we know that rafael lightwood-bane loves dancing, but there’s obviously not much outlet for that in shadowhunter culture. so i’m 600% sure that at some point in his early childhood, magnus and alec enroll him in a mundane ballet class. which means that whenever there’s a family-invited class or a recital, max puts on a human glamour, alec covers his runes, and the whole lightwood-bane clan goes out to support rafe, pretending to be a perfectly ordinary suburban family
I don't know about you but Matsuri seems even at a young age seemed rather cold toward everybody. I do wonder sometimes if Matsuri had a normal childhood (which I doubt).