Go out for a walk. It doesn’t have to be a romantic walk in the park… It doesn’t have to be a walk during which you’ll have multiple life epiphanies and discover meanings no other brain ever managed to encounter. Do not be afraid of spending quality time by yourself… That doesn’t make you antisocial or cause you to reject the rest of the world. But you need to breathe. And you need to be.
— 

Albert Camus

if you cheat on your significant other, you’re a piece of shit. aside from it being totally selfish and unnecessary (just break up with them???? don’t go behind their back), it’s childish and uncaring. not only are you going to make the person you WERE SUPPOSED TO LOVE AND CHERISH feel insecure, make them wonder where they went wrong/why you cheated, but you’re also setting them up to have trust issues in the future. if you really ever loved your partner, you wouldn’t cheat on them. and if your partner ever really loved you, they wouldn’t cheat on you. it’s as simple and as heartbreaking as that. and IF someone cheats on you, do not forgive them. they do not love you. I advise you break up or distance yourself because if it’s happened once, it’ll happen again, and you don’t deserve that shit. you deserve someone who will treat you right and choose you and respect you and love you properly. chase that person, not a cheater.

you shouldn’t have to repeatedly tell your significant other how to respect your relationship. if they’re doing you wrong constantly (especially after the problem has already been addressed), they’re purposefully taking advantage of your patience, kindness, and love. this is toxic. they won’t change. they’re doing it intentionally. stop forgiving them. stop letting them walk over you. as much as they may mean to you, you deserve more than that: you deserve someone who will treat you correctly and respectfully

anonymous asked:

Tomorrow I have a really big grammar test and I am do unmotivated that hurts 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Can you please cheer me up mimi :,( ?

This aks is about this post HERE

When life is low

And you feel unmotivated

Remember that Jin had to become an idol and live in a small apartment even if he comes from a rich family. can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it is to live in one small dorm?

Originally posted by jjilljj

Remember that Suga had to work different jobs, go to school and be trainee. Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it was to live such a life? 

Originally posted by sugagifs

Remember that Jhope was sick after he came to Seoul and that suga had to go with him to the hospital. Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it is to have a sick body when you are a dancer? 

Originally posted by yourjhopeobsessed

Remember that RM was a straight A student and was under so much pressure becoming an idol/ Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it is to have your teachers, friends and everyone plan your life for you? 

Originally posted by trash-for-bangtan

Remember that Jimin had to become an idol in one year. As a trainee, he was always stuck in the practice room and barely had time to sleep. Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it is to be told that you might be dropped out in the last minute after putting in all that work? 

Originally posted by heoljimin

Remember that Taehyung had to come to Seoul wearing what his mom bought him. It was the best they could afford. But he was still mocked for his style. Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how unmotivating it is to live in a society that judges you for what you wear when you can’t afford much to start with? 

Originally posted by snowsensation

Remember that Jungkook was so shy he couldn’t even sing when he was asked to. People thought he will never debut but now he is BTS’ center. Can you imagine how motivated he was to succeed and how motivating it is to change your whole personality for your dream?

Originally posted by taelatte

BTS all had the thing that could make them give up but they never did. So that test too will pass by dear and you will ace it ^^ I am cheering for you and ARMYs on this blog will do too ^^

Your dreams may be intricate. Beautiful. Complex. Sometimes they may be difficult to explain to others, and that’s alright. Parts of them can be kept a mystery in your own mind, waiting to be discovered in time.

Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

the relationship between you & growth.

have you ever sat there and thought to yourself “im X years old i should be doing X by now” or sat there comparing your achievements to that of someone else?

judging yourself based on what others are doing is detrimental. why? because someone elses achievements are part of their personal journey. never compare your beginning to someone else’s middle. trust that what is set and meant for you will indeed manifest in your life at the right specific time. whether thats occupational, financial or emotional growth. growth can be defined as development. time brings development. thus it cannot be forced. take your steps, small or big, to achieve your goals and when the time is right you will be looking back witnessing your development personal to you. crafted by you. created by you. trust the route of your journey. only when you trust whats meant for you will occur, is when the journey will start making sense.

next time you find yourself comparing your growth to someone elses, instead of asking why you arent at that stage of life ask yourself “what can i learn from their journey?”

this makes the situation positive as youre now asking your brain to pick the positives & apply them to your own life benefiting you in your journey. 

Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter.
— 

Samuel J. Hurwitt