This is sooooo important!
Please, go watch this short video with Chyler and Caity (about lgbt ships, respect, and everybody trying their best) here:
Why do straight actors feel the need to tell us that we shouldn't be mad/sad for xyz reasons? Like, the writers/show could have ended it between seasons and it would have hurt a lot less. Now we have to watch these scenes between them and can't even enjoy it because we know what happens. Like yes, don't send the actors hate. It's not their fault (mostly). But for g-d's sake stop telling us not to be pissed when we have every right to be.