listen I’m not even remotely fucking around, this blog is meant as a safe place to discuss and laugh about our struggles with executive dysfunction and to find a sense of community. This blog is meant to provide validation, resources, and humor, and I am NOT here for people trying to shut that down by misinterpreting and misrepresenting the scope of how disabling executive dysfunction can really be.
this started as a vent blog but I’ve gotten so many nice messages and tags from people so happy they’ve finally found an explanation for this intangible horror they’ve struggled with their whole lives, people who are learning to not hate themselves and to not feel so goddamn alone. I didn’t have any sense of any of that until my early 20s after a lifetime of struggling without knowing why, blaming myself and hating myself for being disabled.
I have words and resources and the pissy attitude to put those into action and that’s what I’m going to do here. It’s hard to advocate for yourself, and it’s hard to advocate for other people, especially about something you’re self-conscious about or hate about yourself or don’t have the words or resources to explain. So as long as this blog can serve as an effective platform, that’s what I’m gonna use it for. I’m sick of people stepping all over me and I’m sick of watching other people get stepped on.