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OKAY SUPERCORP/KARAMEL RANT

**Please read** This all really needs to be said. However, before I go further I want you all to understand that this isn’t meant to be a hate paragraph or to purposefully put those who like Mon-El and/or Karamel down. At this point, all the disagreeing and fighting will do nothing. So I’m asking kindly that if you’re going to add something to this post- that it is filled with positive intent. 

 Anyhow, to my point:

I do watch Supergirl by the way, but I truly believe this concerns a wide variety of people. Whether you’re a fan of The 100, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Walking Dead, or just a person living your life… All I hope is that we all try to grasp the reality of what is truly going on. Now I will centralize this long rant towards Supergirl however. For those of you who don’t know what is going on there is a conflict between fans who ship this character, Mon-El, together with Supergirl/Kara and fans who ship Lena Luthor with Supergirl/Kara. Now, in my humble opinion, the big issue isn’t about straight v.s lgbt people and I will go on about that later… but the fact that she is with someone like Mon-El. Now what do I mean by ‘someone like Mon-El’… before certain people get mad I want to emphasize that I’m simply pointing out what happened in the show. 

This is long as hell just fyi.

1) The way Mon-El reacts to most things is through violence. In fact, the moment he wakes up he chokes Kara. And there’s this: 

(his words in white)

And the scene where Mon-El robs Brian; using his powers for selfish reasons.

He even calls her names. And notice how he does this the moment Kara disagrees with him. A reaction that does more harm than good. On the other hand, when Kara and Lena disagree on something (in ep. 2x03) they simply talk it out. They ask questions, explain, clarify, and come to an understanding.

Now, I’m not here to say that I have NEVER agreed with anything Mon-El has said, actually I applaud him for accepting Maggie and Alex’s relationship the way he did, but that’s just the thing. The opinions/beliefs he has don’t come from himself. Most of what he thinks is based off of what he’s seen on Daxam. He really isn’t at all mature. He isn’t by any means and it’s simply the truth. Now hear me out-

This is what I mean by he isn’t mature: How many times has Kara asked him politely and specifically not to do something but without hesitation still does it? And how many times has he had to beg for forgiveness? 

In addition, he doesn’t have knowledge of what respect truly means. What’s interesting though about this scene in particular- is how it’s supposed to be a ‘funny’ scene. Mon-El’s character is written in as ‘funny’ and ‘aloof’… but it sends a poisonous message- that Kara’s feelings aren’t to be taken seriously. And this show is literally supposed to be about her. Not a guy who thinks it’s his duty to ‘defend her honor’ and then complains about it.

Now I know that this was how people on Daxam acted and their way of life was for the most part, sexist, racist, etc. But that still doesn’t give him an excuse to act the way he does. 

2) Lena herself comes from a family with twisted values as well. She is adopted into the Luthor family and has had close to no friends most of her life. And yet she’s still capable of being a perfectly decent person. 

She does save the alien population not once, but twice. So not only is Lena proved time and time again that she’s a good person, but her relationship with Kara (btw I call it a ‘relationship’ just like the writers do)… is not even close to toxic, detrimental, or abusive. It’s the complete opposite.

Protect yourself”

“I can take care of myself”

3) Being in a healthy relationship is about the effort between two willing people… at the same time, knowing your boundaries whilst encouraging one another.

4) Kara deserves someone who fully acknowledges her efforts and is grateful for them



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Robron Playlist: [2/?] -> Soldier - Gavin DeGraw
i know you don’t believe it
but i said it and i still mean it
when you heard what i told you
when you get worried i’ll be your soldier

OTP prompt where Person A was a victim of childhood abuse and has a prominent scar somewhere on their arm from a particularly rough night. Person A confides in Person B that whenever they look at the scar, it reminds them of that dark time from their past. Person B then goes out and gets a tattoo of the same design as the scar in the same place A has it. “Now whenever you see it’ll remind you of me” Person B says as they show their new tattoo to Person A. 

there was a different
version of ‘me' 
every two seasons:
a me who hated and fighted,
a me who destroyed herself,
a me who screams and bites,
a me that was happy and cried,
a me that wanted him and her,
a me that got everyone away
and me, I couldn’t keep any.
then,
there was you.
knocking at my door,
stealing my fries and walking me home,
defending me in the streets
and calling me colors, all sky, yours, loved.
in the end, 
you saved a 'me’ i missed having my whole life.
—  you chose me, over the princess of your tale, you chose the dragon. nc.
just to know your name (killerwave)

(because this post just screamed Killerwave to me and I couldn’t resist. this is lowkey highkey for @phynali )

So what if Mick was a little drunk? Or a lot drunk, as the case may have been? They’d gone and saved the world from Vandal Asshole Savage, freed all of time from the Time Bastards, and somehow Team STAR Labs had managed to pull his lifelong best friend and partner in crime out of the wilds of the timestream in one piece. Damn right he was drunk. Most of the Legends and the Flash’s team were. They’d earned it.

When he turned away from the makeshift wet bar Cisco had put together in the lab, holding yet another Southern Comfort and Coke, he saw a goddamn angel standing by the window. She was tall and slender with thick, wavy chestnut-colored hair, delicate shoulders and arms bared by a simple black dress, and the biggest, sweetest brown eyes he’d ever seen. He made his way over to talk to her, ignoring the people laughing and celebrating around them.

“Hey, beautiful. You don’t look like you’re having much fun,” he said, standing at her shoulder.

“I am,” she said, with a smile that looked like it could save a man’s soul. “I’m sorry. I’m not really a party person.”

Mick looked around the room. “Lucky this isn’t really much of a party,” he observed. The woman laughed and leaned a little closer to him. He smiled.

“So tell me, sweetheart. Are you single?” he asked.

The woman laughed softly again, pushing her shiny hair behind her ears, and looked up into his eyes with a gentle smile. “No, actually,” she said. “Sorry to disappoint you.”

“Hmm,” Mick grunted, in the mood to push his luck. “So this man – or woman, could be a woman – they treat you right? They don’t just leave you standing alone at a party after you got dressed up so nice?”

“He’s really great,” she said, looking like she was trying not to laugh. “He’s sweet and funny and he’d definitely want to knock you out if he heard you flirting with me like that –”

Mick felt a hand on his shoulder and froze for a second, ready for a fight if that was the boyfriend coming back to defend his girl’s honor. He turned to see that the man behind him was… Len! His buddy, the one he’d thought was dead! He clapped the man on the shoulder, getting a warning look in return.

“Go home, Mick. You’re drunk,” Len said, sounding amused.

“‘M not that drunk.”

“Mick,” Len said again, raising an eyebrow. “You just asked your own girlfriend if she was single.”

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First of all, Judal is a big whiny kid and I love him

Second of all, he’s such an adorable sap when it comes to Hakuryuu, it pains me. Like. Boy your crush is so obvious, you’re too much.

He obviously puts a lot of faith in Hakuryuu and his abilities though, which is something that not enough people do. Hakuryuu was the forgotten, ignored child but Judal always had such confidence in his ability to become a king and succeed. And as sad as it makes him, he knows that Hakuryuu will keep going and pushing for his goals because that’s part of what makes him so good at what he does.

Judal sees Hakuryuu for what he actually does and fairly accurately predicts what he will do. Even if hurts that he thinks Hakuryuu isn’t going to stop and mourn him, he’s not going to imagine Hakuryuu as what he wants him to be.

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ALEX AND JO IN EVERY EPISODE || Readiness Is All (9x23)

No, you grow up! Not everyone’s like you, Alex. People are horrible. And the last time someone grabbed me like Jason did, I–I promised no one would ever do that again. So I’m sorry, but not everyone is like you. Not everyone’s good…And now you think I’m horrible, too.

No, no, I–if you hadn’t gotten to him first, I probably would have killed the guy. 

Why? Why would you do that for me?

Shut up, why wouldn’t I?

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Haikyuu!! ep 1x10, “Yearning.” 

The subtext in this episode is siiick. Someone please write a fic where Kageyama gets unreasonably jealous any time Hinata shows affection towards and/or really admires anyone who isn’t him. And like, he knows he’s being irrational, but he can’t help it, especially when Hinata goes around hugging people and singing their praises and basically not training 100% of his attention on Kageyama. 

And if a fic like this already exists, for the love of kagehina, link it to me. 

Person A used to believe in happily ever afters. They met Person C, and thought that they might have met the one. Their thoughts were corrected, however, after one of Person C’s violent outbursts, that ended with Person A rather bruised, both emotionally and physically. Person A quickly headed to the police, desperate for a safe way out, only to find, that as Person C is [famous, politically connected, a fellow cop, etc.], none of the officers are willing to give Person A’s case any thought. Months [or years] pass, and Person A begins to think that there is no way out of this horror of a relationship. Until Person B, a brand new officer at the force, shows up and witnesses Person C attacking Person A. Person B quickly arrests Person C, not caring or knowing about their status. Person A is incredibly grateful, and as such clings to Person B, both for help dealing with the upcoming proceedings, and emotional support. Do Person A and B end up together? Is Person C arrested? Will Person A get a happily ever after?

okay okay okay but adam has always been so aware of the cycle of abuse (wondering in trb if he’ll grow up to hit his own kid, analyzing his own violent anger towards blue in tdt) and by trk he’s confident enough in his recovery and his differences from his parents and his capacity to love in a healthy way that he not only is willing to try to reconcile with his parents (because he knows he’ll never be like them and never has to let them hurt him again), but he gets into a serious relationship with ronan and takes on a fatherly role towards opal and the only apprehension he shows over any of it is worry that he’ll break ronan’s heart by not wanting the same things as him, and even that gets resolved within one night. adam parrish has grown so so much and feels so much more safety and certainty and trust and love about himself than he used to and i am so proud of him and he’s gonna be the best husband and dad ever.