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the signs feeling intense anger

Every sign can reach the stage when the mind just ‘quits’, no matter how laid back they are. check mars and moon!


Aries: She feels no anger. She feels rage. The intensity, the strong, sometimes short but intense feeling of emotions was something she was familiar with, but what she did hate was the feeling of anger she could mostly never shake off. It was always there with her, she let her rage out and it seemed like an exploding volcano. All she saw was red, there was too much energy flowing inside her bones that she could not get rid off and so she let out her anger, and she did not care who would see her like that. ‘I am fire and you will get burned.’

Taurus: He was angry. Angry with the world, angry with this unsteadiness, angry with the fact, that he could not do anything to stop the current situation. Long, slim hands pulled him out of his nest and threw him hard on the ground. He flinched as a cold breeze came and took away all his warmth. “No, do not take everything away from me!!”, he screamed but the dark did not listen. Gritting his teeth he felt his temper raging, long horns started to grow out of his head and he shook his head, trying to get rid of the feeling of losing himself. 

Gemini: Emotions were an construct. A map with a thousand of points, connected with each other by a small, small string. No there was a knot in the strings, there and there was nothing else he could do to untie them, to clear up this mess in his head. It was like the road for his thoughts was blocked and now everything just piled up. Irritated he shook his head, even communicating was hard and the knot in his head slowly transformed in his whole body. Then his mind just quit. Rash action. 

Cancer: She could not tame herself anymore, she got hotheaded again and knew the will easily fall in an tantrum again. Followed by this feeling of guilt: why me? Why this unfairness? Why the need to upset others and be upset? In the end a wave of intensity and sadness washed her away before she could get a hold of herself again. And getting back to the surface after being pulled down by the ocean would cost her a lot strength. Strength and a long time of swimming through these endless waters. 

Leo: “I do not like this”. It all started with the feeling of unfairness, adding a a little bit of hurt to the shattered self that lay on the ground. “I cannot let them now I am hurt! I will not allow them to touch me gain that deeply.” She opened her mouth and showed her long, sharp fangs. She roared. It was loud and vibrant. Whetting her claws she narrowed her yellow, fiery eyes. “Pray for yourself”, she whispered before sprinting to her prey. 

Virgo: The head was a like a working space. There were many files and papers he read, worked with, analysed, only to put them into a new file that was stored somewhere in his office. “Wh- what is this?” This certain piece of paper  was not like the others. Unreadable. Impossible to put somewhere, therefore it was just out of order. “I..I have the control..”, he said, his hands starting to shake. “I..I have the control over it…I have the control..”, he repeated unsteady before standing up and shredding the unknown paper. He started breathing hysterically, what was that? This brooding fear inside of him? “Control…”, he said one last time before shattering the mirror and flipping his precious work desk. 

Libra: These thoughts. These worries. These fears. She did not know what to do. How was she supposed to handle? “It is their fault!!”, she cried. But at the same time is was her own fault. She cried quietly, feeling like she wanted to let everything out, but couldn’t reveal herself, because everyone next door was sleeping. She did not want to disturb them with the mess of feelings. “I will ignore it. Swallow it.” But it was far too much to keep on pretending. She felt like being on fire, but she still smiled. A poisonous, deadly smile. Everyone should feel her poison sting inside their veins. 

Scorpio: His anger is intense. It’s like a thunderstorm with roaring thunder inside of him. His heart is beating and he wants to destroy, cry and scream. He wants to let out his darkest thoughts, he wants the world to feel his pain, transformed out of the bitterness. But in the end, he remains silent and waits till everyone left. He could hurt anyone right now, but he know it’ll be no good, knowing that he will destroy for sure if he demonstrates his power. So he balls his fists and closes his door. Outside of his bedroom you can her the thunder roaring. 

Sagittarius: ‘Do not stop me’, was all she thought. These feelings were caging her. No matter what she did to distract herself, the anger would haunt her after all, so the minute it became to much she snapped. She could be free spirited and joyous but deep emotions were something completely different, especially anger. Because she was not only the laughter of joy but indeed the stomp of a herd of wild horses swirling up dust as they made their way through the steppe. There was raw force and energy inside of her and that needed to get out, now. 

Capricorn: Get a hold of yourself. Get a hold of yourself. Now. But there was no way to get himself under control. There was this dam inside of his head that stopped this enormous river of feelings of overflowing. Now, there were little cracks in the once so strong concrete and each of them plainly showed the nerves he lost from time to time. He sat at his desk, swallowed and closed his eyes. Suddenly, the dam broke. The raging float of dark water swallowed him completely. 

Aquarius: She saw it often on other people. Anger. She watched them live it out, stomping with their feet, raging, screaming, shouting. Now? She felt it herself. “I know this, this familiar”, she explained to herself. But familiar did not mean good. She knew her temper tantrums for when she was young. She knew that destructiveness could be a part of it. “I do not want that. I will not.” Suddenly a dark, whispering voice talked to her: “You do not choose to be out of touch. You are not your own master.” She widened her eyes anxiously. And suddenly, it was like she was 7 again. 

Pisces: Anger? Anger, he felt it so deeply, anger and the need to cry out of frustration, he did not want to feel it anymore, the worst thing that ate him alive right now. So he grew bitter. “I can turn nasty”, he thought. “I will be the worst if you make me feel this again.” And so he did. So he became the feeling of anger and bitterness himself. As he looked in the mirror he couldn’t recognize himself anymore. Dark, red eyes starred at him, tears flowing. 

The Signs at Midnight

Aries: Doesn’t notice. Has been playing video games since they got home from school 

Taurus: Sleeping soundly. Went to be at like, 9

Gemini: Trying to help a friend through an existential crisis

Cancer: Has been on social media for the last 3 hours

Leo: Taking sefies of themselves

Virgo: Studying for a test they’ll pass anyways

Libra: Crying over a netflix show they’re watching

Scorpio: Eating a midnight snack. Never gets caught (what a pro)

Sagittarius: Reading crazy reddit stories

Capricorn: Sleeping. Done with everyones bullshit

Aquarius: On the phone with a friend, gossiping about shit Sharon did today

Pisces: Creating conversations and situations in their head wishing they’d come true

Mars

Mars is the planet of passion, aggression, impulse, as well as sexual desires. Your Mars sign relates to what you are attracted to in a lover, whereas the Sun and the Moon relate to the husband/wife in a natal chart.  Mars is a planet of action and can reveal how a person reacts in conflict, whether it be rash and violent, or calmly and patiently. However, aspects to Mars play a role in action too. For example, a person with a Virgo Mars may react more calmly than someone with an Aries Mars in conflict.  If this Virgo Mars person has their Mars squaring Pluto in the natal chart, the Virgo Mars person may act more impulsively or angrily in conflict.

When it comes to attraction, Mars can exemplify your actions in relationships, whereas Venus is the planet that symbolizes how you love.

If you have an Aries Mars, you are very passionate and affectionate with your partner, or like to take risks in a relationship. You may also be restless. You could be quick tempered but your anger goes away as quick as it comes. You are likely to go after what you want and make sure you get it.

If you have a Taurus Mars, you may take your time with things, no matter how long it takes. Slow and steady wins the race, right? You may also be straightforward in a relationship. You don’t half-ass anything, and you are patient and sensual. On the negative side, you may be very jealous or possessive if another person has interest in your partner. Overall you are very giving and like to satisfy your partner.

If you have a Gemini Mars, you may tend to shift gears and you tend to be experimental in relationships.  You are usually very sociable within relationships. There is never a dull moment between you and your partner and you always want to do something fun or stimulating. However, since you have a love for flirting and like a Gemini Venus, you can get bored easy. Your words can be weapons if you are not careful when angry.

If you have a Cancer Mars, actions are based on emotions for you. You may be very sensual and you want to find a partner that you truly love.  You need a lot of romance and attention to keep you grounded.  You usually feel the need to feel emotionally protected. You are nurturing and giving towards your partner and you never want to see them sad. You may be passive-aggressive in relationships or manipulative.

If you have a Leo Mars, you are affectionate when it comes to love. You are also passionate to your lover; however, you can be very dramatic or be the bragging type  You like to be the center of attention in the bedroom. You pay attention to your partner, but your main concern is your own fulfillment. You are giving and enjoy taking your partner on fancy dates.

If you have a Virgo Mars, you feel the need to fix problems in relationships if there are any.  You may be a bit picky and you look for cleanliness and classiness in a partner. However, you may be a bit insecure.  On the bright side, you do little things for your partner to make them feel very loved by you.  You are devoted when in love and are experimental in the bedroom. You are a person who likes to please. You are likely a perfectionist even though you may tend to deny this about yourself.

If you have a Libra Mars, you need motivation and you do not like conflict within your relationships.  You can also be affectionate and very romantic with your partner. You may be very skilled at pleasing your partner and you will do what you can to create harmony between you and your loved one. Sometimes these natives have a hard time making decisions in relationships.

If you have a Scorpio Mars, you have a high sex appeal and you are generally faithful to your partner. You may also show jealousy and perhaps be possessive with your partner.  You need someone who is into the relationship and sexual needs as much as you are. You are serious about your relationship and may want a constant reminder that your partner loves you and won’t leave you. You are very passionate and affectionate and want nothing but the best for your sweetheart. You are usually up for anything in the bedroom.

If you have a Sagittarius Mars, you are a fun person and are always up for new things to do with your partner, and that includes in the bedroom. You like the idea of cat-and-mouse, or else you get bored and uninterested.  You like to feel new sexual experiences and you like to play hard to get. You don’t like to be bored so it is likely you will want to find something new to do with your partner often. You are usually optimistic and are willing to get through tough times with your partner. You make sure your partner feels loved.

If you have a Capricorn Mars, you like to take your time in relationships, enjoy the moment, and you work towards plans in your relationships. You may come across as cold or distant.  You also want security that your relationship will be long-lasting. You like to have control in your relationships and make sure things are steady. You also have a reputation of being really good in bed. You are hard-working and you can be very selfless in relationships.

If you have an Aquarius Mars, you may act unexpectedly in love. You may be into trying new things in relationships and you may be hard to figure out.  You may be in a relationship for the fun and maybe not the passion of it all. Similar to Sagittarius Mars, you want to find new and fun things to do with your loved one to create new and cherished memories with your lover. You are very open-minded and clever and once you are settled, you can be warm and caring towards your partner.

If you have a Pisces Mars, physical touch is essential for you and you may have a lot of romantic fantasies before you are in love.  You can send mixed signals to lovers, but you are compassionate. You have much to offer and are have a forgiving nature. You are generally quite gentle and are can be selfless with your partner. On the negative side, you may play games in order to get what you want. You are creative and have a wonderful imagination.

Venus in Signs, people you might fall in love with, and warnings:

Venus in Aries: Pretty much everyone that excites you and can do crazy stuff together, keeping the fire of your passions (sexual and mental). Probably a close friend you can do everything with. Be careful to not hurt people when your passion is gone, or go over the person too quickly.

Venus in Taurus: Someone mature, well stablished, that knows how to enjoy the finer things in life. Probably someone older, that will help you to shape the kind of life you envision for yourself. Or at least someone with cooking skills. Be careful with liars or people who might spend what they don’t have to impress.

Venus in Gemini: Someone talkative, with good words. Probably fell for a teacher or someone really into new knowledges, a nerdy friend. Someone you can talk and listen forever and don’t see time flying. Be careful with those that are all talking and no action.

Venus in Cancer: Someone really caring. Maybe a babysitter, a teacher from kindergarten, someone older with a soft and kind heart that makes you feel like home. Be careful with those who might guilt trap you, or use your feelings against you.

Venus in Leo: Can be those fangirls of actors, singers, performers. Someone that can impress you and inspire you with their doings. Someone famous, or at least respected. Be careful to not give yourself to fake people, or people who might just use you as a tool for their ego.

Venus in Virgo: Maybe a co-worker, or someone you admire so hard everything they do you might not realize you’re in love. Someone clever, reference in their field. Someone that loves working and gets excited sharing ideas. Be careful with jealousy, cause you might underestimate your mental skills if they seem not as into you. You’re interesting enough.

Venus in Libra: Someone beautiful. You might pass as shallow because you like pretty people first. You might have a hard time loving people that doesn’t deserve you. Eventually you will learn to love the inside as well. Be careful with people who might use you through your love and kindness.

Venus in Scorpio: You might have a thing for broken things. People with problems, traumas, dark secrets. If they behave oddly, it gets your attention. If they share it with you, you’re in love to the point you might endure everything for them. Be careful with potential abusers.

Venus in Sagittarius: You might fall in love with adventurous people. Researchers, people who works traveling, even foreigners. People who will show you a new world. Be careful with people too weird or actually dangerous.

Venus in Capricorn: You like older people, or at least people who behave well and seem older. You can fall for your boss, or someone of superior status. You might like “daddys” even. Be careful with powerful people trying to control you too much and lose yourself.

Venus in Aquarius: you like the punk ones. The different, the rebels, the marginalized. You sympathize with them and fighting their fights is highly important. Be careful with victim complex, or to try to save people that don’t want to be saved.

Venus in Pisces: You tend to romantize people you don’t know very well and build a dream over them, or have unrealistic expectations that people will change for you. You probably fell for someone online or had a long distance relationship where you were loyal to the core. Be careful with people that loves your attention but just wants to be friends. Don’t settle for less.

Meaning of the Modes in Astrology
  • Cardinal (Aries/Cancer/Libra/Capricorn): The cardinal signs signify spirit, action, initiative, power, and strength. People with fewer than four planets in cardinal signs are not self-starters and will need someone to prod them on, while those with more than four will go on their way with little interference. Cardinal people are bossy and competitive and like to stay busy even into old age. The problem is that they don't know when to stop, they'd rather burn out than take it easy. They have enough energy to carve out their own destinies, here to create karma rather than be subject to it. Aries is personal or individual action, Cancer is family or group action, Libra is partnership action, and Capricorn is organized or business action. Aries and Libra are outwardly active while Cancer and Capricorn like to pull the strings.
  • Fixed (Taurus/Leo/Scorpio/Aquarius): The fixed signs signify matter, stability, fixity, and perseverance. People with fewer than four planets in fixed signs lack purpose or follow-through, while those with more than four are solid, determined, and unchanging. Fixed signs can make excellent executives and can be relied upon to get things done. Fixed signs believe that they were meant to achieve something since birth. Taurus is financial or material stability, Leo is spiritual stability, Scorpio is emotional stability, and Aquarius is mental stability and fixity. Taurus and Scorpio are determined in a quiet manner while Leo and Aquarius display their determination outwardly.
  • Mutable (Gemini/Virgo/Sagittarius/Pisces): The mutable signs signify versatility, adaptability, and communication. People with fewer than four planets in mutable signs are not very flexible or adaptable and have trouble seeing things from others point of view, while those with more than four are very changeable, restless, and unstable, but the best communicators. Mutable signs make excellent subordinates or employees, they were born to serve and follow. They also make great writers, newscasters, secretaries, or artists and other jobs with a need for communication skills. Mutable signs' way of life is to be prepared for whatever is coming and let it come. Gemini is mental versatility, Virgo is organizational versatility, Sagittarius is arrangement versatility, Pisces is emotional versatility.Gemini and Sagittarius are more vocal with their ideas and beliefs while Virgo and Pisces like to express themselves more quietly and through deeds and sacrifice.
the signs and film genres
  • Aries: action, those that really keep u on the edge of your seat
  • Taurus: romance, the erotic & violent ones
  • Gemini: psychological drama, the more complex the better
  • Cancer: family/animation, /finding nemo
  • Leo: drama, the ones that leave them with watery eyes
  • Virgo: thriller, appeals to their highly observant nature
  • Libra: war films, big (im)moral decisions
  • Scorpio: horror, the really scary occult shit
  • Sagittarius: adventure, + mystery + comedy
  • Capricorn: science fiction, fascinates the inner cap child
  • Aquarius: documentary, it has everything and more
  • Pisces: fantasy, unrealistically amazing
What I noticed about the signs

Aries: The most enthusiastic people I know. They will never lose their energy or optimism, even in the darkest of times.

Taurus: The most humorous people I know. They will make a joke out of everything, even if that means they won’t deal with the real situation.

Gemini: The most insecure people I know. Even though they’re always talking and doing so many interesting thing, deep down they doubt their every action.

Cancer: The most ambitious people I know. They need attention, they need to succeed and they will fight for that.

Leo: The most generous people I know. They will give up everything to help you, even if they don’t get anything in return.

Virgo: The most stubborn people I know. They won’t stop arguing with you, even if they know they’re wrong. They can’t stand being wrong.

Libra: The fairest people I know. They will treat you exactly the way you treat them. Also, they won’t forget about you and will remain good friends.

Scorpio: The most devoted people I know. If they’re into something, they’re so deep into it, you just can’t not notice.

Sagittarius: The most honest people I know. They will tell you the truth, even if you don’t want to hear it. Lies hurt them.

Capricorn: The strongest people I know. No matter what happened to them, they will always remain the same.

Aquarius: The most unpredictable people I know. They’re so weird, you never know what they will do or say.

Pisces: The kindest people I know. They will never say no to you or ignore you, even if they don’t like you.

Overthinks their actions: Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn

Taurus is patient and methodical, thinking out their actions beforehand.
Gemini is always thinking, and sometimes they don’t know how to stop. They want to control how they act and how they appear to others.
Cancer is sensitive to others needs, thinking for others and how they could cater to them the best.
Virgo is very logical and wants everything to be in the way they want it, and that includes their actions.
Libra always wants to appear a certain way to others, and controls their actions accordingly.
Capricorn likes to be in control and likes to seem or appear in control at all times.

Acts without thinking: Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces

Aries is impulsive and energetic, wanting to always keep going, acting without thinking.
Leo is full of heart and acts out in passion and energy.
Scorpio is usually composed and tries to keep in control, but they often act out in anger or passion.
Sagittarius is fun and free spirited, but doesn’t often think about the consequences of their actions.
Aquarius is unpredictable and acts on their own whims.
Pisces can often be at the whim of their own emotions and sensitivities, doing whatever seems right to them in the moment.

*check Mars sign

zodiac horror story (part 1)
  • ig // sassasstrology
  • the signs are camping out in the woods. they're at a cliché, dark, scary old forest where the murderer always comes and kills people. let's see what will happen..
  • aries - male
  • taurus - male
  • gemini - female
  • cancer - male
  • leo - female
  • virgo - female
  • libra - female
  • scorpio - male
  • sagittarius - male
  • capricorn - female
  • aquarius - male
  • pisces - female
  • (that's ^ not really important, but if you want to know the genders of the signs i came up with, there they are.)
  • virgo: this forest is scary as shit.
  • aquarius: your face is scary as shit.
  • capricorn: lmao.
  • pisces: why couldn't we just have a sleepover at sagi's house or something?
  • sagittarius: WHY THE FUCK AT MY HOUSE?!?
  • scorpio: because that's boring. i want some action, and there's no action at sagi's house.
  • cancer: true.
  • sagittarius: WHO SAID THAT?!
  • aries: yeah! this will be fun guys! let's just party and shit, i don't know. we'll have a great time here!
  • taurus: yeah! i brought tons of food and stuff.
  • gemini: wouldn't it be fun if there was like a killer here or something lol.
  • capricorn: the fuck.
  • cancer: yeah.. really fun.
  • leo: GUYS.
  • virgo: what.
  • leo: let's make a snapchat. *snapchats*
  • libra: *acts like a hoe*
  • leo: libra, you look on poiinnttt.
  • libra: i know, thanks. YOU TOO BAE.
  • capricorn: fucking kill me already.
  • *3 hours later*
  • taurus: *sings a campfire song*
  • everyone: *sings with taurus*
  • pisces: GUYS!!!!!
  • aries: SHUT THE FUCK UP WE ARE SINGING.
  • cancer: oh my god aries calm the fuck down.
  • aquarius: what, pisces?
  • pisces: did y'all hear that?
  • scorpio: what? capricorn's terrible singing? lmao.
  • capricorn: ...
  • pisces: no, i heard a loud noise in the bushes over there..
  • sagittarius: probably your mom. LET'S SING AGAIN.
  • everyone except pisces: *sings*
  • pisces: *sigh*
  • *couple of minutes later*
  • virgo: guys, where is gemini?
  • aquarius: probably taking a shit or something.
  • sagittarius: GEMINI?! WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU.
  • scorpio: she's probably dead.
  • libra: how can she be dead if she's alive?
  • capricorn: what? the fuck?
  • cancer: no one understands you libra.
  • libra: why not?
  • taurus: because you don't make sense.
  • libra: oooh..
  • virgo: WE STILL DON'T KNOW WHERE GEMINI IS.
  • leo: she'll be fineee. let's not worry too much.
  • sagittarius: so.. cancer and scorpio, i heard you guys were in a relationship.. *winky face*
  • scorpio: yeah, we fucked.
  • cancer: ..
  • virgo: OKAY. TMI
  • sagittarius: what about you, virgo? i heard that you and taurus were a thing?
  • taurus: wha.
  • aquarius: sagi, no one gives a shit.
  • sagittarius: WELL I DO. I THINK THAT IT'S CUTE.
  • pisces: same lol.
  • *loud bang*
  • aries: WAHT THE ACTUAL FUCK WAS THAT.
  • cancer: *jumps on scorpio*
  • gemini: GUYS! DID YOU ALL HEAR THAT?
  • libra: look! it's gemini!
  • leo: where the fuck were you?
  • gemini: taking a shit. hehe.
  • aquarius: SEE? I TOLD Y'ALL. IMA FUCKING PSYCHIC.
  • gemini: BUT OKAY. THERE WAS SOMEONE AND IDK. BOOM.
  • libra: oh my god! did he kill you?
  • scorpio: *slaps libra*
  • taurus: GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYs. PISCES IS GONE AND THERE'S A TRAIL OF BLOOD. WHAT IS HAPPENING.
  • pisces: *screams*
  • cancer: PISCEEESSESEESS.
  • and that was the end of part 1.. what will happen next? stay tuned for the next part, coming soon.
  • (i hope that y'all like this dumb thing. hehe)

I often see Cancer being questioned for its cardinal nature. The cardinal mode is a mode that shows a spark of energy, a spark of leadership. The questioning comes from the conflict between the modality and the planet that rules Cancer.

Cancer is ruled by the Moon, a planet that is focused on emotions. Emotions are usually seen in society to be weak, mistakenly undervalued and misunderstood, when it is actually a very strong force to use. Some people tend to not understand that to be emotionally strong is to be a leader since emotions are collectively not valued for what it is in society. The fluctuating nature of the Moon can tend some to think that Cancer is a mutable sign because of the constant change, and that’s due to the fact that Cancer’s esoteric ruler is in Neptune, a planet that rules the mutable sign of Pisces. The fluctuating nature that is represented here shows the fleeting nature of emotions as a whole, not the actions of Cancer as an archetype. Cancer actually uses the fleeting nature of emotions to initiate actions.

Cancer is also a sign that rules the home, which brings up the suggestion that they are fixed, when they’re not always like that. There will always be some kind of fixation, mutability, and cardinality of some sort for every sign, but the most natural tendency of energy is what exactly classifies the modality for all of the signs. Cancer is a cardinal sign because it is the only water sign that is willing to openly and clearly express their emotions to lead and do what they want, even though they would really love to keep themselves private due to their feminine nature. Scorpio would much rather keep those emotions hidden to keep them stable as a fixed sign. Pisces as a mutable sign will either hide or show their emotions to go with the emotional flow of the world.

Cancer express its emotions to get what they need, and it’s cardinal because it will go against their established surroundings to get what they want. For Cancer, this is the past and the home. Cardinal signs go against their surroundings to get what they want and that is exactly what Cancer does. Leaders defy the odds, and Cancer does just that as a cardinal sign.

Cancer🦀 + The Island🌴

Cancer is often a misunderstood sign. It is a water sign of feminine polarity and it is ruled by the Moon. Since Cancer is ruled by the Moon, it has a changeable quality. One day Cancer can appear nice and accommodating, but on another day, Cancer can appear angry and even vicious. In addition, Cancer is cardinal meaning it has determined, leadership and enterprising traits. I feel because of Cancer’s cardinal energy, others place this sign on an island. While Cancer can appear to be sensitive and moody, this sign initiates things into action. Because Cancer is busy planning, other can view this as them isolating themselves from the rest of society. While Capricorn, Cancer’s sister sign, is public, Cancer is private. They truly want to make an island a home and a place of comfort and peace. The water surrounding the island symbolizes Cancer’s emotional and protective side. If anyone on the outside tries to invade the island, Cancer will turn into a mighty wave and push them back to shore.

Lin tells his mother's origin story
Another Round with Heben and Tracy
Lin tells his mother's origin story

[In response to a question about the origin of his feminism, Lin goes deep into the story of his mother Dr Luz Towns-Miranda - psychologist, board member of Planned Parenthood Action Fund, cancer survivor, single mother]

“I’m the beneficiary of all that struggle.”

Compatibility - DIY

I’ve gotten 90k asks in my inbox at some point or another asking about, rather specific, compatibility. So, I’m gonna show you what I do when I look for compatibility, so you understand why I may not answer them:

First, look at both of your charts.
Lets say this is you and your sweetheart:
Leo Sun (10 degrees), Aquarius Sun (6 degrees)
Gemini Rising (2 degrees), Sag Rising (0 degree)
Cancer Moon (2 degrees), Cancer Moon (28 degrees)
Gemini Venus (4 degrees), Pisces Venus (6 degrees)
Cancer Mars (0 degrees), Aries Mars (28 degrees)

First, look at all the degrees in which they’re around 8 within each other.
Sun-Sun, Venus-Venus, Mars-Sun, Mars-Venus, Venus-Sun and Moon-Moon, Moon-Mars and Venus-Mars.
• Sun and Sun are Opposition, because on the wheel they’re direct opposite of one another. This is both good, and bad. It’s a powerful placement, however, it comes with plenty of stress and strain. You have to work through this.
• Venus and Venus are Square. This also brings lots of stress, and isn’t as powerful as an Opposition. This is an obstacle you have to overcome. Most often, people will take this placement as “Not Compatible”.
• Mars and Sun are Inconjunct. This means they have nothing to do with each other, and therefore often cause problems. If Actions/Sex and Ego aren’t connecting, this often creates a dynamic of a couple where one person’s needs are being met, but the other isn’t. It’s very one sided, sexually, and when it comes to PDA. This would also be considered “Not Compatible”.
• Mars and Venus are Trine! This means they’re good for one another, understand one another, and mix well. This is the most compatible aspect, so keep at it. (This is even more compatible if the Mars is in the more feminine person’s chart and the Venus is in the more masculine).
• Venus and Sun are also Trine! While this is good, you’ll notice that the ego of Aquarius is being served quite a lot, and Leo’s… isn’t. While this is a good aspect to have in most couples, in this particular couple it may *feel* nice, but overall it can be toxic for Leo, simply because their Mars is already giving up so much. This would seem compatible, but isn’t, solely due to the needs of this Leo in particular, for others, this is considered a compatible aspect.
• Moon and Moon are Semi-Sextile! Yep, you heard me, not Conjunct. 30 degrees (+/- 8) makes a semi-sextile, which isn’t very powerful, but it does have it’s benefits. This adds some understanding and thoughtfulness that the conjunct may not have had. This is very compatible.
• Moon and Mars are Square. This has a lot of inconsiderate nature to it. They (Mars) often do things without consulting Moon, and it usually hurts them to some degree. This is very manageable, if you have the right Mercury sign aspects. This can also be difficult when confronting them (Mars) about relationship issues, as they may feel attacked. This is incompatible.
• Venus and Mars are Sextile. This is a positive aspect, and this helps out a lot. You’ll notice there is already a Mars and Venus (Trine) aspect. How can this couple have these planets connect in these ways? Well, the Mars and Venus talks about the Actions of Leo (Cancer Mars) and Venus of Aquarius (Pisces Venus). This is talking about Leo’s Venus (Gemini) and Aquarius’s Mars (Aries). This is also compatible, and having two seriously positive interactions between both makes it great!

However, on a whole, would you say these people are Compatible… or not? See, the line gets a little blurry when you look at it deeply, and this is only between personal planets, not even delving into each others Houses or Outer Planets and their affects.
Not only that, but this alone took me 15 minutes. Imagine how long it’d take for me to do a full reading? While I love you guys appreciate me to the level you do and trust me to the extent to ask if you’re compatible, I simply cannot be answering them without running myself into the ground.

Daily Horoscopes - March 12th, 2017

ARIES: A surprising conversation will put you in touch with someone exotic, interesting and entirely different from anyone you’ve ever known – just your style. Bet you won’t be dining alone tonight.

TAURUS: That shift in the atmosphere around you isn’t your imagination. There’s a certain something out there that’s changed, and it’s for the better. You may not be especially fond of change in general, but this time you’ll love it.

GEMINI: There’s something major going on behind the scenes. You’re sure of it. Even if you can’t put your finger on it yet, you can smell it in the air. Don’t take action until you’re sure.

CANCER: Ordinarily frugal you suddenly have the urge to do some big-time spending. Take the plastic and the checkbook out of retirement. Just don’t forget to bring along your knack for comparison shopping.

LEO: Speaking of excess, let’s not even try to pretend that it’s over. You’re still in the mood to spend and spend big, especially when it comes to communication devices. Time for a new computer maybe?

VIRGO: So what if it’s a school night? The universe has once again put romance on the agenda – and excess too. That translates into lots of love. Makes you tingle just thinking abut it, doesn’t it?

LIBRA: Letting your guard down has never come easily to you, but with someone you know and trust, you’re more than open. Be careful to choose the right confidante. That goes double for now.

SCORPIO: If you suddenly feel the urge to let a dear one know just how much you care, don’t be shy. You should gush over your loved ones every now and then. Think of this as your official turn.

SAGITTARIUS: Your buttons have just been pushed for the very last time. You’ve had it with the attitude, you’ve had it with feeling manipulated and you’re outta there. Just be sure before you announce it.

CAPRICORN: Still mad about yesterday? It might be time to let it go. If for no other reason than to relieve yourself of this unnecessary burden. You don’t need this and you know it. Wiggle out of it.

AQUARIUS: No matter what your plans were, expect them to change suddenly. Fortunately, that’s what you love. If your companion doesn’t feel the same, use your natural charm to convince them that spontaneity is the best – because it really is!

PISCES: Whatever you’re thinking will pop immediately from your mouth to your lips. You’ll know it’s happened by the expressions on the faces of those around you. Give them a break. They’ve never seen you quite this way.

what the signs want
  • Aries: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Taurus: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Gemini: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Cancer: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Leo: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Virgo: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Libra: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Scorpio: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Sagittarius: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Capricorn: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Aquarius: Ahsoka in a live action movie
  • Pisces: Ahsoka in a live action movie
Monthly Horoscope - March 2017

Aries:
March 2017 Aries horoscope forecasts a month of advancing momentum. You should decide what you want and start working on your targets. You should create your own future and interest of others will come later. The month is ideal for the Aries zodiac sign for launching new ventures. As Mercury will not be favorable after the 20th, your projects should not comprise of communication or internet promotion.

Taurus:
Taurus March 2017 Horoscope predicts that your house of career is dominant this month. Hence the emphasis will be on professional matters, while domestic and emotional matters can be on the back burner for the time being for the Taurus star sign. Taurus, you have all the liberty and power to take decisions regarding the goals of your life this month in March 2017. Others can be safely ignored for the present and you can run your life as per your own abilities and wishes.

Gemini:
Gemini March 2017 Horoscope forecasts that the House of Career happens to be highly powerful this month. Hence your emphasis should be on your professional ambitions and achievements. Planetary aspects for the family are not helpful during the month of March 2017 for the Gemini zodiac sign. Gemini, you can safely use your independence and poise to decide on your objectives, and take action boldly. There is no need to be flexible and to go by the advice of other people. After the 20th, Mercury is not favorable to you and you have to be circumspect in your decisions and actions.

Cancer:
Cancer March 2017 Horoscope forecasts that your House of Career is stronger than the House of Family this month. Professional issues will dominate over domestic matters for the time being for the Cancer personality. Success in career will also bring happiness in the family in March 2017.
Cancer, this is a month of transition. You are neither autonomous nor reliant on your decisions and actions. Sometimes you are free to act as per your free will while during other times you have to depend on social skills to achieve goals in life.

Leo:
Leo March 2017 Horoscope forecasts that the planetary strength is located in the northern half of your horoscope this month. Emphasis will be on professional issues, while domestic concerns and psychological issues can be in the background. Any career success for the Leo zodiac sign will have an impact on the well-being of the family.

Virgo:
Virgo March 2017 Horoscope forecasts a month of changes and transition. March 2017 will be a month of intense and faster transformations in life for the Virgo zodiac sign. Change will remain a constant factor for some time to come and will bring you better things in life. Virgo, your ambitions and success in career will dominate over emotional concerns and domestic issues in the month of March 2017. You should follow your professional objectives vigorously. And you can follow your own course without depending on others.

Libra:
Libra March 2017 Horoscope foretells that this is a transitional month for the Scales sign. You have to balance your career issues with psychological matters and domestic problems. Initially family and emotions will be dominant for the Libra zodiac sign in March 2017.

Scorpio:
Scorpio Horoscope for March 2017 foretells that this is a period of change over from domestic concerns to career, ambitions and outer success. Scorpio, use the beginning of the month to dream about your career targets and work out a strategy to attain them in the latter part of March 2017.

Sagittarius:
March 2017 Sagittarius Horoscope predicts that domestic matters and psychological aspects of life are prominent over professional matters. You can employ this period for working out your career objectives and the right way to attain them in the future. March 2017 is suitable for making major repairs to your house and for beautification of the interiors.

Capricorn:
Capricorn March 2017 Horoscope forecasts that the House of Family is more powerful than the House of Career this month. Aspects of Jupiter are also not favorable for career. Hence career issues will be in the background while domestic affairs will be in focus for the Capricorn personality. It is time to build up a harmonious home base and enjoy your precious time with family members in March 2017.

Aquarius:
Aquarius March 2017 Horoscope forecasts that the House of Self is more dominant than the House of Others. Planet Mars is also favorable for you this month. This will result in more vigor and haste. People involved in sports and athletics will do well. There is a need to curb your anger and remain peaceful even when things are going against your wishes in March 2017.

Pisces:
Pisces March 2017 Horoscope predicts that this will be a month for professional commitments. Though domestic issues and psychological matters are more prominent, career is still necessary and important for the Pisces zodiac sign in March 2017. Emotional strength will help you succeed in your job and business. The spiritual Pisces personality will be forced to seek sensual pleasures and buy personal luxury items this month in March 2017. Your independence is stronger this month and you can have your way. You need not adapt to others and others will be forced to follow you.