Life’s uncertainty makes constant demands on everyone’s coping mechanisms. There are basically two ways to cope with uncertainty – acceptance and resistance. Acceptance means that you allow events to unfold around you and react to them spontaneously, without suppression. Resistance means that you try to change events from what they really are…
Acceptance is healthy because it permits you to clear any stress as soon as it occurs; resistance is unhealthy because it builds up residues of frustration, false expectations, and unfulfilled desires.
—  Deepak Chopra, “Ageless Body, Timeless Mind”

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What the signs can't accept

Aries: Losing a fight

Taurus: Bad memories

Gemini: Not knowing the answer to anything

Cancer: Losing a family pet or family member

Leo: Hurt\ Suffering \ Inner pain

Virgo: A mistake

Libra: Losing a friend

Scorpio: Losing a lover

Sagittarius: Responsibility

Capricorn: Failure

Aquarius: Losing an argument

Pisces: That all things good come to an end

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I can’t believe it took this long to try to make peace with who I am, what I want, what I need, and take deep breaths while doing so. It’s time to make peace with myself. To love myself for all that I am. To appreciate everything instead of expecting everything. To want what I already have rather than pray and wish for more, more, more.  A sincere and deep apology to all those I’ve hurt in the process of hurting myself. I’m trying to become a better me. A better me I wholeheartedly accept and love. A better me to love you.