abusive otp


**Please read** This all really needs to be said. However, before I go further I want you all to understand that this isn’t meant to be a hate paragraph or to purposefully put those who like Mon-El and/or Karamel down. At this point, all the disagreeing and fighting will do nothing. So I’m asking kindly that if you’re going to add something to this post- that it is filled with positive intent. 

 Anyhow, to my point:

I do watch Supergirl by the way, but I truly believe this concerns a wide variety of people. Whether you’re a fan of The 100, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Walking Dead, or just a person living your life… All I hope is that we all try to grasp the reality of what is truly going on. Now I will centralize this long rant towards Supergirl however. For those of you who don’t know what is going on there is a conflict between fans who ship this character, Mon-El, together with Supergirl/Kara and fans who ship Lena Luthor with Supergirl/Kara. Now, in my humble opinion, the big issue isn’t about straight v.s lgbt people and I will go on about that later… but the fact that she is with someone like Mon-El. Now what do I mean by ‘someone like Mon-El’… before certain people get mad I want to emphasize that I’m simply pointing out what happened in the show. 

This is long as hell just fyi.

1) The way Mon-El reacts to most things is through violence. In fact, the moment he wakes up he chokes Kara. And there’s this: 

(his words in white)

And the scene where Mon-El robs Brian; using his powers for selfish reasons.

He even calls her names. And notice how he does this the moment Kara disagrees with him. A reaction that does more harm than good. On the other hand, when Kara and Lena disagree on something (in ep. 2x03) they simply talk it out. They ask questions, explain, clarify, and come to an understanding.

Now, I’m not here to say that I have NEVER agreed with anything Mon-El has said, actually I applaud him for accepting Maggie and Alex’s relationship the way he did, but that’s just the thing. The opinions/beliefs he has don’t come from himself. Most of what he thinks is based off of what he’s seen on Daxam. He really isn’t at all mature. He isn’t by any means and it’s simply the truth. Now hear me out-

This is what I mean by he isn’t mature: How many times has Kara asked him politely and specifically not to do something but without hesitation still does it? And how many times has he had to beg for forgiveness? 

In addition, he doesn’t have knowledge of what respect truly means. What’s interesting though about this scene in particular- is how it’s supposed to be a ‘funny’ scene. Mon-El’s character is written in as ‘funny’ and ‘aloof’… but it sends a poisonous message- that Kara’s feelings aren’t to be taken seriously. And this show is literally supposed to be about her. Not a guy who thinks it’s his duty to ‘defend her honor’ and then complains about it.

Now I know that this was how people on Daxam acted and their way of life was for the most part, sexist, racist, etc. But that still doesn’t give him an excuse to act the way he does. 

2) Lena herself comes from a family with twisted values as well. She is adopted into the Luthor family and has had close to no friends most of her life. And yet she’s still capable of being a perfectly decent person. 

She does save the alien population not once, but twice. So not only is Lena proved time and time again that she’s a good person, but her relationship with Kara (btw I call it a ‘relationship’ just like the writers do)… is not even close to toxic, detrimental, or abusive. It’s the complete opposite.

Protect yourself”

“I can take care of myself”

3) Being in a healthy relationship is about the effort between two willing people… at the same time, knowing your boundaries whilst encouraging one another.

4) Kara deserves someone who fully acknowledges her efforts and is grateful for them

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Listen,,,Noah fence but why the hell would anyone write a character that is DEFINITELY NOT ABUSIVE OR A RAPIST IN CANON, to be abusive/rapist in a fanfic?? Write whatever you want but at least tag it properly bc I just wanna enjoy some fluffy fanfic k bye have a nice day

PSA to the Emmerdale Fandom

Shipping Robron/defending Robert does not make you a toxic and abusive person.

Enjoying a fictional relationship just because its not portrayed as healthy or stable (Newsflash! No popular soap pairing ever is), does not in any way reflect the kind of person you are irl.

Loving Aaron and still calling out his problematic behaviour does not mean you have no empathy for what his character or anyone who has actually suffered through that kind of trauma has been through.

Sending anonymous hate to people because they do both of the above is what makes you an abusive and toxic person.

Defending fictional characters to the point where you’re being aggressive and making death threats to real people makes you a toxic and abusive person.

Targeting the Robert/Robron fans (individually or collectively), making them feel like shit for loving something which is not real makes you a toxic and abusive person.

for the @tfcrarepairnet in light of recent hate against the net, lemme give yall some good kevaaron

  • kevin ‘my forehead can touch mountains’ day vs aaron ‘short ppl compensate for being short by being full of rage’ minyard, aka the Big Determined Survivor and the Tiny Fight Monster
    • kevin: how can you be so small. so short. so beefed, yet so small
    • aaron: kevin i can crush your head with my thighs
    • kevin, tearing up: god is so good
  • trans aaron minyard in general is a good and wholesome thing which i love and will cherish forever, so i give you:
  • aaron minyard who takes t and hasnt gotten his period in like a year but still keeps pads & tampons in his drawer Just In Case
  • they come in handy for the fox girls and some of the vixens bc he always has some on his person, but they mostly just sit in his bathroom for other people (ie, kevin) to find
  • example;
    • kevin, yelling from the bathroom: hey can i borrow a tampon?
    • aaron: why?
    • kevin: i wanna see if it works on bloody noses
  • aaron begrudgingly agrees but only if he gets a bloody nose via exy-related things
    • (it’s only so aaron can see him try shoving a tampon into his nose with their teammates watching)
  • speaking of, aaron is in no way, shape or form soft, but every once in a while he enjoys thinking he is
  • do not imagine how good they’d be to each other once they loosened up and were more comfortable in their relationship
  • do not imagine how soft they can be together on the occasions where they allow it to happen
  • especially do not imagine kevin and aaron, on an off day, playing video games with aaron in nothing but some boxers & kevin’s tshirt and kevin in nothing but a pair of sweats
    • they order takeout and aaron tries not to complain about how kevin orders a salad, but takes misc. food from aaron’s mountain of chinese food anyway

i love these two abuse survivors finding happiness in each other so much :’)

anonymous asked:

prompt: ros helping benvolio after he's been physically hurt (possibly by his uncle if you're interested in that dynamic?)

She grits her teeth at Benvolio’s sharp intake of breath when she presses the cloth to his cheek, wishing that Livia was there instead of her. No, it isn’t true, she thinks to herself as she wills the alcohol fumes away, for she wouldn’t let even Livia take care of Benvolio in her place. Not when she finally has him sitting down and letting her take care of his wounds, not when he needs peace and quiet as much as he needs the blood to stop pouring out of his open cheek.

“I despise them,” she whispers, not even attempting to hide the anger in her voice. “Him most of all.”

The cloth turns crimson, and the only reason Rosaline doesn’t panic if for the knowledge that facial wound always look worse than they actually are. As long as she puts pressure on it for long enough, it will stop bleeding and not leave a scar on his skin.

“It is but a scratch,” Benvolio replies, and Rosaline hates that even more, for it comes with the knowledge that Benvolio’s uncle indeed did worse to him in the past. Details are not needed, for Benvolio’s shrivelling behaviour when facing his uncle is nothing like the smug, witty man she has come to love. Rosaline knows a scared man when she sees one.

“You clear your family’s name and bring peace back to Verona, and that is all the thanks you get?”

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anonymous asked:

Imagine your OTP finding out from friends that person A was unintentionally being emotionally abusive (posessive, overprotective, etc.) towards person B, even though A had only good intentions. How do they deal with it? Do they go to counseling, take a break from the relationship? Does B break up altogether? Or do they both deny it, and continue the unintentional abuse?

(Thanks for the prompt!)

late at night hurting thinking about how shao probably never loved anything but music until he met zeke

Fic Rec: Follow by kristophine

Spent most of my day off on Sunday reading this glorious, glorious thing. It is: a) super well-written. b) impeccably researched. c) wonderfully characterized. d) full of slow-build, angsty goodness. It’s an epic, and well-worth every minute it takes to read.

Pairing: Steve Rogers/Bucky Barnes

Words: 139,296

Summary: The complete story of Steve Rogers and Bucky Barnes–not quite cradle to grave; more like Brooklyn cradle to icy grave to Russia and DC to Eastern Europe and South Korea, and back to New York again.

Read and enjoy, as I did!

Person A was kidnapped by Person C, who treated A like a possession or toy and tortured them in multiple ways. Person B finally rescues A after over a year, but by then A is hurt and almost a shell of their former self. Person B has to work both to regain Person A’s trust [ after a year or more of someone telling them that their lover didn’t care / didn’t want to get them, they started to believe it] and help A recover from their time in captivity. Basically, Person B has to help Person A recover from intense torture.

anonymous asked:

ur blog title's hilarious considering how obviously u're frothing at the mouth while trying to sound intellectual and cool; sadly 4 u, cheap (btw,do u steal all ur arguments from opposing sides,then hit 'project'? the nh fandom came up with 'clique' and 'Sak the self-insert' YEARS ago,lmao),vulgar trash still smells and looks the part no matter how hard u try to mask it-haven't u learned that from looking in th mirror? u rly are a great reflection of ur toxic, abusive otp. stay pathetic,bye : )

Can a mother fucker learn how to type properly and use the space bar when they decide to bring their nasty unwashed ass into my asks? My blog title is a reference to harry styles dumbass. I’m not trying to sound like anything but if you caught cool and intellectual then thanks im almost flattered since I still don’t want to hear it from a person who can’t read a children’s comic properly. Good for you, England, you once had the world until people became woke. Maybe the better side just took over, it’s called development, not that I expect a naruhina to know anything about it. Maybe they are fandom terms that my ass has been seeing in the 1d fandom since 2011 because bitch you ain’t shit, your boring ass, makes no sense otp should tell you that already. I am a great reflection. tbh I like how I look and that’s not a sin is it, I don’t expect insecure self inserters who felt the need to send this message to feel the same however. 

My otp? you mean this?

Thanks man!

anyways guys, don’t you love this scene 

Look at her go wow she is OUT there. My favourite naruhina moment is when naruto did not ask her if she was okay and ignored her confession for years. 

I also love how she was stuck here for 7+ years

and is still stuck here years into her marriage 

before insulting me over your shitty otp and crappy fav, try to remember they both ain’t shit. 

That being said, here is the narusaku hug scene, naruto’s first ever hug. 

And, here is a page from the databook to get on your tit