so you are telling me that you had to feed your own child, that you had by
your own volition? wow what a lucky child to not be murdered by starvation on
purpose! They should bow to you and never hold you responsible for any kind of
damage you cause to them, because after all, you didn’t kill them, and you
could have! You should always get credit for not murdering your child, as
murdering them is the norm! You say you also gave them a roof over their head?
You mean to tell me you already had a home, and your blessed kind soul, you
didn’t kick your own child out to die on the street? And your child still tries
to make you feel bad for traumatizing them? Wow what an ungrateful monster,
it’s clear from your insane amount of sacrifice that you had the right to do whatever
you want to them, after all they’re your property, and not alive human being
who has the right to survival and resources and safety from harm! You gave them
clothing also? Well then you are a parent of the year, how will your child ever
repay you this enormous service of being allowed to own clothing, it wouldn’t
have reflected bad on you at all if you forced them to walk around wearing nothing
when it was clear you could have afforded them clothes!
Sharing resources and providing living place
to your children is the bare minimum, and your fucking duty. You owe that to
your children. If you want credit for that much, you shouldn’t have had
children at all. If you think not murdering, starving and humiliating your
child is something you can hold as a leverage to threaten them, make them feel
guilty, make them feel like they owe you, and force them to repay you, you’re not a
parent, you’re holding your children hostage. You’re a burden on their lives,
and a fucking parasite who should be disposed of. All that you own should
belong to your children immediately.
There is no “right way” to be goth.
It does not have to be an expensive style. You’re no less goth than someone who dresses head to toe in Killstar if you wear the cheapest, most basic black clothes you can manage.
It really saddens me to see people feel that they’re “less goth” because they can’t afford fancy goth clothes.
You don’t have to afford it. Goth is not a measurable scale. Someone dressed up all fancy is no more goth than you. We all have different styles of goth and that’s what makes the subculture great.