acting confident

  • where do you draw the line between pretentious and confident? what is appropriate? everyone has a different perspective.
  • Should someone keep quiet about their background and accomplishments because it will be perceived as pretentious? I'm honestly wondering about all this. Feel free to inbox me and I'll listen with an open heart.
  • I do astrology for profit, yes, it is necessary for me to act confident in what i do... sure, one time i knocked down a certain someone, and i think a bunch of people now think less of me consequently. it is what it is. i'm just incredibly fortunate to have dozens of friends on this site!
What the signs are best at hiding

Aries: Doubting themselves. They always act like they know what to do with their life, even is they sometimes don’t

Taurus: Sadness. They’re the Kings and Queens of hiding being sad with a smile.

Gemini: Heartbreak. They will go out and live their life like nothing happened.

Cancer: Vulnerability. They can actually hide that really well, acting as if their were rough and nothing gets to them.

Leo: Insecurity. They act so confidant and you would guess how unsure they are sometimes.

Virgo: Having feelings for someone. They often hide the fact that they’re crushing on someone in fear of rejection.

Libra: Being hurt. If you did something to hurt them, they won’t tell you because they want you think it didn’t bother them.

Scorpio: Jealousy. They can be so jealous, but they won’t show it. They’ll sit back and watch acting like it’s nothing to them.

Sagittarius: Anger. They snap if it’s really necessary.

Capricorn: Negative emotion. They absolutely hate being vulnerable and letting their guard down.

Aquarius: Hate. Even if they don’t like you, they’ll talk to you just like they talk everyone else.

Pisces: Grief. They try their best to push it away so they don’t have to deal with it, no matter if it’s a death, break up whatever.


*Check Moon too*

How to Deal with Rejection, or Being Victimised

1. Remind yourself of who you really are – and use positive self-talk to change the way you feel.

2. When you have to speak to someone who outwardly rejects you, or makes you feel bad about yourself, try to act as if you love and feel good about yourself. Fake courageous feelings, and act self confident. (“Fake it till you make it” – and you’ll find your feelings change.)

3. Respond in a friendly, self respecting way – and they’re likely to treat you the same way too. Control your interactions by setting the tone. You be the one to have the upper hand.

4. Use humour in uncomfortable and awkward situations. Humour defuses tension, and puts people at ease. If someone is rude or insulting try to find a way of turning it into a joke. People who have bullying tendencies expect you to get anger or act in a defensive way. When you respond with humor, they don’t know what to do.

5. Overlook small stuff. It’s not worth get upset over every little thing. They’re not worth the effort and energy.

6. Always believe in yourself. You know the truth about who you really are. You’re not stupid; you’re not a victim. You are one who is charge of your life, and is at the helm of your destiny. You have plenty of things to feel good about, and you’re going to make something really wonderful of life.

Okay so pining Keith is a thing and now I’m imagining Lance one day just being really insecure and lonely and telling Keith about how he’s always flirting but in reality all he wants is a real relationship, and that he’s never been in one. Also that he may act confident for show but can’t imagine someone ever actually falling for him and Keith is just sitting there silent and hurt because if he could just tell Lance how he felt. How pretty the midnight blue specks of his eyes are and how vibrant, warm and beautiful Lance is as a whole, inside and out. And it just kills him daily because how could someone this radiant ever believe no one could love him when he’s so deeply in love with him already.

BEHAVIOR THINGS TO PASS AS A GUY

-“shrug” your shoulders very slightly. eventually it’ll feel nature if you keep at it. it makes your shoulders look bigger. Put your elbows on chair arms to do it while sitting

-clench your jaw a little bit. it sounds really weird but it’ll make you look like you have a more masculine jaw line

-walk with your stance every so slightly wider than usual. it’ll make your lips slightly less pronounced and make your shoulders look squarer

-Don’t move out of the way for people gracefully. not saying don’t move out of the way at all, but let yourself brush shoulders sometimes. You can also just be more spacious about it. And yes, in a crowded hallway you probably shouldn’t maneuver your way through.

-Be comfortable! I shit you not, this can be magic for passing. Be relax, act confident, and lean back and be comfortable. People see it as dominance and we subconsciously see dominance and our mind trails to masculinity

-when you sit in the floor, sit with your ass on the floor. Indian style or with your legs out works. Don’t sit on your legs or in that weird W shape (that’s bad for you anyway)

anyone feel free to add any other weird behavior passing tips you’ve discovered!

Your first date with Draco would include…

-Him acting all self-confident while asking you to go on a date with him

-Although he’d actually be absolutely nervous about your answer

-Flashing you a charming smile without showing too much of his excitement as you accept

-Him deciding to take you to dinner at a nice restaurant first and arriving about half an hour early to make sure everything is perfect

-Being beyond happy when you finally arrive because you somehow managed to look even more beautiful than you do anyways

-Loving how a soft shade of pink spreads across your cheeks every time he compliments you

-Him feeling completely at ease with you and enjoying the way he could basically talk about everything with you 

-Both of you feeling some kind of connection, like you are just completed in each others presence

-Talking non-stop and not even realizing that the restaurant is about to close

-Draco offering to take you to a walk near the lake if you still want to

-You gladly accepting his offer and smiling as he helps you into your jacket while leading you outside

-His arm eventually fining it’s place around your waist 

-Sitting near the lake next to each other and although you aren’t talking much anymore, both of you know what doesn’t need to be said

-Him softly placing his hand on your cheek before bending down to engage you in a passionate kiss

-Walking back to your common room hand in hand, knowing that this was definitely not your last date

Dear med students

You are not a burden.


We had a trio of M2s drop by the inpatient service yesterday afternoon and the attending asked if we had any patients who would be good for them to meet. One of mine is the sweetest old man (we talk about our cats every morning when I round on him) with some interesting heart pathology. I recommended him.


This morning when I rounded I asked how he was doing and he said “Some medical students came to talk to me yesterday about my heart. They were so sweet! I was so excited they wanted to talk to me, it made my day!”


Sometimes I felt bad talking to patients as a med student, clumsily asking questions, unsure of how to act, not confident in my knowledge base. And some patients don’t like students. But in my experience, those are the exception.

// cute!! wrote this as the boys ( left Jaehee out because I didn’t have time agh ) having a crush on MC but not knowing if he/she feels the same about them
(*¯︶¯*)

Zen:


- Seven had held it between the both of you when everyone was out and about celebrating together and said if you two didn’t kiss, he riots.

- He’d act all confident about it but he’s actually really nervous on the inside, because he knows it’ll mean more to him than it would to you.

- If you don’t want to that’s fine though, he wouldn’t force you.

- If you do however, he’ll kiss you on the forehead last minute instead of the lips because he panics a little and kissing you in front of everyone like this?! He’s a little embarrassed.

- When you grab him by the back of the head and pull him back into an actual kiss he freezes for a few second before subconsciously deepening it, he gets goosebumps when you tug on his hair.

- He pulls back after a very.. intense.. moment. He’s a little flushed but he plays it off, jokingly asking how it felt to kiss the best looking man on planet earth.

- But he would like to know.

- Everyone’s a little shocked to say the least when you two are done, but Seven breaks the silence by going on about how he should strike up a job becoming a matchmaker that was so intense, damn.

Jumin:

- He has a ’ Alright let’s just get this done ’ attitude, Seven explained to him last year the rules of mistletoe and hell, he didn’t even know that’s what that little thing in the doorway was until you brought it up.

- But he’s really anxious, he tugs on his sleeves before taking a deep breath and leaning in.

- It’s a quick little kiss, nothing deep but it was still enough to get both of you a little flustered.

- He quickly moves on from it as it it didn’t happen, but he’ll think about it a lot after you’ve gone back home.

- Would invite you back the next day and ’ claim ’ he forgot to take the mistletoe down after yesterday. Rules are rules though, yes?

- If you’re the one who initiates it then he’s frozen for a bit, when you start to pull back is when he really gets into it and deepens it before you have the chance to break away. It’s a little messy but passionate, he’s super apologetic afterwards because he got carried away.

Yoosung:

- You two had been shopping out together, helping him pick out gifts for his family and the RFA for Christmas when one of the stores had a little mistletoe hanging above the door frame.

- He notices it right away but it’s too late, you both have already walked under it. Blushy right away and tries to laugh it off, but when you ask for a kiss his heart stops because you’d be his first kiss.

- He agrees but it’s more or less a quick kiss on the corner of your mouth instead of on your actual lips, pull him back for a real one and he will melt

- Red tomato face club, he stutters his words a lot and very flustered the rest of the trip. Can’t stop thinking about how he felt when you kissed him, it was new and nice.

Seven:

- He meant to hold it over him and Yoosung bUT HE DIDNT REALIZE YOU GUYS SWITCHED PLACES SHITTT

- As soon as he realises it’s YOU hes laughing nervously and– are his glasses fogging up?

- “oOOH SEVEN!! ” Yoosung teases at the table, pushing you two to get it on

- He jokes it off but his eyes are the things that ask permission, you nod slightly and he leans in– It’s a sweet kiss. Open mouth but no tongue, he’s not that bold right now.

- Super flushed as soon as you two break away, plays it off easily but he’s a bright shade of Santa Claus red and his lips feel tingly.


V:

- but he can’t see the mistletoe anyways so

- If you mention the fact you two walked under mistletoe he’s just kind of like Oh?

- You’re the one who’s going to have to bring a kiss up, and he’s pretty shocked at the idea at first but he’ll agree with a little bit of assurance.

- He has to use his thumb to find your lips and traces them slightly before leaning in, it’s a little messy but still very soft and gentle. A closed kiss, but he does cup your face and run a thumb across your cheek.

- Flustered when it breaks, commenting on how he can’t remember the last time he had one of those. Tries to forget about it so things don’t get awkward but he can’t help it, it was just such a nice sensation to feel that again.

Saeran:

- the fuck is a missile-toe

- Seriously, he doesn’t know what that is. You’re going to have to explain it to him.

- “ … Okay.. ”

- Wastes no time, grips you by the back of the head and practically crashes into you– Not even bothering to hide his eagerness.

- Out of everyone’s, his is the most passionate second to Zen’s. But a lot rougher.

- Teeth clashing, tongue, and when he pulls away he bites your lip a little. Holy shit.

- Acts like it’s the most casual thing ever afterwards even though he’s kicking himself for getting so carried away. Hopes playing it out will make everything less awkward, but don’t bring it up afterwards because he’ll get flustered about it.

Boyfriend! Jimin

Dating Jimin would include:

  • CONSTANT 
  • “aren’t I hot babe?”
  • “i know you love me the most”
  • “you want me to stop? make me”
  • he’s really good at winking and it makes you melt
  • jimin acts so confident and you love it
  • but then there is the other side to him that you love even more
  • the way he blushes when you kiss his cheek
  • and the way he peers down at you when you lace your fingers with his
  • “jimin you’re so cute”
  • “my little chim chim”
  • when the two of you are laying in bed on a day off
  • you always run your fingers through his soft hair and he hums all half asleep 
  • when you stop he whines and moves himself closer to you
  • you just laugh and push him away but he scoots towards you like the lil puppy dog he is
  • his smile lights up your entire world
  • when you’re upset he’ll come over and pull you onto the floor and kiss your tears away
  • he’ll help you lay down and he’ll lay down next to you
  • and pull you really close to him so your noses are almost touching
  • and while you cry he won’t say anything, just rub your back and wipe your tears and let yOU KNOW ITS OKAY I’M EMO
  • when he’s upset all he wants is to be near you and he instantly feels better
  • when ya’ll get heated
  • it
  • gets
  • hEATED.
  • Plus, it’s pretty often too
  • the sex you two have is completely adventurous and really nothing is off limits
  • he’s very into trying new things
  • and when you two get a second alone he’ll put you in his lap and roughly make out with you until the two of you hear the boys coming back
  • then they’ll walk in and make “oooOOOOO” noises and jimin just smiles and looks at you like
  • “we’ll continue this later y/n”
  • fights are a no-no with chim-chim
  • nothing makes him more upset than when you’re upset
  • and when he made you upset you upset him more and then he’s upset and smol chim is so confused
  • the arguments you guys have are heartbreaking tbh
  • you’re always worried that he’s not eating or he’s trying to lose too much weight
  • and when you notice he hasn’t been eating as much as usual you pounce on him and feed him more than usual and he catches on
  • “what the hell i eat all the time y/n”
  • “no you don’t, i never see you eat”
  • “i’m always at the studio, that’s why”
  • “point made. eat another egg”
  • the two of you really enjoy super-coupley stuff
  • when you were in chicago with him you took a walk to millenium park and took ugly pictures at the bean and walked through maggie daley park
  • although
  • when you two were walking hand in hand he tripped over a twig, pulled you down with him and you smashed your head against the iron siding of the bridge
  • he FREAKED out and was apologizing all night
  • he took you to urgent care and didn’t understand what was going on when they told you that you needed stitches
  • and then when you revisited the bridge where you fell a year later
  • the dent in the siding from your head was still there
  • and he freaked out again and continued apologizing
  • the boys just laughed at him and patted him on the back
  • “jiminie i’m fine its been like a year”
  • such a sweet lil baby
  • jimin is totally the type to bring you flowers out of the blue
  • and when you call him to bring you tampons or pads he knows exactly what brand and type you like
  • ugh jimin would be such a good boyfriend

enjoy! requests are open!

can you imagine Victor being just slightly embarrassed now? like he was acting so confident and flirting and invading Yuuri’s personal space from minute one, all due to drunk Yuuri being so into him and being incredibly extra and clingy… and then he finds out Yuuri doesn’t even remember

Preference "How they react to their newborn child"

(Firstly I am so sorry for the late post, I had an emergency yesterday and today I had a family diner so i couldn’t post it earlier. But here it is now! Hope it is as requested and you all like it :D Yay for our faves being cute ass parents :D PS. I removed characters I thought might be too young to have a kid for the moment…sorry about that…Gifs not mine/found them on google/credit to the original owners.)

Negan-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d be speechless. During your whole pregnancy, he was acting all excited and confident about the whole baby thing but the instant he heard the cries and later the doctor calling over to him asking if he wanted to hold them, he became nervous and anxious. Once he sees how small his child is compared to anything he has ever seen, he’d be scared yet at the same time it brought him an undeniable joy. 

Daryl-The moment he sees his newborn child, he wouldn’t be able to stop smiling and baby talk with them. From the start of your pregnancy, he was all excited at the idea of the two of you starting a family. So although he had been nervous hearing the cries and screams, as soon as he has been permitted to hold the baby, he smiled and laughed while trying to coo it to sleep.

Rick-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d start to cry tears of joy. He was so happy to learn that you were pregnant and had enjoyed helping you as much as he could, that seeing the result of all of it in the end, he started to tear up. Just the sound of the child’s cry made him happy and as he was permitted to hold them, it was even better. 

Merle-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d be nervous and would wait for you to guide him. From the start of your pregnancy he had been unsure about the thought of becoming a father but with your encouragements and support it made him grow to love the idea. However as soon as he was able to hold his child, he started to fidget and wasn’t sure about how to handle such a small and precious thing.

Glenn-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d chuckle and tears would come to his eyes. He was ecstatic to know that you were with child and had taken upon himself to learn how to care for when expecting. So much, he had stayed with you during the whole birthing and  was practically begging to hold his child the instant it started to cry.

The Governor-The moment he sees his newborn child, he wouldn’t be able to stop wanting to hold them and smiling.  During your whole pregnancy, he did whatever he could to stay by your side and keep you and his child safe as it made him feel at ease knowing that you were both fine. So the instant, he heard the cries coming from your child, with the most care and love he could muster up, he held her tightly.

Abraham-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d feel at ease and finally would smile. He had been slightly distraught at the idea of having a child in these times and had expressed it to you countless of times. Even though everyone and you had managed to make him feel more comfortable with the idea, in the back  of his mind he still was unsure. However, as soon as he was permitted to hold his child, everything changed.

Eugene-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d be stunned and wouldn’t be too sure of how to hold them. During your pregnancy, he had grow to love the idea of being a father and had done everything he could to help you whenever you needed. So when time came for you to deliver, he had been serious and was doing his best to support you. However, when time came to hold his child for the first time, he was surprised by their size and got nervous by how light they were.

Jesus-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d be pleasantly surprised and wouldn’t be able to let them go. After discovering you were pregnant, he couldn’t be any happier. He helped you everyday going through it and did his best to provide with whatever you needed. And now here he was and was allowed to hold his child for the first time. As soon as he held them, he smiled and had gotten excited to see them.

Dwight-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d finally understand the joy and start to ramble on about them. During your whole pregnancy, he was uncertain about himself but for your sake he tried his best to support you. As you had notice him, you would usually do your best as well to encourage and reassure him. So when he was finally permitted to hold his child, he’d feel different and didn’t regret it.

Morgan-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d smile and would finally be able to feel happier. When he had learn you were pregnant, he started to blame himself for being so reckless and was uncertain of having a child in these times. You dd whatever you could to reassure him but he still had doubts in the back of his mind. However, as he finally held them, he started to smile and chuckle.

Shane-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d be stunned and wouldn’t know exactly what to say. During your whole pregnancy, he had stayed by your side and help you as much as he could. He genuinely cared for you and his child and had been as excited as you at the idea of finally having his own family. However, when he was permitted to hold them, he suddenly got teary eyes and chuckle as he wasn’t sure of how to handle them.

Milton-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d handle them with the most care and smile. When he learned about your pregnancy he had been uncertain at first but slowly he grew to love the idea of being a father and did everything he could to help you. So as he was permitted to hold them, he held them carefully and couldn’t help but smile looking at them.

Aaron-The moment he sees your newborn child, he’d be happy and would already start to talk to them. From the start of your pregnancy, he had helped you with whatever you needed and was doing anything to make you happy and you were truly grateful for him. So as he was finally permitted to hold them, he was excited and couldn’t stop smiling looking at them.

Gabriel-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d finally feel more comfortable and would genuinely feel happier. When he learned you were pregnant, he had blamed himself for it and had apologize to you countless of times and admitted he was uncertain of it. However, with your encouragement he slowly grew to accept it and as he was permitted to hold them, he was finally sure of himself.

The Wolf-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d stare at them with intent and understand what it now means to him. During your whole pregnancy, he tried his best to be around you and help you as much as he could. You noticed his efforts and had thanked him each time for it. As he was permitted to hold them, he’d smile and wouldn’t stop inspecting them making sure they are fine.

Simon-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d get all nervous and would stumble to find the right words to say. When he learned you were pregnant, he had taken it as a joke until he realized you were telling him the truth. It made him nervous but he had always hidden it behind his bright and positive mood. However, as he was permitted to hold them, his nervousness showed but nonetheless he couldn’t help but smile.

Ezekiel-The moment he sees his newborn child, he wouldn’t be able to stop looking at them and praising them. During your whole pregnancy, he was happy to help you and the thought of having a family just made him feel even happier. Despite being nervous during the birthing, it all disappeared the instant he was permitted to hold them and stay close to you.

Benjamin-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d get nervous and wouldn’t be too sure of what to do. He was excited to help you and care for you during your whole pregnancy and you couldn’t hope for more. However, when he was permitted to hold them, he slowly started to get nervous and wasn’t sure if he was doing the right thing.

Caesar-The moment he sees his newborn child, he’d smile looking at them and just feel happy to know that you are both well. During your whole pregnancy, he did everything he could to keep you safe and well to make sure you and the child were fine to assure you that he loved you. So the instant he was permitted to hold them he couldn’t ask for more.

Michonne-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d start to cry tears of joy. She was uncertain of having a child in these times but with your support and you reassuring her that you’ll be by her side, she grew to accept the idea. As she was permitted to hold them, she started to cry and couldn’t be any happier.

Maggie-The moment she sees her newborn child, she wouldn’t be able to stop smiling at them and tears would come to her. She was certain of having the child and was even more grateful that you understood her and did whatever you could to keep her happy and feel comfortable. As she was able to hold them for the first time, her joy and happiness showed through her smile and laughter.

Andrea-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d finally be able to smile and feel better. She had doubts since the beginning of her pregnancy and even though you had tried to reassure her, she still couldn’t be certain of what you were both doing. However, that feeling changed the instant she was permitted to hold them.

Jessie-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d cry tears of joy and chuckle looking at you. She was grateful for her sons and your help in supporting her and couldn’t hope for more out of all of you. So the instant she finally saw them, she didn’t hesitate to ask to hold them and as she did, she finally smiled.

Sasha-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d be at loss for words and tears would come to her. She knew she was happy to have the child but at the same time at the back of her mind something was still holding her from enjoying it as much. However as she was permitted to hold her child, she smiled and just couldn’t describe her happiness.

Rosita-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d chuckle looking at how small they are. From the start, she was unsure of having a child but with your support and help, she managed to grow to appreciate it a little more everyday. As she was allowed to hold them, she finally understood and couldn’t be any happier.

Tara-The moment she sees her newborn child, she’d get slightly nervous about how to hold them but nonetheless it brought her joy. She had been nervous from the start and wasn’t too sure of how to handle it. Luckily with your help and support she grew to understand it. However, as she was permitted to hold them, she put as much love and care as she could.

How You Say Goodbye Before A Mission

An Avengers Preference

Steve: Once you two were public with your relationship Steve would keep you tucked under his arm for as long as possible before a big mission. And you didn’t object. It was nice to be so close to him. Right as he was about to leave he’d hug you tight and press a passionate kiss to your lips. “Be safe,” you’d tell him and he’d smile in response. “Always am.”

Bucky: You and Bucky are the annoying PDA couple about the tower. And it’s at its most annoying before he leaves for a mission. You worry about him, hoping nothing triggers him when he’s out there and that he can keep it focused and make it home. You’d throw your arms around his neck in a deep embrace, locking your lips together before whispering good-bye’s and good luck’s in his ear. He’d carry those words with him all mission.

Tony: Tony likes to talk and act like the big confident guy, but deep down, part of him would be worried this mission could his last and you would be left alone. You knew of his anxieties and always tried your best to stay positive about his leaving. You’d make comments like “My super hero” and “Have fun saving the world”. With a small smile and a chaste kiss he’d lower his helmet and be gone.

Bruce: You know Bruce isn’t a big fan of missions. You just keep reminding him why he’s going. That he is a super hero like everyone else, even if his ‘power’ is a bit less fortunate. You try not to say too many goodbyes and anyway you know the other guy will make sure Bruce gets home safe.

Clint: Clint has a habit of getting a bit cocky before a mission, bragging about how he’s going to save the world. You play along, him never quite noticing the sarcasm hidden in your voice before you pull him close and place a kiss on his lips.

Thor: Thor wasn’t one for big public good-byes. Yours would happen alone in one of your rooms. It’s an oddly gentle moment, given Thor’s size and penchant for battle, with a long hug and soft kiss before you telling him you’ll see him soon. You have no doubt you God of Thunder will make it home in one piece.

8

When you model, there’s no way you can’t notice yourself. Do you know what I mean? Because you’re constantly surrounded by people saying, ‘Oh, she’s too short, she’s too skinny, she’s this, she’s whatever.’ And you’re right there. They’re talking about you and you’re right there. And.. what I mean is, I’ve gotten less confident. But I’ve gotten better at acting confident.