ace mod

listen @ all you girls who are questioning your sexuality: i will love you no matter what. there is no pressure to be anything.

 i will 100% love you if you turn out to be a lesbian. 

i will 100% love you if you turn out to be bi. 

i will 100% love you if you turn out to be pan. 

i will 100% love you if you turn out to be ply. 

i will 100% love you if you turn out to be ace.

 i will 100% love you if you turn out to be lith, or demi, or grey or anything else, or just decide there is no label that fits. 

and you know what? i will 100% love if you do turn out to be straight. there’s a lot of sapphic positivity going around right now, but that’s mostly because there hasn’t been a lot in the past. a lot of the problems that i had while questioning were “what if im just doing it to join the lgbtq+ community? what if im an intrusive hetero™?”  and i promise you, you’re not. youre completely valid in your search for who you are, and i love you for that. 

shoutout to autistic aces who are blamed for the desexualization of autistic people

you are allowed to exist as an autistic ace

you are not responsible for the desexualization of autistic people

you are not wrong for seeking out representation of autistic ace people

you are allowed to headcanon autistic characters as ace and ace characters as autistic

you are not bad or wrong for existing as an autistic ace in ways that fit into stereotypes about autistic or ace people

you are wonderful and lovely and good 

your existence is not to blame for the desexualization of autistic people

you are allowed to exist as an autistic ace

I never see enough positivity for het ace/aro people.

Cis het ace/aro people? So great and valid. I’m so happy they’re alive. I hope they find the best partner because they totally deserve it.

Trans het ace/aro people? So valid. So awesome and im so glad they exist. They deserve the best parners too.

Het ace/aro people are valid and so worthy of love.

Reminder

Gay girls are great!

Bi girls are beautiful!

Pan girls are perfect!

Poly girls are precious!

Ace girls are amazing!

Aro girls are awesome!

Girls in general ✨😍💞✨

All ace and aro people are great

Trans aces/aros
Cis aces/aros
Gay aces/aros
Bi aces/aros
Lesbian aces/aros
Pan aces/aros
Nb aces/aros
Het aces/aros
Intersex aces/aros

All aces. You’re all valid and lovely, and you all deserve the best of everything

shoutout to asexual trans boys who don’t feel like they belong in the LGBT+ community because of TERFs and exclusionists !!

no matter what they say, you are 1000% valid in your gender and your orientation and you are 1000% welcome in the LGBT+ community !!

you are deserving of so much love, respect, and support and i hope you know how wonderful and how loved you are !!