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“AWKWARD LOVE”

Tanong ko lang posible kaya na alam nya na yung feelings ko sa kanya? Ano ba gagawin ko? Di ko naman kaya magtapat at ayaw ko gawin. Gusto ko ako parin nililigawan.


Miss L., alam mo., obviously ikaw rin ang tipo ka rin ni GUY., oo nga at nagpapaka hard siya., syempre padeny-deny rin yan sa takot lang niya na mareject eh ayaw naman niya na directly na ipagkalandakan na gusto ka rin niya., sabi mo nga nagiging close kayo.,for what reason? friends lang? eh more than friends na nga yan eh., the thing is ayaw lang ni boy na mapapangunahan siya to a point na mabubuking siya sa feelings niya sayo., napaka vivid ng mga pangitain kaibigan., single siya., nagaantayan kayo., wag kayong mag nga-ngahan., alam ko yang gusto mo mangyare., babae ka oo dapat ikaw ang nililigawan., ang sarap ng feeling magpaligaw eh diba? HAHA  anyway dapat to make things clear., may ULTIMATE TECHNIQUE para jan., ang Bunkingis if Inlovis., by some steps, para ma determine mo kung talagang gusto ka rin niya.,

 Bunkingis if Inlovis 

  1. The Pangitains - obserbahan kung ano ung kilos niya towards you, kung pano ka niya itrato. ung mga simpleng pagtawag sayo ung tipong may landi sa pag bigkas ng pangalan mo, ung mga pagkakataon na makikita mong numanakaw siya ng tingin sayo,(SULYAPIPOY), ung  may bahid ng kung ano ung hipo niya o tapik,. ung pag may something good eh ikaw ang isa sa mga una na nakakaalam, madali naman magpakita ang mga yan madaling malaman.,
  2. Ayaw kunosis - ung tipong pakipot pero dalawa o tatlong pilit mo lang mapapapayag mo na., Its hard to resist naman kasi ang isang babae kung natitipuhan siya ng lalake eh,. second thought eto ung denial na “no hindi siya ang gusto ko”, “hindi naman ako type eh”. ung tipong prang naghihinayang siya sa punto ng pananalita niya dahil parang sa pagkabigkas niya eh may halong paghihinayang.
  3. Effortis Bonggacious - may mga pagkakataon na magbibigay siya ng something pero hindi mo naman hinihingi., dinadaan sa gifts ang pagpapapansin, ung tipong tinatanong ka kung anong gusto mo kung anong mas preffered mo., ang  dapat mong gawin jan., Maging firm ka sa pag sagot wag dapat umurong ang dila mo para alam niya talaga ang gusto mo.,
  4. Distansya Amigo - May mga oras mapapansin mo nalang na lumalayo siya sayo nagkakaroon ng awkward moment, ung tipong hindi kayo nag kikibuan, nag aatayan lang kayo kung sinong mauunang mag salita., nagpapanisan kayo ng laway teh,. nagkakaroon kasi ng mabilis na tibok ng puso to a point na natatameme siya. nabablanko utak niya.,
  5. Nakiki-Ayyiee - Eto ung tipong “aray sakit sa bangs"  na sitwasyon., nakikijoin sa panunukso sa paglilink pero deep inside his puso eh.,”putanginang classmates yan ako ilink niyo ako ako" ang peg niyan., pinaka defense mechanism ng lalaki/babae na nakiki join nalang kesa naman mabuko siya na may gusto siya dun sa tao na nililink nila sa iba., ayaw niyan mapansin na bitter siya., kaya nakikijoin lang siya.,  kahit na wasak ang puso.,

* Technically pasok na siya sa :

The Pangitains - Nagkaroon na kayo ng quality time naranasan niyo nang maging lapit sa isat isa naging close kayo., nagkaroon ng special treatment so check check check!

Ayaw kunosis - pasok ulit siya rito kasi nga denial siya na ayaw ka niya dahil hindi naman siya ang type mo (on his perspective)., medyo pastyle siya  sa sinabi niya na “Bakas kasi ang taas ng standard mo. Ano ba mga type mo, baka matulungan kita maghanap.“ i told a while ako na maging firm ka sapag sagot dito dahil sa simpleng sinabi niya na yan eh nag eextract siya ng insights about you and your interest para magkaroon siya ng idea kung ano ang gagawin niya para magustuhan mo siya, kung anong estilo ng pagpapapansin at panliligaw ang gagawin niya an akma, tugma, swak at pasok sa kung anong requirements mo sa isang lalake., Ayaw Kuno., denial thingy na tila pinapasa niya sa iba kunwari tutulungan ka para maisabi mo lang sa kanya ung needed info para sa kanya., ung tipong Bantay Salakayis kunwari innocent pero ikaw pala ung puntirya ng loko., 

Effortis Bonggacious -  Hindi man sa material things., ang naibibigay niya., iconsider na nating effort nang masasabi ung pagtatanong niya sayo related to the Ayaw kunosis insights.. nagtatanong siya ng kung anong standards mo., un ang isa sa first step para maka DaMoves siya sayo., at effort un., kaya ikaw wag kang magpakipot kung nag tanong siya sakyan mo sabihin mo ung gusto mo sa isang lalaki., but make sure na ung personalities na nagustuhan mo sa kanya ay ang sabihin mong una., then sabihin mo na rin ung mga ayaw mo sa kanya., pero indirect mong sabihin., ung tipong kunwari nga eh hahanapan ka niya ng lalaki na ganun.,  by that way pag nasabi mo ung ayaw mo at matatamaan siya marerealize niya na un pala ung dapat na baguhin niya par sayo ung mga bad things na dapat eh maalis niya para pumasok siya sa requirements mo

Distansya Amigo -  No explanation needed., nagkaroon kato ng awkward moment., nagkaiwasan kayo maybe ikaw ung unang nagpasimula ng Distansya dahil torpe ka rin eh., pero normal, reasonable at may excuse ka kasi ikaw ang babae., hindi ka dapat nag hahabol at nagpapakita ng pagkadesperada over boy.,(in some cases dapat gawin rin ng babae ang maghabol pero pasimple tago at sikreto dapat para hindi ma misinterpret ng tao ung girl-effort na un)

Nakiki-Ayyiee -   Nakiki Join siya sa paglilink sayo at sa ibang guy., nako pansinin mo., siya., sakyan mo ung paglilink nila at makikita mo., mababadtrip si Crush niyan., tama lang ya ginawa mo wag mo pansinin ung nililink sayo., kasi pag once na nakita niya na pinatulan mo., maglalaslas na yang guy na yan,. joke., haha., iiwas yan., makaka feel yan ng REJECTION at ung feeling na naLINKZONED siya magpapakalayolayo yan ., related na to Distansya Amigo., didistanya siya kasi nasaktan siya., kasi mahal ka niya., 

Techincally pasok na siya ate., ang gawin mo ikaw na ang mag DAMoves pero silencio at ninja moves ah

  1. Makiusap ka sa common friend(na mapagkakatiwalaan) niyo na ichismis ka kunwari na nalaman niya na may gusto ka kay crush. hayaan na makarating kay crush ang chismis at bongga!.,magpakipot ka konti sabay bonggang pagpapaganda.,
  2. Gumawa ka ng open letter regarding sa feelings mo sa crush mo ipost mo sa social networking sites., facebook and/or tumblr., then make it viral sa mga friends niyo., hayaan mong mabasa ni crush., dapat marealize niya na gusto mo siya., dapat mabasa niya din na mahal mo siya talaga at siya ung inaantay mo., indirect letter un ah., wala kang babanggitin na tao., pero gumawa ka ng code name like initials ng name niya., pasimpleng obvious ba.,  basta nilalahad dun lahat ng emosyon mo., unahin mo na ung kwento mo kung pano mo siya naging crush., ikwento mo ung nangyare sayo ung pagbibigay mo ng Pen sa kanya sa a gift., lahat ikwento mo., lahat ng happenings na something memorable sayo, ilabas mo saloobin mo., then sa last part., mag lagay ka ng pagpapahiwatig na open aat welcome siya sayo ., nagaantay ka sa kanya ., ipaalam mo na super welcome siya., at isang Allcaps na kataga ”AYOKO NG TORPE, PLEASE“.

 

So Miss L ., sorry kung natagalan ako., level up ako sa pag advice., so sana worthy ang pag aantay mo ng response ko., i think 2 hours kong ginawa tong post na to sana intindihin mong maige., if you have follow up queries., just feel free to discuss things with me 

When are you going back to school ??

Hi everyone!

I’m currently in summer vacations , and i only start school in september, but i know that some people start earlier.

So let me know when you start, answering this post , or asking me here ( anonymously or not ), so i can know when to start making back to school posts :D

I only seem to have two modes when playing an MMO and someone randomly asks me for advice.

Mode One:

Some Rando: “Where do I get level 57 item enhancements?”

Me: “Rishi, or the Fleet, but honestly don’t bother- just save all your basic comms until you’ve finished Ziost and then fill out the rest of your gear with 190 blues there.”

Rando Calrissian: “Wow, thanks!”

Mode Two:

Some Other  Rando: “What’s the best profession for a gunslinger?”

Me: “Scrimshaw.”

Randolorian: “Is that new? What profession goes with it?”

Me: “Whaling.”

Bobo pero daming alam!
  • Anon1 (nalimutan ko kung sino kaya anon nalng ) :bobongpagibig pero daming alam?
  • Anon 2 :wag kang umastang matalino kasi bobo ka bobo bobongpagibig
  • Anon 3 :bobo ka ba talaga? Bobo ba yan? Ang lawak ng thoughts mo you call that bobo?
  • Anon 4 :kuya ang bobo pag ikaw ang kasama, tumatalino
  • Anon 5 :kuya favorite na kita forevs
  • Anon 6 :ang galing mo detailed advice nice blog
  • Anon 7 :sampal na sampal sakin ang mga sinabi mo natatauhan na ako pota
  • Anon 8 :kuya paadvice po , pero wag dto sa TC nalang nakakahiya alam kong magagalit ka sa mga sasabihin ko at issues ko
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PS: ciao., nakakamiss kayo., usap usap later., 

Masyado mo kasing inilaan ung pagmamahal mo sa kanya ., walang mali dun ., kaso sa sobrang busy mo being faithfull sa kanyan masyado kang nagpaka bulag sa mga bagay bagay to the fact na ung idea of you-loving him nagiging one sided love na un ndi mo na tinitignan ung side na ndi ka na pala nya mahal .„ masyadong naging panaginip para sayo ung pagmamahal mo ndi mo alam binabangungot ka na pla

by way of reintroduction

by way of reintroduction

This is a reinvention. Well, actually this is a very short post to tell you about my reinvention. See, while “errant thoughts” have been great to start up, I need to find my niche.

I’ve said before, I love people and I love helping people. Correct me if I’m wrong but my best work so far has been either dishing free advice or challenging modes of thinking. Frankly, that stuff is more enjoyable to…

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anonymous asked:

Hi so you've been thru this so I figured you would be a good person to ask (: so I had intensely shown on the a circuit for my junior years and did indoors and all that stuff. I showed like normal for my first year of college and I'm realizing that I'm kind of past the obsessive horse showing phase. However I don't know how to make the transition from horse show every weekend mode to work/social life mode! Any advice tips or suggestions are appreciated !

The big thing to remember: you can’t switch your lifestyle completely at once! It’s a gradual process into a new way of day-to-day life. I still attended many many horse shows throughout college, whether I was still able to compete, be a groom, or simply spectating and cheering on friends! The number of shows certainly did decrease over time, but I wanted to make sure I maintained friendships at shows and made a point to be involved in some way. My thought process as college years began to wind down was: “what do I need to do/experience in college that I probably won’t do after college?” I realized I didn’t want to miss out on these somewhat once-in-a-lifetime opportunities and that HORSES WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU. Amateur life is freaking awesome. It lasts as long as you want it to be!

I would strongly encourage you to look into a hobby or two that may interest you or something that you can happily start investing time into! My goal for senior year of college was to go to as many football games as I could, and try at least a couple typical experiences I hadn’t done before. For example, that was going to a seminar (for Piper Kerman’s Orange Is The New Black book) and experiencing College Gameday! Yes I did attend parties and nights downtown, but I realized quickly being the designated driver is much more fun than being the drunk one (lots of people watching and I don’t have to depend on someone else taking care of me lol). Find a couple traditions or fun things to do or attend and have fun while doing it! It’s much easier than you think.

Have a couple people you’ve met over the years that are pretty cool? Go see a movie! Go to a concert, or dinner, or a girls night in/out! Make plans to hang out with them. I even did spring break NOT AT A HORSE SHOW for the first time ever senior year 😱😱 I ended up having a blast! Try to make at least one friend in the non-horse world, it’s amazing how refreshing it is to have a friend with a different perspective in life.

It’s all about how you plan and approach it. Don’t through yourself into a new way of life all at once, you won’t know what to do. Continue to attend horse shows! Continue to ride if possible! Just pick and choose when you do those things and allow a couple days to try something else. If I could find a way to do it (a miracle in itself), then I’m positive you will do fine, and you’ll be glad you experienced everything you tried (or almost everything ;)