srsly tho this is absolutely a thing that dudes do all the fucking time
like where if he knows a grl doesn’t necessarily want to give him a hug (and he knows- that’s why she didn’t fucking hug you the first time), he will trap her in this position in front of witnesses where she has 2 options- both of which are undesirable for her, while simultaneously desirable for him
if she doesn’t want to hug him, whatever she does, it will suck for her.
she can 1. say nah and be the fucking asshole in front of other ppl or 2. forsake her corporeal boundaries and allow unwanted intimate contact
it’s a fucking trap