guys, if you can, please read Tash Hearts Tolstoy by Kathryn Ormsbee. The main character is ace and I literally cried through at least a third of the book because I’ve never seen a character who experiences life the same way I do and it was such a beautiful feeling to see that on a page. Tash’s journey to discovering her identity, her doubts and reservations about dating non-ace people, and her frustration with a sex-obsessed world hit so close to home for me. I was in tears for so much of it. I’m so happy this book exists.
I'm not ace but my girlfriend is and I'm planning on proposing soon. So here's proof that the allosexual partner can be happy being with an asexual