Reminder: Don’t let your brain bully you, sometimes our minds are cruel to us. You deserve to live, you deserve to eat, you deserve to express your feelings. People do like you! You’re doing a pretty good job, and you are worth more than you give yourself credit for.
things u don't need to be non binary or genderfluid
- an androgynous face
- flat chest
- a neutrally pitched voice
- white. your skin colour, your heritage, your culture, they are parts of u to be as proud of as your gender identity, and though you may not see yourself represented the way white nb/gf people are - please, please know that it makes you no less valid, no less real.
u just need to know that who u are is real, recognise that ur identity is ur identity, no matter what the outsides say, no matter who tries to dictate to you who u are/what that identity is.
who you are is who you are, and that is completely valid.
Start now. Start where you are. Start with fear. Start with pain. Start with doubt. Start with hands shaking. Start with voice trembling, but start. Start and don’t stop. Start where you are with what you have… just start.