adolesents

La gelosia è quando ti dà fastidio che qualcuno da delle attenzioni speciali ad una persona che senti tua, tua e basta. È quel nodo che ti si forma nello stomaco e ti fa salire il nervoso. È la semplice dimostrazione che vuoi che quella persona sia tutta tua, tua e di nessun altro.
Querida hija

Ah pasado mucho tiempo desde que no te veo, pero te escribo atrávez de este Tumblr para decirte que te extraño demasiado para que pienses que te eh olvidado. No pienses mal de mí yo no me fuí de tu lado fueron los problemas con tu madre los que me hicieron alejarme, pero no es toda la culpa de ella, yo tuve la mayor parte de la culpa por no dedicarles tiempo a mis dos reinas de la casa, ahora se lo que el sufrimiento, no es lo mismo soñarte que tenerte a mi lado abrazandote, la vida va pasando me voy haciendo cada día mas viejo, un paso atráz; Ahora estoy trabajando mucho tengo 2 hijos y una esposa, vivo lejos de México y me dificulta visitarte, quizá te hago falta corazón ó quizá ya no, pero aunque no te tenga conmigo yo te extraño y anhelo estar contigo, se que te has enamorado y se que te han desepcionado muchas veces, hija tu eres demasiada hermosa para llorar por tipos como yo que no valen la pena, eres bella, joven, no necesitas estar con alguien para ser felíz, se felíz contigo misma no dependas de nadie que nadie te cuidará como tu padre lo quizó hacer; hija mia perdoname por todas las cosas que has pasado, yo se, no pude ser el mejor papá del mundo, el destino me hizo caminar por otros rumbos pero sin tí corazón, no te sientas mal, se que tu eres fuerte como tu padre para estar así, arriba esos ánimos mi niña, eres especial. Te ama tu papá, algún día se que voy a estar contigo.


~Frases de un joven~

The idea of women as innately “nurturing” is a problem.

Women are expected to be “nurturing” and expend vast amounts of energy on being emotionally supportive toward men, while men are expected to ignore others’ emotional needs, fail to adress their own, and depend on women to do the emotional work in a relationship.

Emotional work includes things like: listening to someone talk about his day and being emotionally supportive when he talks about his problems, encouraging him to go to the doctor when necessary, being the primary resolver of conflicts in the relationship, both between the two of them and with people outside the family unit, etc., etc.

When girls are very small we are taught to be quiet, to listen well, to be supportive, to put others’ needs first. This training continues into adulthood, while at the same time boys are expected to be loud, careless with each others’ feelings and not to process their own in a healthy way. Through adolesence and adulthood these pressures increase.

Girls and women who aren’t as adept at or invested in emotional work as expected by their gender role are treated as cold, heartless, and self-absorbed, while men who perform the bare minimum of emotional work are considered very sensitive and men who perform the amount of emotional work expected of women are considered emasculated.

This social pressure is enforced through media also. Stories featuring both men and women frequently stress the importance of women doing emotional work while portraying men as being incapable of or uninterested in doing emotional work. When media does portray men doing emotional work, it’s often played for laughs, as the man is now emasculated, and therefore a target of derision.

This leaves women to see to our own emotional needs as well as to those of the men in our lives, praising women for being “nurturing” as though it’s an innate characteristic requiring no effort, and not expecting men to do it because “it doesn’t come naturally”.

Being “nurturing” is work, and it’s about time we shared the load.

Your Inner FunkBy: Maria & Triana

Grab your best friend or your favorite pair of running shoes and sway away at the funk, hippie vibes of this playlist. Perfect for all the indie lovers who want to lose it to upbeat tunes, without sacrificing the alternative feeling. Enjoy here!

  1. Help Me Lose My Mind - Disclosure ft London Grammar
  2. So Far (It’s Alright) - The 1975
  3. Rather Be ft Jess Glynn - Clean Bandit
  4. Stayin’ Alive - Capital Cities
  5. 4th Dimensional Transition - MGMT
  6. You’re Not The Only One - Sky Ferreira (Little Daylight Remix)
  7. Million Dollar Bills - Lorde
  8. Instant Crush - Daft Punk
  9. Money Rain Down - Big Black Delta
  10. Gooey - Glass Animals
  11. Bridges - Broods
  12. Kids - Mikky Ekko (Oliver Nelson Remix)
  13. Houdini - Foster The People
  14. Wandelust - The Weeknd
  15. Forever - Majid Jordan
  16. If I Ever Feel Better - Phoenix
  17. Beta Love - La La Riot 
  18. You Belong Here - Leagues
  19. Ya hey - Vampire Weekend
  20. Fluorescent Adolesence - Arctic Monkeys

Photographer: Amee

Potrebbero piacerti tutte le ragazze di questa terra.
Potresti anche scopartele tutte,sposartele,oppure trattarle come hai trattato me.
Ma sappi, neanche una di loro riuscirà a farti sentire come ti faccio sentire io, nessuna di loro ti conoscerebbe quanto ti conosco io, ma soprattutto, nessuna ti amerà nemmeno la metà di quanto ti amo io.