Hello! Quick question about first names and the Fae: say you're not from an english - speaking country, and the name your parents give you is pronounced differently in your mother tongue than it is in English - eg. Russian 'Ah-lek-sahn-drah' versus English 'Al-ex-ahn-dra' (those are my best approximations of pronunciation). Would that affect anything?
Like most of the finer points of true names, it depends on what they mean to you. If both pronunciations mean something to you, then either would be dangerous. If only one means anything, the other couldn’t be used against you (although better to keep it hidden, just because it would not be difficult to leap from one pronunciation to the preferred one).