.