advice!

I think, ultimately, it’s a kind of form of abuse or harassment to go back to someone again and again and again and say, ‘Has anything changed? Can we be in a relationship now?’ If someone has told you that they don’t want to be in a relationship, you have to honor that. And if you are having trouble honoring that, that means that you are having a problem that you need to seek out help for, and you need to make sure that you do not push that relationship on that person because I think it can become very scary and kind of dangerous.
—  John Green
  • Lance: When one door shuts, another door opens (๑•̀ㅂ•)و✧
  • Keith: Or you could just open the closed door...
  • Lance: Wow, Keith... that's really insp. (•̀ᴗ•́)و
  • Keith: That's literally how doors work??? (҂⌣̀ ‸⌣́)??

the-alternian-empress  asked:

hi! I was wondering, where do you find your references to draw traditional clothes? thank you!!

check out this post by claire hummel -> http://shoomlah.tumblr.com/post/76245310670/claires-fancy-pants-historical-fashion-master

pinterest is great too, but i think it’s important to check the individual source of each post for authenticity/usefulness 

i would also suggest getting a LOT of references so you’re drawing from a wide pool of influences!

anonymous asked:

i'm super sorry to be annoying but i have a question ): i'm very young and i think im a lesbian because i get crushes on girls a lot, but i get crushes on male fictional characters, does that still mean im a lesbian or am i lying? im really sorry to bother you have a lovely day <3

you can definitely still be a lesbian! fictional crushes outside of your normal attraction are actually very common, and don’t make or break your sexuality.

im hella gay, never ever want to date a guy. im disgusted by the idea. if i’m watching tangled and think “hey eugene’s kinda cute” that doesn’t suddenly make me bi, you feel?

fictional characters are
- very idealized versions of people
- not real
- like youll literally never be able to date them so why would they impact your sexuality

and additionally, you don’t need to redefine your sexuality because of the Possibility that Maybe Someday you might date a guy. if you only want to date women, you’re a lesbian. who knows, maybe someday you’ll find the Perfect Man, the one and only exception, the one you want to spend your life with, and *then* you can redefine.

but you don’t need to pick a wider label right now just to keep your options open.